Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

context, chastity belts are used on both males and females, and can be designed
to prevent intercourse, masturbation, and in some cases for males, erections.
(See also: Bondage, Restraints, CBT, Humiliation, Orgasm Denial.)
Chauffeuring. Chauffeuring refers to the duties of a service submissive that
consist primarily of driving, delivering, picking up and running errands for a
Dominant and possibly for other members of his or her household. Chauffeuring
may or may not involve sex, wearing a uniform, and/or performing these duties
in public. (See also: Domestic, Service Submissive.)
Choking. (See Breath Play.)
Closeting. Typically refers to the practice of punishing a misbehaving
submissive by locking him or her in a closet or similar enclosed space. (See
also: Caging.)
Clothespins. Clothespins have become a bit of an anachronism for many people
who have never had to hang their just-washed laundry out to dry on a clothes
line, but they do still exist. In the BDSM lifestyle, they are often used to apply
pain and pressure to sensitive body parts, such as the lips, tongue, nipples, labia,
penis, or scrotum.
Cock Worship. Cock worship describes any sexual or pseudo-sexual activity
where the primary focus involves demonstrated love, adoration and reverence of
a man’s penis. The practice often involves kneeling, prostration, or assuming
other submissive poses to emphasize the Dominant-submissive dynamic. While
there is sometimes an element of humiliation or even discipline (i.e. spanking,
caning, or bondage) involved, it is far more common for the Dominant to assume
a somewhat aloof role while the submissive “worships at the altar.” (See also:
Body worship)
Collar. Collars are viewed by those in the D/s lifestyle in much the same way
that rings are considered by those outside of the lifestyle. Just as a ring can
symbolize anything from friendship to marriage, or have no symbolism
whatsoever, so too can a collar. A collar can be comprised of just about
anything, to include a ribbon around the neck, an actual pet collar, custom
designed fetish-wear, or even a traditional necklace that only you know the
significance of. A collar is simply what the people involved agree that it is,
nothing more, nothing less. When a Dominant no longer feels his submissive is
worthy of the collar, the submissive may be “released,” meaning the collar is