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Autumn in Costa Blanca is cool at night at amazingly hot during the day, there is always time to find a nice quiet cool place to read the latest edition of Out and About magazine which is all about what's going on locally with restaurants, bars, and entertainment. During autumn you can enjoy so much without having to worry too much about the heat and that's why we see more visitors from the UK and Norway than any other time of year.
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AGONY UNCLE OCTOBER 2021 | 9<br />
hedges on the health and care<br />
of your father, and he currently<br />
isn’t the person calling you back<br />
home, anyway. Steer away from<br />
any emotional blackmail. Tell your<br />
sister that you will always do<br />
whatever you feel that you can do,<br />
and she will have to be satisfied<br />
with that, for now.<br />
The annual anniversary of the death of<br />
my husband is approaching and I am<br />
always so depressed as I miss him so<br />
very much. I do not sleep well nor do I<br />
eat properly and my stress levels are at<br />
an all time high every September. There<br />
is no use telling me that I should get<br />
over this, every year is worse and I will<br />
never ever be the same again.<br />
Merle. Denia<br />
I am sorry for your loss. I do think<br />
however that you cannot change<br />
what has happened by honouring<br />
your husband’s demise with your<br />
sorrow. There are many other ways<br />
to show the man that you still love<br />
that you are continuing to live<br />
your life and getting on with all the<br />
things that you must. I am sure that<br />
he would not want to hear of your<br />
grieving and risking your physical<br />
and mental health levels recalling<br />
the painful month of his death,<br />
by suffering. Rather still, accept<br />
as an anniversary your wedding<br />
day, or his or your birthday, or<br />
the memories of a special holiday<br />
together. If you celebrate by<br />
remembering happy times then<br />
that love that brought you together<br />
can be suitably honoured with<br />
a beautiful smile as a treasured<br />
memory of your very special<br />
relationship.<br />
Readers can now send their questions and problems<br />
@<br />
to a newly appointed Agony Uncle. He is a Therapist,<br />
Counsellor, Psychologist and Life Coach and will be answering the best from his mailbox exclusively here<br />
in Out and About, every month. Every email gets a personal reply from Agony Uncle and with your consent,<br />
and subject to space; question and reply can be printed in a future edition of Out and About. Names and/or<br />
locations will be disguised assuring confidentiality. Email to: relojdesol@mail.com<br />
Due to the success of the current exhibition, it has been extended till 31-<strong>Oct</strong>-21.<br />
Local artist David Biglands<br />
is displaying contemporary illustrations<br />
at LIBRERÍA EUROPA BOOKSHOP,<br />
Calle Oscar Esplá 2, CALPE, 965835824.<br />
MONDAY TO FRIDAY 10.00- 14.00 & 17.00 - 20.00. SATURDAYS 10.00 - 14.00.<br />
ADMISSION<br />
FREE
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