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Sep • Oct • Nov 2020
Volume 17 Issue 1
Three Months of Devotions:
"Beginnings"
13 Week Study through
Genesis, John, and more.
Feature Article:
“There Has to Be More”: An Interview with Justin Jackson
Features:
Gender Identity
18 and Pregnant
#neverthirstagain
Bible in a Year
Chronological Bible Reading Schedule
If you’d like to read the Bible through in a year’s time, you
can follow this plan—reading a few chapters each day in
the order that events occurred. By next August 31, you’ll
finish up with Revelation!
❏ 9/01 Gen 1-3
❏ 9/02 Gen 4-7
❏ 9/03 Gen 8-11
❏ 9/04 Job 1-5
❏ 9/05 Job 6-9
❏ 9/06 Job 10-13
❏ 9/07 Job 14-16
❏ 9/08 Job 17-20
❏ 9/09 Job 21-23
❏ 9/10 Job 24-28
❏ 9/11 Job 29-31
❏ 9/12 Job 32-34
❏ 9/13 Job 35-37
❏ 9/14 Job 38-39
❏ 9/15 Job 40-42
❏ 9/16 Gen 12-15
❏ 9/17 Gen 16-18
❏ 9/18 Gen 19-21
❏ 9/19 Gen 22-24
❏ 9/20 Gen 25-26
❏ 9/21 Gen 27-29
❏ 9/22 Gen 30-31
❏ 9/23 Gen 32-34
❏ 9/24 Gen 35-37
❏ 9/25 Gen 38-40
❏ 9/26 Gen 41-42
❏ 9/27 Gen 43-45
❏ 9/28 Gen 46-47
❏ 9/29 Gen 48-50
❏ 9/30 Ex 1-3
❏ 10/01 Ex 4-6
❏ 10/02 Ex 7-9
❏ 10/03 Ex 10-12
❏ 10/04 Ex 13-15
❏ 10/05 Ex 16-18
❏ 10/06 Ex 19-21
❏ 10/07 Ex 22-24
❏ 10/08 Ex 25-27
❏ 10/09 Ex 28-29
❏ 10/10 Ex 30-32
❏ 10/11 Ex 33-35
❏ 10/12 Ex 36-38
❏ 10/13 Ex 39-40
❏ 10/14 Lev 1-4
❏ 10/15 Lev 5-7
❏ 10/16 Lev 8-10
❏ 10/17 Lev 11-13
❏ 10/18 Lev 14-15
❏ 10/19 Lev 16-18
❏ 10/20 Lev 19-21
❏ 10/21 Lev 22-23
❏ 10/22 Lev 24-25
❏ 10/23 Lev 26-27
❏ 10/24 Num 1-2
❏ 10/25 Num 3-4
❏ 10/26 Num 5-6
❏ 10/27 Num 7
❏ 10/28 Num 8-10
❏ 10/29 Num 11-13
❏ 10/30 Num 14-15;
Ps 90
❏ 10/31 Num 16-17
❏ 11/01 Num 18-20
❏ 11/02 Num 21-22
❏ 11/03 Num 23-25
❏ 11/04 Num 26-27
❏ 11/05 Num 28-30
❏ 11/06 Num 31-32
❏ 11/07 Num 33-34
❏ 11/08 Num 35-37
❏ 11/09 Deu 1-2
❏ 11/10 Deu 3-4
❏ 11/11 Deu 5-7
❏ 11/12 Deu 8-10
❏ 11/13 Deu 11-13
❏ 11/14 Deu 14-16
❏ 11/15 Deu 17-20
❏ 11/16 Deu 21-23
❏ 11/17 Deu 24-27
❏ 11/18 Deu 28-29
❏ 11/19 Deu 30-31
❏ 11/20 Deu 32-34;
Ps 91
❏ 11/21 Jos 1-4
❏ 11/22 Jos 5-8
❏ 11/23 Jos 9-11
❏ 11/24 Jos 12-15
❏ 11/25 Jos 16-18
❏ 11/26 Jos 19-21
❏ 11/27 Jos 22-24
❏ 11/28 Judg 1-2
❏ 11/29 Judg 3-5
❏ 11/30 Judg 6-7
Devotional Magazine
Sep • Oct • Nov 2020
Volume 17 Issue 1
ISSN 2168-4677
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Devotions
Beginnings. That’s the theme of this fall’s study in Forward magazine and the new D6 EveryDay Curriculum.
We will hit the high points from the book of Genesis with our study of the text and some foundational
lessons in apologetics. We will look at the gospel of John and his introduction to the ministry of Jesus Christ.
Then we’ll finish the quarter with Job and a lesson about suffering.
Every day, you’ll find devotions that give you a Scripture to read, a short devotional thought, something to
meditate on or journal about, and then a follow-up challenge.
You’ll also see the beginning of some new features in Forward: a new column by author and youth pastor Jon
Forrest (Forrest Fire) and a new EveryDay DIY project will be in each issue. Interviews and articles and fun
pages continue to offer you profitable reading. You’ll enjoy what you are learning but also be able to launch
conversations with your friends and family. Every day, be intentional about being an authentic Christfollower,
building your faith, and sharing it with others.
07 September
08 Week One
September 5 - 11
God Created
Everything
10 Week Two
September 12 - 18
How Can I Know
God Exists?
12 Week Three
September 19 - 25
God's Design for
Men & Women
14 Week Four
Sept. 26 - Oct. 2
Sin Entered
the World
25 October
26 Week Five
October 3 - 9
Grace Extended
in Judgment
28 Week Six
October 10 - 16
God Opposes Pride
30 Week Seven
October 17 - 23
Jesus Is God
32 Week Eight
October 24 - 30
Jesus Offers New Life
43 November
44 Week Nine
Oct. 31 - Nov. 6
Jesus Meets Our
Deepest Needs
46 Week Ten
November 7 - 13
Jesus Works Miracles
48 Week Eleven
November 14 - 20
Jesus Has Power
Over Death
50 Week Twelve
November 21 - 27
Faith Is Tested
by Trials
52 Week Thirteen
Nov. 28 - Dec. 4
Why Does God
Allow Suffering?
2 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Contents
Features
____________________________
04
04 “There Has to Be More”:
An Interview with
Justin Jackson
Editor David Jones talked to NBA
Mavericks Star, Justin Jackson,
about his commitment to Christ
and his opportunity to share the
gospel, even on the basketball
court.
16 Gender Identity
John Stonestreet and Brett
Kunkle warn against swallowing
society’s lies about gender and
encourage believers to embrace
our Creator’s design for male
and female.
20 18 and Pregnant
Following God’s design for sexuality
includes setting boundaries
for sex outside of marriage. This
honest first-person account
addresses the regrets and heartache
that come when we disregard
His instructions. The story
doesn’t end there though.
34 #neverthirstagain
The woman at the well didn’t
have an iPhone, but she probably
faced the same pressures to
conform to the opinions of her
neighbors that you and I do. Jesus
confronted her insecurities
and emptiness and met her true
needs.
Highlights
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19 By the Numbers
20 Man to Man
21 Girl Talk
25 Pop Goes the Culture
37 Between the Pages
38 EveryDay DIY: Rolled Paper Art
40 Around the World
43 One of These Things
Is Not Like the Others
54 Cartoon Beginnings
55 Forrest Fire
56 Top 10
16
20 34
57 All About the Beginning
3
“ There
Has
to Be
More”
An Interview
with Justin Jackson
“For three years I was one of the luckiest
guys in the world because I got to coach
Justin Jackson.”
Those were the words of Hall of Fame
coach Roy Williams as Jackson’s number
44 jersey was unveiled in the Smith
Center rafters at the University of
North Carolina. As a basketball star, Justin
Jackson won ACC Player of the Year
honors and a national championship
before setting his sights on the NBA.
Now a member of the Dallas Mavericks,
Justin acknowledges that it wasn’t just
his basketball skills that developed in
college, but also his faith in God.
4 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
I know that your family moved around a lot
when you were growing up. How would you
describe what your childhood was like?
I loved it. We lived in the same place about four
years at a time. We were able to see different
places and make some good friends all over the
place. I have a little brother and two little sisters.
We were all so close, and we still are. We literally
did everything together growing up. I loved my
childhood.
You've been very outspoken about your faith.
When did it begin to take shape?
I grew up in a family of believers. Every Sunday
and Wednesday we’d go to church, and I grew up
in Awana. I would always hear stories of people
who grew up in the same sort of family setup as
I did, and the stories would say that eventually
it has to become your own faith. For me, it didn’t
truly become mine until probably my second or
third year in college.
When I first got to college, I kind of went away
from it. When I say “away,” I don't mean I said,
“Forget God, I'm doing my thing,” but I went
away from what I said I believed in for a while. I
still said I was a believer and went to church. But
for a while I was just doing it because I felt like it
was what I was supposed to be doing. Eventually
it got to the point where I said, “This is mine. He
is my Father. He is my Creator.” Once I got to that
standpoint, it changed everything for me.
I always tell the story about what happened
after we won the National Championship. The
next day we flew back and had a pep rally with
a bunch of fans. After we finished, I sat there
and thought, Okay, what's next? What else is
there? What we had always worked for—what
everybody in college basketball works for—was a
chance to get to the Final Four and win a championship.
That was the top of the top, and we
had just done that. Yet I felt, “There's supposed
to be more. There has to be more than this “right
now” sort of success. There has to be more.”
I always tell the story about
what happened after we won
the National Championship.
The next day we flew back and
had a pep rally with a bunch of
fans. After we finished, I sat
there and thought, Okay, what's
next? What else is there?
After three years at the University of North
Carolina, you made the jump to the NBA, but you
later went back to UNC and earned your degree.
Why was that so important for you to do?
It started out as a promise. I had promised my
family I would finish no matter when I left. I was
only a year away and had about 15 credits left.
However long my NBA career lasts, that's a very,
very small amount of time in the whole scheme
of life. Having that [degree] to fall back on and do
something with is pretty important.
You've had a lot of accolades come your way.
You were a top recruit out of high school, ACC
Player of the Year, a national champion, and an
NBA first round pick. With so much of your life
revolving around basketball, how do you keep
that from being what defines you?
I always say you have to find things you enjoy
outside of your career. I've been blessed that
my career is something I love, but at the same
time, it is my job. And so for me, it's finding other
things.
Thankfully I have a wonderful wife who shares
the same [spiritual] beliefs. When I come home
5
from a game or practice and things might not
have gone well, she's very good at reminding me
that I'm way more than a basketball player. It
is a matter of realizing you are way more than
whatever your career is. I think a lot of people
fall into that [trap]. At the end of the day, God has
placed us in whatever career we're in, but that
isn’t the main reason He created us.
How do you keep yourself grounded and focused
on what's most important?
It’s about always remembering what my purpose
is. When I got drafted, my wife and I saw
it as a huge blessing. We were so excited, but we
used that opportunity to say, “We're going to try
to make this world a better place.” For me, that
looks like being a great teammate or being a guy
that everybody can talk to or hang out with.
There are a lot of judgmental believers out there
who think they are way better than people who
don't believe because of the fact that they have
God. I put my faith in God a while back and I
know where I'm going, but at the same time I’m
called to walk through this life with people who
might not be believers and hopefully lead them
to Christ. That's kind of my mindset. Whether
I'm playing a lot, playing well, not playing well, or
whatever it is, I try to be that guy who can walk
through life with believers and non-believers
and be that example of who we're called to be.
You mentioned that idea of wanting to make
the world a better place. You and your wife are
doing incredible work with GiGi’s Playhouse.
Why is that organization so meaningful to you?
GiGi’s Playhouse is an achievement center for
individuals with Down syndrome. That sounds
complicated but really it’s just a place where people
with Down syndrome can go and do normal
activities. A lot of times people with disabilities,
especially people with Down syndrome, are told
they can't do certain things. But with GiGi’s Playhouse,
there is a school aspect where they go and
have school just like everybody else. It’s a place
where they can go and do cooking classes or do
arts and crafts. It’s a place for them to feel loved
and feel as normal as we do. My wife has an aunt
who has Down syndrome. While my wife was at
the University of Florida, she volunteered at the
location in Gainesville. When I got drafted and
went to Sacramento, she said, “I feel like I’m being
led to bring one out here.” We connected with
some awesome families out there. We’re still in
the process of raising as much money as we can
so we can keep it going. It's a pretty neat deal.
A lot of times people feel like they
have to go a certain path, and
if they don't do it, then they're
a failure . . . . Don't feel like you
have to pursue something
because so-and-so says it.
6 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Today’s teenagers are facing so much
pressure to have their entire lives
mapped out before they even leave
high school. What advice would you
offer to the teenager struggling to
figure out the next steps?
A lot of times people feel like they have
to go a certain path, and if they don't do
it, then they're a failure. As a teenager,
you really have no idea what you want
to do. You have things you love to do, so
continue to do those things. Sometimes
teenagers can be a lot harder on themselves
than they should be. The amount
of responsibilities you have as a teenager
compared to once you get older
is almost zero. So enjoy it, and enjoy
whatever you're doing! Don't feel like
you have to pursue something because
so-and-so says it. And if you make a
mistake, get back up and keep going.
When I was as a kid, I was so hard on
myself when I would make a mistake.
And most of those mistakes were so
small, but in my mind I thought, This
the end of the world! Keep striving for
what is important, and always try to
have fun with it.
Since you're playing in Dallas,
settle the debate: In-N-Out or
Whataburger?
Oh, it's definitely Whataburger.
Who is the one defender you don't want to see staring
you down on the court?
That's tough. There's some very obvious ones—guys like
Kawhi, and when LeBron is really locked in, he’s a tough
guy to score on. There are a lot of good defenders, and
a lot of different styles of defending, so it's hard to pick
one.
Which of your teammates is the worst at video games?
That's a hard one. It depends on what game we’re playing.
If we're playing Call of Duty or something like that,
Courtney Lee is our worst. But if we're playing [NBA] 2K,
then I'm probably right there. I'm not a big sports gamer.
Is it surreal to see yourself on NBA 2K?
It's definitely weird. But it's for sure cool. I think every
kid growing up in sports has that goal. But I feel weird
playing as myself. It's not a normal thing.
September Quick Look
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Pet Rock Day
13
Grandparents’
Day
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Batman Day
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Good Neighbor
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Teddy Bear Day
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Ask a Stupid
Question Day
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World Suicide
Prevention Day
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Constitution Day
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Cheeseburger
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Comic Book Day
Doodle Day
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Video
Games Day
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Talk Like
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Week One:
September 5 - 11, 2020
Theme:
God Created Everything
Study Text: Genesis 9:1–17
Saturday - Sunday
Read Genesis 1:1—2:3
Monday
Read Genesis 9:1–17
Tuesday
Read Exodus 20:8–11
Suppose you filled a piñata with
tiny pieces of candy. Now suppose
you shattered that piñata and
watched the candy pieces fly in a
hundred different directions, each
one landing in a predetermined
location to form the words, Happy
Birthday. Not a single piece missed
its mark. That seems pretty ludicrous,
doesn’t it?
Sadly, many people accept a similar
theory to explain the origin of
the universe: the Big Bang Theory.
God’s Word, though, paints a far
more creative, purposeful picture
of the origin of everything we see.
According to Genesis, our Lord
turned on the lights, not with the
flip of a switch, but with the echo
of a powerful word. He simply said,
“Let it be.” And it was.
Meditate
In what ways do you reflect the
attributes of the Creator, the One
who created you in His image?
Demonstrate
Memorize Genesis 1:1 and say it
often throughout the week.
According to the National Geographic
Society, the cheetah can
go from 0 miles per hour to 60
in only three seconds. The only
way I move 60 miles per hour is
behind the steering wheel of my
Chevy. I also learned from National
Geographic that female cheetahs
give birth to three cubs at a time. In
the human realm, twins are a rarity;
triplets are almost impossible to
imagine.
Cheetahs might seem superior to
humans in speed and reproduction,
but God didn’t task them with
filling the earth with a multitude
of Chesters. He chose people to
fill it because only humans were
created with souls and the ability
to follow the One who created
them. Noah received marching
orders to reproduce and to share
with a new generation the promise
of life through God. God values
humankind.
Meditate
What can you do to encourage
your friends and family to come to
faith in God?
Demonstrate
Write Matthew 5:16 on a sticky
note and put it on your bathroom
mirror as a reminder of God’s purpose
for you
Sometimes you have to work really
hard on Sunday. I first discovered
this truth as a senior in high school,
overwhelmed by a looming research
paper, yet dutifully sitting
in church in my dress and uncomfortable
shoes. Even with all of my
diligence and devotion to godly
matters, thoughts of my assignment
still crept in. Before I knew it
I was making mental outlines and
considering killer statistics that
backed up my points. Suddenly,
Sunday wasn’t holy.
The words of Exodus 20:8 don't
simply mean that we should
remember the Sabbath day like
we would remember to brush our
teeth or remember to show up
for school on Monday. We are to
earnestly remember the Sabbath
day, to set it apart as holy. Make it
a point to make Jesus the point of
your Sunday.
Meditate
What does it mean to keep the
Sabbath holy? What does this
commandment permit or forbid?
Demonstrate
Don’t beat yourself up spiritually
when you fail to achieve perfect
focus on Christ on a given Sunday.
When you get distracted, take
a deep breath and refocus your
thoughts on Him.
8 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Wednesday
Read Psalm 8:5-9
I recently ate lunch with a friend
at the top of a tall, glass building.
The view was incredible. As I gazed
down on the fragile-looking, antsized
people scurrying about on
the sidewalk below, I wondered if
my view was similar to God’s as He
looks down on His chosen creation.
Surely we seem vulnerable
and insignificant.
The psalmist experienced a similar
sense of wonder as he considered
God’s handiwork all around him.
As he described God’s viewpoint,
though, he depicted something
much different from what I had
imagined. When our Creator gazes
upon us, He doesn’t see weak
little creatures; He sees royalty.
Although even a cardboard Burger
King crown is more than we have
earned, the God who hung the
moon and calls the stars by name
gives His people glory and honor.
Meditate
How do these verses define your
real worth? How does this definition
differ from the way the world
values you?
Demonstrate
Commit to viewing and treating
yourself and those around you as
what you are: crown jewels of our
Heavenly Father.
Thursday
Read Psalm 136:3–9
You’ve probably sung some “camp
songs,” like “Michael, Row the
Boat Ashore” or “Kumbaya,” with a
repeated phrase that may or may
not have formed an earworm in
your brain. Maybe Psalm 136 was a
camp song! Imagine singing verses
3–9 around the campfire as you
looked up at the stars. The repeated
phrase certainly drilled home
a vital truth for them (and us) to
remember.
This psalm serves as a history
lesson for the children of Israel, beginning
at Creation. God’s design
is evident in the wonders of the
sun, moon, and stars. We continue
to marvel at the expanse of the
universe and continue to rejoice
in God’s enduring mercy to us—as
high as the heavens are above the
earth (Psalm 103:11).
Meditate
When was the last time you got
a good glimpse of the stars away
from the city lights? How did they
make you feel?
Demonstrate
God is the Designer of the universe.
What song would you sing or
play to honor Him?
Friday
Read Ephesians 4:17–32
One day I absentmindedly set a
hot coffee mug on our perfect oak
table. It left a wicked white steam
ring. Devastated, I turned to Google
and found an “easy” three-step
solution to strip away the mark.
It took three days and ended in
bloody knuckles, but I am happy to
report I successfully restored the
table to its former glory.
When God created people, He
called us “very good.” And we were.
Then, life in a fallen world happened.
Although Jesus saved us by
grace, we must work alongside Him
to strip away the sin in our lives,
most of which begins in our minds
and spews out of our mouths.
It’s no easy process. It hurts, but
God’s glory is worth it.
Meditate
In what ways can your most stubborn
“stains” (sin) be traced back
to wrong thinking?
Demonstrate
Check out 2 Corinthians 10:5 and
define what it means to take your
thoughts captive and to be in control
over them.
Notes:
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Week Two:
September 12 - 18, 2020
Theme:
How Can I Know God Exists?
Study Text: Psalm 19:1–6
Saturday - Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Read Genesis 1:1; Psalm
19:1; 148; Romans 1:19-20;
2:12-15; Hebrews 10:16
Warnings are everywhere. “Warning:
Ovenware will get hot when
used in oven” on a baking dish.
“Remove child before folding” on
a baby stroller. “Allergen Warning:
Contains peanuts” on a can of
peanuts. Some things shouldn’t
have to be noted in writing. You
would think that common sense
would cover them. Apparently,
either common sense is not so
common or people commonly
refrain from using it.
Our Creator gave each of us a
sense of what is right and wrong,
even before we enter a relationship
with Jesus. That innate sense
of morality testifies to the existence
of God, as do the workings of
the universe, the beauty of nature,
and the miracle of life itself. People
with good common sense acknowledge
God and believe.
Meditate
To what natural, spiritual, or intellectual
evidence do you point
when asked why you believe in
God?
Demonstrate
Don’t get too hung up on proving
God’s existence to someone who
chooses not to believe. Do what
you can, but then leave the matter
to the Holy Spirit.
Read Psalm 19:1–6
Psalm 19 was written for a choir
director so it could be sung as congregational
worship to God. David
attempted to help his readers see
evidence of God’s glory through
creation. After all, there is always
evidence of a creator when you
examine the creation. The psalmist
expressed that the heavens and
skies both declare the glory of God
even though they cannot verbalize
their worship of Him (verse
4). Even if you can’t see the sun,
everyone still feels its presence
(verse 6). It has no voice but still
testifies to the Creator.
All of this describes creation as
God’s display case, not only to
give evidence of His existence and
involvement but also to demonstrate
His glory. God declared all of
creation was made with a purpose;
that purpose is to bring Him praise
and to point people to Him.
Meditate
What is your favorite part of nature?
How does nature testify of
God’s handiwork?
Demonstrate
Memorize verse 1 of today’s
reading so you can breathe it as a
prayer of praise the next time you
find yourself gazing at a magnificent
sky.
Read Psalm 8:1–4
Katherine Wise is an incredibly
gifted singer. She was our first
student in school history to qualify
for National Honor Choir, and
she toured China with her college
chorale. Shana has been in awe
of her for years. When I told our
daughter that Katherine would be
giving her voice lessons, a look of
utter confusion crossed her face.
“Why? She’s Katherine Wise. Why
would she want to work with me?”
After convincing her that Katherine
wanted to teach her because she
cared and saw great potential in
her, Shana got excited. After her
first lesson she sat in the car and
said over and over, “I got to sing
with Katherine Wise!”
In today’s verses, the psalmist
questioned why the matchless
architect of the universe bothers
with flawed, insignificant men and
women. The answer? Because
He loves us and sees potential for
great things. That level of passion
speaks profoundly to the truth of
His existence.
Meditate
In what ways does God intimately
involve Himself in your life? How
does your relationship affect your
faith in His existence?
Demonstrate
Guess what? You get to walk and
talk with the God of the universe!
You get to live with Him, now and
forever. Don’t hold back your joy.
10 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Wednesday
Read Romans 1:32
Recently, our town tornado siren
blew while I was in Walmart. I quickly
dashed to the self-checkout and
started scanning and bagging so I
could get to my family. I was on my
last item when the scanner quit. I
tossed the item on the floor and
ran out the door . . . with a cartful
of groceries for which I hadn’t
yet paid. When I discovered my
egregious error I called Walmart,
returned to the store with the groceries,
and paid. I can’t begin to tell
you how many associates thanked
me for doing so. I was stunned.
Apparently, not everyone returns
and makes things right.
This level of rottenness isn’t a new
thing. Today’s verse points out that
the Gentiles knew the truth of God
in their souls, but they chose to
ignore it. Ignoring the truth within
you doesn’t nullify its existence or
the God who placed it there.
Meditate
In what situations has God’s truth
spoken to you and led you to do
the right thing?
Demonstrate
Use the actions of your friends,
neighbors, teachers, and family as
a springboard for discussing why
they know right from wrong. Morality
exists because God has given us
a sense of what’s right and wrong.
Notes:
Thursday
Read 2 Chronicles 36:15–16
My husband and I live down the
street from my mother. Since we
see her often, there is no question
that she exists. Even on particularly
busy weeks when I don’t see her
at all I have no doubt she’s around
because she calls. And calls. And
calls. On one particularly busy day
at work she attempted to call me
17 times. When I had a moment to
look at my phone I was concerned.
Surely something was terribly
wrong. Nope. In the multitude of
voicemails she left, she asked the
same question: “Are you coming
for supper Friday night?” It was
Monday.
Today’s verses tell us that God revealed
His presence to His people
by speaking to them repeatedly
through His prophets. Unfortunately,
their messages were met
with resistance, but God was not
deterred. He continues to speak to
the hearts of people. Let’s listen.
Meditate
In what circumstances does God
speak to you? What can you do to
hear Him better?
Demonstrate
If you ever find yourself doubting
God’s presence, try shifting your
prayer routine. Prayer should be
a two-party conversation. Stop
talking and start listening. Then
journal your thoughts.
Friday
Read Jeremiah 30:1–2
My job description recently
expanded to include board of
education secretary. It is now my
duty to attend board meetings
and write down what happens. My
notes must include discussions,
motions, vote counts, and pass/
fail statements. These notes serve
as an official record of what occurs
at each meeting and prove the
meeting took place. I am far from
the first board secretary. In fact, we
have a vault that includes records
from former board secretaries that
date back to the late 1800s.
In today’s verses, God commanded
Jeremiah to record everything
he heard from the Almighty.
Because of his faithfulness in
doing so, we are able to read God’s
words. They serve as evidence, not
only of what God said, but also that
He spoke to Jeremiah.
Meditate
What words from Scripture have
most profoundly affected your
faith in God’s existence?
Demonstrate
Keep a spiritual journal or write
notes in the margins of your Bible.
Your reflections will become a
record of your walk with Jesus for
your personal review and for future
generations to read.
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Week Three:
September 19 - 25, 2020
Theme:
God's Design for Men & Women
Study Text: Isaiah 43:5–7
Saturday - Sunday
Read Genesis 1:26–28;
2:18–24; Matthew 19:3–6
marriage as He sees it.
Monday
Read Isaiah 43:5–7
Tuesday
Read Genesis 5:1–2
From the time I was a little girl I
dreamed of and made plans for
my wedding. I kept a box filled with
clippings from bridal magazines. I
chose colors, songs, and bridesmaids.
Honestly, I didn’t spend
too much time dreaming about
marriage. It sounded nice to have
someone around all the time to kill
spiders and go to social functions,
but that was the extent of my
visions of wedded bliss.
Marriage is far more wondrous
than even the most lavish wedding.
A wedding is an event—a
moment in time and soon to be
a memory. God designed marriage
to be between a man and a
woman, and it is supposed to be
for a lifetime. I can’t begin to describe
how fantastic it is. Brandon
and I are a team—a spider-killing,
event-attending, life-navigating,
obstacle-climbing force. We help
one another because we are one.
Today’s culture views marriage
with little importance. But that’s
not how God views it.
Meditate
What do you expect out of marriage?
Do you plan for the commitment
to last until “death do us
part”?
Demonstrate
Pray today for the person you will
marry. Ask God to help you see
Do you remember getting lost in
the grocery story or Walmart when
you were a kid? You stopped to
look at something, and your mom
moved on to the next aisle and
you couldn’t find her—or some
less obedient scenario. Your heart
started pounding and you frantically
called out, searching up and
down the store rows, hoping not to
be kidnapped by a stranger!
The children of Israel knew that
feeling too. That’s why Isaiah’s
message to them hit home. Fear
not! I am with you. You are my
children. I will gather you together.
I made you. When you face uncertainty
and difficulty, God would
say the same to you. Your life has
purpose and meaning because
He created you on purpose for His
glory (verse 7).
Meditate
Why does knowing you were created
by God reduce the fear factors
in your life?
Demonstrate
Create a wallpaper for your phone
or tablet that reminds you of these
truths: God created you for His glory.
He promised to be with you. You
don’t need to be afraid.
Bushman eyebrows. I inherited
them from my father. The Hendersons
are renowned for the
unibrow. I can tweeze my brows
before bed and wake up to a forest
the next morning. Okay, it’s not
that bad, but it’s close! Thankfully,
facial hair isn’t the only trait I
picked up from my dad. I also got
his artistic talent and his passion
for vocabulary, and most days
I reflect his patience and quiet
strength.
According to today’s verses, God
created Adam in His image. We
don’t know precisely how, but
Adam reflected God. God placed
a part of Himself in Adam. When
Adam and Eve had children, they
were made in the image of God
as well, and thus began the godly
heritage of humankind. Each of us
has been made in God’s image. We
bear the image and name of Christ
in all we do.
Meditate
How do you reflect your parents’
physical, mental, emotional, and
spiritual traits? How do you reflect
the traits of God?
Demonstrate
Memorize Psalm 139:14.
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Wednesday
Read Malachi 2:14–16
Marriage is a covenant. It isn’t
merely a business transaction or
a social custom. It is a commitment
made between a husband
and wife with God as a witness.
Marriage was God’s idea from the
beginning.
Does that mean someone’s name
is marked off His list if a marriage
fails? No. God is gracious. But it
does mean that you should view
marriage as a serious, lifelong decision.
You should guard your heart
and ask for godly counsel before
you choose a marriage partner.
You should do everything you can
to protect your marriage—saving
yourself for one spouse, maturing
mentally and emotionally and
spiritually to be a loving husband
or wife, finding role models, and
accepting instruction so that your
future marriage will honor God.
Meditate
What is God’s repeated command
in verses 15 and 16? How can you
obey it?
Demonstrate
Observe a Christian married
couple in your church, and write
down three ways their relationship
could one day be a model for your
marriage.
Thursday
Read Mark 10:2–12
A network TV reality show invites
desperate singles to apply for
the opportunity to be matched
up by a panel of scientific and
relationship experts. The catch:
the couple will experience much
more than just a blind date. They
will meet and then marry, all in one
riveting hour (minus commercials).
This is a disgrace to marriage!
According to Jesus, God takes a
serious stance on marriage. Nothing
should be allowed to come
between a man and woman who
vow to love each other until death.
Don’t let just anyone pick your
future mate. Instead, trust the One
who created you. Marriage should
not be entered into lightly. God
should be the foundation of all of
our relationships.
Meditate
In what ways should you involve
God in your relationships with the
opposite sex?
Demonstrate
Pray about any future relationships
you might have, even if you don’t
yet want a serious one. Trust God
to bring you into a relationship
grounded in faith.
Friday
Read John 2:1–11
Jesus’ first public miracle was at
a wedding. He showed up for the
celebration and kept the party
going.
The occasion of that miracle was
another way to confirm that God
honors and affirms marriage. He
planned for a husband and wife
to have a lifelong commitment to
each other, and He celebrated it
with them. He makes provisions
for other weddings too—to supply
a couple with resources to bless
the community around them.
He provides for parents to bring
up children, for families to have
economic and emotional security.
Sometimes, that might take a
miracle! But He is God and He’s up
to the job. Remember, one day, to
invite Him to your wedding too.
Meditate
How was Jesus’ miracle surprising
to the host of the party? How are
God’s supplies better than what
we can come up with on our own?
Demonstrate
Have you attended a wedding
lately? Think about ways the bride
and groom included (or failed to
include) Jesus at their wedding.
Notes:
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Week Four:
Sept. 26 - Oct. 2, 2020
Theme:
Sin Entered the World
Study Text: Psalm 38:1–22
Saturday - Sunday
Read Genesis 3:1–13
Monday
Read Psalm 38:1–22
Tuesday
Read Psalm 51:1–19
Imagine an intense childhood
game of Hot Potato between you
and your friends. As the timer or
the song winds down the desperation
grows. No one wants to take
the potato in these critical moments
and end up stuck with it.
Adam and Eve played a spiritual
game of Hot Potato in the garden.
Neither of them wanted to take the
blame for the sin they both committed.
Eve blamed the serpent,
while Adam blamed the “woman
God gave him.” Neither took responsibility
for their actions.
Today we still point fingers. When
we are caught red-handed, we
blame our family background, our
friends, our circumstances, or
something else. Passing the blame
does not fool God. It only perpetuates
the long cycle of sin, which
began in Eden.
Meditate
In what ways could you grow
spiritually if you always accepted
responsibility for your sin and
sought repentance?
Demonstrate
Own your mistakes. Instead of
passing blame to someone else,
ask, “How did I contribute to the
problem, and how can I learn from
my mistake?”
As part of my public relations job
at our local school, I manage our
Twitter account. I detest Twitter.
Expressing myself in 280 characters
or less is so stifling. I constantly
have to whittle down my tweets.
It’s so annoying.
David would not be adept at
Twitter. Take Psalm 38, for example.
Over the course of 22 verses,
David expressed his guilt and anguish
over his sin. When I first read
this psalm, I found it a bit over the
top. I don’t think I’ve ever felt that
guilty about anything. As I consider
it more fully, though, I realize that
maybe the problem lies with me,
not David. Perhaps I don’t take my
sin and distance from God seriously
enough. If I did, maybe there
wouldn’t be as much.
Meditate
How seriously do you take your sin
and its power to separate you from
God?
Demonstrate
Don’t allow “Forgive me of my sins”
to become a habitual, thoughtless
prayer. Take time to reflect on the
damage a particular sin inflicts
on others and how it affects your
relationship with God.
Freshly fallen snow speaks poetry
to my soul. Dirty snow, on the
other hand, is disgusting. I always
cringe at the huge pile of blackened
beauty in the Walmart parking
lot. It’s hopeless; nothing can
ever restore it to its former glory.
To understand the blackness of
David’s soul, as described in Psalm
51, first you must understand the
sin that led to it. David had an adulterous
affair with a married woman
and then had her husband killed in
battle. Pretty dark stuff. However,
no sin is so black that God can’t
make it snowy white, exactly what
David begged Him to do.
Meditate
What can you learn from David’s
story that will help you when you
struggle with guilt over sin?
Demonstrate
Don’t let remorse over sin build
up; deal with it as soon as possible.
Satan loves to use our guilt to condemn
and shame us into erroneously
thinking we are beyond help.
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Wednesday
Read John 8:42–47
I was a junior in high school when
Stephen Mobley walked in a
Domino’s and shot the manager in
the neck. Mobley was sentenced
to death, but his lawyer appealed,
claiming that Mobley was born to
be a killer due to a genetic abnormality
common among several
family members. The effort failed,
and Mobley was executed in 2005.
The idea that people are born
murderers isn’t new, and it is still
hotly debated. However, Jesus
confirmed that someone was,
indeed, a deceitful killer from the
beginning. Satan lied to Eve in the
garden with one intention: to bring
death. And he’s been lying and
killing ever since. His goal for you,
too, is a death sentence.
Meditate
How can you protect yourself from
Satan’s vicious lies?
Demonstrate
Help Jesus thwart Satan’s intent to
kill. Lovingly and persistently share
with your friends and family the
message of salvation.
Thursday
Read 2 Corinthians 11:1–6
Paul was concerned that Satan
would deceive the Corinthian
believers, just as he deceived Eve
by leading her to distrust God and
His good intentions for her.
Satan likes to paint God as the bad
guy. Why won’t God let you do anything
fun? If God loves you, why
did He allow your loved one to die?
Why didn’t God make your plans
work out the way you wanted?
Maybe He doesn’t care about your
dreams. Sound familiar? I’ve heard
them too. Let’s do what Eve failed
to do and fight Satan’s lies with
God’s truth.
Meditate
What lies has Satan planted in your
mind regarding God’s intentions
for you? How have they affected
your faith in God?
Demonstrate
Review Genesis 3:1–5 and compare
the serpent’s carefully
crafted lie (verse 1) to God’s actual
instructions (2:17). Take time each
day to read and memorize God’s
Word to avoid falling victim to Satan’s
schemes like Eve did (verses
2–3).
Friday
Read 1 John 2:15–17
The star hitter sulked dejectedly
back to the dugout. What just happened?
How had he struck out on
only three pitches? First the sinker,
then the fastball, and finally the
lethal curveball. The importance
of a deadly three-pitch sequence
cannot be overstated
Jesus noted that Satan, too, uses
a three-strike combination. He
appeals to our sexual desires, our
physical desires, and our pride.
Dwelling on that lustful thought—
strike one! Taking something that
doesn’t belong to us—strike two!
Verbally condemning another’s
sin while ignoring our own—strike
three! When Satan throws his best
game, you and I had better be
prepared to strike back.
Meditate
In what ways does Satan tempt
you in the areas of sexual and
physical desires and pride? How
should you respond?
Demonstrate
Check out Matthew 4:1–11 and
learn some tips from the Master
Defeater of Satan’s deadly strikes.
Apply His technique the next time
you face temptation.
Notes:
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By John Stonestreet & Brett Kunkle
In our culture, the words male and female are outdated. These terms assume a fixed gender binary. And everyone
knows you can’t assume a person’s gender anymore, right? So the culture has created a new word, cisgender,
to refer to individuals “who have a gender identity that matches the sex that they were assigned at birth.”
But that definition raises questions: Assigned by whom? Parents, medical professionals, society, the individual?
Make no mistake, new words and new definitions are not always neutral or harmless. The term cisgender
has two assumptions built right into the definition. First, that sex is “assigned” and not a biological reality.
And second, that gender is chosen, not innate. And even though many in our culture buy into these assumptions,
we shouldn’t. A video that went viral on YouTube illustrates some of the problems that result from
today’s confusion on gender identity.
16 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Joseph Backholm, former president of the Family
Policy Institute of Washington, asked students at
the University of Washington about their views on
gender identity and public-restroom policy. At first,
the students affirmed the right of every individual
to choose the bathroom that corresponds to their
perceived gender. Backholm followed up with a
series of questions:
• “If I told you that I was a woman, what
would your response be?”
• “If I told you that I was Chinese, what
would your response be?”
• “If I told you that I was seven years old,
what would your response be?”
• “If I told you I’m six feet five inches, what
would you say?”
Amazingly, the vast majority of students were
unwilling to say that Backholm wasn’t anything
he claimed to be. One particular student’s answer
sums up the responses: “If you thoroughly debated
me or explained why you felt that you were six
foot five, I feel like I would be very open to saying
that you were six foot five or Chinese or a woman.”
However, Joseph Backholm is a five-foot-nine-inch
white guy. In this brave new world, gender—and
almost anything we believe about ourselves—is
fluid.
Don’t buy t he cult ural Lies
Lie #1: Gender is merely a social construction.
When it comes to gender and sexuality, our culture
says there are no objective truths, only subjective
preferences. If you feel it, declare it to the world,
and it becomes so. Gender, we’re told, is not rooted
in biology; instead, it’s what’s referred to as a social
construct, which just means an idea people within
a culture create (“construct”).
There is no dominant vision of gender identity for
our culture, and no limit. And we’re beginning to
see the endless absurdities that follow from this
reasoning. There are people who wear pet collars,
eat from a bowl, and identify as dogs. There are
grown men who identify as little girls. There are individuals
who marry themselves (called sologamy).
If we can create our own gender identity, why can’t
we create any identity we want? Social construction
is free to go anywhere our minds will take us.
But this slippery slope can’t hold up under the
weight of its own consequences. If you self-identify
as a sixty-five-year-old man, should the federal
government start sending you Social Security
checks? If you self-identify as a six-year-old girl,
should you be able to enroll in first-grade at the
local public elementary school? If the answer is
no, then why is a biological male who identifies as
a female allowed to impact the laws of the land so
that he can use the restroom or locker room of his
choice?
Lie #2: We should validate people’s thoughts
and desires so they’ll flourish.
The culture encourages, “Be who you are.” Whatever
reality you select for yourself is just fine. In fact,
the choice to defy reality is often viewed as an act
of courage (as in the case of Bruce “Caitlyn” Jenner).
Anyone who merely questions a person’s view
of their own reality is labeled a bigot. The definition
of “tolerance” has shifted. We must now accept
and affirm whatever lifestyle someone chooses. If
a man thinks he is a woman in his own mind, he
must be a woman in your mind also.
So how can we respond? First, it’s not bigotry; it’s
biology. Objective facts about physiology, anatomy,
chromosomes, and DNA exist. Maleness and
femaleness are undeniable physical realities. On
the other hand, there are no objective medical or
scientific tests to determine transgenderism. It
exists only in the mind of the individual. It’s purely
subjective.
Essentially, a doctor cannot diagnose an individual
as transgender. The individual diagnoses him- or
herself. Instead of treating someone’s psychological
confusion, the gender-identity movement
says that sex-reassignment (or what is now being
called gender-confirmation) surgery is the answer.
But is it? If surgery was indeed a biological fix for
gender-identity confusion, transgender people
wouldn’t regret their sex-change surgeries. Yet, a
significant number do.
A person may be able to alter his or her physical
appearance, but reality remains. The empirical
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data demonstrates that sex-reassignment surgery
isn’t helping the transgender community. Many
don’t flourish after surgery; they continue to struggle.
As difficult as it may be for transgender people
to hear, psychological causes are the best explanation
for gender confusion. Therefore, if we treat
the body and not the mind, we won’t be able to
help our friends and family struggling with their
gender identities.
Only in the case of transgenderism are physical
solutions offered for a psychological incongruence,
which are very permanent. For example, a ninety
-pound teenage girl who struggles with anorexia
may believe she is grossly overweight. But doctors
won’t do surgery to make her body thinner. They
don’t doubt her feelings, but they consider her
self-perception inaccurate and therefore treat her
mental and emotional health.
Recapt ure t he
wonder of god’s St ory
You won’t find the word transgender in Scripture,
but that doesn’t mean God has nothing to say
about the issue. He speaks directly and explicitly
about gender in the creation account: “Male and female
[God] created them” (Genesis 1:27). God didn’t
make gender-neutral humans. Gender is part of
God’s design, deeply grounded in His created order
and woven into the fabric of reality.
The distinction between male and female does
nothing to undermine the value and dignity of
either. Both are made in the image of God. Our
equality is secured by that fact alone. No distinction—ethnicity,
gender, age, sex—threatens the
equality of human beings. All are image bearers.
All have equal and immeasurable worth in the
sight of God.
Transgender people feel that something is wrong.
They say they feel like a woman trapped in a man’s
body or vice versa. However, in light of God’s Story
of reality, their diagnosis is incorrect. Gender isn’t
something to suppress or remove. Human wholeness
comes not by denying reality but by accepting
it.
singular cure. Rather than affirming any and all
desires as good, Scripture offers this insight: “Let
no one say when he is tempted, ‘I am being tempted
by God,’ for God cannot be tempted with evil,
and he himself tempts no one. But each person is
tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own
desire” (James 1:13–14). Not every human desire is
proper. Many lead us straight into sin, bringing
brokenness into our lives: “Then desire when it has
conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully
grown brings forth death” (verse 15). Our transgender
friends have a good desire for wholeness, but
they’ve taken it in the wrong direction. The result
is sin and brokenness.
But that’s not the end of God’s Story! The only
thing that will put a fractured human being back
together is the One who fashioned him or her.
God redeems us from our sin through the work
of Christ on the cross. His Story shows us how we
were made and how He intended us to function
properly.
Gender is a gift. God made us male and female,
and the unique design and functioning of the
sexes isn’t something to eradicate. It’s a good gift to
celebrate.
John Stonestreet is president of the Colson Center for
Christian Worldview and cohost of BreakPoint, the daily
cultural commentary founded by the late Chuck Colson.
John is the coauthor of Restoring All Things, Same-Sex
Marriage, Making Sense of Your World, and A Practical
Guide to Culture. He and his family live in Colorado Springs.
Brett Kunkle is the founder and president of MAVEN (www.
maventruth.com), a movement to equip the next generation to
know truth, pursue goodness, and create beauty for the cause
of Christ. He is an associate editor for the Apologetics Study
Bible for Students and co-author of A Practical Guide to Culture.
Brett lives with his wife and five kids in Southern California.
Taken from A Student’s
Guide to Culture by John
Stonestreet and Brett
Kunkle, © 2020. Used
with permission by
David C Cook. May not
be further reproduced.
All rights reserved.
For the person struggling with gender identity,
God’s Story offers an accurate diagnosis and the
18 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
There are 45
different
varieties of
pumpkin
Colors can be
orange, white,
yellow, red,
blue, tan, or
other colors.
Technically,
pumpkin is
a fruit.
Pumpkins
are about
90% water.
They are rich
in Vitamin A,
Vitamin K,
Vitamin C, and
Potassium
Number of people who
carved Halloween
pumpkins in the US:
2017: 150.01 million
2018: 147.88 million
2019: 145.09 million
Every October the
Annual Circleville
Pumpkin Show in Ohio
attracts over
400,000 visitors
(100,000 per day).
PSL (Pumpkin spice
lattes) are Starbucks’
most popular seasonal
drink. In 2019, they
had sold more than
424 million worldwide.
However, drinking
pumpkin spice
coffees does not have
any of the health
benefits of eating an
actual pumpkin!
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From the Awkward Past
to a New Beginning
By
Jeffrey Dean
Imagine you are standing in line at
your favorite fast food restaurant
when you get a tap on your shoulder.
You turn around to see someone
standing there whom you’ve never
met. This person begins to have a
conversation with you. If this doesn’t
seem odd, what happens next just
might. Imagine that person begins to
tell you everything you’ve ever done
wrong!
Such a scenario is hard to imagine,
isn’t it? After all, you’re just there
trying to get your Chick-fil-A #1! It’s
almost unthinkable to conceive that
someone you’ve never met could
actually stand there revealing some
of your most regrettable moments,
right?
Well, a story like this did happen in
the Bible . . . kind of. John 4 tells the
story of a woman who went to the
town well to draw water. While there,
she met a man who, in one brief
conversation, basically told her everything
about her four failed marriages.
And, if that wasn’t embarrassing
enough, He told her He knew she was
living with a man she wasn’t married
to. Though we don’t know the name
of the woman, we know her life was
changed that day because the man
she was speaking to was Jesus.
Why did Jesus meet this woman and
remind her of her failed relationships?
Did He want to condemn her?
Was He trying to make her feel even
worse about her past? I don’t think so.
I believe He wanted to show her these
three things:
1. Your past doesn’t
define your future.
Jesus wasn’t reminding this woman
about her past to beat her down
mentally. He wanted her to know
that regardless of the past, she could
still have an amazing future. Acts 3:19
tells us that when we turn to God, He
actually wipes away the things of our
past. Don’t buy the lie that your past
defines your future. With God, the
past is the past.
2. It’s never too late to
have a new beginning.
Sometimes we have to be reminded
of the ugliness of the past in order
to better understand how desperate
we are for a new beginning. I am sure
this was a tough conversation for
the woman to have with Jesus. But
it was a necessary one to help her
see that she didn’t have to continue
living in her past. The Bible tells us
she believed in Jesus that day and
everything changed! Here’s a question
for you to answer: Is there anything
about my past that needs a new beginning?
If so, take your past to God
and ask Him for a new start!
3. When you are changed,
you can pay it forward.
After the woman talked with Jesus,
the Bible tells us she went back to her
town and told many people that she
met the Messiah. Many in her town
surrendered their lives to Jesus because
of the woman’s story. If you let
Him, God can use you to help change
someone’s life too. Maybe you have a
friend or co-worker who needs to hear
your story. Ask God to show you who
needs to hear it.
It’s so good to know it is never too late
to begin again with Jesus. No matter
where you have been or what you
have done, when you choose to accept
Him as your Savior, He changes you.
And with your new beginning, you
just might have the courage to share
your story with someone you meet in
line!
- Jeffrey Dean is a pastor, evangelist, and
author of several books, including Watch This,
This Is Me, and The Graduate Handbook. You
can connect with Jeffrey at jeffreydean.com.
20 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Defeating Fear With Gratitude
by Shannon Primicerio
Nothing teaches gratitude quite like a global pandemic.
By the time you read these words we will (hopefully)
be on the other side of COVID-19, also known as
the coronavirus. But I’m writing this three weeks
into a statewide “stay at home” order here in California
where schools have been shut down, church
gatherings have been canceled, and businesses
have been shuttered. Everyone I know has been
impacted. With all of us locked away inside of our
houses, many of us are wondering not only when
we will be allowed to emerge but what state our
communities will be in when we do.
That café where I loved to grab lunch and iced
tea—will it be gone for good? The donut shop that
actually had gluten-free donuts—will it survive
this? My husband’s barbershop owned by his childhood
friend—will it ever open again?
And where the future looks scary, the present
looks chaotic. I’ve suddenly become my daughter’s
first grade teacher as I help her navigate “distance
learning,” and I am trying to support my husband
who is a small business owner and is scrambling
to keep his business afloat. These are scary and
trying times.
Waking up every morning to circumstances I don’t
know how to brace for has been unnerving, and
gratitude has been one of my primary weapons of
choice against fear. I’ve begun walking through my
days with eyes of gratitude, stopping to thank God
for things that often went unnoticed.
One verse I have been clinging to in this time is
Proverbs 4:23, which says to guard your heart because
everything you do flows from it.
While that might seem like an odd verse to choose
right now, here’s why I find it so impactful: While
I can’t choose my circumstances, I can choose my
response to them. If I pour fear into my heart, then
fear will flow out of my heart in anger, frustration,
panic, etc. But if I pour gratitude into my heart,
then love, peace, and a desire to help others will
flow out of my heart.
This isn’t true just during a global pandemic. It’s
true all the time, and especially as we look toward
Thanksgiving. Remember, everything we do flows
from our hearts.
So what are you pouring into your heart? And
what is flowing out of it?
Shannon Primicerio is the author of ten books for teenage girls,
including The Divine Dance. Learn more about Shannon and her
books at beingagirlbooks.com.
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18 AND
PREGN
What comes to mind when you think about the end
of high school? Is it graduation, hanging with
friends, the opportunity to go to college, that
impending freedom? Those are all things I looked forward to.
However, I took freedom a bit too far, because while I was enjoying
my newfound freedom that summer, it wasn’t long before I
found myself in a surprising and life-changing situation.
As I put several random items on the checkout counter, I
carefully tucked the little white box in the middle, hoping the
cashier wouldn’t notice what I was actually there to buy. Once
home, I placed that pregnancy test on the bathroom sink. The
pink plus sign was already as bright as could be, yet I still set a
timer and went in the other room to wait, begging and pleading
that the symbol would not be there when I went back in.
However, that two minutes was a passageway into a whole new
path in my life.
The pregnancy test was positive. Complete shock and fear came
over me as I sat on the couch in a rundown apartment. I didn’t
cry, I didn’t talk, I just stared into the unknown.
I made an appointment at the local health department a couple
days later. They confirmed my pregnancy and gave me several
resources for doctors’ offices and how to sign up for WIC and
food stamps.
What was happening here?! How did I go from walking across
the stage on graduation day to sitting in a health department all
alone with all kinds of referrals and a positive pregnancy test in
my hand? How would I tell my parents? How would I do this?
How was I supposed to pay for a baby? All of those thoughts
went through my mind. I felt ashamed, embarrassed, and afraid.
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Finding Grace and Kindness
At this point it was only a few weeks until college
started. I had already signed up for classes, but
school was the furthest thing from my mind. I had
to figure out a way to tell my parents that not only
was I pregnant, but I was pregnant by a boyfriend
they did not approve of. It was overwhelming and
hard to digest. I felt so alone. I didn’t have to think
too long on how I would tell my parents because
they found out. I’m not proud of this, but my
initial reaction was to lie. But they knew. As I look
back, I’m sure they were scared and unsure of how
to react and deal with this news themselves.
As the next day or two passed, I knew I had to tell
my parents the truth (even though they already
knew). I felt like I could not do it alone so I called
a former teacher whom I had stayed in contact
with over the years. I asked if I could talk with her.
As I sat in her classroom, I cried as I told her my
situation. I cannot remember everything she said
back to me, but what I do recall is the grace and
kindness she poured out on me. I remember the
kind tone in her voice, her hand on my hand reassuring
me it would be okay, even though I felt like
it wouldn’t be. There was no judgment and I will
always be thankful for that kindness. She asked if I
would like for her to go with me to tell my parents,
and I said yes. It was still scary, but having someone
by my side did alleviate some of the stress.
People Care
Being pregnant was not easy. The physical part
wasn’t hard, as I had a mostly easy and healthy
pregnancy. But the emotional part was daunting.
In hindsight, I wish I had sought out a counselor
or spoken with someone at church regularly. But
this was not common in my small town.
It is important to connect with godly people
who can be sounding boards and give advice and
wisdom as needed. Thankfully, there are many
resources out there today that can help young
people in these types of situations. There are faithbased
pregnancy centers around the country like
the Hope Clinic for Women in Nashville that offer
free counseling, pregnancy tests, sonograms, and
many other helpful resources. They also provide
ways for new moms to earn free diapers, wipes,
and clothing. There is also an organization called
Embrace Grace that offers many of the same types
of services and even gives baby showers to expectant
moms. They are located in churches around
the country. Even if you do not have family support,
there is a team out there who would love to
stand beside you, pray for you, hold you up, and
give encouragement along the way.
When you find yourself pregnant at such a young
age (or any non-ideal time), it is scary, and people
will tell you what you should or should not do.
Some will say making that one “choice” to end the
pregnancy is the easy way out. However, there’s a
better way. There is a world full of resources and
people who love you and want to help you. Do not
allow fear to be the leading thought in your mind.
Fear will tell you that you should be ashamed,
embarrassed, and that you will not amount to anything.
But please rest assured that is not what God
thinks. Do we mess up? Yes! Of course we do. And
we must face the difficult consequences of our sin.
My bad decision was not part of God's design, but
I'm thankful He forgives and can redeem our bad
decisions. God is full of grace and so are His people.
There are people who want you to succeed and
want to help. And there is so much joy when you
see that sweet baby’s face.
You Are Not Alone
If this is you, if you find yourself pregnant, the
first thing you should know is that you are not
alone. You are not the only person who has had a
baby out of wedlock or at a young age. You can still
go to college! You can still get a great job. Getting
pregnant as a teen does not doom you to working
a dead-end, low-paying job for the rest of your life.
It will take more work, but with God’s help you will
find the strength to push through! You are strong,
you are able, and you are loved!
Oh, and that little plus sign at the beginning of the
story? She is now a beautiful 20-year-old young
lady who is finishing up her sophomore year in
college. And the scared teenage girl who took that
test? She went on to college, received her Master’s
degree, and is enjoying life in beautiful Tennessee.
24 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
What if I told you I knew the secret to stronger relationships,
less acne, better sports performance, higher
grades, and longer life? Would you be interested?
It’s your lucky day because I’m about to reveal the big
secret:
Go to bed!
No, seriously. The big secret is sleep!
Okay, okay, I can feel you rolling your eyes, but give
me a minute to throw some science your way that
might change your mind. According to the CDC,
teens like you need about 8-10 hours of sleep each
night. However, over 70% of high school students
don’t get enough sleep on school nights!
No big deal, right? Wrong! Sleep is important, and not
just so you keep your eyes open during that biology
lecture. When we don’t get enough sleep it leads to irritability,
forgetfulness, poor grades, acne, a decrease
in athletic ability, relationship issues, and illness.
And is it possible we miss God’s voice on Sunday
mornings because we’re too exhausted from our late
Saturday nights?
If you don’t think illness and acne are bad enough,
By David Jones
Sleep
On It!
according to Matthew Walker’s book Why We Sleep
(Scribner, 2017), being awake for just 22 hours straight
puts your performance on the same level as someone
who is drunk! Yikes! And while you might think a
Monster or Red Bull will even things out, caffeine can
make things worse.
So what should you do?
While the obvious answer is “get more sleep,” you
need to be strategic about it. Along with cutting out
the energy drinks and limiting caffeine, it’s important
to put down your phone and other devices at least
an hour before bed. There’s an invisible blue light
that’s emitted by our devices, and that light makes it
difficult to fall asleep.
If you find yourself spending hours watching online
videos, remember that YouTube isn’t going anywhere
and those videos will be there tomorrow. If you have
a bad case of FOMO, take a deep breath and remind
yourself that you won’t miss anything important.
You’ll actually spend more time worrying about missing
something than actually missing something.
Ready to be faster, stronger, smarter, and healthier?
The secret is out! Now go get some sleep!
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Week Five:
October 3-9, 2020
Theme:
Grace Extended in Judgment
Study Text: Psalm 84:1–12
Saturday - Sunday
Read Genesis 6:5—7:5
Monday
Read Psalm 84:1–12
Tuesday
Read Titus 3:1–14
When I was in high school, a famous
country music star crooned
a haunting melody about whether
a special relationship was worth
the pain experienced along the
way. While the song made my
friends and me ponder the disappointment,
confusion, and agony
of loving an imperfect yet wonderful
human being, the boys rolled
their eyes and prayed for a new
song on the radio.
Thankfully, God is faithful despite
the pain we cause. Frustrated,
disappointed, and in utter agony
over the sin He saw in the world He
created, God was grieved that He’d
made it. He could have destroyed
everything and everyone, but He
didn’t. He remained faithful to
Noah because Noah, although
imperfect, was faithful to Him. God
could have wiped it all out and
ended the continuing cycle of pain
inflicted on Him by sinful man, but
He gave favor to Noah. We are alive
today because of God’s faithfulness.
Meditate
God is grieved by sin. How does He
view repentance?
Demonstrate
If you are struggling with a particular
sin, spend time in prayer. God
doesn’t want you to feel burdened
with guilt. He wants to forgive you
and help you turn away from sin!
When I was a little girl I was terrified
of heights. One day my babysitter’s
teenage daughter led a group
of us kids on a nature hike. Things
progressed well until we came to a
dried-up creek bed with a fallen log
stretched across it. Our fearless
leader attempted to coerce us
across the log, but I had none of it.
I wasn’t about to crawl out on that
rickety-looking piece of wood. Instead,
I trudged through the creek
bed and picked up a family of
chiggers and a bad case of poison
oak in the process.
Psalm 84:12 seems so simple
on the surface, but putting its
message into practice is often
terrifying. Following our leader with
full faith is much easier said than
done. However, we can trust that
walking with Him through the scariest
of situations is perfectly safe.
Following our own path is not.
Meditate
How can putting full trust in God
relieve stress and worry in your
life?
Demonstrate
Memorize Psalm 84:12. Allow this
verse to assure you of God’s best
intentions toward you, even when
He asks you to do the seemingly
impossible.
God leads His children to perform
certain tasks throughout their lives.
You read about some of those
tasks today. But before we discuss
those, let’s examine the jobs we’re
not called to do. You might have
noticed a few items missing from
Paul’s list, such as social media
slandering, political activism, boycotting,
picketing, rejection, and
exclusion, to name a few.
Sadly, Christians often mistakenly
believe God has called them to
rid the world, or at the very least
our country, of sin. That’s not our
job. Our underlying task is to love,
to serve, to obey, and to proclaim
freedom found in Christ. It’s a fulltime,
very difficult job, and it takes
on many forms, as noted by Paul.
When we obey God and His Word,
we will be ready for every good
work that comes our way. There’s a
good chance other people will take
notice as well.
Meditate
What do tasks like respecting
government officials and living in
peace look like for teens?
Demonstrate
Consider one practical way you
can show God’s love to someone
this week, and put it into action.
26 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Wednesday
Read Matthew 24:36–44
One day on the way to work my
husband said, “I wonder what a
Greyhound bus is doing in this
part of the country.” My response:
“What bus?” Brandon said, “Are
you seriously telling me you did not
see the giant, double-decker bus
that just passed us on the road?”
Nope. I was making a grocery list
in my mind. Did I mention I was
driving? Not good.
Jesus reminded His disciples that
the people of Noah’s day were
super busy doing stuff. Perhaps
everyone was too busy with life to
pay much attention to the giant ark
Noah was building, and those who
noticed it obviously didn’t think it
was worth getting invested in. Why
did Jesus bring up this piece of
history? To remind His followers,
including us, to pay attention. Jesus
is returning soon. By diligently
obeying Him and sharing the gospel
with those who need to hear it,
we show we are prepared for that
day. We prove He has our utmost
attention.
Meditate
How might you benefit if you spent
less time on pointless tasks and
more time on things that have
eternal value?
Demonstrate
For the next 24 hours make a
conscious effort to be aware of the
people around you. What needs
can you fill? How can you bring
hope, joy, and comfort to others?
Notes:
Thursday
Read Psalm 94
Bible scholars aren’t certain who
wrote Psalm 94, but several believe
it might have been King David.
Regardless of its author, Psalm 94
is the perfect expression of the
coexistence of God’s justice and
grace. Although many think justice
and grace are absolute opposites,
God exhibits both attributes, and
that’s a very good thing for us (and
for whoever wrote Psalm 94). In
verse 2, the author petitioned
God to give the prideful what they
deserve: punishment.
Have you ever struggled with
pride? I know I have. King David
certainly did. Pride in his royal
position led him to sleep with a
woman who was not his wife. That
pride pushed him further down a
bad path that led to his having her
husband killed in battle (2 Samuel
11). Although David suffered God’s
punishment for his sin, he also
found God’s mercy. God didn’t
wash His hands of David; He didn’t
give up on him. Neither will He give
up on us, even in our most prideful
moments.
Meditate
What negative consequences
might result if God was just but not
gracious? What might happen if
He never brought justice to sinful
situations?
Demonstrate
Psalm 51 is David’s psalm of repentance
after his sin. Read it slowly
and take note of its themes. Consider
what it means to be broken
and repentant before God.
Friday
Read Luke 8:22–26
My friend Julie and I took a cruise
to the Bahamas the year after
we graduated from high school.
Our tropical paradise reward
to ourselves for our hard work
was going wonderfully until we
sailed through the worst tropical
storm in our cruise line’s history. I
became so dizzy I couldn’t stand
up, while Julie tossed her cookies
on multiple occasions. She took
some anti-nausea pills, which took
care of her seasickness, but also
knocked her out. There I was, stuck
in a very small and spinning room,
feeling very alone. However, it was
just a feeling; I was not alone.
It’s funny how powerful God’s
presence becomes on a stormtossed
boat. He’s always with us,
but it seems like we call to Him
more when the waves start rolling.
From Noah to the disciples to me,
God has always been there to calm
the storm, and I’m not just talking
about the one rocking the waves.
Even when we don’t realize it, God
provides protection for us and
keeps us safe from life’s storms.
Meditate
How has God revealed His comforting
presence to you during
difficult times?
Demonstrate
During your next stormy season,
look for signs of God’s presence,
remembering that our gracious
God never sleeps on the job.
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Week Six:
October 10-16, 2020
Theme:
God Opposes Pride
Study Text: Genesis 50:15–21
Saturday - Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Read Genesis 11:1–9
Several years ago a group of boys
in our school persisted in causing
trouble and failing to get their work
done. When their teacher separated
them they accused her of gross
injustice and set about plotting
ways to accomplish their mission
of class destruction in spite of her.
When the time came to assign students
to classes for the following
year, we made sure to separate
them. We didn’t want to tear apart
a group of friends, but we did not
want them to create more havoc
either.
I can understand the hesitancy
of Noah’s descendants to spread
out according to God’s instruction
(Genesis 9:1, 7). Spreading out
requires separation from friends
and loved ones. It necessitates
change. However, our loving Lord
had a wonderful plan for them. In
love, He scattered them.
Meditate
What are some difficult things
Jesus might ask you to do?
Demonstrate
God’s will involves living for Him
daily. In order to have the courage
to say “yes” to the big tasks, be
faithful in the small things.
Read Genesis 50:15–21
Like Noah’s descendants, Joseph
was separated from his home
and family. However, Joseph was
scattered not because of his own
sin, but because of his brothers’.
To us this seems unfair, but it was
a pivotal part of God’s plan to save
Joseph’s family, as well as the entire
nation of Egypt, from a coming
famine.
How do we respond when life is
unfair? Your dad gets a new job in
a new part of the country and you
are separated from your friends.
You get accepted to your college
of choice, but your significant other
does not. Your parents divorce,
and you feel alienated from a treasured
part of your family. You get
cut from the basketball team and
consequently feel cut out of your
friends’ lives. Being separated is
painful and seems unfair. But never
forget that you can be a Joseph.
God can use your tough situation
in a tremendous way. He is faithful,
even when we don’t understand
what’s happening.
Meditate
When life doesn’t make sense, will
you continue to trust God?
Demonstrate
Think of a struggle you are currently
facing, and then read Genesis
50:20 to find encouragement.
Read Psalm 33
Adolf Hitler had a plan. He desired
a world filled with blonde-haired,
blue-eyed Aryans. This was his
definition of the “master race,” and
he wanted the world completely
devoid of Jews, gypsies, and
physically or mentally challenged
people.
Fortunately, our Lord, who came
to earth in the form of a Jewish
carpenter, had other plans. As the
psalmist noted in verses 10–11,
God’s plan trumps all others. He is
the ultimate thwarter of plans that
do not match up to His high ideals
of righteousness, justice, and love
(verse 5). God has a glorious plan
for your life, and you need not
worry about anyone or anything
threatening to destroy it. God’s got
this. Your worst enemy holds no
power over you or the mission God
designed especially for you. Yes,
you will face obstacles, setbacks,
and even what seems like defeat.
How you deal with those things
is up to you, but in the end God’s
plan for you will prevail.
Meditate
What should you do and think
when it seems like evil plans will
succeed?
Demonstrate
Grab a pad of sticky notes. Write
out Isaiah 55:8–9 and post the
notes in prominent places to
remind you that God’s ways are
always higher than man’s ways.
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Wednesday
Read Acts 2:1–13
Walt Disney World welcomes
countless guests each year from
hundreds of different people
groups. To help all guests enjoy
their experience in a safe way, Walt
Disney World designers created
special methods to communicate
material in many different languages.
Instructional signs contain
easy-to-understand graphics;
some cast members speak multiple
languages; and guests can
utilize Disney World’s translation
device, “Ears to the World.”
God knows that the most important
message people will ever
receive is the gift of salvation
through Jesus Christ. At Pentecost,
He used a miracle to deliver this
message to different people in
their native languages; He made
the disciples instantly multilingual.
God continues to communicate
with people on their level and in
their particular circumstances,
and He allows us to take part in the
process. You and I possess unique
characteristics, temperaments,
and experiences to reach people
that others might not be able to.
Let’s communicate Christ!
Meditate
How can you share your past
experiences, your current phase of
life, or your interests to communicate
Christ to others?
Demonstrate
Journal the names of three people
that God has placed in your life,
then speak with them on their level
and share the hope of Christ.
Thursday
Read Acts 2:14–41
They shouldn’t have won the
game. In 2008, the New York
Giants battled the New England
Patriots in Super Bowl XLII. My husband
adamantly refused to watch
the game. He loathed Tom Brady
and the Patriots and couldn’t bear
to watch them beat the Giants.
True to his prediction, the Patriots
entered the fourth quarter with
a 7-3 lead, but things began to
change. After a few incredible plays
the score was 17-14 Giants with 35
seconds left on the clock. I beckoned
Brandon to join me. “Nope!
They’ll blow it. Just wait and see.”
They did not. The New York Giants
won Super Bowl XLII.
From a human perspective, Jesus
shouldn’t have won. His own
people cried for crucifixion, while
the most powerful religious and
political leaders pointed the way to
Golgotha and a gruesome execution.
Jesus should not have gained
victory over sin and death, but He
did. Why? Because that was God’s
plan from the very beginning.
Meditate
How do God’s victories in the past
affect your faith when you face
your own seemingly insurmountable
obstacles?
Demonstrate
Peter answered the question of his
listeners (verse 37) with two steps
and a promise (verse 38–39).
Have you taken those steps and
received that promise?
Friday
Read James 1:13–26
I totally messed up the plan. On
the morning of my birthday I
decided to head to work a half
hour early to finish some paperwork.
When I got to my office my
co-workers and friends were busy
blowing up balloons, laying out
cake and cookies, and signing my
birthday card. They glared at me
and demanded in unison, “What
are you doing here so early?” I
messed up the plan because I
didn’t know about the plan.
Although we don’t have the power
to mess up God’s plan, we can
cause unnecessary difficulties or
remove ourselves from the plan.
How do we prevent ourselves
from becoming obstacles to God’s
plan? James gave us some great
advice: be good listeners, be careful
what we say, be doers of God’s
will, and control our tempers.
Sounds like a great plan. Now let’s
follow it.
Meditate
What would be different in your
life if you (and others) were quick
to hear, slow to speak, and slow to
anger?
Demonstrate
Research Bible verses that deal
with the three principles James
listed in verse 19. Use an online
Bible study tool or ask your pastor,
parents, youth leader, or another
trusted adult for help.
Notes:
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Week Seven:
October 17-23, 2020
Theme:
Jesus Is God
Study Text: Hebrews 1:1–2
Saturday - Sunday
Read John 1:1–18
Monday
Read Hebrews 1:1–2
Tuesday
Read Exodus 29
When I asked my then-future
husband, “What is your dad like?”
Brandon responded, “Imagine a
gray-haired me. We look alike, talk
alike, and act alike. I’m pretty much
him, just younger.”
Sometimes God seems to be a
great mystery. His vast knowledge,
power, and holiness are intimidating.
Sometimes He appears
unapproachable, unknowable.
However, as John testified, we
can know God through His Son,
Jesus—the mind and expression of
God, the Word made flesh. As this
passage tells us, Jesus, the Word, is
God and was present at the time of
Creation. Jesus is the Son of God,
but He is God as well. If we want to
know what God is like, we simply
need to look at His Son. Jesus is
God!
Meditate
What have you learned about God
by reading about Jesus’ ministry
on earth? How does this knowledge
affect your faith in God?
Demonstrate
Take time to thank God for His
willingness to step down from the
throne, assume human flesh, and
live among us so we could know
Him.
Have you ever watched one of
those instamatic photos as it
develops? At first, you see odd
shapes, then a “negative” of the
picture, and finally, the details and
colors start to fill in the complete
photograph. What used to be a
weird blob turns out to be your
brother!
Imagine the first two verses of
Hebrews as that developing photo.
The Old Testament prophets, as
well as the symbolism in sacrifices
and characters and events,
pointed to a full picture of God.
However, until Christ came, the
picture was not complete. As we
study this “snapshot” further, we
see that Christ was there all along,
even from Creation.
Meditate
How do you envision Christ’s role
in Creation?
Demonstrate
Consider yourself in the big picture
of God’s plan for the world. The
Creator of the Universe died in
your place!
My husband and I considered
spending a night on our honeymoon
trip to Arizona in an authentic
Native American teepee.
Although we both possessed a
high degree of historical passion,
I decided I didn’t want to be quite
that intimately acquainted with
the Native American way of life.
Before Christ came, God dwelled
in a tent (the Tabernacle, and later
the Temple) so the people could
experience His presence. Even
in that tent, though, He was set
apart. Entering the tent without
meeting certain requirements and
performing certain rituals resulted
in a person’s death. In the New
Testament, however, God put on
bones, flesh, skin, and hair and
walked many miles in our shoes.
As a result, we serve a Savior who
understands our trials and temptations.
He can sympathize with
us because He has been with us
(Hebrews 4:15).
Meditate
How willing are you to walk in
someone else’s footsteps to gain
better understanding?
Demonstrate
Challenge yourself to grow in your
relationship with Christ by serving,
loving, and reaching out to the
outcasts, just like He did.
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Wednesday
Read John 8:12–30
If you’re near a window, take a
minute and look outside. If it’s
daytime, take a quick glance at the
sun. If it’s nighttime, spend a few
seconds observing the moon. The
earth rotates on its axis to bring
about day and night. When your
little corner of the world faces the
sun, there is light. When it turns
away, there is night. Although our
terminology (the sun sets, the sun
rises, etc.) makes it sound like the
sun moves, it does not. The earth
makes the journey.
Jesus, God’s Son, is the Light of
the World. When we walk close to
Him we live in light. If we turn away,
things get dark, confusing, and
dangerous. The Son doesn’t move;
He remains faithful. If darkness
falls upon us we should acknowledge
our sin and turn back to the
light. Just as Jesus said in verse 12,
whoever follows Him will not walk
in darkness but will have the light of
life. Follow the light.
Meditate
What things lead you away from
God’s light? What things help you
turn back to Him? How can you
put more focus on the things that
lead you to Him?
Demonstrate
Enjoying the light of Christ is not
enough. You need to share it.
Check out Matthew 5:16 for further
instructions.
Thursday
Read Colossians 1:15–23
According to Supergluecorp.com,
a popular urban legend claims
that Super Glue was discovered
accidentally during an attempt to
find a remedy for battle wounds in
World War II. The truth: scientists
discovered Super Glue in 1942
when they searched for materials
to make clear plastic gun sights for
the war effort.
Not only is Jesus the perfect cure
for the wounds to our souls that
have been inflicted by sin, but He
is also the glue that rejoins us to
God. Colossians 1 tells us Jesus is
the image of the invisible God and
created all things. Through Him all
things hold together. Only because
of Jesus, we have been reconciled
to the Father. His work on the cross
is the glue that makes everything
possible. He holds the world
together. Without Jesus, we would
be doomed. Because of Jesus, we
can have eternal life.
Meditate
God created the plan to reconcile
people to Himself through Jesus’
death. What should this tell you
about your worth to God?
Demonstrate
As you encounter lost people who
seem to hate the message of the
gospel, remember that before you
were reconciled to God, you were
His enemy too. Pray that a nonbeliever
you know will begin the
reconciliation process.
Friday
Read Jeremiah 11:6-8
Have you ever tried to tell friends
about an intense experience, only
to be met with blank stares and
indifference? After observing their
puzzled gaze, chances are good
you muttered the classic phrase, “I
guess you had to be there.”
Although we weren’t there to
wish upon the first twinkling star,
to smell the fragrance of the first
flower, or to hear the first birdsong
ever performed, you and I hold
front row seats to God’s ultimate
creative genius: the act of making
all things new within our hearts
and souls. As it turns out, He saved
His greatest miracle for those who
would place saving faith in His Son.
While we were dead in our sins,
Jesus created for us new hope,
new life, and a new future. God
called His original creation of man
and woman, “Very good.” You are
His masterpiece.
Meditate
Jesus wants to create a new you.
What role do you play in the process?
Demonstrate
Choose to see those around you
as precious creations of Christ—
masterpieces in the making.
Notes:
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Week Eight:
October 24-30, 2020
Theme:
Jesus Offers New Life
Study Text: Isaiah 45:18–23
Saturday - Sunday
Read John 3:1–21
Monday
Read Isaiah 45:18–23
Tuesday
Read Luke 18:9–17
Do you remember your favorite
birthday party from when you
were a kid? It’s hard not to enjoy
a birthday. The day is all about us!
However, I once heard a parent
declare, “Kids’ birthday parties
should celebrate their moms.
We’re the ones who did all the work
and endured all the pain to give
them life! It should be about us!”
Jesus did all the work to bring us
new life through His grace. He
endured the pain for all people.
Nicodemus was a wealthy and
respected man. From an earthly
standpoint, he was the definition
of success. However, he was missing
the one important aspect that
really matters: Jesus. Rich, poor,
religious, atheist, male, female—all
are hopelessly lost in lives of sin
unless they are reborn in Christ.
Jesus has given us new life. That is
something worth celebrating!
Meditate
What are you doing with the new
life Christ has given you? How are
you using your days to serve Him
and others?
Demonstrate
Nicodemus had great prestige,
but he was lacking Jesus. Think of
one person you know who needs
Jesus. Pray for that person every
day this week.
If the National Honor Society at
your school is like the one where I
work, admission is all about what
you do. To gain membership a
student must excel academically
and actively participate in various
school clubs, activities, and community
service opportunities. With
some organizations, it’s all about
who you know. However, when it
comes to being inducted into NHS,
the people you know won’t do a
bit of good; it’s all about your good
works.
According to Isaiah’s messianic
prophecy and its New Testament
counterpart, Philippians 2, salvation
is all about who you know.
Only one name brings salvation.
As Isaiah 45 tells us, every knee will
bow and every tongue will confess
at the name of the Lord Jesus.
Good works are great things, but
they won't get you into Heaven.
Only Jesus Christ can save you.
Meditate
Do you trust your salvation to Jesus
alone, or do you feel your good
deeds justify your eternal life?
Demonstrate
Good works don't provide salvation,
but they should be proof of
salvation. Let your relationship
with Jesus Christ encourage you to
serve someone today.
The difference between the humble
tax collector and the proud
Pharisee lies in the standard they
compared themselves to. While
the Pharisee judged himself holier
than the “sinners” around him, the
tax collector realized he fell short
of the ultimate standard: God’s
holiness. The tax collector saw
his need for grace and mercy; the
Pharisee did not.
Jesus came to seek and save the
lost, but a person has to realize
he or she is lost before asking to
be found by God’s grace. Unfortunately,
many people refuse to
acknowledge they are sinners
and in need of saving grace. They
know they need something, but
they’re too prideful to admit it.
We all fall short of God’s perfect
glory (Romans 3:23). We all need
a Savior. Don't let pride keep you
from reaching out and accepting
God’s grace.
Meditate
How do you measure personal holiness?
Do you compare yourself
to others or to Jesus?
Demonstrate
Comparing your spirituality to others
is a recipe for disaster. Those
who do this end up either full of
pride or full of shame. Neither
pleases God. Focus on the forgiveness
and grace of God.
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Wednesday
Read 1 Corinthians 3
Aren’t babies adorable? They are
so innocent, pure, and helpless.
They depend on us for everything
from food to clean diapers. On
their own they can do nothing but
sleep, eat, poop, and cry. Babies
are great, but we don’t want them
to remain that way. They must
learn to walk, talk, and feed themselves.
Babies are supposed to
grow up. How tragic if one were to
remain a helpless infant!
To be born again we must approach
God as humble little
children who can do nothing about
our sin. However, we are supposed
to grow up. Paul did not find the
Corinthian believers’ immaturity
to be cute. In essence he said,
“Grow up!” Paul even called them
“infants” because they were
allowing disagreements to divide
the church. Jealousy and immaturity
don't look good on a Christian.
Believers are saved to grow in faith,
love, righteousness, and joy.
Meditate
What evidence of spiritual growth
do you see in your life?
Demonstrate
It’s never too late to start growing
in Christ. Memorize Philippians 1:6
and let it encourage you to cooperate
with the work Jesus is doing
in you.
Notes:
Thursday
Read 2 Timothy 1:1–11
From stray dogs, to baby bunnies,
to toads, if I see a critter in peril I
act swiftly. I even saved a vulnerable
mollusk family. I fixed them
a cozy little terrarium, but they
insisted on escaping. You wouldn’t
believe the places snails cropped
up that fall!
I rescue furry—or slimy—friends because
I love them and want them
to live. I want them to thrive.
Jesus feels the same about us,
and we are much more precious
than the animals of the earth. God
made us in His image. We are His
masterpiece. Taking this idea a
step further, God sent His Son
to die for us. Why? Because He
wants us to accept the free gift of
salvation. In 2 Timothy, Paul told
Timothy that the Lord calls us to
salvation through His grace so we
can thrive in holy new lives. God is
in the business of saving people.
Will you accept His offer and live in
His love?
Meditate
What would it look like for you to
thrive in the new life Jesus has
given you?
Demonstrate
To live in holiness means to act
like Jesus and to allow His Spirit to
breathe in us. For a more specific
explanation of what this life in the
Spirit should look like, check out
Galatians 5:22–23.
Friday
Read 1 John 5:1–4
People pay a lot of money for
purebred dogs. The pooch’s pedigree
assures them that the dog
will be a particular size and have
a particular look and, most likely,
have behaviors that are typical
of that breed. They also cost a
lot more and may have a greater
potential for health problems. A
qualified breeder, though, will have
documentation that the puppy is
born of purebred parents and will
provide that evidence to the new
owner.
What is the proof that someone
is born of God? First John 5:1–4
lists some behaviors and beliefs
to verify that someone belongs to
the family of God. If someone does
not love other believers, does not
keep His commands, and does
not overcome the pull of the world
system, what would be a natural
conclusion?
Meditate
Can others tell that you belong to
Jesus by the way you act?
Demonstrate
Make sure your attitudes match
your words today.
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By Lindsey Carney
She twirled in the cutest red dress, matching lipstick, and floppy sunhat. I sighed and double tapped. Then
there was the basset hound puppy with his floppy ears and droopy eyes. Who couldn’t love that? Next came
the perfect cup of coffee with the swirly heart. Who came up with latte art? Tap-tap. If the next one was a
beach picture, I was throwing my phone across room. Thankfully, my phone was safe. It was a group of friends
who had hiked five miles to watch the sunrise from Mount LeConte. I tapped until the red heart showed itself
and then closed Instagram.
My 98-pound Labrador rested on the floor. Unless people think it’s cute to look at your tail sideways, we
weren’t going to be Instagram-worthy that morning. “That basset hound doesn’t have anything on you, old
man.” He eased off the floor to follow me to the back door. It wasn’t a five-mile hike, but surely it counted as
something to take my dog out every morning.
How in the world do people get these picture-perfect lives? Is it filters? Editing apps? Selfie ring lights?
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#perfectlife #notreally
Painting a perfect picture when your life is anything
but perfect is nothing new. It dates back
thousands of years. They didn’t have an iPhone
B.C. back then, but they battled between the
outward appearance and internal truth, much like
today. I know their methods of transportation had
floppy ears, and men wore what might resemble
hospital gowns, but people also wore strappy sandals,
ate good bread, and I bet several of them even
rocked a man bun.
Throughout the Gospels we see religious people
who put their version of perfection on display and
tried to hold others to their high standards for
outward appearance, but John 4:1–42 tells us about
a woman who was far from perfect. I cannot help
but wonder what her Instagram account would
have looked like if she were around today.
How do you make five weddings look like they belong
on Pinterest? #mythirdspringwedding
#marriageadvicecards #fifthtimesacharm
How do you make your life not look friendless when
you are always alone? #lonerbychoice #justshy
How do you act like your life is full when really you
are running on empty? #cuphalffull #goodlife
The other women went to the well together, in the
early morning hours, before the heat of the sun
cracked the Samaria clay. She made the daily trip
alone, in the midday sweltering heat.
I don’t know if she had been handed five certificates
of divorce or if she had buried several of her
husbands. Either way, that’s a lot of rejection, a lot
of heartache. And she wasn’t even married to the
sixth man with whom she was living.
Her life was far from perfect. Maybe she wore a
smile every day to cover the wounds on the inside.
I know I have. I’ve been asked how I was doing,
and while “great” came out of my mouth, internally
I was far from it. I’ve brushed on my favorite
mascara and posted a funny caption when I was
nothing but sad. I know what it’s like to be falling
apart but to seem like I have it all together.
I’m not saying you need to make an announcement
to the entire world when your life is in the
gutter. I’m also not saying you shouldn’t use filters
or that pictures shouldn’t be edited. What I am saying
is that you don’t have to have it all together.
The people that you are scrolling past don’t have it
all together either, contrary to what they have on
display. Behind put-together rooms with perfectly
placed globe lights and fluffy pillows is a closet
with last week’s clothes thrown in a pile. Right after
the couple posted they had hit the five-month
mark and life couldn’t be better, she gave him the
stink eye. And what you can’t hear in that colorcoordinated
family photo is the mom yelling at
them to all look at the camera and smile. It still
took 16 tries to get the picture. And despite what
you might think, the parents in that photo argue
too.
#perfectlyimperfect
No one has it all together. Only Christ can wear the
crown of “perfect,” and He chose to not leave us in
our flawed ways.
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Our Savior calls you to the well too.
It’s a safe place for your sins to be
forgiven and your chin to be raised.
In John 4, when Jesus left Judea to return to Galilee,
He could have gone around Samaria. That’s
what many of the religious leaders did. They would
take a longer route just to avoid the people they
called “dogs” and “half-breeds.” But not Jesus. He
never looked down His nose at others; He called
people to lift their eyes to meet His.
That’s what happened the day a nameless Samaritan
woman showed up all alone at the well. Jesus
didn’t arrive in the morning when the rest of the
townspeople would be there. He arrived at noon
and sat beside the well, waiting to talk to her—just
like He wants to talk every day to me, and to you.
It’s a meeting of the perfect with the imperfect.
The well was a place where the truth was laid bare
and the Samaritan woman wasn’t condemned. Jesus
didn’t pick up a stone, He didn’t make a hurtful
comment, and He didn’t walk away from her. Our
Savior calls you to the well too. It’s a safe place
for your sins to be forgiven and your chin to be
raised. The presence of Christ is the only place true
fulfillment is found. It is where the imperfect and
the perfect collide. He fills our thirsty souls, and we
find we don’t need to put a life on display that says
anything different.
That day at the well the Samaritan woman no
longer stood in the shadows of her townspeople.
Instead, she went to them and told about her
meeting with Christ. Because of that, many in her
village believed in Jesus! We, too, must be willing to
share the difference that Jesus makes in our lives.
That’s our testimony.
How might she have captioned her life after meeting
Christ at the well that day?
“This morning I was lonely and empty, my
life was far from great. Then I met Jesus.
He knew my entire story and accepted
me anyway. My life will never be perfect
but I’ll be meeting with the One whose
is.” #hetoldmeeverythingieverdid #theonlyperfectone
#ibelieve #myvillagedoestoo
#nofilter
The struggle of outward perfection and inward
truth is nothing new. In today’s world where light
is filtered, flaws are blurred, the good is enhanced,
images are “loved,” and comments are connected
to self-worth, you must remember the well. There
are no filters at the well, flaws are welcome, hard
questions are asked, hard questions are answered,
and love is more than a red heart on a screen.
No matter what others put on display, the reality
is no one has it all together. But the One who is
perfect is waiting on you to meet with Him. He’s
not there to condemn you, and He can handle the
hard stuff. You will have rough days, messy closets,
arguments, tears, and break ups. Christ is the only
thing that is and ever will be perfect in your life.
When you let that truth be on display, others in
your life will listen, see for themselves, and believe.
#justaskthewomanatthewell
Lindsey Carney is a writer, speaker, and Bible teacher.
She also owns Treasure 2 Farm in the rolling hills of Middle
Tennessee where she lives with her husband, Jason, and
their four children. Visit her website at lindseycarney.com
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Gopher Wood
Genesis 6:14 says the Ark was made out of gopher wood.
What is gopher wood? We don’t know! This is the only
place in the Bible where “gopher wood” is used. What
we do know is that it has nothing to do with the animal
called a gopher. But scholars don’t know what type of
tree produced gopher wood. It’s possible this type of
tree existed before the Flood but no longer exists today.
While we can’t say with certainty what type of tree or
wood was used, the important thing to remember is that
God provided for Noah and gave him the right materials
to build the Ark.
Jesus’ Travel Plans
In John 4, Jesus left Judea and headed to Galilee. Verse 4 says Jesus “had” to pass through Samaria.
From a travel standpoint, it made sense to pass through Samaria because it was the shortest route.
It would be like traveling from Texas to Kansas and passing through Oklahoma. However, strict
Jews hated Samaritans so much that they took a longer route just to avoid Samaria. It would be like
going from Texas to New Mexico to Colorado and then to Kansas, just to avoid people in Oklahoma.
However, Jesus was no ordinary Jewish leader. Not only did He travel through Samaria, but He broke
the cultural customs of the day and met with a Samaritan woman, offering her living water that
changed her life.
Can we believe in the miracles of the Gospels?
As William S. Craig and C.S. Lewis encourage us, if we start with who God is, miracles are not so hard to
accept. Can God intervene in the world He created? Yes. Does God intervene in the world He created?
Yes. When He does, the effects are miraculous. What helps us to confidently accept Jesus’ miracles?
Consider three truths:
1. There were witnesses. Something done in the presence of 5000 witnesses is hard to refute!
But we’ve seen enough magic shows and trick photography that we still doubt. So there were
other witnesses to other miracles too—reliable, trustworthy people who witnessed them
up close and personal. There were non-believers, skeptics, who witnessed the miracles and
acknowledged them. Actual people who were healed by Jesus gave first-person accounts.
Christ’s miracles were done in public places with many people who could see what happened.
2. The miracles were varied. Jesus didn’t have some oft-rehearsed scheme for deceiving
onlookers. In various places, He healed various people with various illnesses and disabilities.
He provided food or drink, gave life to dead people, cast out demons, calmed the storm, and
filled boats with fish, and more. And we don’t even know what else (John 21:25).
3. The miracles had purpose. As in other scriptural accounts, the miracles of the Gospels gave
confirmation to the authority of both the message and the messenger.
For more information, see Know Why You Believe (Paul Little, IVP, 2008), Evidence That Demands a Verdict: Life-Changing Truth for a Skeptical World (Josh
MeDowell and Sean McDowell, Thomas Nelson, 2017), Miracles (C. S. Lewis, HarperOne, 2015), and Reasonable Faith (William Lane Craig, Crossway, 2008).
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Rolled Paper Art
Recycle magazines to make some unique 3-D art projects!
What you’ll need:
1. Pattern—with simple lines
2. Board, canvas, or
cardboard to glue your
finished product onto
3. Old magazines with
colorful pages
4. Craft glue that dries clear
5. Scissors
6. Dowel stick (small
diameter), knitting needle,
or pencil
Directions:
Step One: Choose
a pattern that is not
too complicated. Use
a copier to make it the
size you want it to be.
(For your first effort,
you’ll probably want
to stay about 8 x 10
inches. Smaller means
it is hard to work in the
small spaces; larger
means you’d have to
stack your paper rolls.)
Cut out the pattern.
Step Two: Tear or cut
out colorful pages from
old magazines. You
can trim off portions
(borders, print), but the
pages will generally be
unrecognizable when
you have rolled them
up. You can use just
portions of the page
too, but they will make
shorter rolls.
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Step Three: Roll the pages tightly around
the dowel (or knitting needle or pencil), starting
at a corner. You can start anywhere, but
the corner makes it easier to get started with
a tight roll and makes your paper roll extend
longer. Try to roll evenly so that the entire tube
is the same diameter. When you get to the end
of the paper, glue the corner down and gently
slip the roll off your dowel. Let them dry.
Step Four: Make a lot of them—more than
you think you will need. Your fingers will get
sticky.
Step Five: Glue the rolls to your pattern. Try
to fit them very close to each other. On your
first attempt, go with a random arrangement.
You may want to try more intentional color
patterns after some practice. It is easier to
glue the rolls down to cover the pattern, a few
rolls at a time (and let them dry for a few minutes),
and then trim them off to fit the pattern.
Just turn your piece over, and trim off any part
of the roll that hangs over the pattern.
Step Six: Glue your piece to the board (or
canvas or cardboard), let it dry or a day or two,
and display it!
Please send us pictures of your creations to forward@d6family.com
and we’ll feature them on the D6Family Facebook page!
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On the scene from mission fields...
In Alpedrete, Spain with Emily & Marc Edgmon
Hola! We are Emily and Marc Edgmon and we have lived in Spain most of our lives. Marc was even born here.
We live in a town called Alpedrete near the capital city of Spain, Madrid. We wanted to tell you about some
roadblocks that keep young people our age from making their dreams come true.
One of those is the education system. Marc and I grew up in
the Spanish school system from the time we were three years
old until ninth grade (Marc) and eleventh grade (Emily). The
Spanish school system is very different from the American.
Elementary school ends at sixth grade and you go directly
into high school for seventh through twelfth. High school is a
big change from elementary school as the teachers seem not
to respect the students and the students don’t show much
respect to teachers either. Some students seemingly are there
just to pass their classes and have a fun time, which leads
to lots of chaos in the classrooms and makes it difficult to
learn. Often, students have to repeat grades in order to pass
them. In eleventh and twelfth grades, students really feel
the pressure because at the end of twelfth grade they take
a test that determines what they can study in college. For
example, someone who dreams of being a doctor, but scores
lower than a 13.075, will not be allowed to study medicine and
will have to choose a different major. This greatly impacts
students' performance in university and about 20% of college
students drop out every year.
Students in Spain
Madrid, Spain
Another roadblock for some young people is addiction.
In Spain many teenagers and young adults love going
out to parties. Most of the time when there is a party in
our town everyone goes—from the popular kids to the
not-so-popular kids. At these parties there is always alcohol
that the hosts charge for or the teens bring themselves.
In public parks throughout the year it is common
to find a group of friends with different bottles of alcohol
they mix with soft drinks. This public drinking is called
“botellón.” Each year, binge drinking leads to deaths,
sometimes in kids as young as 12 years old. There is also
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a very laid-back attitude toward marijuana consumption.
Studies show that one third of kids between seventh and
twelfth grade have consumed the drug. Many don’t realize
that the use of it during adolescence puts them at a higher
risk of depression or suicide in adulthood.
Nearly half of Spanish young people do not identify with
any religion at all. This means that many are trying to
handle their studies, navigate cultural pressures, and look at
a difficult economic future with no hope to build on. Paul,
speaking to the Ephesians, said that before they knew Jesus
they were without hope and without God in the world (Ephesians
2:12). Praise God that He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to
give hope and purpose to each life. We thank God every time
one of our friends asks us about the hope we have. Some
have joined us for special outreaches in the summer or even
come to church services. Others have a closed heart right
now. Will you pray for young people in Spain?
Facts about Spain
• If you love the beach, Spain is the place for you!
With nearly 5,000 miles of beaches in a country
that is roughly the size of the state of Texas there
is plenty of sand and surf for everyone.
• If you love weird ways to celebrate, then you will
love Spain. Everyone knows about the running
of the bulls in Pamplona, but did you know that
La Tomatina is an annual festival where people
throw a ton and a half of tomatoes at each other?!
• In 2019, nearly 84 million tourists visited Spain.
While the majority come from the UK, Germany,
and France, there are always a good number of
American visitors too.
Far de Cap Salines,
Mallorca, Spain
Religious Breakdown
• 10 million Spaniards live in towns with no
gospel witness at all.
• Evangelical believers are only 1% of the
population.
• Many Spaniards identify as Catholics, but do
not attend mass or follow church teachings.
• More people now identify as atheist or
agnostic (29%) than Catholic (23%) in Spain.
How You Can Pray
La Tomatina
Festival
• Economic and physical recovery after
the COVID-19 pandemic in the town of
Alpedrete. They were already struggling
with soaring unemployment.
• English lessons and outreach ministries
in a nearby city; the missionary team
hopes to plant another church there.
Emily and Marc with their parents Anthony and Lea
• Effective opportunities for sharing the
gospel with teens in the community,
like a fall Christian apologetics event in
Madrid called “Reboot Spain.”
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SENDING THE GOSPEL
TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH
God’s Word is being proclaimed in some of the world’s most remote and hard-toreach
places through Operation Christmas Child, a project of Samaritan’s Purse.
Learn more at
SAMARITANSPURSE.ORG/ENDSOFTHEEARTH
National Shoebox Collection Week: November 16-23, 2020
Which one of these is not like the other?
Here is a list of names. Which one does not belong?
For example:
Try these
Mary, Lazarus, Simon, Martha
Answer: Simon does not belong. The others were siblings, the members of
Marthaís household when Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead.
Answers on page 57
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Week Nine:
Oct. 31 - Nov. 6, 2020
Theme:
Jesus Meets Our Deepest Needs
Study Text: 2 Kings 5:1–27
Saturday - Sunday
Read John 4:1–42
Monday
Read 2 Kings 5:1–27
Tuesday
Read Matthew 10:1–15
I watched a toddler pitch a fit in
church one Sunday. The child demanded
one thing after another—a
toy, a snack, a new lap on which to
sit—but nothing satisfied her. The
mother noted, “She didn’t sleep
well last night. She needs a nap.”
Parents are so good at getting to
the heart of the problem.
The Samaritan woman who served
Jesus a drink at the community
well thought she needed water
to quench her physical thirst,
but Jesus saw a deeper need. He
introduced Himself as the source
of living water and proceeded to
wow her with His knowledge of her
private life. The woman, an outcast
in her culture, became a disciple
of Christ and then an evangelist.
She told everyone about the
Savior who got to the heart of her
problem.
Meditate
What deep, spiritual needs has
Jesus met for you?
Demonstrate
Jesus delights in taking care of
our deepest needs. Tell someone
about something Jesus has done
for you.
Several years ago a friend of mine
attempted to help me out of a
serious financial mess. When he
offered a check to me I initially
refused. I was humiliated at the
thought of accepting help, but
I desperately needed it. Finally,
I agreed to take the check but
promised to pay it back with interest,
to which my friend replied,
“Please, just take it.”
Naaman was in a similarly desperate
situation. A commander of the
army, he was stricken with leprosy.
His situation was not hopeless,
however, because God graciously
offered to heal him. Yet, just like
my pride urged me to refuse help
from a friend, Naaman’s pride
got in the way. He initially refused
to obey God’s prescription for
healing. Finally, he obeyed and was
healed, but he still wanted to pay
for the service. Elisha responded,
in essence, “Just take it.” There was
no cost for the miraculous work of
God.
Meditate
When you experience a need in
life, do you turn to Jesus first or as
a last resort? What role does your
pride play in the matter?
Demonstrate
Spend five minutes in prayer
today and talk to Jesus about your
needs. You don't have to use big
words or fancy phrases. Just be
honest with Him.
I live in a small, rural community.
Five churches sit within the city
limits of my hometown of just over
1000 people. That’s not counting
the dozen or so country churches.
You can understand my surprise
when I heard about a little girl who
attended a neighborhood Vacation
Bible School. She had never
heard of Jesus. How could that be
possible?
When Jesus sent out the disciples
to share about His ability to
meet the deepest spiritual needs
of the lost, He reminded them
to give freely because they had
freely received. How are we doing?
Consider the Joshua Project’s astounding
assertion that there are
approximately 7300 unreached
people groups in the world (www.
joshuaproject.net). Although it’s
a bit shocking, chances are good
there are people around you who
have never heard of Jesus. Will you
tell them?
Meditate
How can you take the message
of Christ and help meet people’s
deepest spiritual need?
Demonstrate
Write a letter or email to a friend
or family member that explains
the hope you have in Christ. Even
if you don’t send it, this activity
might help you see that sharing
Christ’s message isn’t so scary
after all.
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Wednesday
Read Matthew 28:16–20
In addition to identifying the 7300
unreached people groups in the
world, The Joshua Project also
offers up the following astounding
statistics:
• Together, the 50 largest
unreached people groups
are comprised of 1.47
billion souls.
• Approximately 81% of the
world’s Hindus, Muslims,
and Buddhists do not
know a single Christian.
After Jesus had commanded His
disciples to go to all the world to
preach the gospel, they traveled
thousands of miles to help Him
meet the world’s greatest spiritual
need: salvation. Our role in the
continuing task is simpler. The
world often comes to us. We are
truly a global society. There is no
excuse for not doing our part to
evangelize the world.
Meditate
What opportunities do you have
to interact with different cultures?
How can you use these opportunities
to share the gospel?
Demonstrate
Don’t forget that your school cafeteria,
the street on which you live,
and your favorite local hangout are
part of “all the world” too.
Notes:
Thursday
Read Luke 10:25–37
I grew up watching Sesame Street
on PBS and singing along with
the characters. My favorite song
asked, “Who are the people in your
neighborhood?” The song then
proceeded to answer this question,
telling us that the people in
our neighborhood are the people
we meet every day.
An expert in Jewish law asked the
question long before Sesame
Street. He directed it at Jesus in an
effort to justify himself. In a sense,
the man was trying to determine
who was not his neighbor, which
would give him an excuse for not
loving everyone. Jesus’ answer
proved a bit more elaborate than
Bert and Ernie’s. In the parable
Jesus made it clear that everyone
is our neighbor, even people we
don’t particularly like. No matter if
they’re our best friends or people
we’re meeting for the first time,
our neighbors are the people—all
the people—we meet. The bottom
line? Jesus wants to meet
the needs of all the people in
the neighborhood; therefore, so
should we.
Meditate
What groups of people are you
less than thrilled about serving?
How can you overcome these
hesitations?
Demonstrate
Make a concentrated effort in
the coming days to reach out to
students at your school who get
overlooked or shunned, even the
ones who bring it on themselves.
Friday
Read Isaiah 49:1–10
One of my favorite cartoons
features stuffed-with-fluff Winnie
the Pooh, who finds himself stuck
in the doorway of his home. In
Owl’s words, he is “a wedged bear
in a great tightness.” While some
of his friends pull on Pooh from
the outside, other pals push from
the rear in a team effort to provide
Pooh with the one thing he needs
most: freedom.
Sin wedges us into a very great
tightness. As if leaving us stuck isn’t
bad enough, sin also squelches the
light of Christ and blankets us in
darkness. Frozen by fear, penned
in by pride, locked in by lust, we
desperately need one thing: freedom.
Thankfully, as Isaiah’s prophecy
foretold, our truest friend, the
Lord of Light, is willing and able to
set us free. Although many despise
Him and reject Him, Jesus is our
Redeemer. He can provide freedom
that no one else can.
Meditate
Who needs your help and friendship
in accepting Jesus’ offer to
set them free from the sins that
imprison them?
Demonstrate
Stuck in sin? What are you waiting
for? Turn to Jesus. Come out! Be
free!
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Week Ten:
November 7 - 13, 2020
Theme:
Jesus Works Miracles
Study Text: Deut. 2:1–7
Saturday - Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Read John 6:1–14
A few years ago, I adopted a dog
from a rescue shelter. Charlie’s former
life was filled with abuse and
neglect. But his new life includes a
provision of everything he needs.
He has food, water, a soft, cozy
bed in which to sleep, and most of
all, love and affection.
Jesus provides for the needs of all
those who enjoy new life in Him.
What physical need did He meet
for the crowd of people in today’s
verses? Let’s be honest: we’re
a needy breed. Not only do we
require food, water, and shelter,
but we also crave attention, love,
comfort, joy, and purpose in life.
We also need instruction and discipline.
Our faithful Lord provides
it all.
Meditate
What does God’s faithful provision
teach you about His character?
Demonstrate
List five specific things God provides
for you.
Read Deuteronomy 2:1–7
I’m a bit of a control freak. The
school where I work has automatically
deposited my payroll
check into my checking account
each month for the past ten years.
Nothing has ever gone wrong; the
money has always been there
on payday, but I still log on to my
account every month to make
sure it’s there. Even in the face of a
perfect track record by the school
and bank, I still doubt.
Many believers tend to be control
freaks when it comes to trusting
God to provide for them. Although
He never fails us, we can’t seem
to resist coming up with a backup
plan, just in case He doesn’t come
through. How long had God been
with the children of Israel during
their time in the wilderness (verse
7)? During that time, what did they
lack?
Meditate
What consistent blessings from
God can you reflect on? How does
this help when you are tempted to
worry?
Demonstrate
Memorize Philippians 4:19.
Read Matthew 11:25–30
My bed is unbelievably comfortable.
It has one of those pillow-top
mattresses; it swallows you in fluffy
softness when you flop into it at
the end of a busy day. The funny
thing about my bed, though, is that
it doesn’t provide rest if I fail to
crawl into it.
We live in a stressed world, with
many pressures and troubles that
rob us of rest. God promises to
give His weary children the rest
they need, and He’s not just talking
about physical weariness. As
today’s verses point out, in Him we
find rest for our souls too. However,
we can’t expect our stress to
disappear if we don’t turn to Jesus
and let Him swallow us up in His
love and comfort.
Meditate
What did Jesus offer to the weary
in today’s verses? What did they
have to do to get it?
Demonstrate
Turn your worries into prayers.
Catch yourself when you are
tempted to worry and take your
need to your Heavenly Father
instead.
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Wednesday
Read Luke 12:8–12
When I was in high school, I participated
in the drama program. On
big performance nights our teacher
always positioned a “prompter”
just off stage. If an actor forgot
what to say at a particular time
in the production, the prompter
would whisper the line to get him
back on track.
The Holy Spirit does the same
for us when we witness for Christ.
We know the story. We know the
message of salvation, but nerves
and Satan often get the best of
us at crucial moments. What did
Jesus say the Holy Spirit would do
for His disciples when they needed
to defend their beliefs? Never
fear; our Prompter will deliver the
message to us so we can deliver it
to the lost. So what’s stopping you
from sharing your faith now?
Meditate
How does fear of not knowing what
to say affect your willingness to
share your faith with others?
Demonstrate
Ask your small group leader to
recommend a good book to read
about sharing your faith.
Thursday
Read Luke 12:22–34
To better understand why Jesus
wants us to trust Him to provide
our basic needs, let’s conduct
a little experiment. Go into the
bathroom and stare straight into
the mirror. What do you see? If you
are completely zoned in to your
own reflection, you’ll see nothing
but yourself. You will never spot
the dirty towel on the floor or the
mark on the wall or even your cat
plotting your demise.
The same applies to your life. If
you spend all your time worrying
about your clothes, your hair, the
car you drive, or other material
things, you won’t notice the hurting
people around you to whom you
can reach out. Jesus wants you to
trust Him to take care of you. In the
meantime, you should take care of
others in His name.
Meditate
According to the first verse you
read today, what things are we not
supposed to worry about? Do any
of these consume some of your
brain power? How can you redirect
your thinking?
Demonstrate
Write Luke 12:29–31 on a notecard
and put it where you will read it
often.
.
Friday
Read 2 Corinthians 9:6–15
When you were a little kid, did your
parents ever have to make you
share your toys with your siblings
or friends? I know mine did. We
tend to think of our stuff as truly
belonging to us, when in reality
it belonged to God first, but He
graciously gave it to us to meet our
needs and desires. In return we
should share His bountiful blessings
with others, but we shouldn’t
do it begrudgingly or with a poor
attitude. What kind of giver does
God love (verse 7)?
When giving to others, whether
it’s money, time, or possessions,
consider this: God delights in using
His children to provide for others.
In sharing what you have with
others, you might be an answer
to a prayer. How could you not be
cheerful about that?
Meditate
Giving is one thing; giving cheerfully
raises the standard a notch. What
is your attitude about giving?
Demonstrate
Interview your parents or grandparents
about cheerful giving. How
have they been enriched by being
generous (verse 11)?
Notes:
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Week Eleven:
November 14 - 20, 2020
Theme:
Jesus Has Power Over Death
Study Text: Genesis 16:1–16
Saturday - Sunday
Read John 11:1–44
Monday
Read Genesis 16:1–16
Tuesday
Read Psalm 43
“I have an oil for that!” I have heard
those words come shooting out
of my mouth more times than I
care to admit in the months since
I have begun using essential oils
for everything from thickening hair
to curing toenail fungus. I’m fairly
certain my family and friends are
sick of hearing it.
“I have a cure for that! Faith! It’s all
you need!” Full of the best intentions
and utter truth, we often
throw faith at every problem our
loved ones present to us. While
faith in Jesus Christ is the answer
to life’s problems, sometimes we
need to show compassion before
people can understand that faith.
Jesus knew He would raise Lazarus
from the dead, yet He took time to
mourn with a grieving family. We’re
not always called to fix the problems
of others. Sometimes we’re
simply called to show the compassion
of Jesus.
Meditate
In what circumstances have
well-meaning people told you to
“just believe”? How did this make
you feel about the person’s care
and concern over your situation?
Demonstrate
When helping a friend face a crisis,
pray, show love and empathy, and
listen for the Holy Spirit’s leading.
Don’t try to “fix it” with religious
jargon.
Have you ever been in a crowd of
people yet felt absolutely alone?
Perhaps you were at a new school,
surrounded by hundreds of students,
yet knowing no one. Maybe
you attended a church event
where no one talked to you and
you were by yourself.
Hagar must have felt a similar void
as she isolated herself from those
who made her feel invisible, even
in their company. However, her
loving Lord spoke to her in her time
of greatest loneliness. Because of
her encounter she called Him, “the
God who sees me.” Sometimes
God’s presence is seen through
angels; other times He meets the
lonely through other people. It is
up to us to be ready, aware of the
needs around us, and willing to
reveal His love.
Meditate
How can you make sure your
words, behavior, and attitudes
convey to others that God sees
and cares for them?
Demonstrate
Be mindful of those who might
feel lonely. Reach out to someone
this week and be a compassionate
friend.
I witnessed an incredible act of
faith when my grandpa suffered
a series of strokes that left him
unable to communicate or care
for himself. As I stepped outside
my grandparents’ house for some
fresh air, I heard someone speaking
forcefully. I caught a glimpse
of my grandma, standing at the
fence, fist raised toward Heaven,
letting God have it. Some people
might think her behavior was
inappropriate, disrespectful, or
even blasphemous, but it shouted
faith to me. Gran didn’t hold back
her honest feelings about the
situation, nor did she relinquish her
faith. Her time of transparency with
God gave her strength for the long
months ahead.
Sometimes the psalmist seemed
to walk the line of two extremes. In
one verse he railed about God’s
apparent abandonment, but the
next verse is filled with eloquent
praise. Was he crazy? Unbalanced?
Maybe a little. We all are.
We’re human. Let’s be honest
about it.
Meditate
How will presenting your honest
feelings, doubts, and frustrations
to God free you to hold on to faith
during hard times?
Demonstrate
Check out Matthew 27:46 and experience
Jesus’ honesty with God.
48 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Wednesday
Read Psalm 105
Waiting can be awful—waiting to
turn 16 and take your driver’s test,
waiting to get your ACT or SAT
scores, waiting for the weekend,
waiting for that college acceptance
letter. Sometimes waiting is
particularly excruciating—waiting
on the results of a loved one’s
cancer scans, waiting to see if
your parents go through with their
divorce, waiting on the bench
outside the principal’s office after
being caught cheating. Yep, waiting
is rough!
At least we don’t have to wait in
shackles, like Joseph (verse 18).
God made him wait in terribly
uncomfortable circumstances,
and although he had no choice but
to stay put and endure, he chose
to remain faithful to God when he
could have checked out mentally
and spiritually. That’s impressive
waiting. What enabled him to do
it? His total commitment to God
and his unwavering faith in God’s
power and purpose.
Meditate
How can you use a time of waiting
to strengthen your faith in what
God is doing?
Demonstrate
Memorize Isaiah 40:31
Notes:
Thursday
Read Matthew 9:27–38
All and every. These two words
are probably the most profound
words in verse 35. They convey to
us the vast reach of Jesus’ compassion.
He visited all the towns
and villages. He didn’t pick and
choose the ones that would offer
the warmest welcome or that had
already indicated firm support of
His ministry. He visited them all,
and while He was there He healed
every disease. He didn’t just bless
the “good people” with renewed
health. He didn’t just touch those
with minor issues. He didn’t ask for
evidence that the patients were
believers. He healed every one of
them.
What about us? When we encounter
a group of people do we love
and serve them all, or do we pick
and choose the pleasant ones, the
appropriately dressed ones, the
virtuous ones, the deserving ones?
Our answer determines the depth
of our compassion.
Meditate
Do you struggle to show compassion
to certain types of people?
What steps can you take to align
your heart with Jesus’ and more
effectively reach all and every?
Demonstrate
Ask God to help you have a heart
full of compassion that loves all
people.
Friday
Read Acts 4:32–37
The kindergarten school supply
list at my school asks families
to provide six boxes of crayons
per student. That seems like a
lot. What do we do with all those
crayons? The teachers sort them
all by color and split them among
all of the kindergarten students.
In this manner, none of our less
financially fortunate kids go without
crayons. I’m sad to say that
some parents are angered by this
procedure. They don’t believe they
should be held responsible for
other people’s duties to provide
for their kids. Some of them even
refuse to provide the requested six
boxes. Guess what? Their kids still
get crayons.
The early believers persistently
preached the good news of Jesus’
resurrection, but their actions
spoke far louder than their words in
testifying of the new life they found
in Christ. They shared everything.
No one was left wanting.
Meditate
How can this concept of sharing all
things among all people be carried
out without enabling people to be
lazy and neglectful of their responsibilities?
Demonstrate
Volunteer some time at a local
food pantry or thrift store. There
aren’t enough hours in the day for
staff members to sort through all
the donations they receive. Why
not offer a few of your free hours?
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Week Twelve:
November 21 - 27, 2020
Theme:
Faith Is Tested by Trials
Study Text: 2 Chronicles 10
Saturday - Sunday
Read Job 1:1—2:3
Monday
Read 2 Chronicles 10
Tuesday
Read Matthew 7:24–29
Swimming is not my thing. My
approach to large bodies of water
involves tentatively dipping my big
toe in to check the temperature
and then gradually easing the rest
of me into the water. When I first
met my husband, I warned him
that if he ever pushed me into the
water not only would our relationship
end, but his life might as well.
Easing into troubled times in life
would be nice, but most often
they come crashing down all of a
sudden, stealing our breath and
making us feel like we’re drowning
in worry, anger, depression, or sorrow.
Satan certainly shoved Job off
into the deep end of difficult times.
Job went from having everything to
having almost nothing. However,
Job held tightly to the one thing he
had left: his faith.
Meditate
When life gets tough, do you find
it easier or more difficult to cling
to your faith? Why was Job able to
hold on to his faith?
Demonstrate
Life is difficult. Spend time in
prayer and ask God to help you remain
faithful during the hard times.
When I was in high school the
members of our boys’ cross country
team decided it would be a
good idea to give a rude gesture to
the members of a rival team. Just
before judgment fell, our principal
reminded the boys they had been
told repeatedly to conduct themselves
in a manner that represents
our school well. Then he asked,
“Why on earth would you think this
was a good idea?” Let’s be honest—teenage
boys don’t always
think things through before acting.
Consider Rehoboam’s group of
young men. When asked to advise
the king they suggested boasting
about biceps and using scorpions
as torture tools. So much for
diplomacy. Why on earth would
Rehoboam follow their advice? It’s
tough to know why, but he did. This
resulted in a major catastrophe.
Rehoboam had the opportunity to
do what was wise and right, yet he
chose the way of foolishness, and
chaos followed.
Meditate
When you need advice and
wisdom, whom do you seek out?
Why? Why is it important to seek
out godly, wise people when you
need advice?
Demonstrate
Memorize Psalm 1:1. Remembering
and applying it will save you from a
world of trouble.
I used to think the children’s story,
“The Three Little Pigs,” was a good
representation of the wise and
foolish builders in today’s verses.
The importance of sturdy building
material cannot be overstated.
However, I changed my mind on
a recent trip to my husband’s
hometown. The new high school
was solid brick and super nice.
After I expressed my admiration,
Brandon informed me that the
new school rested atop a sinkhole.
“They’re just asking for disaster.”
Sturdy building materials are important,
but they’re not as critical
as a strong foundation. On sand or
sinkhole, the strongest brick house
will fall. The same can be said of
our lives, even if we build them
with the best education, the most
stellar talents and abilities, and the
coolest plans. When the storms
of life come, we will fall unless our
lives rest securely on a bedrock of
faith in Christ.
Meditate
What daily habits are you developing
that will strengthen your faith
foundation?
Demonstrate
In addition to prayer and Bible
study, keeping a faith journal is a
wonderful method of growing in
faith. Record your life experiences.
You’ll see God’s hand in every area
of your life, and in both good and
bad times.
50 SEP • OCT • NOV 2020
Wednesday
Read 1 Timothy 6:6–10
A high school student recently
gushed excitement about an online
class he was taking for college
credit. “It’s so easy! We never have
homework, and the test questions
come straight from the notes. I’m
going to take as many online classes
as I can!” I gave him a look and a
word of warning: “Don’t get used to
it. They aren’t always easy.”
It’s easy to get used to being comfortable.
We have enough food,
clothing, money, gas in the tank,
friends, and health to make life
fairly enjoyable most of the time.
That’s a good thing, right? After all,
Paul said contentment is beneficial!
Actually, a world of difference
lies between being content and
being comfortable. Being content
means you are thankful for what
you have in the present moment
and are satisfied, even if you don’t
have everything you want. You
can be content, even if you aren’t
comfortable.
Meditate
How can you develop contentment
within your heart and mind?
Demonstrate
Give something away! Give money
or a valued possession to someone
in need. Give time or kindness
when it is not convenient. Do this
in thanksgiving and sacrifice to
God who has blessed you richly.
Thursday
Read Hebrews 11:24–28
When I think about what it means
to give up everything you have,
my mind instantly goes to missionaries
who have traded in their
material possessions for a chance
to share the gospel with others. I’ve
seen friends leave their well-paying
jobs, sell their nice homes, and get
rid of their nice cars simply so they
could follow God’s call and move
overseas to share the gospel. God
called; they obeyed.
Moses could’ve continued a life of
luxury in the palace of Egypt, but
his Israelite heart wouldn’t allow it.
He walked away from power and
riches and into poverty and times
of great struggle, but he became
the deliverer of God’s people. God
called; Moses obeyed. Being rich in
love, faith, grace, and generosity is
far superior to being bank-account
rich.
Meditate
How can you share your blessings—time,
talents, material
possessions, money—with others?
How can sharing your blessings
provide an opportunity to share
the gospel?
Demonstrate
Find out ways you can support
missionaries, whether through
financial giving, prayer, or encouragement.
Friday
Read 2 Peter 1:3-11
Several years ago a popular singer
released a song that shot straight
to the top of the Billboard charts.
Its lyrics echoed a famous old
adage: What doesn’t kill you makes
you stronger. I blasted that song
on my iPod during my most recent
attempt to become a runner,
although the words didn’t help
much. I was fairly certain I would
be killed with every ragged breath.
However, the music and the volume
at which it played managed
to drown out my racing heartbeat
and desperate gasps for air.
As Job and countless other suffering
believers have discovered,
what doesn’t kill your faith truly will
make it stronger. Trials breed trust,
if we don’t succumb to self-pity,
doubt, and fear. What do we need
to survive? Peter’s recipe calls for
a little perseverance, self-control,
wisdom, and love. It’s a powerful
combination. It drowns out the
self-pity, doubt, and fear.
Meditate
How have perseverance, self-control,
wisdom, and love helped your
faith to survive a time of trouble?
How can you build these qualities
in your life?
Demonstrate
Read Job 1 again. Take some time
to think about verse 22 and what
it means to live with that type of
extreme faith.
Notes:
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Week Thirteen:
Nov. 28 - Dec. 4, 2020
Theme:
Why Does God Allow Suffering?
Study Text: Proverbs 17:9–17
Saturday - Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Read Job 2:11-13
After losing his mother—a lifelong
drug addict—to an overdose last
weekend, a local preteen boy
noted, “God has been preparing
me for this. I knew it was coming.”
His faith leaves me awestruck and
filled with questions. Why did God
allow this child, who has suffered
so much, to endure yet another
chapter of agony?
God allowed someone else to
suffer: His only Son. Jesus suffered
physical, mental, and spiritual
anguish as He paid for our sins on
the cross. Why didn’t God save
Him the pain? Because of His
love for us. As impossible as it is
to understand, and as hard as it
is to believe, God’s love permits
suffering. As part of the human
condition, we face disappointment,
disaster, disease, and death.
In addition to His presence and
help, God also sends us friends to
share our sorrows.
Meditate
In what ways have you experienced
God’s love in the middle of
suffering?
Demonstrate
Think of someone you know who
is hurting right now—whether
emotionally or physically. Do
something to help. If you don’t
know what to do, ask God to direct
you to just the right act of kindness
and support.
Read Proverbs 17:9–17
Fair-weather baseball fans root
for the home team . . . as long as
they’re winning. At the first sign of a
shutout, a rain out, or a washout of
a season, those fans are gone. But
if you’ve got a friend on the team,
even if he is on the bench, you
show up—no matter the weather,
no matter the score, no matter the
hopes for a pennant.
According to Solomon, the author
of Proverbs, there is no such thing
as a fair-weather friend. True
friends stand by your side and
offer assistance and comfort in
the worst of circumstances. Rather
than being scared away by your
suffering or awkwardly tiptoeing
around it, they share in it. They
stand up for you and stick close
to you. Fair-weather folks are just
acquaintances; they’re not friends.
Meditate
Are you a fair-weather companion
or a faithful friend in good times
and bad?
Demonstrate
Don’t overthink your methods of
loving and helping the suffering.
Keep it simple. Sometimes the
greatest comfort lies in quiet companionship
or shared sorrow.
Read Romans 8:18–25
Our son dragged sleds and tractor
tires around a field. He ran bleacher
steps. He high-stepped through
tires and hit walls. He sweated
through lunges and jumping jacks.
He bench-pressed heavy loads.
None of it was fun, but he was
focused on the pay-off: winning
football games. The temporary
suffering of football practice was
worth the reward of playing well.
Paul encouraged the suffering
Roman believers with much the
same message. Pain can produce
great things within believers, both
now and in eternity. It teaches
patience, compassion, and true
dedication to God. Jesus suffered,
so when we suffer for doing good,
our suffering makes us more like
Him. He is most definitely worth it.
Meditate
How have times of suffering made
you a stronger believer?
Demonstrate
Reflect on a time of suffering and
use your experience to fuel compassionate
acts toward those who
struggle with similar pain.
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Wednesday
Read Philippians 2:1–4
In the Garden of Eden, Adam
and Eve introduced sin into the
world. And it has been here since.
Because of the suffering our world
experiences, many question why
God hasn’t done something to
alleviate the suffering. The truth
is He has done something: He
entrusted us with special gifts so
we could be His beacons of hope
to a lost and dying world.
Paul taught the Philippians that
they had received special gifts
from Christ, and he challenged
them to use gifts like comfort,
peace, encouragement, and gentleness
to bless those who suffer.
We should do likewise. Instead of
asking God why He allows suffering,
we need to ask ourselves why
we allow it and what we will do
about it.
Meditate
Are you doing everything you can
to alleviate the suffering of those
around you?
Demonstrate
Take the Friendship Challenge:
Seek out a lonely, isolated, or rejected
student in your school and
show genuine friendship before
this week ends.
Thursday
Read 1 Timothy 2:1–8
My 92-year-old grandmother often
told me, “I can’t do much of anything
for anybody, but I can sit here
and pray!” Only Heaven knows the
eternal difference those sweet
pleas made in the lives of those
Gran mentioned to Jesus. She has
been with Him for a year now, and
I’m certain she talks His ear off.
Paul was even more passionate
about prayer than Gran was. He
understood it to be the key to
peace, comfort, holiness, and the
expansion of God’s kingdom. Are
you surrounded by lost, unsaved
people? Pray! Do you know someone
who is suffering? Pray! Has
someone you barely know been on
your mind a lot lately? Pray! Even
when you think there is nothing
you can do, there is something.
First and foremost, you must pray.
Meditate
Can you think of someone who
needs to know Jesus? Pray for that
person.
Demonstrate
Whether you use a phone app, an
online blog, or an old-fashioned
spiral notebook, keep a prayer
journal. Record your requests and
God’s responses. It will strengthen
your faith.
Friday
Read 1 Peter 1:3–11
My friend Gary ran a 100-mile race
last weekend. That’s right . . . 100
miles! When I asked Gary what
kept him going when the pain and
exhaustion set in, he simply replied,
“The promise of the finish.” I
assume the reward would not have
been as sweet if he had driven the
100 miles.
Peter offered a bit of encouragement
to his readers by reminding
them of the reward at the end of
the line for believers. The person
who faithfully follows Christ has
salvation and an eternal inheritance
to look forward to. This
reward is made even sweeter because
of the suffering we endure
on the journey. Surely, Heaven
wouldn’t be as sweet if we were
able to breeze through the gates
with no struggle.
Meditate
How does the promise of the end
of all suffering and the eternal
salvation of your soul help you
through difficult times?
Demonstrate
Encourage those who are struggling
to keep their focus on the
finish. While you’re at it, remind
yourself to do the same.
Notes:
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Name that cartoon from the description
of its first episode.
1 2
Carnivoris Vulgaris will
stop at nothing to catch
dinner; a boomerang, school
crossing, boulder, and (of
course) an exploding rocket
are involved. Beep! Beep!
To be able to go
bowling instead of
accompanying their
wives to the opera,
Fred and Barney
pretend to be ill.
3
The main character is
sad because rain keeps
her from playing outside
in the barnyard. But
after the rain, she and
George get to jump in
mud puddles.
4
The teenage gang
searches for a missing
archaeologist who left
a suit of black armor
when he disappeared.
5 6
Jane decides to
buy a robot maid,
but George thinks
it may ruin his
chances for a raise.
Dreamy’s
ambition is to go
into space, and
Handy helps him!
7 8
Sweet Polly Purebred
and a rescue from a
bank vault introduce
a rather clumsy hero,
not a plane, not a frog.
After their own
planet explodes,
Jaga and Lion-O must
find a new home on
Third Earth.
9
Selina Kyle and
the terrorist
Red Claw are
featured.
After Elmer buys him
from a pet shop, he
refuses to be a pet
and eventually takes
over Elmer’s house
and sleeps in his bed.
10
11
To get to a chicken that’s
as big as a house, Boots
and his owner must cross
a broken bridge and open
a locked gate.
When he finally
breaks out of
Jellystone Park,
he wants back in to
avoid the hunters.
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answers on page 57
insights from youth pastor
Jon Forrest
Fighting Doubt
They show up in those quiet moments when you’re
alone in the dark, trying to turn off your brain
so you can get enough rest to function the next
morning. They sneak in through cracks you didn’t
know existed. If left unchecked they can grow
until they take over your life.
I’m talking about mice, but now that I think about
it, doubt behaves in the exact same way.
An efficient way to avoid doubts about God is to
kick your brain into neutral and not think about
those difficult questions such as evil, our origins,
or how we got our Bible. This is an efficient way to
deal with doubt, but it’s also wildly inadequate.
I remember the first time I really wrestled with
the fact that although God owns the cattle on a
thousand hills, about 25,000 people starve to death
every day! God could speak the word and fix it, and
yet He doesn’t.
For a long time, I mastered the art of sidestepping
these doubts, usually by going to Taco Bell while
chanting, “Jesus, church, steeples, Moses, holiness,
etc.” until I fogged my mind with enough chimichangas
and mantras to function normally.
While chimichangas are the answer to many of
life’s questions, they are not the best way to fight
doubts you may have about God.
Our doubts are not a shock to God. Matthew 28:17
tells us that some of the 11 remaining disciples
doubted. This is after they had seen Jesus feed
5000 people with a Lunchables control not only
the weather but also the sea, heal the sick, raise the
dead, come back from the dead, and do so many
other things there aren’t enough pages on earth to
contain it. They witnessed all of that and yet they
doubted. And you thought you were weak!
Please hear this: doubt is not the end of the world.
As a matter of fact, I’d argue that some of the greatest
times of spiritual growth come from wrestling
with difficult questions. First Thessalonians 5:21
tells us to “test everything.” God is not intimidated
by your quest for truth. If given a fair investigation,
all real truth leads directly back to Him.
As you confront your doubts be sure to surround
yourself with people you trust who can help you
dig deep for truth. Emotions run deep when it
comes to these tough questions. Be careful not to
give in to a voice just because it is the loudest at
the moment.
Doubt is a natural part of making your faith your
own. God made that beautiful brain of yours and
I’m so glad you’re giving it a good workout.
Jon Forrest has been working with students at Bethel Free
Will Baptist Church in Ashland City, Tennessee for about 25
years. He is the author of Help! My Games Stink and FIGHT.
His passions include collecting Nerf guns (he estimates well
over 400) and lobbying for Chick-fil-A to get Honey Roasted
BBQ Sauce into the larger foil-covered plastic containers.
His wife Carrie and daughter Ellie lovingly put up with him.
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All About the Beginning
Read the clues below to discover the first answer. Then, add a beginning letter to make a new
meaning, then add another beginning to find the third word. (Hint: Or go backwards! )
Example:
1. Go from everything above average height housing for a horse:
All Tall Stall
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
2. Go from a single unit a musical sound a rock
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
3. Go from a state of being a rabbit mutual possession.
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
4. Go from a state of being trim off extra
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
5. Go from an organ for hearing a preserve fruit a weapon with a sharp point
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
6. Go from what we breathe a set of two fix*
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
7. Go from a state of being being concerned causing fear
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
8. Go from never-ending a tool used to move or lift objects witty and intelligent
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
9. Go from frozen water tiny insects uniting by securing two ends*
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
10. Go from number one tatted adornment a location
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
11. Go from number one a measured speed outer areas
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
12. Go from number one competitive event unmerited favor
____________________ ____________________ ____________________
*add 2 letters Answers on page 57
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8. Thundercats
9. Batman: The
Animated Series
10. Bugs Bunny
11. Dora the Explorer
12. Yogi Bear
2. One, Tone, Stone
3. Are, Hare, Share
4. Are, Pare, Spare
5. Ear, Pear, Spear
6. Air, Pair, Repair
7. Are, Care, Scare
8. Ever, Lever, Clever
9. Ice, Lice, Splice
10. Ace, Lace, Place
11. Ace, Pace, Space
12. Ace, Race, Grace
1. Road Runner
2. Flintstones
3. Peppa Pig
4. Scooby Doo
5. Jetsons
6. Smurfs
7. Underdog
TOP 10
Reasons You’re Ready
to Go Back to School
10 It’s hard to have deep conversations
with your pets.
1. Paul (did not write a gospel)
2. Matthew (was not a fisherman)
3. Bartimaeus (was not a tax collector)
4. Philemon (did not write a book in the
New Testament)
5. Mark (was not one of the Twelve)
6. Matthew (was not a colleague of Paul)
7. Isaiah (not one of the books of the
Pentateuch)
8. Gideon (story not told in the
Pentateuch)
9. Adam (the others are Adam’s sons)
10. Rebekah (did not give birth to
Abraham’s child/children)
11. Kenan (not on the ark)
12. Tree of Eden (not one of the trees in
the Garden of Eden)
P.S. If your answer is different, you may
have strong support for it! Try it out on
someone!
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Answers:
09 You’re actually bored of being on your phone.
08 Those rectangular pizzas at school
are pretty amazing.
07 Practice makes perfect, and you’ve practiced
social distancing way too much.
06 The word “quarantine” makes you sicker
than a pop quiz in history class.
05 Real classroom > Zoom classroom
04 You’re desperate for any type of road trip,
even a five-mile ride on a school bus.
03 You finished Netflix.
02 It’s hard to play dodgeball by yourself.
01 You left a tuna sandwich in your locker months
ago and need to destroy the evidence before
you get blamed for the smell.
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