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teenLook #3 - August 2019 - Ethan Atwood

Cool and laid back is the best way to describe legend and icon, James Dean. This inspired shoot and gives a bit of history of the star.

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Count what you love about yourself.<br />

This can sometimes be tricky… you may think the<br />

idea of sitting down and writing up what you love<br />

about yourself strange, but it will help you so much<br />

in low moments. In difficult times, when you really<br />

aren't feeling your best, looking back at what you are<br />

proud about or even some of your accomplishments<br />

can make a huge difference in how you think. Just<br />

remember this- we have low moments so we can<br />

appreciate the high, and everything will work itself out.<br />

Sophia<br />

Lia<br />

WORDS OF ADVICE<br />

Photo / Photon Glow<br />

Sometimes it's not always easy to feel good<br />

about yourself- you may think that you<br />

are the only one who struggles with selfesteem<br />

and self-confidence, but trust me, at some<br />

point, we all do. My self-esteem and confidence<br />

have not always been as healthy as it is today. Just<br />

like everyone else, I've struggled with feeling bad<br />

about myself, doubting every action. It's normal,<br />

and it's not something we can avoid. However,<br />

this is something we can learn to deal with and<br />

learn to make it better. Over the last few years, I've<br />

realized a few things we can do to help how we<br />

feel about ourselves. These suggestions aren't<br />

things that are going to make you wake up and<br />

never have doubts about yourself again, but they<br />

are aspects that count! Last month I spoke about<br />

taking care of our outside, now let's talk about the<br />

inside. Mental Health is an essential idea to me,<br />

which is why I am honoured to share my thoughts<br />

on the subject here in Teen Look Magazine.<br />

Don't forget the fact that you are your most<br />

judgmental critic.<br />

Sometimes we think that others will notice the "huge"<br />

zit on your face or even the tiniest imperfection. In fact,<br />

you are the one that will notice it the most. We can't let<br />

the small imperfections decide how we feel, or how<br />

much confidence we carry. In reality, good people and<br />

good friends won't like you based on your looks, but<br />

instead your inside- your personality. A friend who is not<br />

there for you when you aren't looking your best is most<br />

likely a friend you don't want to have. You want to find<br />

people who only care about the true you.<br />

Know who you are and what you want.<br />

An unbearable amount of stress and disappointment is<br />

caused by comparing yourself to others. Everyone has<br />

their own unique purpose, goals, and vision. If we waste<br />

time looking at who is better, who is prettier, etc., we will<br />

feel the lowest about ourselves. It's crucial to find your<br />

goal, and then work towards it.<br />

Be appreciative and count your blessings.<br />

I like to take a few moments at the end of each day to<br />

reflect on the good in my life. I find staying positive, and<br />

looking at the glass half full helps me realize the bright<br />

side. Some examples of areas I express gratitude<br />

towards include friends and family. Never forget who is<br />

always there to support you when you fall.<br />

Surround yourself with people that make you feel<br />

amazing.<br />

The first step to healthy self-esteem and confidence<br />

is spending time with the people who care about you<br />

most. If you surround yourself with people who insult<br />

you and make you feel low about yourself, it can hurt<br />

the way you view yourself. I challenge you right now<br />

to express your gratitude towards one person who is<br />

always in your corner. The person who makes you feel<br />

fantastic about yourself.<br />

Talk to you next month,<br />

Sophia Lia<br />

_sophia.lia<br />

84 teenlook.ca | issue <strong>#3</strong>

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