Emotional inteligence
540/661The story seems innocuous enough. Except that thegirl who tells the tale had already been expelled fromanother school for fighting. In the past she attackedfirst, asked questions later—or not at all. For her to engagea seeming adversary in a constructive way ratherthan immediately wading into an angry confrontal is asmall but real victory.Perhaps the most telling sign of the impact of suchemotional literacy classes are the data shared with meby the principal of this twelve-year-old's school. An unbendablerule there is that children caught fighting aresuspended. But as the emotional literacy classes havebeen phased in over the years there has been a steadydrop in the number of suspensions. "Last year," says theprincipal, "there were 106 suspensions. So far thisyear—we're up to March—there have been only 26."These are concrete benefits. But apart from such anecdotesof lives bettered or saved, there is the empiricalquestion of how much emotional literacy classes reallymatter to those who go through them. The data suggestthat although such courses do not change anyoneovernight, as children advance through the curriculumfrom grade to grade, there are discernible improvementsin the tone of a school and the outlook—and level ofemotional competence—of the girls and boys who takethem.
There have been a handful of objective evaluations,the best of which compare students in these courseswith equivalent students not taking them, with independentobservers rating the children's behavior.Another method is to track changes in the same studentsbefore and after the courses based on objectivemeasures of their behavior, such as the number ofschoolyard fights or suspensions. Pooling such assessmentsreveals a widespread benefit for children's emotionaland social competence, for their behavior in andout of the classroom, and for their ability to learn (seeAppendix F for details):EMOTIONAL SELF-AWARENESS• Improvement in recognizing and naming ownemotions• Better able to understand the causes of feelings• Recognizing the difference between feelings andactionsMANAGING EMOTIONS541/661• Better frustration tolerance and anger management• Fewer verbal put-downs, fights, and classroomdisruptions
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The story seems innocuous enough. Except that the
girl who tells the tale had already been expelled from
another school for fighting. In the past she attacked
first, asked questions later—or not at all. For her to engage
a seeming adversary in a constructive way rather
than immediately wading into an angry confrontal is a
small but real victory.
Perhaps the most telling sign of the impact of such
emotional literacy classes are the data shared with me
by the principal of this twelve-year-old's school. An unbendable
rule there is that children caught fighting are
suspended. But as the emotional literacy classes have
been phased in over the years there has been a steady
drop in the number of suspensions. "Last year," says the
principal, "there were 106 suspensions. So far this
year—we're up to March—there have been only 26."
These are concrete benefits. But apart from such anecdotes
of lives bettered or saved, there is the empirical
question of how much emotional literacy classes really
matter to those who go through them. The data suggest
that although such courses do not change anyone
overnight, as children advance through the curriculum
from grade to grade, there are discernible improvements
in the tone of a school and the outlook—and level of
emotional competence—of the girls and boys who take
them.