Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

scenarios involving coercion, humiliation or punishment. (See also: Abduction
play, Interrogation play)
Abduction Play. (See: Abandonment fantasy, Interrogation play, Kidnapping
fantasy, Role play)
Abrasion Play. Stimulating, over-stimulating, or causing the skin to become
hyper-sensitized through the application of abrasive materials such as sandpaper,
brushes, the edges of coins, or special instruments designed specifically for this
activity. Often, this stimulation of the skin also involves certain salves,
ointments or chemicals which add to or enhance the sensations, either during or
after the abrasion activity. The most commonly used enhancer is mentholated
oil, such as the kind found in muscle rubs and ointments. (See also: Sensation
play)
Acupuncture. (See: Needle play)
Adelphogamy. Adelphogamy refers to a specific form of polyandry, which
consists of a two or more brothers in a committed relationship (usually, but not
limited to marriage) with the same woman. It is sometimes referred to as
fraternal or leviratic polyandry. (See also: Polyamory, Polyandry)
Aftercare. Aftercare refers to special attention and consideration which should
be given to all scene participants immediately following any BDSM scene, and
should not be limited solely to bottoms. Even though it is primarily the
responsibility of the Top to provide aftercare for his or her bottom, it is not
uncommon for both Top and bottom to require some transition time after a scene
to allow their focus, physiology, and mental states to return to a normal state.
Immediately following a scene, participants may appear disoriented, flushed,
exhausted, weak, confused, or inwardly focused. Even if there are no outward
signs, they may require time to refocus their thoughts and emotions. The time
required to recover will vary from individual to individual, which is why it is
important to monitor their condition. It is usually a good idea to refrain from
attempting to engage someone in conversation or activity until they show signs
of recovering and begin initiating interaction themselves. (See also: Scene,
Subspace, Topspace)
Age Play. Age play is BDSM role play activity or behavior that involves the
interaction of at least two people, with at least one of them assuming the role of
a person whose age differs significantly from his or her real age. While age play