Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

first-time visitors, who may be curious or hesitant, to attend the event and enjoy
themselves without feeling any unnecessary pressure. Munches also allow the
group to learn a little something about new or unfamiliar individuals before
inviting them to other more sensitive events. (See also: Protocol)
Needle Play. Needle play typically consist of placing acupuncture needles into
various fleshy parts of the body to induce or reduce fear, create aesthetically
pleasing patterns or designs, stimulate the nervous system, cause or reduce pain,
and for other therapeutic reasons. Acupuncture needles may be inserted into the
flesh perpendicular to the skin or at a secant, where the needle is pushed through
a fold of skin in such a way that the tip emerges again, leaving only the center
part of the needle shaft below the skin. This aesthetic mode of needle play has
recently become quite popular as a way to anchor decorative corset lacing to a
person’s back or chest. (See also: Edge play, Injection play, Medical play)
Novice Submissive. A novice submissive is typically a person who has very
recently discovered and become excited about the D/s or BDSM lifestyle, and
has decided that she badly wants to be a part of it as quickly as possible. This is
sometimes referred to as sub frenzy. This often involves a frenzied quest to find
a Master, any Master, as quickly as possible.
Odaxelagnia. Odaxelagnia refers to a fetish or paraphilia which involves
becoming sexually aroused by biting. (See also: Paraphilia.)
Orgasm Control/Denial. The practice of denying or delaying a submissive’s
orgasm, which can be done for a multitude of reasons, to include heightening
arousal, demonstrating a Dominant’s power over a submissive, or to punish.
Orgasm denial can be long term, meaning the subject may be denied permission
to have an orgasm for days or weeks, or short term, where the orgasm is deferred
for just seconds or minutes. Orgasm denial may or may not involve the
submissive requesting from the Dominant permission to have an orgasm. (See
also: Masturbation restrictions)
OTK. Acronym for Over The Knee. OTK refers to a specific style of spanking,
generally (but not necessarily) practiced by those who are into Age Play. The
submissive lies face down across the lap of the Dominant, who administers a
spanking. The spanking may be characterized as punishment or reward,
depending on the relationship dynamic, and may or may not involve genital
fondling or other sexual activities. (See also: Age play, Humiliation, Impact