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a submissive, passive, receiving or obedient role. The term is usually applied todescribe a person’s actions and behaviors demonstrated at any given moment intime, rather than his or her deep-seated character and thought-processes. In anutshell, one’s actions may make him a bottom, while one’s character may makehim a submissive. There is often some overlap and it is entirely possible to be asubmissive who is, for whatever reason, not in the role of a bottom at any giventime or circumstance. (See also: Dominant, Role play, Scene, Submissive, Top)Branding. Branding is a form of body modification, similar to tattooing, that isfar more common in the BDSM lifestyle than in the general population. Ittypically involves the use of hot metal implements to produce burns and scartissue on a person’s skin for a variety of reasons, to include sadomasochisticpleasure, aesthetic or artistic reasons, to demonstrate ownership of a slave orsubmissive, or as a badge of honor. Branding is almost exclusively practiced byhard-core masochists or those with an extreme body modification fetish. (Seealso: Edge play, Fire play, Scarification)Brat. Typically a submissive who is generally well-behaved, but has mademisbehavior, teasing, and limited kinds of defiance or disobedience an integralpart of her Dominant-submissive dynamic. Preferably, this occurs with the fullawareness and approval of her Dom. When such is not the case, problems willinvariably arise. (See also: S.A.M./Sammy, Submissive, Topping from thebottom)Breast Bondage. Breast bondage involves binding the breasts with rope, straps,tape, cloth, leather, chain, or any other material to create a sensation of pressureor pain. This is often done as much for the aesthetics as it is the intensesensations produced, and is considered by some to be an art form. (See also:Breast whipping, Kinbaku, Restraints, Rope play, Shibari)Breast Whipping. Breast whipping usually refers to the practice of striking thebreasts with a flogger, crop, whip, or slapper. This is often combined with othertypes of breast torture, such as binding or nipple clamps.Breath Play. Often referred to as choking, breath play generally consists ofbeing sexually aroused either by choking your partner or by being choked, eitheras foreplay or during sex. It can involve a wide range of activities ranging fromsimulated or actual choking from hands around the neck, to autoeroticasphyxiation. (See also: Asphyxiation, Autoerotic asphyxiation, Edge play)

Brown Showers. Also sometimes referred to as scat play. A brown showerrefers to any activity which involves the act of defecating on another person, orhaving it done to you. It is sometimes combined with enemas to create a morefluid experience.Bruising. Bruising generally refers to the black and blue or purplish marks onthe skin as the consequence of tiny capillaries in the skin being damaged orbroken as the result of either impact play such as spanking, caning, slapping,flogging, whipping or paddling, or aggressive handling during bondage,choking, or rough sex. Bruises are quite often worn as a badge of honor bymasochists and bottoms.Caging. The practice of using a cage, crate, pen, or barred cell to restrain aperson for sexual, psychological or aesthetic reasons. Caging can be used forjust about any reason, to include punishment, reward, foreplay, humiliation, oreven to produce a sense of security for the submissive being caged. Somesubmissives enjoy sleeping in cages, or staying in cages when their Dominantsare away. Others use the cage as a refuge, or as a place to be sent when they feelthat they have done something wrong, and must do pennance. Caging is also afavorite activity of many people in the D/s lifestyle who are into pet play. (Seealso: Abduction play, Cow/Pig Submissive, Pet Play, Prison Fantasy.)Caning. Caning is a form of corporal punishment that typically consists ofstriking the buttocks with a thin, rattan cane. It is often erroneously assumed bythose outside the BDSM culture that caning refers to the use of a heavy, stiffimplement that resembles a walking cane, but such is not the case. The caneused in BDSM canings is a lightweight switch that is generally used to deliverstrikes to the buttocks, but sometimes to other parts of the body, hands, or feet.Strikes are referred to as cuts or strokes, and can sometimes be severe enough tobreak the skin. (See also: Cropping, Flogging, Impact play, Whipping)Castration Play. Though it may seem somewhat oxymoronic for most to see thewords castration and play used in the same phrase, the role play aspects of thisactivity have a great deal of appeal to those who enjoy the use of fear, anxiety,medical play, and/or knife play as part of their BDSM activities. Typically,castration play consists of causing another person to fear being castrated (havingone’s testicles surgically removed). Far less common is the sort of castrationplay that involves a participant who actually has a castration fantasy, i.e. isaroused by the thought of being castrated. (See also: CBT, Medical play,

a submissive, passive, receiving or obedient role. The term is usually applied to

describe a person’s actions and behaviors demonstrated at any given moment in

time, rather than his or her deep-seated character and thought-processes. In a

nutshell, one’s actions may make him a bottom, while one’s character may make

him a submissive. There is often some overlap and it is entirely possible to be a

submissive who is, for whatever reason, not in the role of a bottom at any given

time or circumstance. (See also: Dominant, Role play, Scene, Submissive, Top)

Branding. Branding is a form of body modification, similar to tattooing, that is

far more common in the BDSM lifestyle than in the general population. It

typically involves the use of hot metal implements to produce burns and scar

tissue on a person’s skin for a variety of reasons, to include sadomasochistic

pleasure, aesthetic or artistic reasons, to demonstrate ownership of a slave or

submissive, or as a badge of honor. Branding is almost exclusively practiced by

hard-core masochists or those with an extreme body modification fetish. (See

also: Edge play, Fire play, Scarification)

Brat. Typically a submissive who is generally well-behaved, but has made

misbehavior, teasing, and limited kinds of defiance or disobedience an integral

part of her Dominant-submissive dynamic. Preferably, this occurs with the full

awareness and approval of her Dom. When such is not the case, problems will

invariably arise. (See also: S.A.M./Sammy, Submissive, Topping from the

bottom)

Breast Bondage. Breast bondage involves binding the breasts with rope, straps,

tape, cloth, leather, chain, or any other material to create a sensation of pressure

or pain. This is often done as much for the aesthetics as it is the intense

sensations produced, and is considered by some to be an art form. (See also:

Breast whipping, Kinbaku, Restraints, Rope play, Shibari)

Breast Whipping. Breast whipping usually refers to the practice of striking the

breasts with a flogger, crop, whip, or slapper. This is often combined with other

types of breast torture, such as binding or nipple clamps.

Breath Play. Often referred to as choking, breath play generally consists of

being sexually aroused either by choking your partner or by being choked, either

as foreplay or during sex. It can involve a wide range of activities ranging from

simulated or actual choking from hands around the neck, to autoerotic

asphyxiation. (See also: Asphyxiation, Autoerotic asphyxiation, Edge play)

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