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<strong>St</strong>ress and Anxiety<br />

Are you feeling stressed and anxious about the future?<br />

During the pandemic, we are experiencing more stress and<br />

anxiety than ever before. This is caused by uncertainty and<br />

ever-changing information. According to the mental health<br />

charity Mind, 60% of adults said their mental health became<br />

worse during lockdown.<br />

<strong>St</strong>ress and anxiety can manifest itself in many different<br />

ways. Physical symptoms can include an increased<br />

heart rate or muscle tension, ‘jelly’ legs or tingling in the<br />

hands and feet, breathing too heavily or dizziness. You<br />

may experience feelings that you might lose control,<br />

faint, think people are looking at you and noticing your<br />

anxiety. Dave Smithson from Anxiety UK says “Those who<br />

are usually outgoing may become withdrawn or those<br />

who are reserved may become erratic.<br />

Everyone is different and anxiety can<br />

be triggered by a range of things.”<br />

Other symptoms can include<br />

lack of concentration,<br />

catastrophic thoughts,<br />

poor memory, excessive<br />

alcohol intake, under<br />

or overeating, a short<br />

temper and tearfulness.<br />

A key indicator is<br />

blowing things out of<br />

proportion. As Lorraine<br />

Collins, psychodynamic<br />

counsellor, psychotherapist,<br />

Cognitive Behavioural Therapist<br />

and member of the British<br />

Association for Counselling and<br />

Psychotherapy (BACP), says<br />

“If you’re stressed, how you<br />

view situations can become<br />

altered and distorted due<br />

to the brain not being able<br />

to process information in<br />

a more balanced way. It<br />

can also be a cry for help<br />

in communicating distress<br />

that can be difficult to put into words, so is ‘acted out’ by<br />

slamming doors, banging around, road rage and so on.”<br />

If you are under threat of redundancy as a result of the<br />

pandemic, this is additional stress as a job provides selfesteem,<br />

purpose and a social network. Losing your job<br />

unexpectedly affects all this, so stress accumulates.<br />

Lorraine says “If there is a threat of redundancy, it’s quite<br />

normal to feel stressed and anxious about your security<br />

and future. It can be like a constant feeling of dread and<br />

impending doom. You may experience a sinking feeling<br />

in the stomach. There may be a tendency for catastrophic<br />

thoughts about what the future might hold.”<br />

If you are suffering from extreme stress, it may be difficult<br />

to recognise it. Lorraine advises checking your<br />

‘internal dialogue’, which will reduce the risk of<br />

stress and tension building up. By that she<br />

means asking yourself “Am I tired and<br />

wired?” as a kind of self-monitoring.<br />

“I often suggest to my patients<br />

to use the HALT method – am<br />

I hungry, angry, lonely or<br />

tired? Getting into the habit<br />

of addressing these things<br />

can help to monitor your<br />

levels of stress and keep a<br />

more balanced sense of wellbeing,”<br />

she says.<br />

How To Manage<br />

<strong>St</strong>ress and Anxiety<br />

The good news is there are<br />

plenty of practical and useful<br />

tools to manage anxiety and<br />

reduce stress:<br />

• Getting back into nature is a<br />

great way of calming your anxiety.<br />

This can be a local park, woodland,<br />

nature reserve or your garden.<br />

Lorraine says “You can practice<br />

naming what’s around you, the

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