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CONTENTS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong><br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 7 ISSUE I<br />

on the cover<br />

22 A Decade of Change<br />

and Growth<br />

By Vanessa Denha-Garmo and Joyce Wiswell<br />

Charting the community’s progress<br />

22<br />

26 Chaldean on the Street<br />

By Caroline M. Bacall<br />

What do you consider the top Chaldean<br />

story in the last 10 years?<br />

features<br />

27 killing shocks community<br />

By Ray Gabbara<br />

Grandmother charged with drowning tot<br />

28 31<br />

28 ‘Nothing like Love’<br />

By Rosalie Kakos<br />

Couple celebrates seven decades of marriage<br />

30 A Political Player<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

Young woman makes her mark in Democratic party<br />

32 34<br />

31 In the Thick of the Fight<br />

By Ken Marten<br />

Attorney fights Kilpatrick and others for dancer’s family<br />

departments<br />

6 From the Editor<br />

7 In Our View<br />

8 Guest Column<br />

By Sharon Hannawa<br />

An enlightening journey<br />

11 Noteworthy<br />

13 Community<br />

Bulletin Board<br />

14 Ask the ECRC<br />

By Father Frank Kalabat<br />

How should I observe<br />

Lent?<br />

16 Chai Time<br />

18 Halhole<br />

20 Religion<br />

20 Obituaries<br />

32 Economics<br />

and Enterprise<br />

By Joe Gasso<br />

Babylon Market: A touch of home<br />

34 Arts and Entertainment<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

Acting Out:<br />

Lamar Babi pursues a film career<br />

35 Priestly Profile<br />

By Weam Namou<br />

Rev. Emmanuel Rayes:<br />

Still going strong – and<br />

strongly opinioned — at 80<br />

36 Classifieds<br />

38 kids corner<br />

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from the EDITOR<br />

So what do you think?<br />

Published By<br />

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Editor in Chief<br />

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Joe Gasso<br />

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Highway, Suite 250, Southfield, MI 48034”<br />

As we started to work<br />

on the cover collage<br />

for this issue, I kept<br />

thinking about how I am finishing<br />

a decade in my life.<br />

Yes, I am nearing 40 – just<br />

photo by Ramiz Romaya<br />

a few months away. I cannot<br />

believe it.<br />

I am not going to spend<br />

too much time discussing<br />

this month’s cover collage of<br />

stories because we discuss<br />

that very issue in the In Our<br />

View piece. And don’t forget<br />

to check out what Chaldeans on the<br />

street have to say about the hot stories<br />

of the decade.<br />

I don’t know about you, but I thought<br />

my life would be different at 40. I guess<br />

things don’t turn out exactly as<br />

you might have planned. I am<br />

not sure if they are better or<br />

worse than what I anticipated<br />

— just different somehow. I am<br />

not complaining about it, just<br />

stating it as a fact.<br />

Unfortunately, there are<br />

many people nearing 50 who<br />

are financially worse off than<br />

they were in their 30s due to<br />

the bleak economy. I have my<br />

opinions about what caused this crisis<br />

and they are political opinions based on<br />

much reading I have done.<br />

I don’t know about you, but I have<br />

lost faith and much respect for our political<br />

leaders across party lines and at<br />

all levels. They have failed us in many<br />

ways. In fact, leaders both politically<br />

and on the corporate side have allowed<br />

personal agendas and greed to take<br />

control over their decision making.<br />

Public service has turned into personal<br />

service “what is in it for me” and<br />

corporate America has turned into corporate<br />

corruption on many levels. I<br />

am not saying that is true across the<br />

board but as I look at the last 10 years<br />

in our country, there is much blame to<br />

Vanessa<br />

denha-garmo<br />

editor in chief<br />

go around on both the political<br />

front and in the corporate<br />

world — Enron and Kwame<br />

Kilpatrick, just to name a<br />

couple.<br />

Speaking of Kilpatrick, we<br />

feature a story about Norman<br />

Yatooma and his involvement<br />

in the Detroit scandal that still<br />

goes on today, even though<br />

Kilpatrick is no longer the<br />

mayor. As an attorney, Yatooma<br />

has been representing<br />

the family of Tamara Green.<br />

I had the opportunity to talk to Jillian<br />

Semaan. She is heavily involved in<br />

the Democratic Party and we feature<br />

her story in this issue. She is young,<br />

has had many accomplishments and is<br />

optimistic about the future. As I was interviewing<br />

her I couldn’t help but think<br />

what she will be thinking about politics<br />

as she nears 40. Perhaps we will have<br />

better leaders by then. One can only<br />

hope and pray.<br />

I don’t know about you but my hopes<br />

about the future are brighter than they<br />

were in 2009. I believe things will get<br />

better. I believe that new leaders – better<br />

ones – will emerge as they have in<br />

the City of Detroit. I believe there is an<br />

opportunity to rid this country of stale<br />

leadership and for sharper minds with<br />

purer hearts to take over.<br />

This is also a good time to reflect on<br />

life as we head into the season of Lent.<br />

Fr. Frank Kalabat authors this month’s<br />

Ask the ECRC piece and tells our readers<br />

what this season leading up to Easter<br />

entails.<br />

I don’t know about you but I am not<br />

one who likes to share with others my<br />

fasting rituals or my promises to God<br />

during this season. It is a time for quiet<br />

reflection, for personal growth and for<br />

building a better relationship with God.<br />

In this issue we are launching a<br />

new piece called Priestly Profiles. Our<br />

debut piece, written by Weam Namou,<br />

features Fr. Emanuel Rayes from St.<br />

Thomas in West Bloomfield. He is a<br />

retired priest who dedicated his life to<br />

God, the church and the people.<br />

He speaks candidly about the future<br />

of Chaldeans, our language preservation<br />

and our heritage. In 50 years, when I am<br />

My hopes about the future are brighter than they<br />

were in 2009. I believe things will get better. I<br />

believe there is an opportunity to rid this country<br />

of stale leadership and for sharper minds with<br />

purer hearts to take over.<br />

nearing 90 or in heaven — God willing —<br />

looking down at it all, I can only wonder<br />

what the world will be like, if there will be<br />

a Chaldean News, Chaldean churches<br />

or the Aramaic language spoken.<br />

I don’t know about you but I have<br />

faith in God, I love this country, I believe<br />

that there is more good than bad<br />

in the world and the future is what we<br />

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in our VIEW<br />

Chaldean institutions buck the ‘lost decade’ trend<br />

This past decade in Michigan has<br />

been dubbed the lost decade.<br />

The easy money era in the 1990s<br />

came to a screeching halt followed by<br />

the collapse of the housing market, the<br />

commercial real estate market, the auto<br />

industry, a horrendous credit crunch<br />

and high unemployment. For Michigan,<br />

it became a depression-like economy.<br />

In scouring the old issues of the<br />

Chaldean News since its first publication<br />

in February 2004, one thing stands<br />

out — the Chaldean community, from<br />

an organizational standpoint, had a<br />

pretty good decade. The CN itself<br />

became the first major English-reading<br />

paper for the Chaldean community and<br />

has had six good years. The Chaldean<br />

Church has had explosive growth fueled<br />

by an uptick in immigration and<br />

huge explosions in new families as second-<br />

and third-generation young people<br />

continue to marry each other. Birth<br />

rates in the community easily surpass<br />

the national average.<br />

The Chaldean Diocese expanded<br />

with the beautiful St. George Church in<br />

Shelby Township, which is now the largest<br />

Chaldean Church in Michigan. In<br />

addition, the Eastern Christian Re-evangelization<br />

Center continued and grew<br />

its mission with the purchase of a new<br />

building on Maple and Inkster in 2006.<br />

With the support of the Shammaya<br />

Kassab Trust and the leadership of His<br />

Excellency Bishop Ibrahim, the Chaldean<br />

community now has its own camp<br />

near Brighton. Eventually, the Mar<br />

Gorgis Chapel will anchor one side of<br />

the campgrounds.<br />

But is was the elevation of Chaldean<br />

Patriarch Mar Emmanuel Delly to<br />

the status of Cardinal by Pope Benedict<br />

that was quite possibly the crowning<br />

moment for our Church in the last<br />

decade. Not only was it a great honor<br />

for the Patriarch and the Chaldean<br />

Church, but the appointment brought<br />

international attention to the plight of<br />

Christians in the Middle East.<br />

Bishop Ibrahim also retook the<br />

handles of the Chaldean Federation of<br />

America (CFA) in 2006, which struggled<br />

off and on for more than two decades.<br />

The CFA has focused its efforts<br />

on issues related to Chaldean refugees<br />

and its Adopt-A Refugee Program has<br />

been wildly successful under the leadership<br />

of Basil Bacall.<br />

In 2004, the Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce opened its<br />

doors. Today, it boasts a brand-new<br />

headquarters at Northwestern and<br />

Inkster in Southfield. Under the leadership<br />

of Martin Manna and several<br />

consecutive chairmen, the chamber<br />

has grown to nearly 900 members. Its<br />

annual dinner regularly gets more than<br />

800 attendees and its Political Action<br />

Committee has been busy supporting<br />

candidates for local and state office.<br />

The Chaldean Community Foundation<br />

now has a budget of nearly $1 million.<br />

The Bank of Michigan opened<br />

its doors in 2005 lead by a group of<br />

Chaldean businessmen and has had<br />

two consecutive profitable years in<br />

a very challenging environment. It<br />

is now the bank of choice for many<br />

small businesses and families in the<br />

community.<br />

The good news is that the organizational infrastructure around the<br />

community has grown and strengthened.<br />

All this is not to say that it wasn’t a<br />

tough decade for individuals and families.<br />

A great deal of wealth was lost<br />

in the stock market, real estate, home<br />

equity and many other over-leveraged<br />

investments. But the good news is that<br />

the organizational infrastructure around<br />

the community has grown and strengthened.<br />

The Church and these other organizations<br />

have been able to be supportive<br />

during these tough times. Hopefully,<br />

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GUEST column<br />

An enlightening journey<br />

Break down walls, and<br />

build bridges. That was<br />

my Facebook status<br />

update November 9, 2009,<br />

three days following my graduation<br />

from New Detroit’s Multicultural<br />

Leadership Series<br />

and on the 20th anniversary<br />

commemorating the Fall of the<br />

Berlin Wall.<br />

I had the privilege of partaking<br />

in an experience in which I<br />

spent eight hours a month for<br />

seven months learning about<br />

the various ethnic communities that<br />

make up this culturally diverse region,<br />

as well as engaging in an open dialogue<br />

about race.<br />

Just before graduation, I was invited<br />

to share my experience in the series<br />

with the Birmingham Public Schools’<br />

District Diversity Committee. The purpose:<br />

to promote benefits of participation<br />

and to enhance race relations.<br />

I was honored and touched by the<br />

response I received to the words I<br />

spoke that day and want to share them<br />

with the Chaldean community as well.<br />

We can all be more conscious of our<br />

words and actions, be more aware of<br />

our surroundings, embrace our differences<br />

and take steps to be the change.<br />

Let us learn by looking back, and make<br />

a difference moving forward.<br />

Here’s my speech:<br />

I signed in, was welcomed and<br />

asked to take a seat at the 2009 Multicultural<br />

Leadership Series Orientation.<br />

I was told to sit at a table where I did<br />

sharon<br />

hannawa<br />

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not know or look like anyone.<br />

I scanned the room and then<br />

took my seat.<br />

We were all to share a defining<br />

moment. One by one,<br />

we each stood and told a story<br />

of how we were each personally<br />

touched and affected<br />

by race. I shared the story of<br />

my Arab studies college professor<br />

who knew who Chaldeans<br />

are. For the first time,<br />

I did not have to explain that<br />

Chaldeans are not Arabs.<br />

Many stories shared uprooted<br />

deep emotion. It is not often you can<br />

sit in a room with strangers and feel<br />

free to express yourself.<br />

I thought to myself: This was going<br />

to be an opportunity to be honest and<br />

not judged.<br />

An opportunity for my voice to be<br />

heard.<br />

We often focus on how different we are<br />

from one another, that we fail to realize and<br />

appreciate our similarities.<br />

An opportunity to tell my side of the<br />

story.<br />

An opportunity to dispel stereotypes.<br />

An opportunity to bring awareness<br />

to those who are unaware.<br />

An opportunity to engage in an<br />

open dialogue and not be ashamed or<br />

afraid.<br />

An opportunity to learn about and<br />

from one another.<br />

This was the beginning of an enlightening<br />

journey. We often focus on<br />

how different we are from one another,<br />

that we fail to realize and appreciate<br />

our similarities.<br />

Pride was evident in attending<br />

each of the six sessions held through<br />

the experience. The presenters were<br />

eager to share, and I eager to learn.<br />

I learned of their traditions and<br />

language, sampled their food, was<br />

empathetic of their struggles, celebrated<br />

their accomplishments, and<br />

could hear and see the passion for<br />

their communities.<br />

I felt sad and angry touring the<br />

replica of a slave ship in the African-<br />

American session, happy learning to<br />

dance the Debkeh in the Arab-American<br />

session, honored to meet the<br />

woman who named the cholesterollowering<br />

drug Lipitor in the Asian-<br />

American session, closer to nature<br />

and my artistic side participating in<br />

a sage blessing and playing a water<br />

drum in the Native American session,<br />

and I enjoyed every bite of my Iraqi<br />

salad in the Chaldean-American session.<br />

I was disappointed to have missed<br />

the Hispanic/Latino session, but look<br />

forward to making it up next year.<br />

The highlight for me was the<br />

roundtable discussions. Members<br />

and leaders of the session’s community<br />

were invited to discuss their<br />

personal journeys and answer questions.<br />

These were the stories you<br />

don’t always hear about. I witnessed<br />

the raw emotion that is not closely<br />

depicted in history books.<br />

I sat next to a gentleman from<br />

Nigeria in the African-American session<br />

who shared his pain for his fellow<br />

Christian Nigerians who were<br />

being persecuted for their religious<br />

beliefs back home. A pain I can<br />

strongly relate to, for my fellow Iraqi<br />

Christians are being persecuted for<br />

their beliefs as well. Two countries<br />

thousands of miles apart, and two<br />

individuals walking separate paths<br />

of life, yet sharing a common bond.<br />

I partook in this leadership series<br />

to gain a better understanding of the<br />

different racial and ethnic groups that<br />

make up this culturally diverse region.<br />

In life I cannot always be reactive.<br />

I need to be proactive. How could I<br />

expect people to understand me, if I<br />

did not take the time to understand<br />

them?<br />

I will continue to build bridges. I<br />

appreciate that each of us has something<br />

unique to offer.<br />

I am excited to share my learnings<br />

to help others understand. I am<br />

blessed for the new friendships and<br />

partnerships I have made.<br />

We can work with each other’s<br />

strengths and weaknesses. In order<br />

to live, work and communicate with<br />

each other, we need to have a mutual<br />

respect for one another.<br />

And as I scan the room today, I<br />

see a little bit of all of you in me and<br />

I hope you see a little bit of me in all<br />

of you.<br />

Sharon Hannawa is a board member<br />

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noteworthy<br />

Iraq Vote Set for March<br />

Iraqis head to the polls on March 7 for parliamentary elections.<br />

There will also be out-of-country voting — including<br />

Michigan — on March 5-7, but details were not available at<br />

press time.<br />

Out of 276 slates running, 11 are composed of Christians,<br />

said Joe Kassab, executive director the Chaldean Federation<br />

of America. Chaldeans have three slates: the Chaldean National<br />

Congress, Chaldean Democratic Union Party and the<br />

Chaldean Assyrian Syriac Popular Council. There are also<br />

some Chaldeans running on other slates.<br />

The election includes 325 parliament seats — 310 seats<br />

for the provinces and 15 compensational seats. Ethnic minorities<br />

will receive eight of the compensational seats and the<br />

Kurds will receive three additional seats in parliament.<br />

At press time, it had not been determined exactly which<br />

ex-patriots will be eligible to vote. During the last election in<br />

January 2005, the adult children of Iraqi citizens were allowed<br />

to participate, even if they were born in the United States.<br />

Visit our website, www.chaldeannews.com, for more information<br />

on the election as it becomes available.<br />

Tariq Aziz Suffers Stroke<br />

Former Iraqi Foreign Minister Tariq Aziz has been afflicted by<br />

a severe stroke and lost the power of speech, his son said.<br />

Aziz was the international face of Saddam Hussein’s regime<br />

for several years. He was convicted and sentenced to prison for<br />

his involvement in the forced displacement of Kurds in northern<br />

Iraq and the deaths of Baghdad merchants in the early 1990s.<br />

He was the only Chaldean in Hussein’s inner circle.<br />

Ziad Aziz told The Associated Press that his 73-year-old<br />

father had a stroke on January 15 and was rushed to a hospital<br />

in Balad, about 40 miles north of Baghdad.<br />

The son criticized the Iraqi government for the continued<br />

detention of his father.<br />

“The Iraqi government insists on the mockery of keeping a<br />

sick old man in jail,’’ Ziad Aziz said. “We’ve been telling them<br />

that his health has deteriorated severely since the first stroke<br />

he had before the war in 2003. We’ve repeatedly asked that<br />

he be released on humanitarian grounds,’’ he said.<br />

The family has appealed to the Vatican and President<br />

Barack Obama to intervene on Aziz’s behalf.<br />

Anti-Christian Countries Citied<br />

International Christian Concern, a Washington, DC-based<br />

human rights group, has released its annual Hall of Shame<br />

report listing the world’s 10 worst persecuting countries of<br />

Christians.<br />

ICC ranked the following countries as the world’s worst<br />

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Eritrea, Pakistan, Iran, North Korea,<br />

Somalia, India, Saudi Arabia, Vietnam,<br />

Nigeria and China.<br />

This report calls attention to the<br />

trend of Christian persecution, which<br />

continues on an alarming scale. Communist<br />

and former Communist states<br />

are becoming less antagonistic towards<br />

Christianity (North Korea being<br />

the exception) while persecution continues<br />

to increase in Islamic countries.<br />

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persecution.org.<br />

Fatuhi Contributes to Journal<br />

Amer Hanna Fatuhi was among those published in the November/December<br />

2009 issue of World Literature Today.<br />

The magazine, published at the University of Oklahoma, ran<br />

a special section about writers who suffered persecution<br />

called “Voices Against the Darkness: Imprisoned Writers<br />

Who Would Not Be Silenced.”<br />

Fatuhi, an artist, writer and co-founder of the Iraqi Artists<br />

Association, was featured as one of these writers. His<br />

poem, “Wounding the Dark,” was translated from Arabic to<br />

English and published alongside his art piece that carries<br />

the same title. Only 10 writers from across the globe were<br />

featured in the special edition, two of whom were of Iraqi<br />

descent.<br />

Writer Weam Namou, a Chaldean News contributor,<br />

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They Are the Champions<br />

The Monday League emerged victorious in<br />

the Shenandoah Country Club basketball<br />

league championship game on January<br />

4. The Monday Night guys defeated the<br />

Thursday Night league champ by 55-48 to<br />

take the title. Celebrating their win are Mark<br />

Kejbou (standing, left), Steve Sagmani,<br />

Jordan Rassam and Ray Toma. Kneelinf<br />

are team captain Luke Samona and Stefan<br />

Kallabat, voted Most Valuable Player.<br />

Hot Hotel<br />

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the prestigious Hilton Lighthouse<br />

Award for 2009. The award is<br />

given to only a handful of top-performing<br />

properties. Out of 1,800<br />

Hampton hotels, the Hampton Inn<br />

Shelby was rated number one for<br />

Michigan and number 14 worldwide.<br />

The property is owned by<br />

Basil Bacall (left), Mike Bacall,<br />

Basim Shina and his brothers and<br />

Saad Halabo.<br />

The Hampton Inn Novi, owned<br />

by Mike and Basil Bacall, was<br />

rated number two in Michigan.<br />

Well-known Iraqi singer Rida<br />

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at the Stratosphere Hotel<br />

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Eastern marketing.<br />

Honoring the Dream<br />

More than 1,200 people attended<br />

a Martin Luther King Celebration<br />

on January 18 at Royalty House in<br />

Warren. Sponsored by Interfaith<br />

Center for Racial Justice, the<br />

event featured an invocation by<br />

St. Joseph Msgr. Zouhair Toma<br />

(Kejbou). A play called “Pass the<br />

Torch” was performed with several<br />

Chaldeans, including Rosemary<br />

Najor, Miranda Kattula, Dominic<br />

Hallak, Marianna Kattula and<br />

Deanna Hallak. Also there that<br />

evening were John Dishow, U.S.<br />

Rep. Sander Levin, Christine<br />

Jaddou and Sue Kattula.<br />

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year when most Christians prepare<br />

for the Easter event, namely the<br />

passion, death and resurrection of Jesus.<br />

How we prepare for this event is<br />

crucial for our Christian lives. Though<br />

one must live daily in the understanding<br />

of Jesus’ sacrifice, Lent brings out an<br />

even greater focus. To truly celebrate<br />

this blessed season, there needs to be<br />

a good balance of interior meditations,<br />

such as prayer, combined with exterior<br />

actions, such as fasting, to get the<br />

most out of it.<br />

In regards to the interior, there<br />

needs to be time dedicated to allow<br />

the passion of Jesus to dwell within us.<br />

This could be the celebrations of the<br />

Friday Stations of the Cross. This is a<br />

great way to initiate the meditation.<br />

Other means of initiating this inner<br />

meditation are reading the passion and<br />

resurrection narratives that are found in<br />

the Gospels, such as Matthew chapters<br />

26-28, Mark 14-16, Luke 22-24,<br />

John 17-21, or those found in the Old<br />

Testament such as Isaiah’s prophecy of<br />

the suffering servant that was fulfilled in<br />

Jesus as seen in chapters 52-54.<br />

Notice that these only initiate the<br />

meditation; one needs some silence or<br />

even a focused discussion and then silence<br />

to allow the event to become one<br />

in you. Before you initiate the meditation,<br />

pray to the Holy Spirit to allow the<br />

hearing or the reading of these events<br />

to take a hold of you and to originate a<br />

new seed of appreciation and love for<br />

Jesus on an even greater level. One<br />

possible way to do this is to take one<br />

week at a time to read, discuss and<br />

silently meditate on any of these meditations<br />

individually as well as with your<br />

families. This will bring an abundance<br />

of grace in your spiritual lives as well as<br />

in your family ties.<br />

In regards to the external, fasting<br />

has a great deal of benefit for us. In<br />

the Bible, fasting is a profound way<br />

to make peace with God, such as the<br />

story of Jonah in the Old Testament. It<br />

is also a great way to help us deal with<br />

temptation by driving evil away, as seen<br />

in Matthew 17:21 and many more such<br />

great benefits. But the greatest of these<br />

is that Jesus fasted and overcame His<br />

temptations by the devil, therefore we<br />

need to fast so that we may overcome<br />

our temptations of the devil.<br />

A question that so frequently occurs<br />

is, how to fast? There are many ways<br />

of doing so. One is the traditional way<br />

of not eating anything, if possible, until<br />

noon and then abstaining from meat the<br />

whole day. This, by all means, is not<br />

the only means of fasting. Therefore,<br />

other means of sacrifice that could<br />

supplement this fast or even replace it<br />

might be necessary. The best thing to<br />

do is to pray and invite the Holy Spirit<br />

to lead you into the necessary sacrifice<br />

that you might be called upon.<br />

An important point needs to be<br />

made in regards to sinful actions that<br />

many people try to abstain from during<br />

this season. Though that is great<br />

for your spiritual well being, it is by no<br />

means at all a temporary “fast.” We<br />

all need to fast from obscenities such<br />

as foul language or pornography, but<br />

by all means we must not return to<br />

sins after Lent is over. This fast needs<br />

to be a springboard to quit sinning.<br />

This is a great time of the year to lose<br />

a very bad/sinful habit for 40 days<br />

and beyond.<br />

Let us not also forget that when Jesus<br />

was first tempted to change rocks<br />

into bread, He responded by quoting<br />

Deuteronomy 8:3: “It is written: ‘One<br />

does not live by bread alone, but by<br />

every word that comes forth from the<br />

mouth of God’” (Matthew 4:4). Therefore,<br />

this teaches us that we not only<br />

sacrifice by removing, but we also “fast”<br />

by receiving. That is the Word of God!<br />

This is a great time of year to fulfill<br />

what the Holy Spirit has been calling<br />

you whenever you heard yourself say,<br />

“I’ve always wanted to read the Bible.”<br />

But like the example above of “fasting”<br />

from sinful habits, this type of “fasting”<br />

need not end at the end of Lent. Use<br />

the grace of this blessed season as<br />

another launching pad for the 40 days<br />

and beyond.<br />

May the fruits of this blessed season<br />

bring you close to the Heart of<br />

the Master to truly experience His<br />

love for you.<br />

Fr. Frank Kalabat is pastor of St.<br />

Thomas Chaldean Catholic Church<br />

and an administrator with the Eastern<br />

Christian Re-Evangelization Center.<br />

Have a question for the ECRC? Drop<br />

a line to info@chaldeannews.com.<br />

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Diet: “The Essentials of Carbs: How<br />

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Culture: the <strong>2010</strong> Sterling Heights Cultural<br />

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Elena Grace<br />

A gift from heaven above was sent<br />

to us with all of God’s love! Sam<br />

Joseph would like to announce<br />

the birth of his baby sister, Elena<br />

Grace. Elena was born on October<br />

8, 2009 at 1:33 p.m. weighing<br />

7 lbs., 10 oz. and measuring<br />

20 inches. Blessed parents are<br />

Stewart & Joanne Yatooma. Elena<br />

is the tenth grandchild for Sami<br />

& Suhaila Yatooma and the fifth for<br />

Fouad & Lamia Sitto. Loving godparents<br />

are Aunt Silvana Sandiha<br />

and Uncle Jeremy Sitto.<br />

Cruz Anthony<br />

Evelyn loves her little brother!<br />

Cruz Anthony was born on August<br />

6, 2009. He weighed 5.12<br />

lbs and was 19 inches long.<br />

Blessed parents are Muhand<br />

(Mark) & Ronda Sawa. Cruz is<br />

the third grandchild for Dhia &<br />

Nidhal Hamama and the 13th for<br />

Yelda & Zuhaira Sawa. Godparents<br />

are Uncle Ronny Hamama<br />

and Aunt Moroch Kouza.<br />

Lily Marie<br />

Blake, Ella, Melanie & Angelica<br />

Dabish are happy to announce<br />

the arrival of their new sister, Lily<br />

Marie. Lily was born on September<br />

13, 2009 at 4:59 a.m. She<br />

weighed 8 lbs., 10 oz. and measured<br />

21 inches long. Proud parents<br />

are Ala & Vivian Dabish. Loving<br />

grandparents are Bassima &<br />

the late Elia Dabish and George &<br />

Souhaila Awdish. Godparents are<br />

Sara Dabish and Fayha Sabish.<br />

Paris Evelyn<br />

Preston is excited to announce the<br />

arrival of his little sister. Paris Evelyn<br />

Delly was born on August 18, 2009<br />

at 2:52 p.m. She weighed 6 lbs.,<br />

11 oz. and was 20 inches long.<br />

Proud parents are Athir & Jaime<br />

Delly. Paris is the 14th grandchild<br />

of Youhannan & Evelyn Delly and the<br />

third grandchild of Ghanim & Batoul<br />

Abro. Godmother is Sue Delly. Our<br />

families are blessed to have welcomed<br />

such a precious angel.<br />

Jaxx Isaac<br />

Derrick & Jeana Bacall are proud<br />

to announce the birth of their son,<br />

Jaxx Isaac, on September 9, 2009 at<br />

9:49 p.m. He weighed 8 lbs., 2 oz.<br />

and was 20.4 inches long. He is the<br />

first grandchild of Ike & Mona Bacall<br />

and Jalal & Samar Thiwaney. Jaxx<br />

was baptized by his loving godparents,<br />

Farrah Thwianey and Andrew<br />

Bacall. May God bless him always!<br />

Elena Grace<br />

Cruz Anthony<br />

Lily Marie<br />

Paris Evelyn<br />

Jaxx Isaac<br />

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Marie Skye<br />

Jeffrey & Amanda Jonna proudly<br />

announce the birth of their first<br />

child, Marie Skye. Marie was<br />

born on November 21, 2009<br />

weighing 6 lbs., 6 oz. and measuring<br />

20 inches long. Marie is<br />

the third grandchild for Sundus<br />

Jonna & the late Zuhair Jonna,<br />

and the first for Janet Jamil & the<br />

late Sabah Jamil. Loving godparents<br />

are Ricky Jonna and Rhonda<br />

Jamil. God has truly blessed our<br />

lives with one of his angels!<br />

Alyssa Naheel<br />

God has blessed our family with<br />

another angel from above. Alyssa<br />

Naheel Fakhouri was born on August<br />

29, 2009. She weighed 8<br />

lbs., 13 oz. and measured 20.25<br />

inches. Her older sister Christianna<br />

is so happy to welcome her<br />

into this world. Joyful parents are<br />

Nader & Janeen Fakhouri. Alyssa<br />

is the second grandchild for<br />

Musa & Naheel Fakhouri and the<br />

eighth grandchild for Eliya & Seham<br />

Boji. Loving godparents are<br />

Najwa Fakhouri and Ron Boji.<br />

Maleena Marie<br />

God has blessed ever-so-proud<br />

parents Ely & Valerita Asmar with<br />

their first child. Maleena Marie<br />

was born on September 25,<br />

2009. She weighed 7 lbs., 9 oz.<br />

and measured 20 inches long.<br />

Loving godparents are her cousin,<br />

Advan Oraha, and her aunt,<br />

Vera Lossia. Maleena Marie is<br />

the eighth grandchild for Faraj &<br />

Batol Asmar and the sixth grandchild<br />

for Faris & Thuraya Kassab.<br />

We thank God every day for our<br />

precious little gift.<br />

Michael Joseph<br />

God has blessed Diana & Joe<br />

Sesi with a second son, and<br />

Luke is excited to announce his<br />

brother Michael Joseph. He was<br />

born on July 29, 2009, weighing<br />

7 lbs., 5 oz. and measuring 19<br />

inches. Loving grandparents are<br />

Masoud & Hana Sesi and Munir<br />

& the late Virgeen Kalasho. Michael<br />

was baptized on November<br />

9, 2009. Proud godparents are<br />

Joni Sesi and Riva Kalasho.<br />

Marie Skye<br />

Alyssa Naheel<br />

Maleena Marie<br />

Michael Joseph<br />

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RELIGION<br />

obituaries<br />

places of prayer<br />

chaldean churches in and around metro detroit<br />

THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED STATES<br />

St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Diocese<br />

25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033; (248) 351-0440<br />

Mar (Bishop) Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />

www.chaldeandiocese.org<br />

MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; (248) 356-0565<br />

Rector: Rev. Manuel Boji<br />

Parochial Vicar: Rev. Wisam Matti<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays except Tuesday, 10 a.m.; Tuesday, St. Anthony prayer<br />

at 5 p.m. followed by mass at 5:30 p.m.; Saturday, 5:15 p.m. in English; Sunday:<br />

8:30 a.m. in Arabic, 10 a.m. in English, 12 noon in Chaldean, 7 p.m. in English<br />

SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

310 W. Seven Mile Road, Detroit, MI 48203; (313) 368-6214<br />

Pastor: Rev. Jacob Yasso<br />

Mass Schedule: Friday, 6 p.m. in Chaldean; Sunday 11 a.m. in Chaldean<br />

MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

24010 Coolidge Highway, Oak Park, MI 48237; (248) 547-4648<br />

Pastor: Rev. Stephen Kallabat<br />

Parochial Vicars: Rev. Fadi Habib Khalaf, Rev. Suleiman Denha<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 12 noon; Sunday, 10 a.m. in Sourath and Arabic,<br />

12:30 p.m. in Sourath<br />

ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI 48317; (586) 254-7221<br />

Pastor: Msgr. Emanuel Hana Isho Shaleta<br />

Assistant Pastor: Rev. Basel Yaldo<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m.; Saturday, 5 p.m.; Sunday: 8:30 a.m. in<br />

Chaldean, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 11:30 a.m. in English, 1 p.m. in Chaldean. Baptisms:<br />

2:30 p.m. on Sundays.<br />

ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

2442 E. Big Beaver Road, Troy, MI 48083; (248) 528-3676<br />

Pastor: Msgr. Zouhair Toma (Kejbou)<br />

Parochial Vicar: Fr. Rudy Zoma<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturday, 5 p.m. in English and<br />

Chaldean; Sunday, 8 a.m. in Chaldean, 9:30 a.m. in Arabic, 11 a.m. in English, 12:30<br />

p.m. in Chaldean, 2:15 in Chaldean and Arabic. Baptisms: 3 p.m. on Sundays.<br />

ST. MARY HOLY APOSTOLIC<br />

CATHOLIC ASSYRIAN CHURCH OF THE EAST<br />

4320 E. 14 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 825-0290<br />

Rector: Fr. Benjamin Benjamin<br />

Mass Schedule: Sunday, 9 a.m. in Assyrian; 12 noon in Assyrian and English<br />

ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322; (248) 788-2460<br />

Pastor: Rev. Frank Kalabat<br />

Rev. Emanuel Rayes (retired)<br />

Parochial Vicar: Rev. Jirgus Abrahim<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Sourath; Saturday, 5 p.m. in English;<br />

Sunday 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in Sourath<br />

ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

2560 Drake Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48335; (248) 478-0835<br />

Pastor: Rev. Toma Behnama<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m.; Sunday 12 p.m.<br />

All masses are in Syriac, Arabic and English<br />

Hayat Kado<br />

“The world’s loss was heaven’s<br />

gain when God took you<br />

home.”<br />

Hayat Kado, the first born<br />

to Hermiz and Rahel Kado,<br />

was born in the village of<br />

Alqosh on December 8, 1933.<br />

Sadly, Hayat passed away on<br />

October 23, 2009.<br />

Hayat Kado was the oldest<br />

and only sister of five brothers:<br />

Abid, Kamel, Rahem, Bassam<br />

and Tiva. Hayat was married to<br />

the late Adil Koja in 1963. Adil<br />

and Hayat were married for a<br />

happy 33 years until Adil Koja<br />

passed away.<br />

Hayat was a proud and<br />

amazing mother to Fouas<br />

(Nagham), Marwan (Eva), Nadia<br />

(Sarmed), Fadia (Labeeb)<br />

and Nashwan (Suzan). She<br />

was also a loving grandmother<br />

of 13 and an inspiring aunt of<br />

13 nephews and 14 nieces.<br />

Hayat immigrated to America<br />

in 1995 to join the rest of<br />

her family. Hayat was also<br />

known to everyone as Khatha<br />

Hayat, which means “Sister<br />

Hayat,” because of the way<br />

she put everyone in her heart<br />

and before herself. She was a<br />

very religious women and was<br />

constantly praying for everyone<br />

and singing hymns.<br />

Hayat lived 76 long and<br />

beautiful years. Anyone who<br />

had the chance to meet or talk<br />

to Hayat was very heartbroken<br />

when she left us. Hayat went<br />

through a lot of medical procedures<br />

in her lifetime, but God<br />

took her to his home without<br />

any pain and suffering. Even<br />

though Hayat is not present<br />

with us today, we know that<br />

her memories and teachings<br />

will never fade away from our<br />

hearts.<br />

The family of Hayat Kado<br />

would like to thank everyone<br />

for all their generous help conducting<br />

the funeral. We thank<br />

all the friends and family for<br />

their phone calls and emails.<br />

We also appreciate all the condolences<br />

and all your prayers.<br />

We know that our beloved<br />

Hayat hears our prayers and<br />

has become an angel and will<br />

be watching over all of us.<br />

Khatha Hayat, as we continue<br />

with our lives we still feel like a<br />

part of us is missing but we know<br />

you’re in a better and wonderful<br />

place where you have always<br />

wanted to be. We love you Nana<br />

with all of our hearts and we will<br />

never forget you. Please watch<br />

over us.<br />

Hayat Kado<br />

Recently deceased<br />

Community members<br />

Kathleen Marie<br />

Hermiz (Summa)<br />

January 24, <strong>2010</strong><br />

Sabria Arab Allos<br />

January 19, <strong>2010</strong><br />

Yousif Betou<br />

January 17, <strong>2010</strong><br />

Yousif Ramzi<br />

Shammas<br />

January 3, <strong>2010</strong><br />

Goriel Hanna Goriel<br />

January 2, <strong>2010</strong><br />

Jalil Tobia Zeituna<br />

December 23, 2009<br />

Victor Khami<br />

December 22, 2009<br />

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Shammas<br />

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<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 21


a decade of<br />

growth and change<br />

By Vanessa Denha-Garmo and Joyce Wiswell<br />

The Iraq War and<br />

Ensuing Refugee Crisis<br />

Regardless of one’s political persuasions,<br />

there is little arguing the invasion<br />

of Iraq by U.S. forces in March<br />

2003 has had terrible consequences<br />

for the country’s religious minorities.<br />

Despite his many sins, Saddam<br />

Hussein protected Iraq’s Christians<br />

but since his fall, the community<br />

has seen some 40 church bombings,<br />

untold religious persecution, kidnappings<br />

for random, and murders.<br />

Perhaps the most shocking was the<br />

death of Archbishop Paulos Faraj<br />

Rahho on March 13, 2008, whose<br />

body was discovered two weeks after<br />

he was kidnapped.<br />

Since the war, 2.2 million Iraqis<br />

have left the country and another 2.2<br />

million have become Internally Displaced<br />

People. Iraq’s Christian population<br />

has plummeted from 1.2 million<br />

to less than a half-million who<br />

are mainly living in their ancestral<br />

villages in the north, said Joe Kassab,<br />

executive director of the Chaldean<br />

Federation of America (CFA).<br />

After a sluggish start, the U.S.<br />

government is beginning to accept<br />

more Iraqi refugees. Since August 1,<br />

2007, 35,350 refugees have come to<br />

the United States, primarily Michigan<br />

but also California, Arizona, Nevada<br />

and Illinois.<br />

In the beginning, some 80 percent<br />

were Christian, but that number<br />

is now only about 40 percent,<br />

Kassab said.<br />

“The government wants to show<br />

they are bringing in all Iraqis, not just<br />

Christians,” he said. “They think all refugees<br />

are entitled to come to the U.S.”<br />

This past decade was one of great change for the United States<br />

– the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001; the launching<br />

of wars in Afghanistan and Iraq; the election of the country’s first<br />

African-American president; and the economic meltdown from<br />

which we’ve yet to recover.<br />

It’s also been a milestone decade for the Chaldean community<br />

both here in Michigan and in Iraq. Here’s an overview of some of<br />

the biggest stories to hit the community in the past 10 years.<br />

Church bombings<br />

took a heavy toll<br />

on Iraq’s Christian<br />

community.<br />

This fiscal year, which began October<br />

1, 2009, will see 20,000 Iraqi<br />

refugees admitted to the U.S. Kassab<br />

said it is impossible to predict how<br />

many will be religious minorities,<br />

but “the government is starting to<br />

see that they are the most vulnerable<br />

and the most admissible.”<br />

For many refugees, landing on<br />

U.S. soil only continues their arduous<br />

journey. “Once in the U.S.<br />

services are still inadequate and the<br />

relationship between different agencies<br />

is not coherent,” Kassab said.<br />

The CFA is calling on the State<br />

Department to change the orientations<br />

given to would-be refugees so<br />

they come to America with a more<br />

realistic picture.<br />

“They make a lot of promises<br />

that are not being kept, including<br />

providing jobs, housing and<br />

healthcare. We want these orientations<br />

to be accurate so refugees are<br />

not shocked when they get here,”<br />

Kassab said.<br />

Groups like the CFA, Chaldean<br />

Community Foundation and Chaldean<br />

American Ladies of Charity<br />

have been forced to step in to help<br />

the newcomers.<br />

“It’s becoming a real burden to<br />

community members. We are very<br />

displeased that the U.S. administration<br />

and the state are not coming to<br />

the rescue,” Kassab said.<br />

He is optimistic that resolutions<br />

introduced by U.S. Rep. Gary Peters<br />

and U.S. Sen. Carl Levin will<br />

get more funding to grassroots organizations<br />

to assist in resettlement.<br />

“The situation is becoming so tenuous<br />

that we need help,” Kassab said.<br />

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The Adopt-A-Refugee-Family program allows concerned Chaldeans to directly help Iraqi<br />

refugees. Thanks to an anonymous benefactor who pays all administrative costs, the CFA<br />

guarantees that 100 percent of donations go directly to the family.<br />

The CFA Is Reborn<br />

“For I was hungry and you gave me<br />

something to eat, I was thirsty and<br />

you gave me something to drink, I<br />

was a stranger and you invited me in,<br />

I needed clothes and you clothed me,<br />

I was sick and you looked after me, I<br />

was in prison and you came to visit<br />

me.” Mark 25-35-40<br />

Basic Bacall proudly recites that<br />

verse when he talks about the Adopt-<br />

A-Refugee-Family program. This<br />

past decade, thousands of Christians<br />

Iraqis were helped. The successful<br />

program is a testament to the rebirth<br />

of the Chaldean Federation of America<br />

(CFA).<br />

Founded in 1981, the non-profit<br />

CFA is a national umbrella organization<br />

of Chaldean entities. Once<br />

considered a dominant force, the<br />

CFA went dormant for several years.<br />

In 2006, Bishop Ibrahim M. Ibrahim<br />

appointed West Bloomfield resident<br />

and Farmington Hills businessman<br />

Michael George as interim chairman,<br />

after the CFA’s General Assembly<br />

voted to ask His Excellency<br />

to assist in overhauling the federation.<br />

George then brought on Joseph<br />

Kassab as executive director.<br />

In July 2007, with the help of Bacall,<br />

the CFA launched a new program<br />

for displaced Iraqi Christians<br />

called Adopt-a-Refugee-Family.<br />

Facing religious persecution, kidnappings<br />

and murder, thousands of Iraqi<br />

families have been forced from their<br />

homeland into neighboring countries.<br />

As refugees they are left with<br />

no other choice than to seek safety<br />

anywhere they can. There they live<br />

a squalid existence, unable to work<br />

legally and send their children to<br />

school. Some mothers have turned<br />

to prostitution in a desperate attempt<br />

to keep their children fed. Food, water<br />

and other basic necessities have<br />

become exceedingly scarce. Entire<br />

families are homeless, hungry and<br />

desperate.<br />

The Adopt-A-Refugee-Family program<br />

allows concerned Chaldeans to<br />

directly help Iraqi refugees. Thanks to<br />

an anonymous benefactor who pays all<br />

administrative costs, the CFA guarantees<br />

that 100 percent of donations go<br />

directly to the family.<br />

As of January <strong>2010</strong>, more than<br />

Camp Chaldean<br />

was purchased<br />

from the city of<br />

Detroit in 2007.<br />

50,000 people have been helped and<br />

more than $1 million raised through<br />

the program.<br />

“Our local community should be<br />

proud of themselves. Together we<br />

have accomplished an amazing feat,”<br />

said Bacall. “This is a small drop in<br />

the bucket but compared to what the<br />

Lord has blessed us all with in this<br />

country, I feel that it is our duty to<br />

help those in need and much less<br />

fortunate than we are. Our donors<br />

feel such a sense of satisfaction when<br />

they send a donation and know that<br />

100 percent of their money will go to<br />

a refugee family and make such a big<br />

impact in their lives. There definitely<br />

is a lot more satisfaction in giving<br />

than receiving.”<br />

Over the next few years, the CFA<br />

is not focused on reaching a certain<br />

dollar amount but plans to live up to<br />

its commitment to assist Iraqi Christians<br />

being forced out of their countries<br />

and living as refugees.<br />

“We are their lifeline,” said Bacall.<br />

“There are so many refugees in<br />

dire need; we are just scratching the<br />

surface. We are only able to continue<br />

our mission as long as our people<br />

open their hearts and continue to<br />

give. We are inspired by our faith<br />

and human love and compassion of<br />

those in need.”<br />

The CFA is also a force in getting<br />

the message out about the persecution<br />

of Iraq’s Christian and other religious<br />

minorities. It helps refugees<br />

adjusting to life in the U.S. and assists<br />

those fighting for asylum status. Its<br />

most enduring tradition is the annual<br />

Chaldean Commencement, which<br />

celebrates its 28th year this June.<br />

Chaldean Diocese<br />

Enjoys Growth<br />

The pressing need for a new church<br />

on the Eastside was answered in<br />

December 2005, when St. George<br />

Chaldean Catholic Church opened<br />

its doors in Shelby Township. Since<br />

then it has become the largest Chaldean<br />

church in the United States.<br />

This past Christmas season, for example,<br />

St. George celebrated 11<br />

masses on December 24 and 25.<br />

“We have to accommodate the<br />

people,” said Msgr. Emanuel Shaleta,<br />

St. George’s pastor. He is assisted by<br />

two assistant pastors but, at times,<br />

even that is not enough.<br />

While the pews at the church<br />

are filled, the collection baskets are<br />

not. The debt from the original construction<br />

project remains large. Msgr.<br />

Shaleta said the church gets by week<br />

to week and is being supported by St.<br />

Joseph’s Chaldean Church in Troy,<br />

which has no debt. Church leaders<br />

are hesitant to push for more support<br />

during these difficult times and<br />

rely on God’s grace. So far, that has<br />

worked pretty well.<br />

Meanwhile, the Chaldean Diocese<br />

purchased from the City of Detroit<br />

a large track of rural land near<br />

Brighton in 2007. The move was met<br />

with great excitement and anticipation<br />

by community members across<br />

the spectrum who looked forward to<br />

having a place just 40 minutes west<br />

of town to escape the hustle and bustle<br />

of city life.<br />

The camp was purchased for $3.5<br />

million, which at the time was the<br />

best and only offer. Several hundred<br />

thousand more dollars were spent to<br />

bring the property, now known as<br />

Camp Chaldean, into useable condition<br />

after years of neglect and lack of<br />

maintenance.<br />

During the summer 2009 season,<br />

the camp was used mostly on weekends<br />

for family reunions, picnics and<br />

small gatherings. There were even a<br />

couple of weddings there. Plans are<br />

underway to build a chapel that will<br />

be named Mar Gorgis per the wishes<br />

of the late Shammaya Kassab, whose<br />

trust provided some of the monies<br />

to purchase the camp and build the<br />

chapel.<br />

Late last year, former Detroit officials<br />

were indicted in an alleged<br />

bribery scheme related to the camp<br />

purchase. While this has clouded<br />

the Camp Chaldean sale in the media,<br />

no community or church members<br />

were involved in the scheme.<br />

The investigation appears to be<br />

ongoing.<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 23


Located in Farmington Hills, Bank of Michigan opened with $8 million in capital and grew its<br />

asset size to $60 million in its first three years . Today it is a $90-million institution. The bank<br />

services small businesses, with loans averaging in the $500,000-$600,000 range.<br />

The Bank of Michigan Launches<br />

When it opened in January 2005, the<br />

Bank of Michigan effectively gave the<br />

Chaldean community its own financial<br />

institution. Though bank officials<br />

downplay the Chaldean connection,<br />

the fact remains that many in the<br />

community view it as “their” bank.<br />

Located in Farmington Hills, Bank<br />

of Michigan opened with $8 million<br />

in capital and grew its asset size to $60<br />

million in its first three years. Today<br />

it is a $90-million institution, according<br />

to Michael Sarafa, president and<br />

CEO, who came onboard in 2006<br />

after serving as president of the Associated<br />

Food Dealers. He is also a copublisher<br />

of The Chaldean News.<br />

The bank services small businesses,<br />

with loans averaging in the<br />

$500,000-$600,000 range. It has<br />

more than 1,000 clients.<br />

In the beginning, some were skeptical<br />

about keeping their money in a<br />

community bank because of privacy<br />

concerns.<br />

“We have overcome that feeling<br />

completely by consistently demonstrating<br />

to people that we deliver all<br />

our services with the highest level of<br />

professionalism and confidentiality,”<br />

Sarafa said.<br />

It hasn’t all been rosy – investors<br />

did not receive their planned-on<br />

share exchange at the end of 2007 because<br />

of the financial position of the<br />

holding company, Capitol Bancorp<br />

(CBC-NYSE). BOM’s net income<br />

dropped from $600,000 in 2008 to a<br />

little more than $100,000 in 2009 –<br />

but the fact that it still made a profit<br />

in the state’s brutal economy is laudable,<br />

Sarafa said.<br />

“The point is that most Michigan<br />

headquarter banks lost money in<br />

2008, 2009 or both,” he said. “We<br />

were profitable for two consecutive<br />

years in the worst economy since the<br />

1930s in the hardest-hit industry and<br />

in the hardest-hit state.”<br />

In <strong>2010</strong>, BOM is looking to take<br />

advantage of a shakeout in the state’s<br />

banking industry. That may include<br />

purchasing a majority share of Capitol<br />

Bancorp, raising capital to make a<br />

different acquisition or aligning itself<br />

with another financial institution,<br />

Sarafa said.<br />

“The name of the game right now<br />

is survival,” Sarafa said, “and preparing<br />

yourself to be in a position of strength<br />

and stability once the dust settles.”<br />

Shenandoah Country<br />

Club opened its doors<br />

in January 2005.<br />

Shenandoah Opens<br />

Though last year’s financial problems<br />

cast a giant shadow over Shenandoah,<br />

there is no denying the achievement<br />

the upscale country club represents<br />

for the Chaldean community.<br />

When it was opened in January<br />

2005 by the Chaldean Iraqi American<br />

Association of Michigan (CIAAM),<br />

many were proud of the lavish facility<br />

though some complained it was too<br />

opulent compared to CIAAM’s former<br />

home at the Southfield Manor. Nevertheless,<br />

membership rose at a healthy<br />

clip to 900 before Shenandoah even<br />

opened, despite the hefty $12,000 initiation<br />

fee for new members.<br />

Shenandoah’s early days were<br />

challenged by construction cost<br />

overruns (much due to an upgrade<br />

of the members-only areas that were<br />

decried as too Spartan) and ineffective<br />

operations that saw three general<br />

managers in the first 13 months<br />

of operation.<br />

While the banquet performance<br />

gradually improved, the club become<br />

mired in debt and faced the very real<br />

possibility of foreclosure. That was<br />

just resolved last December when the<br />

club purchased its $20 million bank<br />

note for $6.7 million.<br />

Meanwhile, popular General<br />

Manager Kamal Kassem retired late<br />

last year and the club is now run by<br />

former head chef Lee Sharkis, who is<br />

still formally on an interim basis as<br />

GM.<br />

Due to the economy and uncertainty<br />

about the club’s future, membership<br />

has nosedived. Today there<br />

are about 540 paid members and another<br />

170 or so who owe dues, said<br />

President Neb Mekani. A greatly reduced<br />

buy-in of only $1,000 already<br />

lured more than 100 new members in<br />

December and January, he said.<br />

“We hope to have 800 members<br />

by the end of <strong>2010</strong> and get to 1,000<br />

by the end of 2011,” Mekani said.<br />

Shenandoah also plans to offer<br />

more competitive banquet prices,<br />

beef up marketing and strictly enforce<br />

its rules regarding members, Mekani<br />

said, who noted that too many nonmembers<br />

take advantage of the club<br />

without paying for it.<br />

“We are now having someone<br />

check IDs at all entrances,” he said.<br />

“We have made that commitment to<br />

the members – it’s not fair they are<br />

paying their dues and others get to<br />

use it and not pay for it.”<br />

John Orow of Troy bought in at<br />

$9,000, reflecting a 25 percent family<br />

discount. He is not resentful that the<br />

same membership now costs so much<br />

less.<br />

“At the time the price was right,”<br />

he said. “I can’t be upset about it<br />

because nothing is worth was it was<br />

four years ago. In the grand scheme<br />

of things, it’s more important for<br />

Shenandoah to succeed.”<br />

Mekani said despite its bumpy<br />

road, everyone needs to look at the<br />

big picture of what Shenandoah represents.<br />

“It’s truly a landmark for the<br />

entire community,” he said. “Chaldeans<br />

are still a relatively new group<br />

of immigrants and to accomplish and<br />

achieve something like Shenandoah<br />

is absolutely remarkable.”<br />

The Chaldean News Is Created<br />

In the spring of 2002, four young<br />

Chaldeans decided to forge a partnership<br />

and launch a newsmagazine<br />

about the Chaldeans, for the Chaldeans<br />

and for anyone wanting to<br />

do business or connect with Chaldeans.<br />

After two years of research and<br />

preparation, The Chaldean News<br />

was launched in February 2004.<br />

The first cover was a collage of news<br />

stories featuring new Patriarch Emmanuel<br />

III Delly, the fall of Saddam<br />

Hussein and the flag of Iraq.<br />

“We were so proud of that cover,”<br />

said Co-Founder and Editor-in-Chief<br />

Denha-Garmo. “In retrospect, I<br />

don’t know if we would have chosen<br />

the same artwork. We have learned<br />

a tremendous amount about publishing<br />

a newsmagazine since then.”<br />

The product was the birth of<br />

something all the partners hoped<br />

would be loved and nurtured by the<br />

community.<br />

The first Chaldean News cover,<br />

February 2004.<br />

“So much was happening that<br />

year we launched,” said Denha-Garmo.<br />

“I got married, published a book<br />

and launched a new magazine all<br />

while working full-time for Wayne<br />

Executive Robert Ficano. And my<br />

partners were having kids and pursuing<br />

other business ventures, but all of<br />

us stay focused on producing a quality<br />

newsmagazine.”<br />

Statically, magazines fold within<br />

the first five years of business; The<br />

Chaldean News is now in its seventh<br />

year and despite the tough economy,<br />

moving forward.<br />

24 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


The future of ECRC is the fulfillment of the teaching of the Second Vatican council.<br />

All baptized Christians are called by the virtue of their baptism to evangelize the<br />

Good News of Jesus Christ to the whole world.<br />

Iraqi Church Leaders<br />

Are Elevated<br />

On October 17, 2007, Pope Benedict<br />

XVI sent a strong message to the rest<br />

of the world — the plight of Christians<br />

and Christianity in the Middle<br />

East demands attention. That message<br />

was sent when the Pope elevated<br />

Mar Emmanuel III Delly, the Patriarch<br />

of Babylon to Cardinal.<br />

Emmanuel III Delly was born<br />

on October 6, 1927 in Telkaif and<br />

was ordained a priest on December<br />

21, 1952. He was ordained a bishop<br />

ten years later in December 1962 at<br />

the age of 35. He has been the Patriarch<br />

of the Chaldean Church since<br />

December 3, 2003. He replaced Patriarch<br />

Raphael I Bidawid. He was<br />

created a Cardinal Bishop on November<br />

24, 2007.<br />

His patriarchate in Iraq came at<br />

a fairly difficult time period. Before<br />

he became Patriarch he had been accidentally<br />

injured by shattered glass<br />

in an attack. Hence he has been<br />

strongly concerned about the security<br />

situation there. He has expressed<br />

criticisms about upsurges in violence<br />

against Christians. He has taken efforts<br />

to improve the population’s morale,<br />

maintain friendly relations with<br />

Islamic leaders, improve safety, and<br />

work for the release of kidnapping<br />

victims.<br />

Just this past November, Fr. Emil<br />

Shimoun Nona was named the new<br />

Archbishop of Mosul by Pope Benedict.<br />

He replaces Archbishop Paulos<br />

Faraj Rahho, who was kidnapped by<br />

militants and found dead two weeks<br />

later in March 2008.<br />

Archbishop Nona, 42, was born<br />

in Alqosh, Iraq, on November 1,<br />

1967. He entered the Chaldean Patriarchal<br />

Seminary in 1985 and was<br />

ordained a priest on January 11, 1991<br />

in Baghdad. His pastoral experience<br />

includes serving as the parochial vicar<br />

at Alqosh from 1993 to 1997 and<br />

then as pastor until 2000.<br />

Thousands of people attended his<br />

ordination as an Archbishop at the<br />

Convent of Our Immaculate Lady in<br />

Alqosh.<br />

Business-minded Chaldeans<br />

create a chamber<br />

In 2003, a group of Chaldean businesses<br />

owners and community activists<br />

created The Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce. It is a partnership<br />

of Chaldean businesses and<br />

professionals working together to<br />

strengthen members’ businesses, increase<br />

job opportunities, encourage<br />

expansion and promote Chaldean<br />

business and culture. The chamber<br />

seeks to service and represent Aramaic-speaking<br />

people, including Assyrians,<br />

Chaldeans and Syriacs.<br />

Sabah Hermiz (Summa), the first<br />

chairman of the board, led the effort<br />

to form the chamber along with 15<br />

community members.<br />

Chaldean Chamber of Commerce Chairman<br />

Frank Jonna addresses guests at<br />

the opening of the new Chamber office.<br />

“The chamber’s success is a clear indication<br />

of the impact Chaldean businesses<br />

have on the economy in Southeast<br />

Michigan,” said Martin Manna,<br />

the group’s executive director. “This<br />

organization has given our business<br />

community a voice in the region.”<br />

Mar Emmanuel III<br />

Delly, the Patriarch of<br />

Babylon, was elevated<br />

to Cardinal in 2007.<br />

Today, there are nearly 800 members<br />

who enjoy quarterly networking meetings,<br />

an annual Business Conference,<br />

industry outlook events and the annual<br />

dinner highlighting the Businessperson<br />

of the Year and Humanitarian of the<br />

Year, which is always a sell out.<br />

The chamber also created the<br />

PAC, a political action committee<br />

that lends its support to various candidates<br />

running for political office.<br />

Charitable works are done through<br />

the Chaldean Community Foundation,<br />

a not-for-profit dedicated to advancing<br />

the needs of the Chaldean<br />

American community and the communities<br />

they live and work in through<br />

education, charitable giving and advocacy.<br />

The Foundation includes the<br />

Waad Murad Advocacy Fund, which<br />

supplies reward money for information<br />

that leads to the arrest and conviction<br />

of the assailant(s) of violent crime perpetuated<br />

against businesspeople.<br />

Thanks to state funding, the<br />

foundation has launched the Mental<br />

Health Initiative, which provides<br />

mental health services to those in<br />

need, particularly newly arrived refugees<br />

still coping with the trauma of<br />

the Iraq War and its subsequent religious<br />

persecution.<br />

The foundation has supported<br />

and been a part of several initiatives,<br />

including workplace development,<br />

economic development, refugee assistance,<br />

cultural competency training<br />

and charitable giving. The Foundation<br />

hosts two major events each June: A<br />

Golf Outing at Shenandoah and the<br />

Chaldean Festival, held in conjunction<br />

with the City of Southfield.<br />

The ECRC Flourishes<br />

The more than 20 programs offered<br />

by the Eastern Catholic Re-Evangelization<br />

Center (ECRC) grew substantially<br />

during the last decade that the<br />

group grew right out of St. Thomas<br />

Church in West Bloomfield and into<br />

St. Ephrem’s Center in Bloomfield<br />

Township, 15 minutes away.<br />

Nearly 600 people walk through<br />

the doors each week to take part in<br />

the religious studies offered by ECRC.<br />

The 7,000-square-foot facility was a<br />

Jewish synagogue before St. Thomas<br />

purchased it for $1.3 million in 2007.<br />

ECRC was co-founded by Fr.<br />

Frank Kalabat, Karam Bahnam, Neran<br />

Karmo and Vanessa Kassab.<br />

“Since 2001 when ECRC was<br />

founded till this day we felt all along<br />

the hand of God continually guiding<br />

the work, from the simple idea of a<br />

few people filled with zeal to an organization<br />

of more than 20 activities led<br />

by lay faithful serving more than 500<br />

people weekly,” said Fr. Frank. “As<br />

the Gospel reminds us, the harvest is<br />

plenty but the laborers are few.”<br />

Since its inception, ECRC has received<br />

support from the Church’s hierarchy<br />

including by His Excellency Bishop<br />

Ibrahim Ibrahim. However, they are<br />

challenged on a regular basis to encourage<br />

the faithful to take on their role of<br />

evangelization and activating their faith.<br />

“We all have a share to proclaim<br />

the Good News; it is not only the responsibility<br />

of the religious and the<br />

clergy,” said Bahnam. “We have been<br />

blessed with a lot of good fruits to encourage<br />

us in our journey. The Lord<br />

is leading the way. In Him we trust.”<br />

Most program leaders are volunteers,<br />

but all leaders must attend the<br />

ECRC’s theology class for one year or<br />

have equivalent experience. ECRC<br />

expenses are covered by a grant from<br />

the archdiocese and donations.<br />

The future of ECRC is the fulfillment<br />

of the teaching of the Second<br />

Vatican council. All baptized Christians<br />

are called by the virtue of their<br />

baptism to evangelize the Good News<br />

of Jesus Christ to the whole world.<br />

“We pray that the ECRC is helping<br />

out the faithful to carry on their<br />

vocation as they live their daily lives,”<br />

said Karmo. “More people are coming<br />

forward to serve others as an immediate<br />

result of their experience, especially<br />

the youth since many activities<br />

and retreats are helping to initiate and<br />

awaken their love for the Lord.”<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 25


chaldean on the STREET<br />

What do you consider the top Chaldean story in the last 10 years?<br />

By Caroline M. Bacall<br />

Since the booming settlement of the Chaldean community in America, there is no denying change will be ever-present.<br />

We visited local businesses and asked people what they consider to be the past decade’s top stories.<br />

The liberation of Iraq and the<br />

opportunity of freedom. The<br />

despicable actions of a dictatorship<br />

regime once monitored<br />

the daily lives of citizens with<br />

intense scrutiny and extreme<br />

consequences. Despite the<br />

quest for “Operation Iraqi<br />

Freedom,” Chaldean churches<br />

were bombed, clergy murdered,<br />

businesses looted and family<br />

members kidnapped for ransom.<br />

From these actions, each and<br />

every one of us has been affected<br />

in a heart-wrenching manner.<br />

Regardless of being related<br />

to someone who suffered, as a<br />

close-knit community we have all<br />

experienced the pain. However,<br />

freedom will be attained once<br />

again in our homeland with the<br />

grace of our Lord and the leadership<br />

of our church.<br />

Michael Kado, 23<br />

West Bloomfield<br />

The Chaldean Catholic Church.<br />

In the past decade, we have<br />

seen the Chaldean Church transform<br />

from an ordinary institution<br />

into an extraordinary institution.<br />

The opening of the gorgeous St.<br />

George in 2005 was followed by<br />

the opening of the much-needed<br />

Camp Chaldean in 2007, which<br />

was then followed by the opening<br />

of the useful St. Ephrem in<br />

2008. Besides the expansion of<br />

the Church by way of structures,<br />

more importantly came the expansion<br />

of services offered out of<br />

these structures. Programs such<br />

as CLC, apologetics, Thursday<br />

adoration and first Friday<br />

devotion provided a pathway for<br />

each of us to grow closer to the<br />

heavenly Father. Through the<br />

will of God, let us pray that the<br />

next decade will allow for the<br />

Chaldean Church to flourish to<br />

an even grander scale.<br />

Amanda Kesto, 23<br />

Commerce<br />

Young Chaldeans are losing<br />

their roots. Throughout the<br />

years, there has been more<br />

focus on the glamorous life<br />

with the Chaldean youth in<br />

particular. The obsession with<br />

Hollywood, celebrities and<br />

wealth has changed the majority<br />

of our youth’s mentality, from<br />

being humble to being a lover of<br />

individualism or an “it’s all about<br />

me” attitude. There needs to be<br />

a balance in life: God first, family<br />

second and one’s self last. It is<br />

very important that we hold on to<br />

our Chaldean traditions.<br />

Tom Naemi, 55<br />

Farmington Hills<br />

An increasing involvement in<br />

media and the entertainment<br />

world. Chaldeans are walking<br />

into the entertainment business<br />

more than before, but at the<br />

same time Chaldeans have yet<br />

to branch out. I know someone<br />

who is an actor in California and<br />

visits his family here. I also have<br />

a cousin who utilizes his degree<br />

in the industry as a music engineer.<br />

As a writer and screenwriter,<br />

I believe more talent in<br />

our community is out there.<br />

Eventually, we will develop a<br />

name for ourselves and be a<br />

big part of the entertainment<br />

industry.<br />

Alex Ketty, 39<br />

West Bloomfield<br />

The downfall of the economy. I<br />

believe we needed it in a way. At<br />

one point, many of us including<br />

myself have felt occupied in our<br />

own world with our busy lives<br />

and had everything we needed.<br />

Maybe some of us felt like praying<br />

was not as necessary when<br />

every business was making<br />

money. Lately, I have noticed<br />

people asking me “let’s pray<br />

together” or “teach me” because<br />

they’re going through very difficult<br />

times. Saying, “Thank you<br />

God” or “I love you” are simple<br />

prayers we can all say in our<br />

spare time to enhance our faith.<br />

I think the economy has helped<br />

many of us realize we need God<br />

through good and bad times.<br />

Majda Ayar, 32<br />

Southfield<br />

In more recent times, the<br />

Adopt-a-Refugee program<br />

has positively impacted the<br />

Chaldean population around the<br />

world. It has shown the nature<br />

of our generosity, and I think it<br />

is very honorable of our people<br />

even with the decline of the<br />

economy. The hardships that<br />

the refugees have encountered<br />

were devastating. Here, they<br />

have an opportunity for a new<br />

beginning.<br />

Mary Mattia, 65<br />

West Bloomfield<br />

Income. For the last few years,<br />

people have compared prices of<br />

the bakery I work for to prices<br />

of other bakeries in the area.<br />

Before that, people would just<br />

buy and not even ask about<br />

the price. Over the years,<br />

people have been spending less<br />

because of a decrease in their<br />

income. There are those who<br />

have humbled themselves a little<br />

more and others who argue<br />

about not being treated right if<br />

they are not given the price they<br />

want.<br />

Bianca Kas-Marogi, 21<br />

Commerce<br />

An increase of faith in the<br />

Chaldean community. Seems<br />

like more Chaldeans have been<br />

attending the workshops that the<br />

different churches offer. Within<br />

the last few years, we’ve had<br />

about six seminarians and two<br />

girls who have entered the convent.<br />

It’s a beautiful thing. The<br />

building of the St. Thomas grotto<br />

has also helped — it’s like an<br />

invitation to the church because<br />

it is open to the public 24 hours,<br />

seven days a week.<br />

Louie Abbo, 51<br />

West Bloomfield<br />

Gambling has been a big problem<br />

in the community for a long time.<br />

I personally know of many people<br />

who ran their own businesses<br />

from open to close hours for<br />

more than 30 years and sacrificed<br />

family time that was priceless.<br />

What started as a leisure activity<br />

became an addiction with bad<br />

friends and incentives to get<br />

people into the casino. They were<br />

drained mentally, physically and<br />

emotionally. The end-result was<br />

divorce and losing everything they<br />

worked so hard for. Now, they’re<br />

just living from day to day.<br />

Sam Bashi, 45<br />

Sterling Heights<br />

Over the past ten years, parents<br />

in our community have emphasized<br />

the value of education to<br />

their children. Chaldeans are<br />

not only attending college at an<br />

increasing rate, they are also<br />

receiving professional degrees.<br />

Chaldeans have always been<br />

ambitious people, but the<br />

direction of those ambitions<br />

have shifted. Several of us are<br />

pursuing our goals and successfully<br />

achieving them through<br />

education<br />

Javon Hindo, 21<br />

Wixom<br />

26 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


killing shocks community<br />

Grandmother charged with drowning tot<br />

By Ray Gabbara<br />

The Chaldean community was<br />

shocked last month by the death<br />

of 4-year-old DeAngelo Tobia Al-<br />

Kasmikha, allegedly at the hands of his<br />

grandmother.<br />

DeAngelo was visiting his maternal<br />

grandmother, Terry Rita Borgia, for the<br />

weekend when his life was cut short. On<br />

the morning of January 11, Clinton Township<br />

Police responded to a 911 phone call<br />

from Tanina Borgia, DeAngelo’s aunt, who<br />

said the boy was laying unresponsively in a<br />

few inches of bathtub water. Prior to the<br />

arrival of EMS, Borgia performed CPR on<br />

the boy, but he was not breathing.<br />

Emergency responders also tried CPR<br />

with no luck. Paramedics rushed DeAngelo<br />

to Henry Ford Hospital in Clinton<br />

Township where he was pronounced dead.<br />

The suspicious nature of the incident<br />

led police to question DeAngelo’s Italian-<br />

American grandmother, Terry Rita Borgia,<br />

60, of Clinton Township. “Borgia informed<br />

police that she indeed murdered the boy,”<br />

said Lina Najor, another of DeAngelo’s<br />

aunts. “But as soon as they began in-depth<br />

questioning, she immediately [took] the<br />

Fifth Amendment.”<br />

Two days later, Borgia was charged with<br />

DeAngelo’s murder. Borgia, who reportedly<br />

has a history of mental illness, reportedly<br />

showed no emotion in the presence of<br />

EMS paramedics and the police. Neighbors<br />

and other people in the community<br />

said she consistently exhibited abnormal<br />

behavior.<br />

“We would have never in a million years<br />

have thought she would murder DeAngelo;<br />

she was always there for him and showed<br />

that she loved him,” said Najor.<br />

Borgia is presently in Macomb County<br />

Jail with no bond option. She was scheduled<br />

to appear in court on January 27, past<br />

press time.<br />

Both DeAngelo and Borgia reportedly<br />

had several bruises on their bodies, suggesting<br />

the boy battled for his life.<br />

“I have met with the detective on multiple<br />

occasions but have not gotten any answers<br />

as to why she murdered my nephew,”<br />

Najor said. “The detective claims that if<br />

he releases any information, it could ruin<br />

his investigation.”<br />

Those who knew DeAngelo say he<br />

was a precious little boy who always had a<br />

beautiful smile. He is survived by his parents,<br />

Bashar and Amy Al-Kasmikha, and<br />

two siblings.<br />

“It’s difficult to accept such reality, but<br />

God has a different plan for everyone,”<br />

said Fr. Manuel Boji, the pastor at Mother<br />

of God Chaldean Catholic Church where<br />

DeAngelo’s funeral mass services took<br />

place.<br />

Southfield Funeral Home handled<br />

the funeral. “It is always very sad to deal<br />

with a death of a child,” said Anthony<br />

Yono, administrative assistant. “It is not<br />

like dealing with the death of an elderly<br />

person. When an elderly person dies, we<br />

all pray for them and thank God for allowing<br />

them to live a long life. But in a<br />

situation like this, it is so much harder to<br />

recover.”<br />

DeAngelo Tobia Al-Kasmikha was 4 years old.<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 27


‘nothing<br />

like love’<br />

Couple celebrates<br />

seven decades of marriage<br />

By Rosalie Kakos<br />

For Zia Mansour Oram and<br />

Shamama Jerjis Oram, love<br />

knows no bounds as they celebrate<br />

72 years of married life together.<br />

When they wed on April 25,<br />

1937, in the village of Telkaif, Zia<br />

was 25 and Shamama was just 12 —<br />

a normal age difference at the time.<br />

“I didn’t even know what marriage<br />

was,” said Shamama. “I was like<br />

a saint, I didn’t know anything.”<br />

The couple knew they had to<br />

take on many responsibilities to care<br />

for their children — 11 were born<br />

in Iraq and one in America. This<br />

was no easy task living in a very nonindustrialized<br />

world. The food they<br />

had was for that day only and on the<br />

rare occasion they had leftovers, they<br />

were stored in the coolest part of the<br />

basement covered with blankets.<br />

Water retrieved from a well had to<br />

be boiled before consumption to kill<br />

off bacteria.<br />

While Shamama was home with<br />

the children, Zia had a job as the<br />

first private driver in his village; his<br />

license number was 111. He drove<br />

everyone from government officials<br />

to beggars on the street. On Sundays,<br />

he took widows and orphans<br />

anywhere they wanted to go free of<br />

charge. He never left his wife and<br />

children without their basic needs,<br />

sometimes stopping by the house at<br />

5 a.m. to drop off chickens, cheese,<br />

rice, olives and barley. His family<br />

would wake up to a house full of food<br />

every morning.<br />

When the Orams’ eldest daughter,<br />

Suham, married Salim Dickow<br />

and moved to America in 1948, she<br />

received her citizenship. (The two are<br />

the parents of Judge Diane Dickow<br />

D’Agostini.) Suham was able to bring<br />

either her mother or father to the<br />

country. She chose her father and in<br />

turn, he was able to bring two of their<br />

six sons, ages 16 and 17, to America.<br />

After only two years of living in the<br />

U.S., Zia moved back to Iraq. Shamama<br />

was happy he returned but terribly<br />

missed her children.<br />

“She was crying all the time because<br />

she missed them and I told her<br />

it’s not right. We all needed to be together,”<br />

said Zia.<br />

Before they arrived in the U.S.,<br />

Shamama told her sons to have everything<br />

ready and the house fully furnished<br />

“from needles to thread”; they<br />

did just that and in 1963, the entire<br />

family was together again in Detroit.<br />

But leaving Telkaif was hard.<br />

“Everyone in the village loved us<br />

Zia and<br />

Shamama<br />

Oram on their<br />

wedding day<br />

in Telkaif …<br />

and today in<br />

Michigan.<br />

because we helped so many people.<br />

They said the neighborhood is dark<br />

without us,” remembered Shamama.<br />

Zia found a job in Detroit at the<br />

classic restaurant chain, Big Boy.<br />

Working there for more than 10<br />

years, he not only helped his family,<br />

but also other newly arriving members<br />

of the Chaldean community. He<br />

worked his way up to a managerial<br />

position and helped more than 400<br />

Chaldeans get a job with the chain.<br />

While Zia was at work, Shamama<br />

stayed home with the children.<br />

“I raised them like I was raised<br />

back home. The way they grow up<br />

depends on how you raise them,” she<br />

said. “Take care of them when they’re<br />

young, not when they’re old. This is<br />

the time to help them and nurture<br />

them; it doesn’t work when they’re<br />

older. You won’t be able to take care<br />

of them then, it’s now.”<br />

The Orams attribute the success<br />

of their marriage and family to one<br />

powerful factor — love.<br />

“Love, there is nothing like love,”<br />

said Shamama. “Of course we had<br />

problems, but you have to humble<br />

yourself and respect each other. There<br />

is no such thing as divorce. I’ll work<br />

as hard as I can because love solves<br />

all the problems. Let it go and be the<br />

first one to say you’re sorry. This is<br />

how you overcome problems.”<br />

“My parents grew together in<br />

love, in life and in holiness,” said<br />

one of their six daughters, Christine<br />

Oram. “They lived a hard life in a<br />

simple world, simple in the sense of<br />

faith and family. There was no industry,<br />

no conveniences. They raised<br />

their children with such deep love,<br />

pride and joy. When they came to<br />

America, time stopped in their mind.<br />

Their values remained in them.”<br />

Today Zia is 98 and Shamama is<br />

85. They live in West Bloomfield and<br />

have 75 grandchildren and greatgrandchildren.<br />

“My husband helped a lot of<br />

people, and this is the secret to a<br />

long and good life,” said Shamama.<br />

“Believing in Jesus Christ and being<br />

religious is also very important<br />

and I’m very proud of how my children<br />

grew up. No matter what you<br />

do in your life, there is an ending to<br />

your life, so make the best of it with<br />

God‘s help.”<br />

28 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29


Jillian Semaan is flanked by President Barack Obama and Vice President Joe Biden, with his wife Jill.<br />

a political player<br />

Young woman makes her mark in Democratic party<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo<br />

Still in her 20s, Jillian Semaan has had extensive<br />

experience working on campaigns<br />

for the Democratic Party. She has lived in<br />

Washington, D.C., worked for a Governor, a Congressman,<br />

a Vice President and a President, and is<br />

currently back home working for the Detroit City<br />

Council.<br />

While still in college studying political science,<br />

Semaan attended a fundraiser for then-gubernatorial<br />

candidate and Michigan Attorney General<br />

Jennifer Granholm. “My uncle Najib Attisha was<br />

throwing the party and knowing that I am a social<br />

butterfly he invited me,” recalled Semaan. “I met<br />

several people working on the Governor’s campaign<br />

and they invited me to work with them.”<br />

She did and ended up being hired to be part of<br />

the Governor’s finance staff. She transferred from<br />

Eastern to Michigan State where she spent two<br />

years with Granholm before she ended up moving<br />

to D.C. to work for then-Senator Joe Biden.<br />

After her stint with Biden, Semaan found herself<br />

shuffling between D.C. and Michigan as she<br />

worked on Gary Peter’s successful race for Congress<br />

against incumbent Joe Knollenberg.<br />

Her highest-profile race is the highest profile<br />

you can get, the race for President of the United<br />

States. Semaan, with already a significant resume,<br />

worked as liaison to Chaldean constituents as well<br />

as athletes and entertainers who came to Michigan<br />

to campaign for Obama/Biden. “I took care of the<br />

logistics,” said Semaan. “I also scheduled two of<br />

Michelle Obama’s visits here.”<br />

After working on Ken Cockrel’s race for Detroit<br />

Mayor in which he was defeated by David Bing,<br />

Semaan landed the position as Charles Pugh’s campaign<br />

manager. The City Council President is her<br />

newest boss. Semaan will be coordinating business<br />

outreach for the council. “I want to make sure we<br />

maintain a significant business presence in the city,”<br />

said Semaan. “We will continue to do outreach beyond<br />

what we did during the race.”<br />

The City Council’s focus, like the Mayor’s and<br />

other elected officials in the state, is to attract<br />

business and residents. “I really want to be able to<br />

present to corporations change, new ways of doing<br />

business and to invest into Detroit and the<br />

DEGC [Detroit Economic Growth Corporation],”<br />

said Semaan. “We at the City Council office will<br />

work with the Mayor’s Office to attract jobs, create<br />

revenue and perhaps a new Green Task Force in<br />

Detroit.”<br />

Semaan has tremendous<br />

faith in the<br />

‘We will work<br />

new council. “These with the Mayor’s<br />

new five council members<br />

not only give the Office to attract<br />

city but the entire region<br />

new hope,” she jobs, create<br />

said. “We want new<br />

ideas, and to engage<br />

revenue and<br />

the community.”<br />

perhaps a new<br />

Although her dream<br />

job is to work for the Green Task<br />

NFL, Semaan is realistically<br />

looking at Force in Detroit.’<br />

a job with the Environmental<br />

Protec-<br />

– Jillian Semaan<br />

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and wants to focus on<br />

attracting green jobs to Michigan. For right now<br />

she is hopeful that Detroit has the potential to be<br />

a Baltimore, Cleveland and even Chicago on a<br />

smaller scale.<br />

“When you are living elsewhere, people don’t<br />

know who Chaldeans are and I find myself giving<br />

my entire life story about who we are,” said Semaan.<br />

“I am proud. I have been through struggles like we<br />

all have been. I hope this community is proud of<br />

my successes. I have had issues with the community<br />

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respectful of other’s opinions. I am proud to be a<br />

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in the<br />

thick<br />

of the<br />

fight<br />

Attorney fights<br />

Kilpatrick and<br />

others for<br />

dancer’s family<br />

By Ken Marten<br />

Former Detroit Mayor Kwame<br />

Kilpatrick continues to make<br />

the news, and attorney Norman<br />

Yatooma is in the thick of some<br />

of the proceedings.<br />

Yatooma, 37, represents the family<br />

of Tamara “Strawberry” Greene,<br />

the exotic dancer who was murdered<br />

on April 30, 2003 in a drive-by<br />

shooting. Greene is alleged to have<br />

performed at a party in fall 2002 at<br />

the Manoogian Mansion, home to<br />

then-Mayor Kilpatrick. While Michigan<br />

Attorney General Mike Cox has<br />

famously dubbed the party an “urban<br />

legend,” rumors persist that the party<br />

took place and that the mayor’s wife,<br />

Carlita, assaulted Greene.<br />

The slain dancer’s family is suing<br />

the city of Detroit, Kilpatrick, former<br />

Detroit police chief Ella Bully-<br />

Cummings, former mayoral chief of<br />

staff Christine Beatty (with whom<br />

Kilpatrick admitted to having an<br />

affair), and several other parties in<br />

federal court. The suit alleges that<br />

Kilpatrick and the others obstructed<br />

the Greene murder investigation for<br />

political reasons. Kilpatrick and his<br />

fellow plaintiffs deny the claims.<br />

“The [Manoogian Mansion] party<br />

is often referred to as the muchtalked-about,<br />

never-proven party,”<br />

said Yatooma, whose office is in Birmingham.<br />

“The party is significant<br />

to this case only because it could be<br />

Norman Yatooma: “It’s often forgotten that this case isn’t about politics or politicians.”<br />

the reason why Kwame Kilpatrick<br />

ordered a shutdown of the murder<br />

investigation of Tamara Greene. If<br />

Carlita Kilpatrick assaulted Tamara<br />

Greene, that could be a reason. It’s<br />

one of many reasons why that shutdown<br />

could have happened.”<br />

A wrongful death suit is out of<br />

the question, Yatooma said, because<br />

there is no defendant. Greene’s<br />

murderer is unknown at this time,<br />

and may never be known.<br />

“Too great a time has passed,<br />

too many documents have been destroyed,<br />

too many witnesses have<br />

been intimidated,” Yatooma said.<br />

“Instead, we’re suing the people<br />

who prevented us from ever learning<br />

who killed Tamara Greene, and<br />

that’s the former mayor and all his<br />

underlings.”<br />

Greene is survived by three<br />

children:16-year-old son Jonathan<br />

Bond and two younger daughters.<br />

Jonathon’s father, Ernest Flagg, is<br />

also a plaintiff in the case.<br />

At this point, the case is still in<br />

discovery, the process during which<br />

attorneys gather evidence for trial<br />

through depositions and by sifting<br />

through various documents. In December,<br />

Yatooma deposed Cox – an<br />

event Yatooma described to reporters<br />

as “not cordial” and “not nearly<br />

finished.”<br />

While Yatooma, a Bloomfield<br />

Hills resident, can’t speak directly<br />

about the case, certain facts are<br />

known through various media reports<br />

and other published statements.<br />

In May 2003, Governor<br />

Jennifer Granholm instructed the<br />

Michigan State Police to investigate<br />

the alleged party and Cox to review<br />

the results. Days later, Cox said<br />

he would lead the investigation. In<br />

June, Cox and his deputy, Tom Furtaw,<br />

interviewed Kilpatrick with no<br />

one else present. A few weeks later,<br />

Cox ended his investigation and<br />

issued the “urban legend” remark.<br />

The state police continued its investigation<br />

until January 2004 but was<br />

unable to uncover any evidence of a<br />

party or assault.<br />

Flagg began the lawsuit in November<br />

2005 and hired Yatooma<br />

in October 2007. Late in 2009, Yatooma<br />

deposed State Police Detective<br />

Sergeant Mark Krebs, who said<br />

that Cox, Detroit police officials<br />

and reluctant witnesses thwarted<br />

the investigation into the Manoogian<br />

party.<br />

“It’s often forgotten that this case<br />

isn’t about politics or politicians,” Yatooma<br />

said. “It’s fundamentally about<br />

three otherwise defenseless and forever<br />

motherless kids. I think Jonathan<br />

Bond said it best: ‘I just want<br />

the same thing Kwame Kilpatrick<br />

would want if his mom was killed.’”<br />

Yatooma will continue his deposition<br />

of Cox later this month.<br />

Depositions of Kilpatrick, Beatty<br />

and Bully-Cummings will also be<br />

scheduled.<br />

Yatooma, whose father was murdered<br />

in 1993, is the founder of Yatooma’s<br />

Foundation For The Kids,<br />

a non-profit organization that provides<br />

grief-counseling, mentoring,<br />

and assistance to children who have<br />

suddenly lost a parent.<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 31


ECONOMICS & enterprise<br />

Babylon Market: A touch of home<br />

By Joe Gasso<br />

It is no surprise that Iraqi immigrants<br />

who have fled to Metro<br />

Detroit feel right at home in a<br />

number of the area’s authentic Chaldean<br />

stores like Babylon Market in<br />

Sterling Heights.<br />

“After many years of work in the<br />

liquor store business, I knew I was<br />

ready to change career paths. I wanted<br />

to really challenge myself and I<br />

felt something like Babylon Market<br />

would be perfect,” said Jamal Shaow,<br />

who opened the store in 2004.<br />

Entering the creatively constructed<br />

Babylon Market is a cultural experience<br />

in itself. Former Iraqi citizens<br />

will regard the song playing as a top<br />

40 Iraqi hit while newcomers will be<br />

mesmerized by its traditional flute and<br />

tapping of the tambourine. Hundreds<br />

of products grace the shelves of the<br />

market including dates, figs, almonds,<br />

cashews and nuts while classic beverages<br />

such as chai and shannineh (yo-<br />

Photos by David Reed<br />

Clockwise<br />

from top:<br />

Jamal Shaow greets<br />

customers with a<br />

smile<br />

Hazim Hanna<br />

bakes bread<br />

The meat<br />

department<br />

draws raves<br />

gurt drink) fill the many refrigerated<br />

cases. (Many young Chaldeans may<br />

be surprised to find these products<br />

are not just homemade by their parents<br />

but are actually best sellers.)<br />

The meat market, which Shaow<br />

calls “perhaps the most fascinating<br />

section to customers,” is an extensive<br />

area with butchers on hand patiently<br />

waiting as customers place their orders.<br />

Choices range from a variety<br />

of fresh fish to cattle and lamb. The<br />

fish are literally taken alive from the<br />

water, butchered and packaged. It<br />

is quite the contrast from the bakery<br />

section located across the aisle,<br />

which produces a sweet-smelling<br />

aroma from the many homemade<br />

pastries and breads.<br />

“I am always trying to change the<br />

store up and make it a little different<br />

from the last time a customer has visited,”<br />

says Shaow. “I owe my success<br />

to these little changes I have made<br />

while staying as authentic to Chaldean<br />

culture as possible, because if<br />

you take a look around you will see<br />

similar markets all over the city.”<br />

Those “little changes” are not<br />

hard to identify as they surely stand<br />

out to newcomers while making Iraqi<br />

natives feel at home. The signs in Arabic<br />

text and the sound of Chaldean<br />

being spoken among the customers<br />

make any transplant fit right in.<br />

Following the hectic holiday<br />

season where orders are in demand,<br />

Shaow’s main focus these days is the<br />

preservation of markets within the<br />

Chaldean lifestyle. As first-generation<br />

Chaldean Americans attempt<br />

to maintain a balance between complete<br />

assimilation and the preservation<br />

of an ancient culture, Shaow<br />

worries they will lose their roots.<br />

“Our community is only growing<br />

and immigration will never stop so it<br />

is essential to have Chaldean-owned<br />

and -run markets,” he said. “It is very<br />

important to know where you came<br />

from — and a Chaldean grocery store<br />

can provide that awareness.”<br />

Babylon Market is located at<br />

36886 Ryan Road in Sterling Heights.<br />

Call (586) 264-1700.<br />

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ARTS & entertainment<br />

acting<br />

out<br />

Lamar Babi<br />

pursues a film<br />

career<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

As a student at Brother Rice,<br />

Lamar Babi played a big<br />

role on the basketball court<br />

– never dreaming that the lure of<br />

other roles would change the course<br />

of his life.<br />

Despite some college athletic scholarship<br />

offers, Babi quit the basketball<br />

team during his senior year after a dispute<br />

with his coach. With his newly<br />

free time, he decided to take a drama<br />

class at Marian High School – and<br />

quickly became bitten by the acting<br />

bug the first time he took to the stage.<br />

“It was a huge rush – a feeling like<br />

I’ve never had before,” said Babi, now<br />

24. “God closed a door and opened a<br />

window.”<br />

Babi knew that he wanted to<br />

make acting a career, but his family<br />

was not thrilled with the idea of a<br />

college degree in theater. To appease<br />

them, and to have something to fall<br />

back on if needed, he majored in finance<br />

at Wayne State University,<br />

where he graduated Cum Laude.<br />

His academic success notwithstanding,<br />

Babi is still determined to<br />

make it as an actor. He’s appeared<br />

in 10 short films (having the lead in<br />

all but one) and starred in numerous<br />

commercials for companies like Henry<br />

Ford Hospital, Art Van and Match.<br />

Com. His work in one independent<br />

film, Detroit Unleaded, was seen at<br />

22 film festivals around the world<br />

and won him the Best Performance<br />

award at the New Haven (Connecticut)<br />

Film Festival. Babi, who lives in<br />

West Bloomfield, also co-wrote, codirected<br />

and co-starred in the Chaldean<br />

Comedy Show, which played to<br />

large crowds at Shenandoah Country<br />

Club a few years ago.<br />

His latest achievement is landing<br />

a small role in Crave, a movie starring<br />

Edward Furlong and Ron Perlman<br />

Lamar Babi: “You have to make things happen yourself.”<br />

that comes out later this year. “I’m in<br />

two scenes and only have about five<br />

or six lines, but it got me my SAG<br />

card,” Babi said. Having that Screen<br />

Actor’s Guild card is essential for any<br />

actor who wants to work in big studio<br />

productions.<br />

But Babi is not ready to quit his<br />

day – or night – jobs yet. He manages<br />

the family liquor store, Corner<br />

Market, in White Lake and bartends<br />

nights at another family business, the<br />

sports bar Scores in Farmington Hills.<br />

He is doing an internship at Greenlight<br />

Films, a Northville production<br />

company, and takes a method acting<br />

class that meets weekly in Ferndale.<br />

Despite all that, Babi stays busy<br />

with the community, serving as a Eucharist<br />

minister at St. Thomas Chaldean<br />

Catholic Church and a leader<br />

with the youth group CLC (Chaldeans<br />

Loving Christ).<br />

“If you want to do something<br />

you’re going to do it,” Babi said.<br />

“Even though I work at the bar on<br />

Saturdays and don’t get home until<br />

3:30 in the morning, I get up for<br />

church every Sunday. This is more<br />

important to me than anything.”<br />

Generous tax credits have lured<br />

many film productions to Michigan<br />

– just in the nick of time for Babi, who<br />

had planned to move to Los Angeles<br />

to pursue acting. “It’s a blessing. Now<br />

everywhere you turn people say, ‘don’t<br />

go anywhere right now – there is more<br />

being shot here than in LA,’” he said.<br />

That finance degree may still<br />

come in handy down the road. “I<br />

like the business end of films too,”<br />

Babi said. “I might get into producing<br />

or directing at some point later<br />

on – way later.”<br />

While he’s not about to turn his<br />

back should fame and fortune come<br />

his way, Babi said he will define success<br />

by winning an Academy Award<br />

– and being a positive role model in<br />

the Chaldean community.<br />

“I want to be someone people respect<br />

and admire not only as an actor,<br />

but as a person. I’d like to be able to<br />

use the celebrity and recognition you<br />

get and give back,” he said. “Much<br />

more than anything else, I’d like to<br />

inspire young people to not go in a<br />

negative way – to show that you can<br />

do things that are really important<br />

and something you dream of without<br />

going the wrong route, by following<br />

God and making sure you stay on the<br />

right track. It’s like that Robert Frost<br />

poem: two roads diverged and I took<br />

the one less taken – especially in our<br />

community.”<br />

34 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong>


PRIESTLY profile<br />

Rev. Emmanuel Rayes: Still going strong —<br />

and strongly opinioned — at 80<br />

By Weam Namou<br />

Upon entering one of the<br />

home quarters adjacent to<br />

the St. Thomas Chaldean<br />

Catholic Church chancery office in<br />

West Bloomfield, one would presume<br />

it’s a writer’s sanctuary. Bookshelves<br />

upon bookshelves fill the incensed<br />

dwelling, and there are stacks of<br />

manuscripts everywhere.<br />

The home belongs to Fr. Emmanuel<br />

Rayes, who was nicknamed<br />

Khalil Gibran when he was in the<br />

seminary.<br />

“I love writing,” said Fr. Rayes<br />

with a Syrian accent. “I always enjoyed<br />

and appreciated literature and<br />

poetry.”<br />

The author of more than a dozen<br />

books and the translator of just as<br />

many, Fr. Rayes writes an average of<br />

eight hours per day. He was once the<br />

editor-in-chief of the Al Mishal (The<br />

Torch) and Al-Tariq (The Way)<br />

magazines. Today he writes Arabic<br />

and French articles and continues<br />

to translate many books from French<br />

and English into Arabic.<br />

Born in 1930 in the village of<br />

Araden, Fr. Rayes is pleasant in nature<br />

and has a wonderful sense of<br />

humor. He initially brushed off the<br />

idea of being interviewed, claiming<br />

with great laughter, “I’m not of that<br />

caliber!”<br />

He even deglamorizes his “calling”<br />

by simply stating that he fell<br />

into priesthood “by coincidence” at<br />

the age of 12.<br />

“I used to hate priests,” he said.<br />

“Then one day the Bishop came to<br />

our house for lunch and I was captivated<br />

by his words and mannerism.<br />

He asked me whether I wanted to<br />

enter the seminary. I wanted to reply<br />

no, but was too embarrassed and<br />

afraid to do so, so I said yes.”<br />

He entered St. John Dominican<br />

Seminary not knowing that he would<br />

end up liking the priests and environment<br />

there to the point of continuing<br />

with this vocation. He has since<br />

never regretted his decision. On the<br />

contrary, he has been very happy, his<br />

only challenge having been the time<br />

when he’d separate from his family.<br />

Fr. Rayes was ordained to the<br />

priesthood in 1954. In 1963, he was<br />

sent to minister in Syria, where he<br />

remained for 17 years. He then lived<br />

in Lebanon for one year before arriving<br />

to the United States in 1980.<br />

“I came here at age 50,” he said,<br />

“so it was more difficult for me<br />

to adapt than it would someone<br />

younger.”<br />

Form 1980 to 1983, Fr. Rayes was<br />

Fr. Emmanuel<br />

Rayes is known for<br />

speaking his mind.<br />

appointed associate pastor at Mother<br />

of God Parish in Southfield. From<br />

1983 to 1989 he served as pastor at<br />

Sacred Heart Parish in Detroit, then<br />

during the early 1990s ministered to<br />

the Chaldean community in Farmington<br />

Hills and was at St. Joseph<br />

Parish in Troy, where he was Parochial<br />

Vicar until 2000.<br />

Although Fr. Rayes retired in<br />

2001 due to health problems, he remains<br />

active in serving the community,<br />

a community he believes will be<br />

drastically changed in the future.<br />

“I expect that the Chaldean<br />

church will not last more than 50<br />

years,” he said. “Eventually, it will<br />

become all American.”<br />

Is he saddened by this likelihood?<br />

Not necessarily.<br />

“Our roles are that of St. John<br />

the Baptist,” he explained. “We prepare<br />

for Jesus to come. We protect<br />

and maintain the Catholic faith and<br />

teachings and give it to our children,<br />

the next generation.”<br />

A number of factors will attribute<br />

to this extinction, Fr. Rayes<br />

believes, including Chaldeans placing<br />

money as their number-one priority<br />

– even if it means attaining it<br />

illegally – and the division caused<br />

by prejudice amongst Iraqi Christians.<br />

“People have treated one’s label<br />

like in a caste system,” he said of<br />

the Chaldean, Assyrian and Syriac<br />

names. “If you’re Chaldean or not,<br />

then you’re on a higher or lower class<br />

than someone of a different sect.”<br />

What can Chaldeans do to<br />

change their lot?<br />

“Become more open minded<br />

– especially with issues of equality<br />

between men and women,” said Fr.<br />

Rayes.<br />

Describing them as “shallow,”<br />

Fr. Rayes feels that many of the<br />

Chaldeans who immigrated to the<br />

U.S. held onto the ancient Iraqi<br />

traditions rather than adapt to their<br />

new country. This caused a wall between<br />

them and their Americanized<br />

children, led to control issues<br />

and pushed the youth to turn to<br />

harmful behavior.<br />

Another issue that will lead to<br />

the Chaldean church’s deterioration<br />

is that only 10 percent of Chaldeans<br />

attend church, said Fr. Rayes.<br />

“We’ve lost many of them to other<br />

Christian sects,” he said. “Those who<br />

left their countries, the refugees, were<br />

fished out by Protestants and Evangelicals.<br />

We didn’t get to them in time.”<br />

He regretfully admits that there<br />

hasn’t been enough care provided for<br />

the Iraqi refugees living in America,<br />

who are experiencing poor and miserable<br />

conditions.<br />

“We should’ve done more,” he<br />

said.<br />

The job of the priest has become<br />

more administrative, he lamented.<br />

In the past, priests were more active<br />

within the community, one of their<br />

tasks being to visit peoples’ homes.<br />

Because families increased and priests<br />

decreased in number, the priests were<br />

unable to maintain that type of close<br />

interaction.<br />

“I wish for newness in the church,”<br />

Fr. Rayes said. “The next generations<br />

of priests are our only hope.”<br />

<strong>FEBRUARY</strong> <strong>2010</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 35


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1<br />

KIDS corner<br />

Make Lent Special<br />

Lent begins on Monday, February 15. The Jelly Bean Prayer<br />

Start with<br />

a large<br />

glass jar<br />

filled with<br />

jellybeans<br />

and tape<br />

the Jelly<br />

Bean<br />

Prayer to<br />

it. Each day<br />

pick out a<br />

jelly bean<br />

and let<br />

the color<br />

determine<br />

your action.<br />

helps us reflect on what it’s all about.<br />

Red is for the<br />

blood Christ gave.<br />

Choose something<br />

to sacrifice.<br />

Green is for the<br />

palm’s cool shade.<br />

Choose a good<br />

deed to do.<br />

2<br />

Note:<br />

You<br />

can’t eat<br />

the jelly beans<br />

until Easter<br />

– and you will<br />

never eat the<br />

white ones,<br />

because they<br />

represent the<br />

Grace<br />

of Christ,<br />

which is not a<br />

gift we earn<br />

ourselves.<br />

Red is for the blood He gave.<br />

Green is for the grass He made.<br />

Yellow is for the sun so bright.<br />

Orange is for the edge of night.<br />

Black is for the sins we made.<br />

White is for the grace He gave.<br />

Purple is for His hour of sorrow.<br />

Pink is for our new tomorrow.<br />

A bag full of jelly beans<br />

Colorful and sweet,<br />

Is a prayer, is a promise,<br />

Is a special treat<br />

May the joy of Christ’s resurrection<br />

Fill your heart and bless your life.<br />

Yellow is for God’s<br />

light so bright. Do<br />

something kind for<br />

another to share<br />

God’s light.<br />

Orange is for<br />

prayers at twilight.<br />

Say an extra prayer<br />

at bedtime or read<br />

a Bible story.<br />

Black is for sweet<br />

rest at night. Go to<br />

bed right on time<br />

with no arguing!<br />

White is for the<br />

Grace of Christ.<br />

Reflect on God’s<br />

goodness in<br />

your life.<br />

3<br />

Save up<br />

all the<br />

jellybeans<br />

and eat<br />

them up<br />

on Easter<br />

– Sunday,<br />

April 4.<br />

They will<br />

never taste<br />

sweeter!<br />

Purple is for His<br />

days of sorrow.<br />

Apologize to<br />

anyone you have<br />

hurt with words or<br />

deeds.<br />

Pink is for each<br />

new tomorrow.<br />

Forgive someone<br />

for hurting you<br />

with their words or<br />

deeds.<br />

WORD<br />

SEARCH<br />

Lent<br />

Forgiveness<br />

Sacrifice<br />

Grace<br />

Apologize<br />

Reflect<br />

Goodness<br />

D u i s g r a v i d a l e o e g e t e r o s p l a c<br />

e r a t b i b e n d u m P r a e s e n t r t g d r p<br />

p i s e l i t g r a v i d a a c i m p e r d i e t r<br />

s a c r i f i c e l a c e r a t e g e t n i s l S a<br />

e r a t l i b e r o a d i p i s c i n g a t a d i y<br />

i s c i n g a p o l o g i z e n t e t s a p i e c e<br />

N u n c n i b h i p s u m v e n e n a t i s u d t r<br />

p u l v i n a r e g e t r u t r u m s i t a m e t o<br />

g o o d n e s s t e t d i c t u m o r c i V i v d a<br />

r u s p e l l e n t e s q u e d u i e t l a c u s r<br />

a l i q u e t v u f o r g i v e n e s s m u s a t s<br />

c e l c r i s q u e e s t N u l l a m a d d a p i t<br />

e u s h u g u e V e s t i b u l u m e u n e q u e l<br />

u i s u p s u m e u i s m o d v u l p u d t a t r e<br />

P e l r e f l e c t u e e g e t d o l o d r e t a n<br />

t e s c s c i p i t u l t r i c i e s s e d a c l t<br />

r e m h o n e c r h o n c u s j e l l y b e a n k d<br />

Prayer<br />

– Courtesy of<br />

www.CatholicMom.com.<br />

Church<br />

Jellybean<br />

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