Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )
Injection Play. Injection play refers to the use of hypodermics in BDSM needleplay. Hypodermic needles are hollow, and designed to inject or sample fluidsfrom the body; that means the needle has to be thicker and will usually produce aslightly more painful poke. Some studies have shown that roughly 10% of thepopulation suffers from trypanophobia, which is the fear of hypodermicneedles. Hypodermic needle play occurs most often in BDSM medical role-playscenes. (See also: Edge play, Needle play, Medical play)Interrogation Play. Interrogation play refers to role play that simulates theaggressive questioning of a suspect or prisoner, often under duress, the threat ofharm, or torture. Interrogation play is most commonly engaged in as part ofabduction play, humiliation play, medical play or hypnotism play. (See also:Abduction play, Humiliation play, Hypnotism play, Injection play, Medical play,Prison fantasy, Straitjacket)Kajira. The term kajira (plural: kajirae) refers to the female slaves featured inthe sci-fi erotic pulp fiction series of books about the planet Gor by JohnNorman. There are male slaves on Gor, as well, however they are far fewer innumber and, unlike the women who are either bred for slavery or kidnappedfrom Earth, the male slaves of Gor typically become slaves as the result of war,criminality, or indebtedness. Male slaves are individually called kajirus, andkajiri in the plural. (See also: Gor, Master, Slave)Kidnapping Fantasy. (See: Abduction play)Kinbaku. (See: Shibari.)Kitten Play. (See: Pet play)Kneeling. Kneeling is sometimes used as a euphemism for submitting to aDominant but is, more often than not, a reference to assuming a submissiveposture by sitting on the floor on your knees. Various fetish culture sub-groupsmay place more or less emphasis on the significance of kneeling. Goreans, forexample, teach slaves to assume a series of positions on command from theirMasters, many of which are kneeling positions. (See also: Gor, Kajira,Protocol, Master, Slave, Submissive)Knife Play. Knife play refers to any BDSM activity that involves knives, bladesor other sharp objects. Knife play can be exceedingly dangerous whenperformed by inexperienced or reckless individuals. The blades used in knife
play may or may not be terribly sharp, depending on the circumstances. In somecases, the mere thought of a blade – sharp or not – is enough to conjure up therequisite fear that makes knife play interesting for so many people. Regardless,before engaging in knife play with anyone, one should always learn somethingabout the experience level of the person wielding the blades, learn how sharpand clean the blades are, and clarify whether or not there should be any bloodinvolved. (See also: Abduction play, Edge play, Fluid bonding, Interrogationplay, Role play, Wet play)Lady-boy. Typically refers to an effeminate gay Southeast Asian male, usuallyin his teens or twenties, who appears in almost every respect, except for havingmale sex organs, to be a female. They often work as models, escorts, andprostitutes in the tourist regions of Thailand and the Philippines and havebecome well-known outside of Asia thanks to the internet.Latex. (See: Rubber)Lesser God Dominant. The Lesser God Dominant, sometimes referred to asLord, Prophet, Pharoah, or Pharoanic Lord, is a Dominant who thrives on theworship of his submissives. This adoration and worship, which can sometimestake the form of highly ritualistic activities and behaviors, has but one purpose,which is the ego gratification of the Lesser God. It is relatively common for thereal-life households of Lesser God Doms to forsake all traditional forms ofreligion in order to practice their own home-grown religion, with the Dominantat its head and submissives as adoring acolytes. In such cases, the Dominant isusually either regarded as a demi-god or prophet. (See also: Dominant,Religious fantasy)Limits. Limits refer to qualifications or limitations that are placed on a BDSMscene or relationship that specify what the participants will or will not tolerate.Limits are typically discussed prior to participating in a scene, or at thebeginning of a relationship. Dominants and submissives, Tops and bottoms canhave limits. There are several different kinds of limits, including:· Hard Limits: Activities that will not be tolerated, under anycircumstances. Hard limits are, by definition, non-negotiable and notsubject to debate or persuasion. Violating a person’s hard limits isconsidered an extremely serious offense in the BDSM culture.· Soft Limits: Activities that a person may be generally inclined to
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play may or may not be terribly sharp, depending on the circumstances. In some
cases, the mere thought of a blade – sharp or not – is enough to conjure up the
requisite fear that makes knife play interesting for so many people. Regardless,
before engaging in knife play with anyone, one should always learn something
about the experience level of the person wielding the blades, learn how sharp
and clean the blades are, and clarify whether or not there should be any blood
involved. (See also: Abduction play, Edge play, Fluid bonding, Interrogation
play, Role play, Wet play)
Lady-boy. Typically refers to an effeminate gay Southeast Asian male, usually
in his teens or twenties, who appears in almost every respect, except for having
male sex organs, to be a female. They often work as models, escorts, and
prostitutes in the tourist regions of Thailand and the Philippines and have
become well-known outside of Asia thanks to the internet.
Latex. (See: Rubber)
Lesser God Dominant. The Lesser God Dominant, sometimes referred to as
Lord, Prophet, Pharoah, or Pharoanic Lord, is a Dominant who thrives on the
worship of his submissives. This adoration and worship, which can sometimes
take the form of highly ritualistic activities and behaviors, has but one purpose,
which is the ego gratification of the Lesser God. It is relatively common for the
real-life households of Lesser God Doms to forsake all traditional forms of
religion in order to practice their own home-grown religion, with the Dominant
at its head and submissives as adoring acolytes. In such cases, the Dominant is
usually either regarded as a demi-god or prophet. (See also: Dominant,
Religious fantasy)
Limits. Limits refer to qualifications or limitations that are placed on a BDSM
scene or relationship that specify what the participants will or will not tolerate.
Limits are typically discussed prior to participating in a scene, or at the
beginning of a relationship. Dominants and submissives, Tops and bottoms can
have limits. There are several different kinds of limits, including:
· Hard Limits: Activities that will not be tolerated, under any
circumstances. Hard limits are, by definition, non-negotiable and not
subject to debate or persuasion. Violating a person’s hard limits is
considered an extremely serious offense in the BDSM culture.
· Soft Limits: Activities that a person may be generally inclined to
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