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elationships<br />

It takes two<br />

Spend some quality time together, with these<br />

five mindful activities for couples<br />

Writing | Kathryn Wheeler<br />

Offer a sensual massage<br />

You don’t have to be a master<br />

masseuse to take your partner<br />

on a relaxing mind and body<br />

journey. YouTube has a huge<br />

selection of tutorials for basic<br />

massage techniques that you can<br />

try out. Just remember, take it<br />

slow, keep it simple, and tune-in<br />

to what works for your partner.<br />

Create a shared vision board<br />

Vision boards are all about<br />

putting together a picture of the<br />

future that you want. What’s the<br />

next step in your relationship?<br />

Perhaps there’s an experience<br />

you always wanted to try<br />

together, a project you want to<br />

undertake, or maybe there are<br />

big life milestones waiting for you<br />

just around the corner, such as<br />

buying a house, or heading into<br />

retirement. Whatever it is, get<br />

creative and visualise your future<br />

on the board.<br />

Spend time in<br />

nature together<br />

Tuning-in to the sensations of<br />

the natural world around us can<br />

transform our mindset – and<br />

getting back to your roots with<br />

your partner by your side makes<br />

it all the more rewarding. Do you<br />

have a favourite spot that has a<br />

special meaning to you? A view<br />

that takes your breath away? Or a<br />

route you have fond memories of<br />

walking together? Tie your laces<br />

and head on out.<br />

Declutter your space<br />

It may sound more like a chore<br />

than an exercise in mindfulness,<br />

but you could be surprised at<br />

how cleaning and tidying can<br />

help us to switch off and unwind.<br />

Choose an area of your home<br />

you want to focus on. If your aim<br />

is to declutter, take a moment<br />

to consider each item you come<br />

across – does it have a particular<br />

meaning to you? Does it spark<br />

any emotions? And once you’re<br />

done, you can both relax in a<br />

fresh, clean environment.<br />

Couples yoga<br />

When you think of ‘couples yoga’,<br />

your mind may automatically<br />

go to the acrobatic feats often<br />

shared online. But, in reality,<br />

couples yoga can be done at any<br />

level, and is much more about<br />

tuning-in to each other’s bodies,<br />

aligning your breath, and finding<br />

support in your partner, than it<br />

is about pulling off impressive<br />

shapes. Search on YouTube for<br />

free introductory videos.<br />

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