Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

behavior pleases her mate great, but his opinion carries no more weight - and
often less - than anyone else’s does. She worries about what people think, just
not so much about what her partner thinks.
Dogs are eager to please. They are not only willing to alter their appearance and
behavior to please their partners, they live for it. The dog person derives a
tremendous amount of joy and fulfillment from the approval that comes from her
mate as the result of any change in her wardrobe or hair color, the success of her
diet, or progress in overcoming bad habits. If you fit into this latter category; if
you’ve ever found yourself asking your partner what you should
wear, how you should eat, or whether you should quit smoking, then there’s a
very good chance that you might be a submissive.
Pencils down! Pass your papers to the front of the class. Let’s take a moment
here to reiterate the point that there are no right or wrong answers to any of the
preceding questions. They are simply designed to get you thinking about what is
really going on inside of your head and in your heart. It is entirely possible to
have
answered all of the introspection questions in the negative, and yet still be a
submissive. Conversely, you could have been nodding in complete
and utter agreement with every question, and still not be a submissive.
To say it can be an incredibly complicated issue would be a gross
understatement.
If only it were as easy as going to the pharmacy, purchasing a test kit, and taking
it home to pee on a little plastic
stick. Red for Dominant, blue for submissive, purple for switches, and
yellow for everyone else. Life really would be so much simpler.