Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

ceremonies, similar to weddings, are often performed to commemorate and
consecrate the beginning of the relationship. The symbolism of a formal collar
obviously means different things to different couples, but it is often referred to as
the ultimate gift of one’s submission and self to another; a manifestation of
complete and total power exchange. (See also: Collar, Collar of consideration,
Collar of Protection, Day collar, Play collar, Training collar)
Forced Bed Wetting. The practice of forcing submissives to urinate in the bed
they must lie in, or to wet themselves in general, in order to emphasize the
Dominant’s control over the submissive, or as part of bathroom access control.
(See also: AB/DL, Age Play, Bathroom access control, Diaper play,
Humiliation, Tickling, Urine Play)
Forced Collaring. Forced collaring is a uniquely online phenomenon practiced
almost entirely by pretenders to the D/s lifestyle. The notion that a person can
be forced into a collared relationship against his or her will is ludicrous, but the
mythology that surrounds it continues to be perpetuated by those who are
ignorant of the lifestyle and the true symbolism of a collar. Many of the wouldbe
submissives who encounter forced collaring for the first time in online chat
rooms and similar venues have no idea that it’s a farce, and so they play along,
thinking that perhaps it’s some sort of requirement for entry into the mysterious
sisterhood of submissives. Invariably, the victim soon learns that the supposed
Dominant doesn’t have a clue, the entire situation was a joke, and that she’s been
made to look like a complete idiot. For more information on this topic, see
Chapter 5: Online BDSM Relationships. (See also: Collar)
Forced Dressing. Forced dressing refers to any scene or activity where the
Dominant requires the submissive to wear specific types or articles of clothing.
Typically, forced dressing is used as a part of forced feminization or humiliation
play; i.e. when a FemDom forces a submissive male to wear effeminate clothing
or lingerie. (See also: FemDom, Forced Feminization, Humiliation)
Forced Feminization. Forced Feminization is the practice, commonly imposed
by FemDom Mistresses upon submissive males, of forcing them to assume
traditionally female roles, positions, and traits as part of a humiliation regimen.
(See also: FemDom, Forced Dressing, Humiliation)
Forced Heterosexuality. Forced heterosexuality is the practice of compelling a
submissive who typically self-identifies as homosexual to engage in sexual