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56/661falling—illustrates the power of the amygdala to propelus to action in emergencies, vital moments before theneocortex has time to fully register what is actually goingon. The emergency route from eye or ear to thalamusto amygdala is crucial: it saves time in an emergency,when an instantaneous response is required. Butthis circuit from thalamus to amygdala carries only asmall portion of sensory messages, with the majoritytaking the main route up to the neocortex. So what registersin the amygdala via this express route is, at best,a rough signal, just enough for a warning. As LeDouxpoints out, "You don't need to know exactly whatsomething is to know that it may be dangerous." 10The direct route has a vast advantage in brain time,which is reckoned in thousandths of a second. The amygdalain a rat can begin a response to a perception in aslittle as twelve milliseconds—twelve thousandths of asecond. The route from thalamus to neocortex to amygdalatakes about twice as long. Similar measurementshave yet to be made in the human brain, but the roughratio would likely hold.In evolutionary terms, the survival value of this directroute would have been great, allowing a quick-responseoption that shaves a few critical milliseconds in reactiontime to dangers. Those milliseconds could well havesaved the lives of our protomammalian ancestors in
57/661such numbers that this arrangement is now featured inevery mammalian brain, including yours and mine. Infact, while this circuit may play a relatively limited rolein human mental life, largely restricted to emotionalcrises, much of the mental life of birds, fish, and reptilesrevolves around it, since their very survival depends onconstantly scanning for predators or prey. "This primitive,minor brain system in mammals is the main brainsystem in non-mammals," says LeDoux. "It offers a veryrapid way to turn on emotions. But it's a quick-and-dirtyprocess; the cells are fast, but not very precise."Such imprecision in, say, a squirrel, is fine, since itleads to erring on the side of safety, springing away atthe first sign of anything that might signal a looming enemy,or springing toward a hint of something edible. Butin human emotional life that imprecision can have disastrousconsequences for our relationships, since itmeans, figuratively speaking, we can spring at or awayfrom the wrong thing—or person. (Consider, for example,the waitress who dropped a tray of six dinnerswhen she glimpsed a woman with a huge, curly mane ofred hair—exactly like the woman her ex-husband hadleft her for.)Such inchoate emotional mistakes are based on feelingprior to thought. LeDoux calls it "precognitive emotion,"a reaction based on neural bits and pieces of
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falling—illustrates the power of the amygdala to propel
us to action in emergencies, vital moments before the
neocortex has time to fully register what is actually going
on. The emergency route from eye or ear to thalamus
to amygdala is crucial: it saves time in an emergency,
when an instantaneous response is required. But
this circuit from thalamus to amygdala carries only a
small portion of sensory messages, with the majority
taking the main route up to the neocortex. So what registers
in the amygdala via this express route is, at best,
a rough signal, just enough for a warning. As LeDoux
points out, "You don't need to know exactly what
something is to know that it may be dangerous." 10
The direct route has a vast advantage in brain time,
which is reckoned in thousandths of a second. The amygdala
in a rat can begin a response to a perception in as
little as twelve milliseconds—twelve thousandths of a
second. The route from thalamus to neocortex to amygdala
takes about twice as long. Similar measurements
have yet to be made in the human brain, but the rough
ratio would likely hold.
In evolutionary terms, the survival value of this direct
route would have been great, allowing a quick-response
option that shaves a few critical milliseconds in reaction
time to dangers. Those milliseconds could well have
saved the lives of our protomammalian ancestors in