GOSSIP GAZETTE MAGAZINE - JANUARY 2022 - ISSUE 1

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Many people go through life thinking that to set goals is either old fashioned or a waste of time. Who achieves them in
any case? Just the successful people, they say! Well, isn’t that exactly the motivation to set those goals? Consciously and
sub-consciously we all set goals.
Let me explain:
The other day we bought our grandson an inflatable swimming pool, and as you would know it is something that a
4-yearold definitely wants erected as soon as possible. Because it was a rainy and windy day, I made the promise to set it
up the next day. Did I set a goal or not? Or, did I just try and postpone the event? Either way a goal was set, not as much
in my mind as in the mind of my grandson, because I did not really take it seriously at the time.
The next morning early, the sun was shining bright and the rain has stopped. It was summer again. I was getting ready
for my morning routine when my grandson stormed into the room highly excited. His words were: “ Oupa, dit is mos al
môre?” (Grand dad, is it tomorrow already?) I for a moment did not grasp the meaning, because I have forgotten the goal
that was set the previous day and therefore had to enquire again. He patiently repeated the question to which I then realised
it is about my promise (goal) that I set the previous day.
We are very prone to promise someone little things which will make a huge impact on their lives, and then conveniently
forget about it. Maybe many of you do not have grandchildren, or children, but have people that report to you. The same
principles apply. When you make a promise, or set that goal, better you perform accordingly. That is the way trust and
loyalty is built.
I encourage you do not stop dreaming about being better at what you do, or how you behave. Start concentrating on the
little things, set your bigger goals and work a plan to achieve them.
By Pieter Gruenbaum