Emotional inteligence

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136/661thoughts, they do not seem to notice the subjective sensationsof the anxiety those worries stir—the speedyheartbeat, the beads of sweat, the shakiness—and as theworry proceeds it actually seems to suppress some ofthat anxiety, at least as reflected in heart rate. The sequencepresumably goes something like this: The worriernotices something that triggers the image of some potentialthreat or danger; that imagined catastrophe inturn triggers a mild attack of anxiety. The worrier thenplunges into a long series of distressed thoughts, each ofwhich primes yet another topic for worry; as attentioncontinues to be carried along by this train of worry, focusingon these very thoughts takes the mind off the originalcatastrophic image that triggered the anxiety.Images, Borkovec found, are more powerful triggers forphysiological anxiety than are thoughts, so immersion inthoughts, to the exclusion of catastrophic images, partiallyalleviates the experience of being anxious. And, tothat extent, the worry is also reinforced, as a halfway antidoteto the very anxiety it evoked.But chronic worries are self-defeating too in that theytake the form of stereotyped, rigid ideas, not creativebreakthroughs that actually move toward solving theproblem. This rigidity shows up not just in the manifestcontent of worried thought, which simply repeats moreor less the same ideas over and over. But at a

137/661neurological level there seems to be a cortical rigidity, adeficit in the emotional brain's ability to respond flexiblyto changing circumstance. In short, chronic worryworks in some ways, but not in other, more consequentialones: it eases some anxiety, but never solves theproblem.The one thing that chronic worriers cannot do is followthe advice they are most often given: "Just stop worrying"(or, worse, "Don't worry—be happy"). Sincechronic worries seem to be low-grade amygdala episodes,they come unbidden. And, by their very nature,they persist once they arise in the mind. But after muchexperimentation, Borkovec discovered some simplesteps that can help even the most chronic worrier controlthe habit.The first step is self-awareness, catching the worrisomeepisodes as near their beginning as possible—ideally,as soon as or just after the fleeting catastrophicimage triggers the worry-anxiety cycle.Borkovec trains people in this approach by first teachingthem to monitor cues for anxiety, especially learning toidentify situations that trigger worry, or the fleetingthoughts and images that initiate the worry, as well asthe accompanying sensations of anxiety in the body.With practice, people can identify the worries at anearlier and earlier point in the anxiety spiral. People also

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thoughts, they do not seem to notice the subjective sensations

of the anxiety those worries stir—the speedy

heartbeat, the beads of sweat, the shakiness—and as the

worry proceeds it actually seems to suppress some of

that anxiety, at least as reflected in heart rate. The sequence

presumably goes something like this: The worrier

notices something that triggers the image of some potential

threat or danger; that imagined catastrophe in

turn triggers a mild attack of anxiety. The worrier then

plunges into a long series of distressed thoughts, each of

which primes yet another topic for worry; as attention

continues to be carried along by this train of worry, focusing

on these very thoughts takes the mind off the original

catastrophic image that triggered the anxiety.

Images, Borkovec found, are more powerful triggers for

physiological anxiety than are thoughts, so immersion in

thoughts, to the exclusion of catastrophic images, partially

alleviates the experience of being anxious. And, to

that extent, the worry is also reinforced, as a halfway antidote

to the very anxiety it evoked.

But chronic worries are self-defeating too in that they

take the form of stereotyped, rigid ideas, not creative

breakthroughs that actually move toward solving the

problem. This rigidity shows up not just in the manifest

content of worried thought, which simply repeats more

or less the same ideas over and over. But at a

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