Writing on the Wall: Winter 2022

Remembering Neal
Provider Brieann Hale and her family recently suffered the loss of
Russell “Neal” Ball, who had been in their home for over 10 years. She held
a memorial for him at her home, planting a red maple tree (his favorite) in
his honor. She shared this beautiful poem she wrote in tribute to Neal for the
lessons he taught and the joy he brought her and her family.
As a caregiver I’ve learned many things
Things I thought I understood, things I thought I knew
I’ve learned how to listen, with not just my ears, but also my heart
I’ve learned that often listening plays the very biggest part!
I’ve learned how to walk, sometimes with the strength for two
I’ve learned, while walking, to consider: In whose shoes
I’ve learned how to share, and I’ve learned how to give
I’ve learned to love each one’s very special story they live
Yes, as a caregiver I’ve learned many things anew
Things I thought I understood, things I thought I knew
I’ve learned how to set goals, and how to go with the flow
I’ve learned how a smile can help heal most any woe
I’ve learned to have hope, ya know, a little goes a long way
I’ve learned to lean on HIS grace, His mercies are new each day!
Yes, truly, as a caregiver, I’ve learned many things anew
But, how do I say “Goodbye?” My friend, my buddy, my sweet Neal.
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Neal with provider Brieann Hale, who was his caretaker for over a decade.
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