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8. Stern, op. cit.606/6619. The depressed infants are described in Jeffrey Pickens andTiffany Field, "Facial Expressivity in Infants of DepressedMothers," Developmental Psychology 29, 6 (1993).10. The study of violent rapists' childhoods was done byRobert Prentky, a psychologist in Philadelphia.11. Empathy in borderline patients: "Giftedness and PsychologicalAbuse in Borderline Personality Disorder: Their Relevanceto Genesis and Treatment," Journal of PersonalityDisorders 6 (1992).12. Leslie Brothers, "A Biological Perspective on Empathy,"American Journal of Psychiatry 146, 1 (1989).13. Brothers, "A Biological Perspective," p. 16.14. Physiology of empathy: Robert Levenson and Anna Ruef,"Empathy: A Physiological Substrate," Journal of Personalityand Social Psychology 63, 2 (1992).15. Martin L. Hoffman, "Empathy, Social Cognition, and MoralAction," in W. Kurtines and J. Gerwitz, eds., Moral Behaviorand Development: Advances in Theory, Research, andApplications (New York: John Wiley and Sons, 1984).16. Studies of the link between empathy and ethics are in Hoffman,"Empathy, Social Cognition, and Moral Action."17. I wrote about the emotional cycle that culminates in sexcrimes in The New York Times (Apr. 14, 1992). The sourceis William Pithers, a psychologist with the Vermont Departmentof Corrections.
18. The nature of psychopathy is described in more detail in anarticle I wrote in The New York Times on July 7,1987.Much of what I write here comes from the work of RobertHare, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia,an expert on psychopaths.19. Leon Bing, Do or Die (New York: HarperCollins, 1991).20. Wife batterers: Neil S. Jacobson et al., "Affect, Verbal Content,and Psychophysiology in the Arguments of CouplesWith a Violent Husband," Journal of Clinical and ConsultingPsychology (July 1994).21. Psychopaths have no fear—the effect is seen as criminalpsychopaths are about to receive a shock: One of the morerecent replications of the effect is Christopher Patrick et al.,"Emotion in the Criminal Psychopath: Fear Image Processing,"Journal of Abnormal Psychology 103 (1994).Chapter 8. The Social Arts607/6611. The exchange between Jay and Len was reported by JudyDunn and Jane Brown in "Relationships, Talk About Feelings,and the Development of Affect Regulation in EarlyChildhood," Judy Garber and Kenneth A. Dodge, eds., TheDevelopment of Emotion Regulation and Dysregulation(Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1991). The dramaticflourishes are my own.
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9. The depressed infants are described in Jeffrey Pickens and
Tiffany Field, "Facial Expressivity in Infants of Depressed
Mothers," Developmental Psychology 29, 6 (1993).
10. The study of violent rapists' childhoods was done by
Robert Prentky, a psychologist in Philadelphia.
11. Empathy in borderline patients: "Giftedness and Psychological
Abuse in Borderline Personality Disorder: Their Relevance
to Genesis and Treatment," Journal of Personality
Disorders 6 (1992).
12. Leslie Brothers, "A Biological Perspective on Empathy,"
American Journal of Psychiatry 146, 1 (1989).
13. Brothers, "A Biological Perspective," p. 16.
14. Physiology of empathy: Robert Levenson and Anna Ruef,
"Empathy: A Physiological Substrate," Journal of Personality
and Social Psychology 63, 2 (1992).
15. Martin L. Hoffman, "Empathy, Social Cognition, and Moral
Action," in W. Kurtines and J. Gerwitz, eds., Moral Behavior
and Development: Advances in Theory, Research, and
Applications (New York: John Wiley and Sons, 1984).
16. Studies of the link between empathy and ethics are in Hoffman,
"Empathy, Social Cognition, and Moral Action."
17. I wrote about the emotional cycle that culminates in sex
crimes in The New York Times (Apr. 14, 1992). The source
is William Pithers, a psychologist with the Vermont Department
of Corrections.
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