Emotional inteligence

propriety; they dictate how our own feelings impact on
everyone else. To follow these rules well is to have optimal
impact; to do so poorly is to foment emotional
havoc.
Actors, of course, are artists of the emotional display;
their expressiveness is what evokes response in their
audience. And, no doubt, some of us come into life as
natural actors. But partly because the lessons we learn
about display rules vary according to the models we've
had, people differ greatly in their adeptness.
EXPRESSIVNESS AND EMOTIONAL
CONTAGION
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It was early in the Vietnam War, and an American platoon
was hunkered down in some rice paddies, in the
heat of a firefight with the Vietcong. Suddenly a line of
six monks started walking along the elevated berms that
separated paddy from paddy. Perfectly calm and poised,
the monks walked directly toward the line of fire.
"They didn't look right, they didn't look left. They
walked straight through," recalls David Busch, one of
the American soldiers. "It was really strange, because
nobody shot at 'em. And after they walked over the
berm, suddenly all the fight was out of me. It just didn't
feel like I wanted to do this anymore, at least not that