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Siouxland Magazine - Volume 3 Issue 2

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strength<br />

resourceful<br />

courageous<br />

flexible<br />

Complexity of Strength<br />

By Stacie Anderson<br />

Where does strength come from?<br />

Undoubtedly you’ve experienced a time in your life<br />

when you’ve felt anything but strong.<br />

I can’t even begin to count the times in my life when I<br />

felt defeated, when the weight of the world was heavy,<br />

and might I even say at times, unbearable.<br />

Despite the challenges that each of us has experienced,<br />

here we are, stronger for it. Although sometimes I<br />

know it doesn’t feel that way.<br />

“Strength doesn’t always have to roar.<br />

Sometimes it’s a quiet whisper that tells us to<br />

take the next step. From somewhere deep<br />

inside we mustered up enough strength to<br />

move forward.”<br />

We might not always recognize it when it shows up<br />

when we show up, but often in reflection, we see how<br />

we’ve risen. Even if it does take someone to point it out<br />

to us. That’s the complexity of strength - sometimes we<br />

know when we are demonstrating it and other times<br />

not so much. It has the ability to be subtle, showing<br />

up in a quiet way. From being patient, restraining our<br />

words or actions, to holding space for someone to<br />

even letting someone else have the credit or win. There<br />

is also the way in which at times we need to borrow<br />

strength, leaning on someone to help us through.<br />

While other times we lend it and give of it generously.<br />

It is complex. Sometimes in triumphant physical<br />

display while other times quietly evolving through<br />

personal reflection and work. External and internal<br />

thresholds. Resistance coming from our outer world<br />

and from within. It takes many forms: emotional,<br />

mental, spiritual, and physical. None of which are<br />

independent of each other. There is a multitude of<br />

ways that we can expand ourselves, push our limits,<br />

and become stronger. Humans have been testing<br />

our boundaries since the beginning. Whether we are<br />

deliberate about strengthening exercises or it was a<br />

result of an experience we’ve survived, in either case,<br />

we are stronger for it.<br />

Through adversity comes character,<br />

resilience, and yes, strength.<br />

We all have our own mountains to climb, but over the<br />

last year, collectively, we faced a global pandemic. We<br />

felt the isolation as we were encouraged to distance.

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