Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )
“When I use a word,” Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, “it meansjust what I choose it to mean - neither more nor less.”- - Lewis Carroll
Appendix A: GlossaryThis glossary is provided for quick reference to certain words, terms or phrasesone might encounter in the D/s or BDSM lifestyles. It is not intended to be anall-inclusive laundry-list of every possible kink-related term or toy. In someinstances, the terms play, role play, or fantasy may be interchangeable, however,generally speaking, play refers to an activity, role play refers to a scene orscenario, and fantasy refers to something that is primarily a mindset, even if thatmay lead to related activities and role play.In instances where a word or phrase may have multiple meanings, particularly indiffering contexts, this glossary will always favor the BDSM context and usage.The mere inclusion here of any term describing a BDSM activity should not beconsidered an endorsement of it as something that you should try. Many of theactivities described in this book can be incredibly dangerous, and should only beattempted after proper precautions are taken, and after being trained by aqualified person.Just because something is listed here, doesn’t necessarily mean you should runout and try it. By the same token, if something that you think is important is notlisted here, it is more likely an oversight than a commentary on its significancein the lifestyle.# # #AB/DL. Acronym for Adult Baby / Diaper Lover. Adult babies and diaperlovers enjoy activities that involve at least one of the partners in a scene orrelationship assuming the role of a baby or toddler still in diapers. (See also:Age play, Bathroom use restrictions, Diaper play, Forced bed wetting, Littles,Role play, Urine play)Abandonment Fantasy. This refers to a fantasy or role play involving leaving aperson, typically a submissive being disciplined, in a remote or isolated areasuch as in the middle of the desert, or on an open and empty stretch of highway.Abandonment fantasies are most often used as a way to induce fear, particularlyin individuals with abandonment anxiety, and are often used in role play
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- Page 448 and 449: Torture)Catheterization. Catheteriz
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Appendix A: Glossary
This glossary is provided for quick reference to certain words, terms or phrases
one might encounter in the D/s or BDSM lifestyles. It is not intended to be an
all-inclusive laundry-list of every possible kink-related term or toy. In some
instances, the terms play, role play, or fantasy may be interchangeable, however,
generally speaking, play refers to an activity, role play refers to a scene or
scenario, and fantasy refers to something that is primarily a mindset, even if that
may lead to related activities and role play.
In instances where a word or phrase may have multiple meanings, particularly in
differing contexts, this glossary will always favor the BDSM context and usage.
The mere inclusion here of any term describing a BDSM activity should not be
considered an endorsement of it as something that you should try. Many of the
activities described in this book can be incredibly dangerous, and should only be
attempted after proper precautions are taken, and after being trained by a
qualified person.
Just because something is listed here, doesn’t necessarily mean you should run
out and try it. By the same token, if something that you think is important is not
listed here, it is more likely an oversight than a commentary on its significance
in the lifestyle.
# # #
AB/DL. Acronym for Adult Baby / Diaper Lover. Adult babies and diaper
lovers enjoy activities that involve at least one of the partners in a scene or
relationship assuming the role of a baby or toddler still in diapers. (See also:
Age play, Bathroom use restrictions, Diaper play, Forced bed wetting, Littles,
Role play, Urine play)
Abandonment Fantasy. This refers to a fantasy or role play involving leaving a
person, typically a submissive being disciplined, in a remote or isolated area
such as in the middle of the desert, or on an open and empty stretch of highway.
Abandonment fantasies are most often used as a way to induce fear, particularly
in individuals with abandonment anxiety, and are often used in role play
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