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Serving the <strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong> LGBT Community and its Allies | MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong><br />

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contents<br />

LIFE<br />

REDUCING<br />

THE STRESS<br />

OF ACTIVISM<br />

PAGE<br />

8<br />

FAITH+SPIRITUALITY<br />

RABBI BESS<br />

WOHLNER<br />

FOSTERING INCLUSION<br />

FOR LGBT JEWS<br />

PAGE<br />

18<br />

TRAVEL<br />

ORIGINAL MEMPHIS<br />

PEABODY HOTEL DUCKS<br />

PAGE<br />

36<br />

LGBT ALLY<br />

MAURICIO CALVO<br />

THE FIGHT’S NOT THE SAME FOR<br />

LATINOS AND LGBT, BUT THE<br />

OPPONENT USUALLY IS<br />

PAGE<br />

25<br />

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SOUTHERN<br />

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7<br />

THEME<br />

HOME GROWN<br />

10<br />

BRODERICK GREER<br />

Episcopal priest, gay man,<br />

makes a path for others not<br />

yet out<br />

14<br />

STEVE COHEN<br />

U.S. Representative<br />

(9th District) and native<br />

Memphian Steve Cohen,<br />

fighting to save the Republic<br />

22<br />

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life<br />

DEAR<br />

R.I.S.E.<br />

RESISTANCE IS NOT FUTILE, BUT CAN BE<br />

EXHAUSTING!<br />

by Sarah Rutledge Fischer<br />

Dear Allie,<br />

Like a lot of people, I’ve gotten more<br />

involved in activism over the past few<br />

months. I marched with the women of<br />

Memphis in January. I’ve been making<br />

calls to my political officials. I try<br />

to follow the news. When there is a<br />

public action, I try to show up and be<br />

counted. And I’m exhausted. I take a<br />

day off here or there, but nearly every<br />

time, something terrible happens, and<br />

I feel guilty for not paying attention.<br />

I worry that if I keep going at this<br />

pace, I will end up severely depressed<br />

and burnt out, but I’m just as afraid of<br />

growing complacent and not standing<br />

up. Help.<br />

Yours,<br />

Resistance Is Seriously Exhausting<br />

Dear R.I.S.E,<br />

You are right to be worried, and<br />

you are not alone. As issues in<br />

the American social and political<br />

landscape have begun to reach a<br />

boiling point, more and more people<br />

are turning to activism. Many are<br />

struggling to balance the intensity<br />

of their concerns with the need to<br />

maintain equilibrium in their daily<br />

lives. This needn’t be the case. With a<br />

little time and planning, your activism<br />

can cease to be a strain on your daily<br />

balance, and instead become a source<br />

of fulfillment and even fun.<br />

First, a little perspective. Try not to compare yourself to seasoned activists.<br />

An unexperienced runner would never expect to be able to jump right into an<br />

Olympic marathon without proper training and experience. Anyone who did<br />

so would likely end up hurt and unable to even walk, much less run. Activism,<br />

like running, is an activity that is accessible to nearly everyone, but it requires<br />

training and experience or you risk burn out.<br />

Also, remember that it is not necessary or practical for everyone to try to do<br />

everything. In the Olympics, it would be absurd for all athletes to complete in<br />

every sport. Instead, each focuses on the activity for which they have the most<br />

talent, interest, and natural ability. Activism is the same. You can make the<br />

most difference by spending your time on those efforts for which you have the<br />

most talent, interest, and natural ability.<br />

So, let’s make a plan. First, write a list of issues that are important to<br />

you. Don’t worry about putting them in order. Don’t worry if you miss<br />

something. Just get what you can down on paper. Now, pick the two most<br />

closely connected to your life and experience. They don’t need to be the most<br />

objectively important issues on the list, just issues towards which you have a<br />

connection or passion.<br />

Now, considering only those two issues, write down the ways you<br />

are already advancing those causes. Consider your work, your social<br />

interactions, your religious institution and other organizations. Where do you<br />

speak out? Where do you participate? Where do you donate or volunteer?<br />

Be expansive. Don’t leave anything out.<br />

Now consider that list, and take stock. Of which contributions are you<br />

most proud? Are there places you could increase these efforts? Are there<br />

efforts you feel are wasted? Take pride in the ways you already contribute to<br />

these causes. Recognize that new work should not jeopardize the work you<br />

already do. Make a commitment to continue what is valuable and increase<br />

that work where feasible.<br />

Next, go back to the original list of issues and pick one to add to your<br />

activism efforts. Think about the talents and experience you can bring to<br />

this cause. Consider your work experience, your hobbies, your resources.<br />

Write these down. Identify an organization affiliated with the issue with<br />

which you can get involved. If you know someone who already works on<br />

the issue, reach out for guidance or mentorship.<br />

Finally, go back to the original list. Add any issues that are missing.<br />

Then for each one, identify one friend, acquaintance, or public figure<br />

whose work in this area you can support. It might be by giving<br />

encouragement and appreciation, sharing public statements and social<br />

media posts, or even, if you are able, making donations.<br />

And that’s it. From time to time, stop and take stock. You might add<br />

something here or drop something there. I hope that, eventually, you will<br />

look back and find that you have built a life around public involvement in<br />

a way that feels natural and fulfilling.<br />

That should get you started.<br />

Your friend,<br />

Allie<br />

To submit your own question, email Allie at editor@focusmidsouth.com.<br />

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faith+spirituality<br />

BRODERICK<br />

GREER<br />

story by Melinda Lejman | photo by Justin Fox Burks<br />

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Reverend Broderick Greer knew he was gay when he was five<br />

years old. “I really enjoy helping people imagine what it looks<br />

like” Greer says, “ for God to take an active role in creating<br />

LGBT people the way that God created straight people.”<br />

Reverend Broderick Greer<br />

knew he was gay when he was five<br />

years old. Now 26, he is Curate<br />

of Grace-St. Luke’s Episcopal<br />

Church and a thought leader on<br />

the intersection of history, queer<br />

theory, black theology and racial<br />

justice. Having grown up in a<br />

black Missionary Baptist Church<br />

in Fort Worth, Texas, he made<br />

his way to the Episcopalian faith<br />

after a short stint in the Church of<br />

Christ. Graduating from seminary<br />

at Virginia Theological in 2015 and<br />

being matched with his parish in<br />

Memphis, Reverend Greer appears<br />

to have taken what he calls a “quick<br />

succession of changes” in stride.<br />

We met for his interview<br />

on an unseasonably warm day<br />

in February. Settling into his<br />

quaint and cozy office which<br />

was previously occupied by<br />

another openly gay priest, I<br />

asked him about his work with<br />

LGBTQ congregants and helping<br />

individuals reconcile their faith<br />

with their sexual orientation.<br />

In the past, this would have<br />

frustrated Greer as a question that<br />

has been asked and answered.<br />

Today, he concedes that it’s still an<br />

important conversation, especially<br />

in an area that he sees as permeated<br />

with conservative Christian<br />

ideology and homophobia.<br />

“I really enjoy helping people<br />

imagine what it looks like for<br />

God to take an active role in<br />

creating LGBT people the way<br />

that God created straight people.”<br />

In a time when perhaps LGBT<br />

people are tolerated more than<br />

embraced, Greer advocates for<br />

more visibility. “Moving beyond<br />

that space of toleration into a space<br />

of affirmation and celebration is an<br />

important part of my work here.”<br />

In Greer’s childhood church he<br />

met a gay man who, along with<br />

his partner, became special friends<br />

of the family, often celebrating<br />

holidays together. “For me, it was<br />

normal that this gay couple was a<br />

part of our family, and that this<br />

was how we should treat people,<br />

with an eye toward justice and an<br />

eye toward inclusion.”<br />

Did this inform how he felt<br />

about his own sexual identity?<br />

Greer didn’t make that connection<br />

until after he came out in his<br />

twenties. Greer sees counseling<br />

individuals who are struggling with<br />

their own reconciliation as part<br />

of the honor that comes with the<br />

work he does as a minister.<br />

When Greer came out, he was<br />

convinced he had nothing to lose,<br />

having no money, no partner, and<br />

surrounded by a supportive family.<br />

“There are people who have these<br />

realizations when they are in the<br />

middle of a marriage, a career, and<br />

they have children, and they would<br />

lose everything if they did it.”<br />

Recognizing that for some it<br />

will never be safe to come out,<br />

he is more than prepared to offer<br />

support. “There are just so many<br />

different ways that people deal with<br />

this. My role is to be someone who<br />

is a companion for them on that<br />

journey.”<br />

Throughout Reverend Greer’s<br />

writing and sermons runs an<br />

intentional elevation of the<br />

normalization of LGBTQ people.<br />

He offers a reimagining of what<br />

it means to be human, giving<br />

examples that represent the full<br />

spectrum of humanity in addition<br />

to straight and cisgender identities.<br />

Greer eloquently expands this<br />

idea into sermon-like questions.<br />

“What stories are not being told,<br />

what narratives are outliers in our<br />

collective imagination, and how<br />

do we amend an imagination that<br />

erases people at the margins?”<br />

For some, these questions are<br />

creating the kind of activism that is<br />

becoming forefront in our nation’s<br />

collective conscience as a response<br />

to the results of the 2016 election.<br />

Reverend Greer attended the<br />

Women’s <strong>Mar</strong>ch in Washington<br />

in January. He also marched here<br />

more recently, standing with<br />

immigrants and refugees who<br />

walked in downtown Memphis<br />

from Clayborn Temple to the Civil<br />

Rights Museum. Greer tells me<br />

how proud he was of Memphis in<br />

that moment, when our Muslim<br />

brothers prayed openly in front of<br />

the Lorraine Motel surrounded<br />

by other marchers who made a<br />

protective wall around them.<br />

For Greer, it’s this kind of<br />

showing up and making space that<br />

represents our shared humanity at<br />

its best.<br />

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REPRESENTATION<br />

STEVE<br />

COHEN<br />

photo courtesy Office of Steve Cohen<br />

U.S. Representative Steve Cohen is a fourth generation<br />

Memphian. He was Shelby County Commissioner from<br />

1978-80. He served in the TN General Assembly as a State<br />

Senator from 1982 to 2006. He’s been the Congressperson<br />

for the 9th District since 2007. He’s our towering oak in the<br />

midst of so many Capitol Hill saplings.<br />

Congressman Steve Cohen, U.S.<br />

Representative for Tennessee’s 9th<br />

Congressional District since 2007,<br />

has long been an ally of the Memphis<br />

LGBT community.<br />

Here in Memphis, Representative<br />

Cohen has stood among us in times<br />

of joy and times of heartbreak. He<br />

joined us in January at the Women’s<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>ch as more than 3,000 people<br />

marched from the D’Army Bailey<br />

Court House to the National Civil<br />

Rights Museum. He joined us last<br />

summer in Cooper Young as we<br />

gathered together to mourn the<br />

horrific mass shooting at Pulse<br />

Nightclub in Orlando. He has<br />

joined us year after year to celebrate<br />

progress, community, and, of course,<br />

pride at our annual <strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong> Pride<br />

Festival and Parade.<br />

At a national level, Representative<br />

Cohen has proudly championed<br />

LGBT rights in Congress and<br />

the media. He has sponsored and<br />

supported legislation against hate<br />

crimes and spoken before Congress<br />

about the discrimination and sexual<br />

violence faced by transgender<br />

students. His voting record on<br />

LGBT and other human rights<br />

issues received a perfect rating<br />

on the Human Rights Campaign<br />

Scorecard for both the 113 th and<br />

114 th Congress.<br />

Last month, in the wake of<br />

the recent presidential election,<br />

we reached out to Representative<br />

Cohen for his thoughts on this<br />

administration’s potential impact on<br />

the LGBT community.<br />

Congressman Cohen, as we<br />

settle into the early months of<br />

this new administration, what<br />

are your concerns for the LGBT<br />

community?<br />

“Well there are several. I think<br />

anybody that’s not a white, male<br />

heterosexual has so much to worry<br />

about with this administration.<br />

Much of that is because (White<br />

House Chief Strategist) Steve<br />

Bannon, who is calling the shots, is<br />

your traditional, Ozzy and Harriet,<br />

1950s American, with a perspective<br />

of wanting to return to those days of<br />

yesteryear.<br />

“I know the president has been in<br />

New York and the world. He’s had<br />

gay associates and friends, I’m sure.<br />

But apparently, they haven’t moved<br />

him enough in his political instincts<br />

to go beyond Steve Bannon’s basic<br />

call for this kind of white, traditional<br />

family that I think they are going to<br />

move. While (President Trump) said<br />

something the other day about not<br />

doing anything that is going to hurt<br />

gay and lesbians, when he nominated<br />

his latest nominee for the Supreme<br />

Court, he’s not good on the type of<br />

issues that would be important to<br />

lesbian and gays, bis, transgenders,<br />

etc. Also, with his (new) secretary of<br />

education, DeVos—she’s made clear<br />

that the Bible is what she wants to<br />

put back in the school. People that<br />

very much have the Bible on their<br />

shoulder are usually thinking that<br />

Adam is supposed to stay with Eve<br />

and not be with Steve. So, that’s not<br />

a good thing.<br />

“The Hobby Lobby/RFRA<br />

[(Religious Freedom Restoration<br />

Act)] announcement (President<br />

Trump) made at the prayer<br />

breakfast—that he’s going to propose<br />

this new RFRA proposal—that’s<br />

basically the Hobby Lobby case<br />

(Burwell v. Hobby Lobby Stores,<br />

Inc., a controversial 2014 Supreme<br />

Court decision granting certain<br />

types of corporations a right to<br />

religious exemption from some<br />

federal regulations), which (Trump’s)<br />

Supreme Court nominee made his<br />

name supporting. The president<br />

seems to be . . . putting religion<br />

ahead of other people’s rights, saying<br />

that the right they see in the religion,<br />

whether it is a corporation wanting<br />

to put their religious seal over the<br />

insurance policies of their employees<br />

or any other thing, will come first. If<br />

a gay couple wants to get married...<br />

that gay couple is going to have to<br />

look a couple different places before<br />

they can find their wedding cake or<br />

their pizza.”<br />

There is a great need to get<br />

LGBT people more involved in<br />

politics at a local and regional<br />

level, but many people don’t know<br />

where to start. What would you<br />

suggest?<br />

“Well, you start by getting<br />

registered to vote, and you vote in<br />

every single election. When elections<br />

come up, even for city council and<br />

county commission, where they<br />

make decisions—and the county<br />

commission right now is doing<br />

things that are hurting Planned<br />

Parenthood—you call every single<br />

one of your friends and get them<br />

out to vote and vote for the right<br />

candidate.<br />

“It’s been distressing to me to<br />

see, over the years, people not vote.<br />

At elections, we have a twenty<br />

percent turnout. People, if they get<br />

out and vote, if the gay and lesbian<br />

community votes, they can have a big<br />

impact, if everybody votes and votes<br />

for the right people. I know there<br />

are gay republicans, as perverted<br />

as that may seem, but people need<br />

get out and vote and vote for the<br />

candidate that’s going to be for<br />

inclusion, for tolerance, for diversity,<br />

for the twenty-first century America,<br />

and not the Eisenhower era 1950s<br />

America.<br />

“The fact that Donald Trump<br />

is president—there’s a whole lot<br />

of factors. The Russians are part<br />

of it. Jim Comey, [Director of the<br />

FBI,] is part of it. But if the people<br />

who didn’t vote, who realize how<br />

disaffected they are and how this is<br />

going to affect their lives would have<br />

gotten out and voted, Clinton would<br />

have been president. If the people<br />

who were all upset because Hillary<br />

Clinton wasn’t the perfect person,<br />

and they voted for Jill Stein, they’d<br />

have voted for Hillary Clinton, we<br />

wouldn’t have been in the position it<br />

is today. Politics is about choices.<br />

“So, the first thing they’ve got to<br />

do is they’ve got to go get registered;<br />

the second thing is they’ve got to<br />

vote every election; and the third<br />

thing is they’ve got to call all of their<br />

friends and get them out to vote for<br />

the right candidates.<br />

“They can participate and should<br />

participate in marches and write<br />

letters to the editor and get involved<br />

in social media. Those things<br />

are important. There was a great<br />

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turnout on Cooper, after the<br />

Orlando shooting. People<br />

got out. It was a great crowd,<br />

and it was, more or less,<br />

spontaneous. People showed<br />

their support for the gay and<br />

lesbian community and for<br />

protections, and I guess they<br />

also showed support for some<br />

more logical gun laws. But<br />

you’ve got to stay current. It<br />

can’t just be because there<br />

was a tragedy in Orlando and<br />

people came together once.<br />

They’ve got to stay engaged,<br />

and they’ve got to march with<br />

other people who have similar<br />

interests or like interests.<br />

When Planned Parenthood<br />

marches, when immigrants<br />

march, when gays and lesbians<br />

march, everybody’s got to<br />

march together.<br />

“You know there was<br />

someone who said, “People<br />

who hate, hate everybody.”<br />

People who hate Jews hate<br />

Blacks. People who hate lesbians<br />

and gays, they hate Hispanics,<br />

and they hate foreigners. All the<br />

people who are the objects of hate—<br />

and gays and lesbians have been, Jews<br />

have been, Blacks have been—we’ve<br />

all got to stick together.”<br />

What else can we do as<br />

individuals, as a community,<br />

and as a city to protect the LGBT<br />

community?<br />

“Well, I think police review<br />

boards are important. I think<br />

that inclusion of gays and lesbians<br />

in appointments to board and<br />

photo courtesy Office of Steve Cohen<br />

Congressman Cohen (standing) at his Memphis office speaking to constituents at the<br />

January <strong>2017</strong> ‘District <strong>Issue</strong>s’ meeting. Cohen is actively engaged with citizens of the U.S.<br />

9th Congressional district. In February, Cohen was selected to serve on the House Ethics<br />

Committee. As a state senator, Cohen twice received the Common Cause Bird Dog Award<br />

for ‘dedication to honesty and integrity in government.’<br />

commissions at a local level is<br />

important. I think that supporting<br />

groups like the [<strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong>] Peace<br />

and Justice Center, and Planned<br />

Parenthood, and the ACLU are very<br />

important. I think that those are very<br />

important things.<br />

“There are all kinds of statements<br />

that people can make. You’ve got<br />

to get involved and be active on a<br />

regular basis. Writing letters to the<br />

editor is important. You see more<br />

right-wing letters to the editor from<br />

people that are contra to the gays<br />

and lesbians than you see supportive<br />

letters. There are a few folks I know<br />

in the gay and lesbian community<br />

that are good at writing letters to the<br />

editor and being on social media, but<br />

there are a whole lot of people that<br />

you never hear from. And there are<br />

a whole lot of people that just don’t<br />

get involved. And the people have<br />

got to get involved. “This is a serious<br />

time in American history. We could<br />

lose our republic, potentially. I see no<br />

limit to Bannon and what he<br />

gets Trump to do. He doesn’t<br />

believe in diversity, and he’s<br />

never been for civil rights and<br />

voting rights. This is awful.<br />

We have gone backwards, and<br />

when you go backwards, gays<br />

and lesbians lose.<br />

“I’ve been supporting issues<br />

of diversity and tolerance and<br />

civil rights all my life. I think<br />

I was the first person to ever<br />

advertise politically, back in<br />

the 80s, in a gay and lesbian<br />

newspaper. It was considered a<br />

bold move. Then I influenced a<br />

couple of other candidates to do<br />

it. I’ve been the first politician<br />

ever to be in the [Memphis]<br />

Gay Pride Parade, and then<br />

later other politicians came<br />

along. People have got to get<br />

involved and find politicians<br />

that are willing to stand up<br />

publicly. It’s not difficult today<br />

to stand publicly with gays and<br />

lesbians like it was in the 80s,<br />

but it’s still difficult for some<br />

people. People need to make<br />

people responsive and understanding<br />

and tolerant.<br />

“I was the only person in the state<br />

senate, at one point, not to vote<br />

for the constitutional amendment<br />

to ban gay marriage. . . . People<br />

have got to understand that Loving<br />

v. Virginia [(the landmark 1967<br />

Supreme Court case that overturned<br />

laws prohibiting interracial<br />

marriage)] wasn’t that long ago and<br />

that it’s a whole lot of recent history<br />

that they are trying to turn over.”<br />

GETTING OUT THE<br />

LOCAL VOTE<br />

Shelbyvote.com<br />

If you live in Shelby County and have questions about voting,<br />

your first stop should be the website of the Shelby County Election<br />

Commission. (shelbyvote.com) The website provides guidance on<br />

issues as simple as finding your polling place and as complex as<br />

the restoration of voting rights. The site is also a great resource for<br />

finding out about upcoming elections in the Shelby County area.<br />

Researching Candidates<br />

Unfortunately, there is no shortcut to researching candidates. For<br />

state and national level candidates, there are a good number of online<br />

resources that provide perspective on a candidate’s history and voting<br />

record. The Human Rights Campaign, for instance, keeps an online<br />

Congressional Scorecard that tracks how elected officials have voted on<br />

key issues of equality. (hrc.org/resources/congressional-scorecard)<br />

With local candidates, it can be helpful to research their appearances<br />

in the local publications. Both The Commercial Appeal and the Memphis<br />

Flyer maintain year-round sections focused on Memphis politics that can be<br />

easily searched online. While you are online, you can always go to candidates’<br />

websites to read their platforms, but if you can, try to attend local fundraisers<br />

and events in person. Not only will this give you a chance to meet and hear from<br />

the candidate in person, but it will make sure that the candidate sees that you and the<br />

communities you represent demand to be counted.<br />

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Rabbi Bess Wohlner isn’t a<br />

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her friendly, frank demeanor<br />

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“It takes a rare bird to get<br />

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Beginning with a mitzvah<br />

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A funny thing happened to<br />

musician Ori Naftaly when he<br />

arrived in the United States<br />

from his native Israel. He found<br />

Memphis, Tenn. Or, you could<br />

say, Memphis found him.<br />

Naftaly, who’d grown up<br />

with a deep-rooted passion<br />

for American blues and funk,<br />

came to Memphis in 2013 to<br />

compete in the prestigious<br />

International Blues Challenge.<br />

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moving permanently to<br />

Memphis and successfully<br />

touring the United States<br />

and beyond with his own<br />

eponymous band.<br />

Although American<br />

audiences embraced<br />

his talents, Naftaly felt<br />

constrained in his own band,<br />

feeling the need to include a<br />

more expansive, collaborative<br />

musical vision. That<br />

opportunity arrived when he<br />

met Memphis native Tierinii<br />

Jackson, who’d gotten her<br />

start singing in church, before<br />

performing in a series of cover<br />

bands and theatrical projects.<br />

According to Naftaly,<br />

“When I saw Tierinii perform,<br />

I thought, ‘This is why I came<br />

to America.’ I met her and we<br />

clicked. At our first rehearsal,<br />

she told me that her sister was<br />

a drummer, and she thought it<br />

would be great to have her in<br />

the band. We had such a good<br />

vibe, and suddenly I didn’t<br />

care so much about my solo<br />

thing.”<br />

As one thing lead to another,<br />

with Naftaly and Jackson<br />

writing all new original music,<br />

the mega-popular band<br />

<strong>South</strong>ern Avenue was born,<br />

named after the Memphis<br />

street that stretches all the<br />

way from Colonial Road in<br />

East Memphis to the front<br />

doors of the Stax Museum,<br />

where it’s named McLemore<br />

Avenue, and where Stax<br />

Records got its start.<br />

<strong>South</strong>ern Avenue features<br />

five young but seasoned<br />

musicians who came from<br />

diverse musical and personal<br />

backgrounds to create music<br />

that spans their wide-ranging<br />

musical interests, while<br />

showcasing the powerful<br />

chemistry that the group<br />

has honed through stage<br />

and studio experience. In<br />

addition to Naftaly and<br />

Jackson, <strong>South</strong>ern Avenue<br />

includes Jackson’s sister<br />

Tikyra Jackson; versatile,<br />

jazz-inspired bassist Daniel<br />

McKee; and the band’s newest<br />

addition, keyboardist Jeremy<br />

“Mr. 88” Powell, an early<br />

alumnus of the Stax Music<br />

Academy.<br />

Eventually, in June 2016,<br />

the band became the first<br />

Memphis band to get signed<br />

to the newly recharged Stax<br />

Records label, operated by<br />

the Concord Music Group in<br />

Beverly Hills, California, which,<br />

since reviving the label, has<br />

signed such acts as Angie<br />

Stone, Ben Harper, Melissa<br />

Etheridge, and others.<br />

<strong>Focus</strong> recently caught up<br />

with Naftaly to discuss the<br />

band’s newfound success as<br />

ambassadors of the Memphis<br />

sound.<br />

<strong>Focus</strong>: What does it mean<br />

to <strong>South</strong>ern Avenue to be the<br />

first Memphis band signed<br />

to Stax Records and how did<br />

that happen?<br />

It means so much that we<br />

find ourselves overwhelmed<br />

sometimes. We were shopping<br />

our EP with several labels,<br />

when Luther Dickinson (of the<br />

Mississippi All Stars) reached<br />

out to Concord and told them<br />

about us, but nothing really<br />

happened. About a month<br />

later, John Burk, with the new<br />

Stax label at Concord, was in<br />

Memphis recording Melissa<br />

Etheridge with Boo Mitchell at<br />

Royal Studios. They went out<br />

to have a drink at the end of a<br />

recording day. They ended up<br />

at DKDC and that’s where he<br />

saw us play for the first time.<br />

We connected and he loved<br />

the band. He was looking for<br />

a Memphis band to sign to<br />

Stax for years, he said. Our<br />

story is somehow a cliché,<br />

when you think about it. We<br />

got discovered at a bar at 1:30<br />

a.m.!<br />

You have a new album<br />

coming out this month, which<br />

will have been released by the<br />

time this article appears in<br />

<strong>Focus</strong>. Can you tell us a little<br />

about that?<br />

Our debut album is a<br />

timeline of our journey in<br />

several ways. We recorded<br />

the first half at Inside Sounds<br />

in East Memphis with Kevin<br />

Houston in December 2015<br />

with a very small budget.<br />

We recorded the songs that<br />

Tierinii and I wrote together<br />

in our first month of knowing<br />

each other. When we signed<br />

with Stax, we went to record<br />

the rest of the album at the<br />

Zebra Ranch in Mississippi.<br />

Luther Dickinson played slide<br />

on two songs and gave us<br />

some words of advice early<br />

on. We owe a lot to Luther<br />

Dickinson.<br />

You have the first Stax<br />

Music Academy graduate in<br />

your band and he is now the<br />

first graduate to be signed to<br />

Stax Records. How did that<br />

happen?<br />

Jeremy Powell. I saw Jeremy<br />

play a Hammond on Beale<br />

St. four years ago and was<br />

amazed by his talent. We<br />

became friends quickly and<br />

played together many times.<br />

When we signed with Stax, the<br />

girls and I knew that the band<br />

needed Jeremy to kind of glue<br />

everything together. We are<br />

blessed to have him with us.<br />

The band is touring<br />

constantly? Are you and<br />

the other band members<br />

enjoying that and what kind<br />

of reception are you getting<br />

in other cities?<br />

We love touring this<br />

country and the world. We<br />

love meeting new people<br />

and exploring new cities and<br />

towns. We always have fun<br />

when we tour, even when it’s<br />

challenging. We’ve driven over<br />

40,000 miles since June. That<br />

can take a toll on you, but we<br />

love it.<br />

What does the band have<br />

planned for the future or<br />

where would you like to be in<br />

the next few years?<br />

We just want to keep<br />

JEREMY<br />

POWELL<br />

<strong>South</strong>ern Avenue’s<br />

keyboardist, Jeremy “Mr. 88”<br />

Powell, is now the first former<br />

Stax Music Academy student<br />

signed to Stax Records.<br />

Powell grew up in the<br />

heart of <strong>South</strong> Memphis.<br />

His mother still lives two<br />

blocks from Stax today. He<br />

was raised on gospel music<br />

in the church, where he was<br />

inspired at a very young<br />

age to love music. His first<br />

musical love has always been<br />

the Hammond B3, which is a<br />

staple of the church he grew<br />

up in. He also played drums<br />

in church. He had his first<br />

keyboard when he was just<br />

10 years old, and it sat in the<br />

back room waiting for him<br />

to come home from school<br />

every day to play it.<br />

Powell started playing<br />

trumpet in middle school,<br />

eventually attending the<br />

Stax Music Academy from<br />

2002-2004. He has always<br />

put his heart into everything<br />

he does, earning the Most<br />

Improved award in the 2003-<br />

2004 Class.<br />

“Stax taught me discipline,”<br />

building our legacy – brick<br />

by brick, song after song. We<br />

want to remain good friends<br />

just as we are right now. We<br />

want to be better people and<br />

better musicians as a group<br />

and individually. We love what<br />

we do and just want to be<br />

consistent; the music business<br />

can eat you alive if you don’t<br />

have enough support from<br />

those around you.<br />

How did you and the band<br />

come up with the name<br />

<strong>South</strong>ern Avenue?<br />

I lived off <strong>South</strong>ern in<br />

Cooper-Young for a while.<br />

At that time the girls and I<br />

realized we wanted to start a<br />

band together and we looked<br />

for band names. We hated that<br />

process, until one night we all<br />

sat on the porch. We looked<br />

at the street sign at the end of<br />

the street and said - <strong>South</strong>ern<br />

Avenue! Because it really<br />

represents our sound and our<br />

image. The trains, the belt<br />

line, Soulsville, Stax. It’s all on<br />

<strong>South</strong>ern Avenue.<br />

Powell says. “I started<br />

playing trumpet just one<br />

year before joining the Stax<br />

Music Academy. That after<br />

school program helped<br />

me to develop my passion<br />

and ear for music. While<br />

learning theory and different<br />

compositions on the trumpet<br />

at Stax, I taught myself to do<br />

the same on the keyboard<br />

at home.” He has never had<br />

a formal piano lesson, but is<br />

considered one of the best<br />

keyboardists playing today.<br />

Powell began playing<br />

professionally at the age of<br />

17, eventually making it down<br />

to Beale Street. He was soon<br />

playing so much that he quit<br />

his “normal” job to play the<br />

keyboard full time. He played<br />

with all of the Beale Street<br />

greats and opened for many<br />

more, earning the nickname<br />

“Mr. 88.” He joined <strong>South</strong>ern<br />

Avenue in 2016, officially<br />

becoming a member of the<br />

Stax Records family.<br />

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lgbt advocate<br />

MEMPHIS’<br />

MOST HUMBLE<br />

IDEA MAN<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k<br />

JONES<br />

by Joy Doss | photos courtesy of <strong>Mar</strong>k Jones<br />

I sat down with filmmaker<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k Jones at Java<br />

Cabana, our interview set<br />

to a wonderfully expansive<br />

soundtrack that zigged from<br />

Amy Winehouse and Ray<br />

Charles then zagged to classic<br />

rock. It was quiet, save for<br />

the amazing music, as we sat<br />

nestled amongst all things<br />

vintage (how did I not know<br />

about the awesome vintage<br />

selection?!!).<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k will try to tell you<br />

he’s a boring study, but don’t<br />

pay him no nevermind. He is<br />

anything but.<br />

First of all, <strong>Mar</strong>k, you were<br />

a closeted gay man in the 80s<br />

at a Presbyterian college as a<br />

religion major who did a brief<br />

work stint in rural Virginia. The<br />

town was called Meadows of<br />

Dan, which was near nothing.<br />

All of that is a story in and of<br />

itself.<br />

As a filmmaker, <strong>Mar</strong>k has<br />

experienced some success.<br />

Yet, he is also careful to remain<br />

grounded, connected and<br />

engaged with the community.<br />

He is actually a well-adjusted<br />

entertainment pro! That<br />

deserves a mention for sure.<br />

Rewinding a bit:<br />

His fascination with film<br />

was initiated when his family<br />

bought a camcorder in 1980.<br />

He and his brothers made<br />

films but <strong>Mar</strong>k maintained his<br />

interest level, even making a<br />

film about the book of Amos<br />

in lieu of a paper in college.<br />

(Yes, he got a good grade.)<br />

With a little due diligence, I<br />

uncovered the digital nugget<br />

of fun that is The Edge of<br />

Happiness, his online soap<br />

opera. Clearly, it was a byproduct<br />

of his love for daytime<br />

soaps as a Days fan and now a<br />

General Hospital fan. He says,<br />

“It’s the only genre where you<br />

might have romance, comedy,<br />

drama and suspense in one<br />

episode.” Truth! Though a<br />

few years old now, it is still<br />

available online. Perhaps one<br />

of these digital platform gurus<br />

can help monetize it! There<br />

should be more episodes<br />

of this! Do note that there<br />

are some familiar faces that<br />

float across the screen like<br />

WREG’s Cori Ventura and<br />

musician Billy Worley. In fact,<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k is intentional about<br />

using homegrown talent in his<br />

projects both in front of and<br />

behind the camera.<br />

“We have an abundance of<br />

local talent—incredible actors<br />

and crew members. I thought<br />

about bringing people in but<br />

what we have here works!”<br />

Having lived in New York<br />

City for 3 years as well as<br />

some other smaller towns,<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k clearly has love for<br />

Memphis, which is evidenced<br />

by his involvement. He is<br />

active at Idlewild Presbyterian<br />

Church and served as a<br />

deacon for three years.<br />

He is involved in the<br />

committee to save the<br />

Coliseum; he’s on the board<br />

of Indie Memphis and heavily<br />

involved in Outflix. However,<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k is also a very passionate<br />

about the LGBT community.<br />

He would love to see the<br />

city be more progressive<br />

and honor some of its LGBT<br />

pioneers like Bill Kendall, who<br />

ran the Gill Theatre. Even<br />

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Jones’ film Tennessee Queer enjoyed critical<br />

praise and a run at theaters. It’s available for<br />

purchase on Amazon or to rent on Amazon Prime.<br />

You can also buy it at 5-in-1 Social Club on Broad<br />

Avenue.<br />

An unabashed soap opera fan,<br />

Jones is pictured here with<br />

Josh and Reva, stars of the soap<br />

opera Guiding Light. This photo<br />

was taken in 2005 at a fan<br />

luncheon in New York city.<br />

raising the flag at city hall in<br />

his honor or for Pride, which<br />

would surprisingly be a first,<br />

would be a great step forward.<br />

He has several ideas in<br />

mind, some that he is actively<br />

working toward like naming a<br />

street or park after Bill Kendall<br />

or declaring Bill Kendall<br />

Day. “Wouldn’t it be great to<br />

rename the Hernando DeSoto<br />

bridge? It would show the<br />

world that Memphis is secure<br />

in its masculinity.” Indeed!<br />

As we talked, I learned that<br />

his passion is not limited. He<br />

participated in the recent<br />

Women’s <strong>Mar</strong>ch and the march<br />

against the immigration ban.<br />

He also has other ideas for<br />

the city like free bus service,<br />

noting that no-fare bus service<br />

would be faster and the<br />

number of riders may increase.<br />

This would make Memphis a<br />

model city. More importantly,<br />

it would put $3 a day back in<br />

the pockets of working class<br />

people, who rely most on<br />

public transportation.<br />

“We have an imagination<br />

problem in Memphis. The<br />

government class continues<br />

to look back when they should<br />

be looking forward.” I said,<br />

hmmm, I feel politics in your<br />

spirit! He laughs at this and<br />

says it would be fun to run<br />

for City Council or Mayor but<br />

he isn’t sure he has what it<br />

takes. The BS may put him in<br />

a bad space. Nonetheless, he<br />

has faith in Mayor Strickland<br />

and hopes to see him move<br />

Memphis forward, eventually<br />

catching up to peer cities like<br />

Cincinnati.<br />

However, since he came<br />

out in 1994 Memphis has<br />

moved closer to acceptance<br />

and safe space. <strong>Mar</strong>k counts<br />

himself among the fortunate<br />

ones as many times these<br />

experiences are fraught or met<br />

with anger and rejection. His<br />

family initially had questions<br />

and concerns but they were<br />

ultimately very supportive.<br />

His parents joined PFLAG and<br />

his dad marched with in the<br />

Pride parade in 1997. He is also<br />

fortunate to be with longtime<br />

partner, Ben. They met at a<br />

wedding in 2001 and haven’t<br />

looked back since.<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k continues to make<br />

movies, primarily centered<br />

around LGBT characters,<br />

stories and issues. His first film<br />

was a coming out story and<br />

his latest, Tennessee Queer<br />

enjoyed critical praise and a<br />

run at theaters. It’s available<br />

for purchase on Amazon or to<br />

rent on Amazon Prime. You<br />

can also buy it at 5-in-1 on<br />

Broad Avenue. He released<br />

a short film last year called<br />

Death$ in a $mall Town and<br />

is now set to shoot another<br />

short at the end of February,<br />

Winding Brook.<br />

We may catch <strong>Mar</strong>k at the<br />

movies, on the film circuit, in<br />

one of his favorites places in<br />

Cooper Young, or at his most<br />

favorite eatin’’ spot, Payne’s<br />

BBQ! But maaaaybe, just<br />

maybe, at City Hall as our<br />

city’s next LGBT pioneer. If<br />

he’s not in chambers, he’ll at<br />

least push some buttons!<br />

We’ll keep our eyes peeled<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>k. Keep going!<br />

Jones also enjoys being in front of the camera. Here he is<br />

playing an extra in Sun Records that was shot last year in<br />

Memphis. The show premieres this year.<br />

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lgbt ally<br />

MAURICIO<br />

CALVO<br />

by Robin Beaudoin | photo courtesy of Latino Memphis<br />

I think people in the LGBT<br />

community are so openminded<br />

and progressive, and<br />

very supportive (because<br />

they are also under attack)<br />

It is said that when you<br />

reach the bottom, there’s<br />

nowhere to go but up.<br />

Christian Brothers University<br />

business school alum Mauricio<br />

Calvo professionally spent<br />

10 years of trying different<br />

things, and not giving up. “You<br />

have to prove yourself,” says<br />

Calvo.<br />

Ownership in a tortilleria,<br />

and a stint in real estate<br />

were two in a series of<br />

setbacks where nothing<br />

seemed to work. “Everything<br />

that I touched went wrong,<br />

and I stumbled into this<br />

opportunity. My failures made<br />

me more human and more<br />

empathetic.”<br />

In 2009, Calvo joined Latino<br />

Memphis, and found his<br />

passion. “I am an immigrant<br />

myself, and I’ve had a lot of<br />

opportunities, and now felt<br />

this call to do something for<br />

my own community.”<br />

Calvo plunged into his<br />

position as director of Latino<br />

Memphis during a difficult<br />

time for the group, but has<br />

successfully engaged other<br />

communities interested in<br />

human rights and relationships<br />

to expand the group’s<br />

prospects for growth.<br />

Probing Memphis for<br />

an alliance with the Latino<br />

community didn’t take<br />

long, Calvo reveals. “We are<br />

surrounded by a diverse team,<br />

and I love to see groups of<br />

people intersect. Yesterday<br />

I was talking with Will Batts<br />

(director, OUTMemphis), and<br />

I told him I find it fascinating<br />

that different groups of people<br />

are both gay and Latino, or<br />

black, or Muslim- more than<br />

one group that is struggling.<br />

That has expanded our work.<br />

Jonathan Cole (Tennessee<br />

Equality Project) once told<br />

me, ‘We’re fighting a different<br />

fight, but we’re fighting the<br />

same people.’”<br />

In 2016, in collaboration with<br />

OUTMemphis, <strong>Focus</strong> <strong>Mid</strong>-<br />

<strong>South</strong>, and Friends for Life,<br />

interest and desire to outreach<br />

and communicate with the<br />

LGBT community took shape<br />

in the inaugural PRISMA!, a<br />

kickoff celebration for their<br />

spring celebration, Fiesta de<br />

Brasil. Calvo expects a repeat<br />

performance on a new date,<br />

and more participation with<br />

the LGBT community, “We<br />

have just started to scratch<br />

the surface. I think people in<br />

the LGBT community are so<br />

open-minded and progressive,<br />

and very supportive (because<br />

they are also under attack),<br />

and there are many Latinos<br />

who are LGBTQ who don’t<br />

come out because of cultural<br />

fears. These three reasons why<br />

it’s important to do way more<br />

than what we’re doing. I love<br />

what the magazine does, I’m<br />

a big fan of (<strong>Focus</strong> <strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong><br />

publisher) Ray Rico.”<br />

Latino Memphis found that<br />

holding PRISMA! on the eve<br />

of the festival spread their<br />

resources too thin, though<br />

the crowd was incredible. A<br />

change in date for the event,<br />

as well as the addition of a<br />

Memphis Pride month event,<br />

or parade presence are in<br />

talks.<br />

Calvo and artist wife Yancy<br />

Villa participated with family<br />

and friends in the Immigration<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>ch on February 1, a nod<br />

to their full-time dedication<br />

to equal rights at work and<br />

at home. He notes, “It’s more<br />

than a 9-to-5 job. It’s a family<br />

affair, and we are all involved<br />

in different ways. This election<br />

has activated a lot of things<br />

in the community and in our<br />

home. Now Yancy is more into<br />

politics, and we talk about it<br />

with the kids over dinner: what<br />

it means for the children of<br />

immigrants, and our friends<br />

and the families of the people<br />

we serve.” He stresses that<br />

because it isn’t how he grew<br />

up, the difference is what<br />

makes this an awesome time<br />

and place to be. “It’s normal<br />

for them to see my (male)<br />

friends bring their boyfriend<br />

to dinner, and whether they<br />

decide to date a boy or a girl,<br />

it’s normal!”<br />

Homegrown / MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong> / focusmidsouth.com / Page 25


health+wellness<br />

Local salon fundraising supports<br />

International clean water causes<br />

by Robin Beaudoin<br />

Pavo Salon & Spa owners<br />

Shawn McGhee (top) and<br />

Scot Robinson’s corporate<br />

interest in clean water<br />

initiatives began after the<br />

Deepwater Horizon (Gulf<br />

of Mexico) oil rig spill of<br />

2010, the largest marine<br />

oil spill in history. Eleven<br />

workers were killed and<br />

more than 100 were injured<br />

at the time of the explosion<br />

that caused the spill. The<br />

rig was located about 40<br />

miles off the Louisiana<br />

coast; approximately 1100<br />

miles of coastal shoreline,<br />

from Florida to Texas, were<br />

contaminated with the oil<br />

and thousands of marine<br />

animals died as a result.<br />

Two days after the initial<br />

explosion, on Earth Day,<br />

ironically, the rig sank.<br />

A popular, upscale Memphis<br />

salon offers a life-changing cut<br />

and color, but the good they<br />

do reaches well beyond their<br />

salon and spa clients. With two<br />

locations in midtown and East<br />

Memphis, Pavo Salon & Spa<br />

is an Aveda Lifestyle salon,<br />

sharing a philanthropic focus<br />

on clean water efforts and<br />

the protection of indigenous<br />

tribes. “We raise money for<br />

clean water for your hair, skin,<br />

and health, in partnership<br />

with Tennessee Clean Water<br />

Network, which protects all of<br />

Tennessee’s major waterways.<br />

They make huge efforts right<br />

here in our own backyard<br />

in the Mississippi [River],<br />

“states Scot Robinson, part<br />

owner with Shawn McGhee<br />

since 1997. “It’s alarmingpeople<br />

assume they have<br />

clean water because we live<br />

in the United States, but<br />

that’s not necessarily true.”<br />

A tremendous drop over the<br />

last ten years of enforcement<br />

of EPA water policies in<br />

Tennessee makes clean water<br />

initiatives not only helpful but<br />

necessary.<br />

Robinson reveals the outset<br />

of the salon’s protective<br />

efforts, “Aveda aims<br />

globally to protect water for<br />

indigenous tribes, and salons<br />

will donate money on a local<br />

level. When we originally<br />

started, we worked with gulf<br />

coast restoration, after the oil<br />

spill. All our contribution was<br />

going to that effort.<br />

Tennessee Clean Water<br />

came along four or five years<br />

ago, and it seemed like a<br />

perfect fit.” The brand’s<br />

products and processes<br />

are more environmentally<br />

responsible than most,<br />

using plant power instead of<br />

petrochemicals.<br />

Aveda Lifestyle Director<br />

for Pavo’s salons, Meagan<br />

Kitterlin, gushes over the<br />

global initiative by Aveda.<br />

“Part of being in the Aveda<br />

Network of salons includes<br />

participation in the Global<br />

Earth Month Campaign for<br />

Clean Water.” Since the<br />

inception of Aveda’s<br />

clean water campaign<br />

in 1999, the Aveda<br />

Network has raised over<br />

fifty million dollars for<br />

clean water. Pavo, as<br />

Memphis’ largest Aveda<br />

salon, is serious about<br />

this commitment, and<br />

has raised $40,000<br />

in the last three years<br />

to benefit the Gulf<br />

Restoration Network,<br />

Tennessee Clean<br />

Water Network (the<br />

current project), and<br />

the Global Greengrants<br />

Fund. Kitterlin echoes<br />

Robinson’s gratitude for<br />

the program, “We are<br />

lucky to serve the Memphis<br />

community, where we draw<br />

a diverse and passionate<br />

clientele who receive high<br />

quality service in a relaxing<br />

environment. Thanks to them,<br />

and our dedicated staff, our<br />

efforts covered the cost<br />

of Tennessee Clean Water<br />

Network’s entire operating<br />

budget in 2014.” Pavo’s<br />

contributions also earned the<br />

Memphis area an additional<br />

water bottle refill fountain,<br />

accessible at the Greenline<br />

entrance at Shelby Farms Park.<br />

Additional info:<br />

aveda.com/living-aveda<br />

TCWN.org<br />

pavosalon.com<br />

Deep Water Horizon/Gulf of Mexico<br />

oil spill is shown on a beach on June<br />

12, 2010 in Gulf Shores, Alabama.<br />

Photo by Danny E Hooks (Shutterstock<br />

image)<br />

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HOW TO PROTECT WATER<br />

AND MAKE HAPPINESS FLOW<br />

The Aveda network has raised over $38 million to protect clean water.<br />

You, too, can help. Follow these tips!<br />

Tips courtesy of Aveda.com<br />

SAVE TIME. SAVE WATER.<br />

Cut just 3 minutes from your usual<br />

shower time, and you’ll save an average<br />

of 6 gallons (22.7 liters) of water.· If<br />

you shower daily, you could save 2,190<br />

gallons (8,290 liters) of water a year!<br />

FILL UP TO CUT DOWN.<br />

Make sure your washing machine and<br />

dishwasher are filled to capacity before<br />

running them to cut energy and water<br />

use. You can save even more by airdrying<br />

your clothes on a clothesline.<br />

PLANT ICE.<br />

Place Ice cubes under the moss or dirt<br />

of your potted plants and hanging<br />

baskets. You give your plants a cool<br />

drink that won’t overflow or waste<br />

water. Use leftover ice for your drinks<br />

instead of wasting it.<br />

MAKE MEALS MEATLESS.<br />

Skip meat one day a week and save<br />

thousands of gallons/liters of water!<br />

It takes up to 5,000 gallons (18,927<br />

liters) of water to produce one pound<br />

of meat.**<br />

SAVE ELECTRIClTY—<br />

AND WATER.<br />

lt takes about 2 gallons (7.6 liters) of<br />

fresh water to generate each kilowatthour<br />

of traditional electricity. So turn<br />

electricity off if you’re not using it!<br />

BRUSH BETTER.<br />

Turn the water off when brushing your<br />

teeth. Save 4-10 gallons (15-38 liters) a<br />

day!<br />

(See home-water-works.org/indoor-use/showers<br />

**eatingwell.com/food_news_origins/green_sustainable/6_reasons_to_eat_less_meat<br />

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food+drink<br />

Phillip Ashley<br />

Cooper-Young’s Sweetest Neighbor<br />

by Robin Beaudoin<br />

Page 30 / focusmidsouth.com / MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong> / Homegrown


As a premium chocolatier,<br />

Phillip Ashley Rix has<br />

embraced the opportunity to<br />

lift up and endorse fellow local<br />

businesses with partnerships<br />

in philanthropy and flavor. “If<br />

I have to pick one thing that<br />

successful businesses have,<br />

it’s the relationships and the<br />

network that they develop.<br />

That is the greatest currency<br />

that I have.” He feels similarly<br />

about his growing relationship<br />

with the LGBT community.<br />

He returned from Baltimore<br />

to Memphis after college and<br />

a corporate sales career with<br />

Apple, Inc. and FedEx, with<br />

expert-level marketing skills<br />

and a drive to start fresh.<br />

Airbrush gun and paper plates<br />

(for practice) in hand, Ashley<br />

read obsessively, piecing<br />

together tutorials to advance<br />

to Willy Wonka status as a<br />

chocolatier in his hometown.<br />

“I was getting to the point<br />

I wanted to do something<br />

different, and I’d been bitten<br />

by the whole chef bug,”<br />

recalls Ashley. He loved food,<br />

but preferred to be in the<br />

consumer space rather than<br />

the back of a kitchen. “When<br />

you’re open and receptive,<br />

something tends to come.”<br />

With no mentor, and no<br />

open access to the industry,<br />

he forged his own path, letting<br />

his own imagination and drive<br />

take over.<br />

His first public foot in the<br />

door came after providing<br />

turndown chocolates for the<br />

Italian destination wedding<br />

of a Memphis-area LGBT<br />

couple, theatre director Dennis<br />

Whitehead and neonatologist<br />

husband Bryan Darling. Their<br />

wedding was featured in a<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>tha Stewart wedding<br />

magazine. The spread included<br />

mention of his chocolates,<br />

which were shipped via FedEx<br />

to Italy in boxes of two for the<br />

occasion.<br />

The publicity clinched his<br />

new career, and he needed a<br />

storefront. “I was looking for a<br />

cool place to put a chocolate<br />

shop, not your everyday<br />

type thing. Cooper-Young<br />

stood out.” A landlord friend<br />

showed him the spot at 798<br />

<strong>South</strong> Cooper Street, and it<br />

was home. “We were moving<br />

in the week of Cooper-Young<br />

Fest 2013. We were right down<br />

the street from OUTMemphis<br />

(MGLCC, at the time), and we<br />

all introduced ourselves.”<br />

Cooper-Young Festival<br />

fulfilled traffic expectations,<br />

and his crew passed out 2,000<br />

postcards to plug the store’s<br />

opening. “It’s a great thing<br />

to have, knowing how many<br />

people will be there in front of<br />

our store. It’s one of the bestrun<br />

festivals in Memphis.”<br />

The store’s grand opening<br />

fell just before the Christmas<br />

holiday.<br />

Phillip Ashley chocolates<br />

have since evolved into jewels,<br />

known for their unusual—yet<br />

cohesive—flavor combinations,<br />

such as Gorgonzola and fig,<br />

jerk spices and plantain, or<br />

sage, caramel, and fennel.<br />

Many of his creations celebrate<br />

local <strong>Mid</strong>-<strong>South</strong> ingredients,<br />

such as Wiseacre and Ghost<br />

River beers, Central BBQ<br />

or BBQ Shop rubs, Wynne,<br />

Arkansas sweet potatoes, and<br />

feature local cream. Since his<br />

inaugural season, the man<br />

Forbes dubbed a “Real Life<br />

Willy Wonka,” Phillip Ashley<br />

Rix has been bestowed the<br />

honor of Official Chocolatier of<br />

the GRAMMYs®. His creations<br />

have been featured in a<br />

James Beard Foundation’s<br />

“Taste of the Delta” dinner;<br />

he was named one of the<br />

Top 40 Under 40 Urban Elite<br />

Professionals; and he has<br />

teamed up with Horchow<br />

and Neiman <strong>Mar</strong>cus’ gourmet<br />

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pitches his strongest product—<br />

himself.<br />

The storefront remains<br />

active for special sales and<br />

tastings, while the chef<br />

takes his business savvy<br />

to the masses, teaching<br />

entrepreneurship master<br />

classes, hosting charity galas,<br />

and raising money for local<br />

children’s hospitals St. Jude<br />

and LeBonheur. This fall he will<br />

host his 5th annual Memphis<br />

Masquerade in a Casino Royale<br />

theme, celebrating James<br />

Bond, and hopes to see his<br />

LGBT neighbors join in on the<br />

fun and support the Heart<br />

Institute at LeBonheur. And,<br />

yes, there will be chocolate.<br />

“We tell stories that taste<br />

like chocolate, and using local<br />

flavor only helps to be more<br />

authentic. Our overarching<br />

slogan is “Crafted in Memphis,<br />

coveted around the world,” to<br />

say we are in Memphis and we<br />

are doing really big things.<br />

Phillip Ashley Chocolate creations has imagined flavors<br />

including Nice and Neat Double Barreled Bourbon, and<br />

Fresca TM Rasberry Goatcheesecake.<br />

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LOVE WINS AGAIN<br />

When you are an abandoned senior, diabetic, vision-impaired Chihuahua,<br />

how could anything possibly go right?<br />

by Robin Freeman Beaudoin<br />

photos courtesy of Ava’s new mommies, Jenny and Beth<br />

Page 34 / focusmidsouth.com / MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong> / Homegrown


It isn’t every day that a dog<br />

like Ava gets a “happily ever<br />

after.” Organizations such as<br />

Guardian Angel Pet Rescue<br />

work tirelessly to connect<br />

animals with loving homes<br />

and families every day of the<br />

What do two rainy days, an<br />

abandoned pup, and a couple from<br />

Massachusetts have in common? They<br />

are all part of a very happy ending<br />

thanks to a network of dedicated<br />

people and a sweet Chihuahua’s will to<br />

live.<br />

The story began last <strong>Mar</strong>ch when a<br />

blind and extremely sick doggie was<br />

found wandering along Germantown<br />

Parkway. A concerned citizen scooped<br />

her up, immediately taking her to a<br />

veterinarian and posting her info on<br />

NextDoor, a networking website for<br />

neighbors and the community. No<br />

one claimed the adorable girl who<br />

had gone into diabetic shock. After<br />

ten days in the clinic, and mounting<br />

medical bills, the newly named<br />

Beth was in need of fostering until a<br />

permanent home could be arranged.<br />

The woman who found Beth on that<br />

rainy day, along with dozens of other<br />

animal lovers, rallied to raise funds<br />

for Beth’s treatment by creating a<br />

“Friends of Beth” Facebook page to<br />

help connect Beth’s fans and support<br />

her recovery. Meanwhile, the hunt was<br />

on to find an organization that had the<br />

capacity to take on an older rescue<br />

with serious medical issues. Guardian<br />

Angel Pet Rescue (GAPR) quite literally<br />

came to the rescue as the only group<br />

willing to take on the responsibility of<br />

caring for Beth.<br />

As the days went on, Beth grew<br />

stronger. Her profile was posted on<br />

RescueMe.org and a couple from<br />

Massachusetts quickly became<br />

interested. <strong>Mar</strong>ia and Jenny submitted<br />

a request to adopt Beth, excitedly<br />

filling out an online application while<br />

discussing Beth’s many medical needs<br />

with GAPR Executive Director Debra<br />

Homas over the phone.<br />

“The sadness in her eyes drew us in.<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>ia took one look at Beth’s post and<br />

turned to me, simply saying ‘let’s get<br />

her’” explained Jenny.<br />

“We were instantly moved and knew<br />

we needed to bring this little girl into<br />

our lives.”<br />

The couple wasn’t fazed by Beth’s<br />

condition or her medical needs. And<br />

because both Jenny and <strong>Mar</strong>ia work<br />

from home much of the time, they<br />

felt perfectly suited to adopt a dog<br />

requiring twenty-four-hour care.<br />

Fast forward to another rainy day<br />

in August when Beth was driven to<br />

Nashville to meet one of her new moms<br />

who had flown in just to bring Beth<br />

home — it was love at first sight! Not<br />

only has Ava (new life, new name!)<br />

settled into her new home that she<br />

shares with two cats and her canine<br />

brother Owen, her new mommies also<br />

gave her cataract surgery which has<br />

restored her eyesight.<br />

Between being pampered by her<br />

moms and playing with her siblings,<br />

Ava is enjoying her fortunate new<br />

beginning. “She immediately fit into<br />

our existing ‘fur family.’ We found a<br />

food that she loves (yes, we cook for<br />

her!), her diabetes is controlled, and<br />

she’s reached her goal weight of 12<br />

pounds!” reports Jenny. “She sleeps<br />

on <strong>Mar</strong>ia’s pillow at night and can be<br />

found on one of our laps at any given<br />

time. Ava couldn’t be more loved.”<br />

year. If you are interested in<br />

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to help, as well as a list of<br />

adoptable dogs and cats.<br />

Homegrown / MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong> / focusmidsouth.com / Page 35


travel<br />

Original<br />

Memphis<br />

THE PEABODY HOTEL<br />

DUCKS AND DUCKMASTER<br />

story by Jimmy Ogle, Duckmaster<br />

Photos by Trey Clark<br />

used with permission ©<strong>2017</strong> Peabody Hotel<br />

149 UNION AVENUE | MEMPHIS, TN 38103<br />

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Page 36 / focusmidsouth.com / MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong> / Homegrown


Shortly after the Civil<br />

War ended, the story of<br />

The Peabody Hotel begins.<br />

Opening in 1869, the original<br />

name given was to be<br />

Brinkley House in honor of the<br />

founder, Col. Robert Brinkley.<br />

However, Col. Brinkley<br />

changed the name to The<br />

Peabody Hotel in honor of<br />

his good friend, “the father<br />

of American philanthropy”,<br />

George Peabody. The original<br />

Peabody Hotel closed in 1923<br />

and after two years of grand<br />

construction, today’s Peabody<br />

Hotel of Italian Renaissance<br />

Revival design, opened in<br />

1925.<br />

In 1935, newspaper man<br />

David Cohn wrote a quote<br />

in his book Where I Was<br />

Born And Raised, that “the<br />

Mississippi Delta begins in the<br />

Lobby of the Peabody Hotel<br />

and ends at Catfish Row in<br />

Vicksburg”. He added “. . . if<br />

you stand near the fountain<br />

in the middle of the lobby . . .<br />

you will see everybody who is<br />

anybody in the Delta . . .”<br />

Over 80 years later, that<br />

quote stands true today. The<br />

restoration and re-opening of<br />

The Peabody Hotel in 1981 was<br />

the catalyst project for the<br />

rebirth of Downtown Memphis<br />

which began in the early<br />

1980s. The Peabody Hotel,<br />

the only hotel in Memphis<br />

listed on the National Register<br />

of Historic Places, again has<br />

been the heart and soul of<br />

modern Downtown Memphis<br />

ever since. The Lobby, with its<br />

beautifully sculpted fountain<br />

of happy cherubs and a wall<br />

of Italian travertine marble,<br />

continues to be the iconic<br />

Memphis destination for<br />

people from all over the world<br />

to find and enjoy.<br />

And, of course, the<br />

“residents” of the fountain<br />

continue a tradition like none<br />

other, which was begun in<br />

1933 – as a practical joke!<br />

That year, the hotel’s general<br />

manager and a friend went on<br />

a duck hunting excursion into<br />

neighboring Arkansas. The<br />

hotel’s chef packed them a<br />

sumptuous lunch, and a bottle<br />

of Jack Daniel’s Tennessee<br />

sippin’ whiskey. On the way,<br />

the driver stopped off at a<br />

duck farm to pick up some live<br />

decoy ducks, a practice that<br />

was within the law in those<br />

days.<br />

Apparently, no duck hunting<br />

was done that day and the<br />

two men returned to the hotel.<br />

Back at the hotel as they were<br />

unloading the car, they noticed<br />

the basket containing the<br />

live decoy ducks - they had<br />

forgotten to return them to<br />

the duck farm. They decided<br />

to place the ducks in the lobby<br />

fountain, just for the night.<br />

Next morning, when the<br />

general manager came<br />

through the lobby, he saw to<br />

his horror, crowds of people<br />

around the fountain, gawking<br />

at the ducks. He approached,<br />

apologized profusely and<br />

told his guests he would<br />

have the ducks removed<br />

immediately. Much to his<br />

surprise, the guests loved the<br />

idea of having live ducks in the<br />

lobby fountain, and the ducks<br />

became permanent residents<br />

thereafter.<br />

In 1940, Edward Pembroke<br />

(a former animal trainer with<br />

the circus) and the Peabody<br />

Ducks met for the first time,<br />

thus beginning a 50-year<br />

daily stage show known as<br />

the World Famous <strong>Mar</strong>ch<br />

of The Peabody Ducks - all<br />

to the tune of John Philip<br />

Sousa’s King Cotton <strong>Mar</strong>ch. Mr.<br />

By management decree, duck is not on any menu at the Peabody.<br />

Pembroke became the world’s<br />

first Duckmaster, a title that he<br />

held for 50 years!<br />

The Peabody Ducks and<br />

Pembroke quickly became<br />

legendary celebrities, and<br />

famous the world over,<br />

appearing in many magazines<br />

such as People and Sports<br />

Illustrated, and on many<br />

national TV shows, including<br />

The Tonight With Johnny<br />

Carson, Oprah Winfrey and<br />

even made a special guest<br />

appearance on Sesame Street<br />

for National Rubber Ducky<br />

Day! By management decree,<br />

no duck is served on any menu<br />

at The Peabody Hotel.<br />

Over half a century, several<br />

Peabody Duckmasters have<br />

come and gone, but the name<br />

of Edward Pembroke will be<br />

remembered and revered<br />

forever. Today, a large picture<br />

of Duckmaster Pembroke has<br />

pride of place in the lobby<br />

of The Peabody, the <strong>South</strong>’s<br />

Grand Hotel. Some think<br />

that The Peabody Hotel has<br />

13 stories. Actually, it has<br />

thousands.<br />

Witnessed by hundreds of<br />

guests and visitors on a daily<br />

basis, the World Famous<br />

<strong>Mar</strong>ch of The Peabody Ducks<br />

occurs at 11 a.m. and 5 p.m.<br />

year round.<br />

Now, that’s an American<br />

hotel industry original!<br />

The World Famous <strong>Mar</strong>ch of The Peabody Ducks occurs<br />

at 11 a.m. and 5 p.m. year round.<br />

During their stay at the Peabody, the ducks have their own<br />

rooftop quarters, attended to by Duckmaster Ogle.<br />

Hotel History Tours with the Peabody Duckmaster<br />

Take a trip back in time with this 1-hour tour of the<br />

“<strong>South</strong>’s Grand Hotel” with the Peabody Duckmaster.<br />

Daily, 11:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.<br />

$5 for hotel guests, $10 for other guests<br />

Reservations required: 901-529-4108<br />

Homegrown / MAR+APR <strong>2017</strong> / focusmidsouth.com / Page 37


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MARCH 8<br />

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MARCH 18<br />

MEMPHIS POP ART FESTIVAL AND<br />

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AGRICENTER INTERNATIONAL 11AM-7PM.<br />

7777 WALNUT GROVE RD, MEMPHIS, TN 38120<br />

Toys, anime, vinyl, and more join with pop artists<br />

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MARCH 25<br />

MUSLIMEMFEST<br />

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7777 WALNUT GROVE RD, MEMPHIS, TN 38120<br />

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1934 POPLAR AVENUE, MEMPHIS, TN 38104<br />

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Enjoy condom fashions, rowdy comedy, and<br />

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Purchase “Pay your age” tickets at<br />

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SPRING PLANT SALE<br />

MEMPHIS BOTANIC GARDEN, 9AM-5PM.<br />

750 CHERRY ROAD, MEMPHIS, TN 38117<br />

Let experts help you decide what plants will work<br />

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your garden and home. Admission is free.<br />

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