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Autumn in Costa Blanca is cool at night at amazingly hot during the day, there is always time to find a nice quiet cool place to read the latest edition of Out and About magazine which is all about what's going on locally with restaurants, bars, and entertainment. During autumn you can enjoy so much without having to worry too much about the heat and that's why we see more visitors from the UK and Norway than any other time of year.
Autumn in Costa Blanca is cool at night at amazingly hot during the day, there is always time to find a nice quiet cool place to read the latest edition of Out and About magazine which is all about what's going on locally with restaurants, bars, and entertainment. During autumn you can enjoy so much without having to worry too much about the heat and that's why we see more visitors from the UK and Norway than any other time of year.
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8 | OUT AND ABOUT COSTA BLANCA<br />
AGONY UNCLE<br />
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Can our AGONY UNCLE help you<br />
Readers<br />
Letters<br />
Email to: relojdesol@mail.com<br />
My boyfriend and I have been living<br />
together very happily for three years.<br />
Lately though I have noticed that he seems<br />
more tired and pays me less attention<br />
than he did. I am scared that he may have<br />
another woman in his life, and I keep<br />
thinking what am I doing wrong?<br />
Elisabeth. Calpe<br />
Relationships change. After three<br />
years together you are probably<br />
very comfortable together, but the<br />
relationship may change for many<br />
reasons, and not necessarily because<br />
he has met someone else. If home<br />
life is happy and you are content<br />
living together then the relationship<br />
moves into a comfortable slot. If you<br />
are looking for signs of his infidelity<br />
and worrying that you are doing<br />
something wrong then something is<br />
wrong, and you are insecure as his<br />
partner. The only way to resolve this<br />
is not to look for clues, or to accuse,<br />
but simply talk to each other. He<br />
shouldn’t need reminding about being<br />
your partner, and you really have to<br />
eliminate your suspicions and have<br />
trust in your ongoing relationship.<br />
My Father lives alone back in the UK<br />
and we have not seen each other for some<br />
time because of the current restrictions.<br />
My older sister, who lives nearby him,<br />
has suggested that it is time for me to<br />
return to live in the UK so that we can<br />
share the care of Dad. Currently he is in<br />
good health and under the watchful eye<br />
of my Sister, but I cannot face returning<br />
to live back in the UK. I do not want to<br />
upset my Sister, but this may not be an<br />
option.<br />
Pat. Sagra<br />
If you are needed then you can think<br />
about going back temporarily, when<br />
needed, to help to share the care of<br />
your father. I trust that your<br />
Sister chose to live where she does,<br />
and that gives you the right to live<br />
where you want to too. When, and<br />
if any care is needed for your father<br />
then your Sister may call you to<br />
help when the time comes. You are<br />
not denying your responsibility but<br />
you are stating the facts that you<br />
may continue to be resident in the<br />
Country that you have chosen to<br />
live in, as your right. Everything
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