Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )
activity with a person of the opposite sex, generally as part of humiliation play.(See also: FemDom, Humiliation.)Forced Homosexuality. Forced homosexuality is the practice of compelling asubmissive who typically self-identifies as heterosexual to engage in sexualactivity with a person of the same sex, generally as part of humiliation play.(See also: FemDom, Humiliation.)Forced Masturbation. Forced Masturbation is the practice of forcing asubmissive to engage in masturbation while the Dominant, and/or othersobserve. It is often utilized as part of humiliation play or age play. (See also:Age Play, Humiliation.)Forced Nudity. Forced Nudity refers to the practice of denying a submissive theright or opportunity to wear clothing. Forced nudity may be for the duration of asingle scene or event, or may be enforced 24/7 in a Dominant’s household.Forced Orgasm. Forced Orgasm is the practice of causing a person toexperience an orgasm, ostensibly against their will. Since this is, in reality,highly unlikely for fairly obvious reasons, forced orgasm is generally associatedwith role play involving rape, abduction, bondage, and humiliation. While bothmen and women sometimes fantasize about being forced to have unwillingorgasms by a Dominant, men have the unique challenge of being unable toconvincingly simulate an erection or orgasm. A question that frequently ariseson this topic is: Why wouldn’t anyone want to have an orgasm? The answer isquite simple: Guilt. Society teaches many of us from birth that we shouldn’t beturned on by many of the things that we do find stimulating. There can also bereligious, relationship-related, and psychological reasons for repressing the urgeto orgasm. One fairly common example is the woman who, as the result of arape or sexual abuse in her past, now associates sex with the abuse and finds itdifficult, if not impossible, to have an orgasm the “normal” way. Role play thatinvolves being “forced” to have an orgasm against her will allows her to enjoythe benefits of an orgasm without experiencing the associated guilt for havingdone so.Forced Servitude. Forced Servitude is the practice of compelling a person,typically a submissive, to perform service-related tasks for a Dominant and/orother members of his or her household.Forced Smoking. Forced smoking refers to the practice of compelling a bottom
to inhale the Top’s exhaled cigarette smoke. It is practiced perhaps mostcommonly by FemDoms as part of humiliation, sissification, asphyxiation, ortorture play. This can be done in a variety of ways, ranging from simplyblowing smoke into a bound bottom’s face to pumping smoke into the bottom’shood or gas mask. The discomfort felt by the bottom, naturally, is significantlyincreased if he or she is a non-smoker. (See also: Breath Play, FemDom,Humiliation, Sissification, Torture)Forniphilia. The derivation of pleasure from being considered and used as if youwere a piece of furniture. This may include humiliation, bondage, blindfolds,gags or other forms of BDSM play, but may also be as simple as having a personkneel and be used as a footstool. Unlike most other forms of bondage,forniphilia play may involve remaining bound for extended periods of time, andin those cases, should be practiced with caution. (See also: Human Furniture,Bondage, Humiliation, FemDom)Furry. This term refers to someone who engages in a particular form of animalrole play characterized by adopting, to the greatest extent possible, theappearance and some mannerisms of a chosen animal. Furries envisionthemselves and role play the part of humans in animal bodies unlike primals,who typically imagine themselves as animals in human bodies. Many furry roleplayers have an assortment of animal personas, avatars, or costumes to choosefrom and will switch between them frequently. The most common furry animalroles chosen are cats, dogs ponies, skunks, foxes, rabbits, wolves, and ferrets.Growth in the furry phenomenon has sprung mostly out of cosplay fandom; it isimmensely popular among teens and young adults. It is, for that reason,sometimes viewed as a gateway or introduction to more traditional D/srelationships and BDSM activities. Furry role play is not the same thing as petrole play, even though there may sometimes be significant overlap. (See also:Pet play, Pony play, Ponygirl/Ponyboy, Primal, Role play)Gag. A gag refers to just about anything placed in or over the mouth (OTM) oreven over the nose (OTN) to prevent speech, outcries, biting, or the like. Gagscan include such things as an unpretentious strip of cloth, a wide strip of ducttape, a wooden rod, a ball-gag, open-mouth bracing, or even a pony bit.Gang Rape Fantasy. Refers to fantasies and/or role play involving being forcedto submit to sex with multiple partners, usually in conjunction with abductionplay, bondage, torture, or humiliation play. Expressing a gang rape fantasy or
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activity with a person of the opposite sex, generally as part of humiliation play.
(See also: FemDom, Humiliation.)
Forced Homosexuality. Forced homosexuality is the practice of compelling a
submissive who typically self-identifies as heterosexual to engage in sexual
activity with a person of the same sex, generally as part of humiliation play.
(See also: FemDom, Humiliation.)
Forced Masturbation. Forced Masturbation is the practice of forcing a
submissive to engage in masturbation while the Dominant, and/or others
observe. It is often utilized as part of humiliation play or age play. (See also:
Age Play, Humiliation.)
Forced Nudity. Forced Nudity refers to the practice of denying a submissive the
right or opportunity to wear clothing. Forced nudity may be for the duration of a
single scene or event, or may be enforced 24/7 in a Dominant’s household.
Forced Orgasm. Forced Orgasm is the practice of causing a person to
experience an orgasm, ostensibly against their will. Since this is, in reality,
highly unlikely for fairly obvious reasons, forced orgasm is generally associated
with role play involving rape, abduction, bondage, and humiliation. While both
men and women sometimes fantasize about being forced to have unwilling
orgasms by a Dominant, men have the unique challenge of being unable to
convincingly simulate an erection or orgasm. A question that frequently arises
on this topic is: Why wouldn’t anyone want to have an orgasm? The answer is
quite simple: Guilt. Society teaches many of us from birth that we shouldn’t be
turned on by many of the things that we do find stimulating. There can also be
religious, relationship-related, and psychological reasons for repressing the urge
to orgasm. One fairly common example is the woman who, as the result of a
rape or sexual abuse in her past, now associates sex with the abuse and finds it
difficult, if not impossible, to have an orgasm the “normal” way. Role play that
involves being “forced” to have an orgasm against her will allows her to enjoy
the benefits of an orgasm without experiencing the associated guilt for having
done so.
Forced Servitude. Forced Servitude is the practice of compelling a person,
typically a submissive, to perform service-related tasks for a Dominant and/or
other members of his or her household.
Forced Smoking. Forced smoking refers to the practice of compelling a bottom
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