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Colossae to deal fairly with those who are under their charge, and leaves them

with a friendly reminder:

Masters, give unto your servants that which is just and equal; knowing

that ye also have a Master in heaven. (Colossians 4:1)

Obviously, there is no shortage of passages from the Old and New Testaments to

support a religious foundation for a D/s lifestyle. The Bible clearly teaches that

submission to one another teaches us how to be submissive to God, and

therefore should be considered a good thing. It also teaches that husbands and

masters are expected to be just and fair, to honor those over whom they have

charge, and that they will be held accountable for their welfare. That advice is

just as valuable today as it was two-thousand years ago.

D/s Advice From the Master

The third authoritative resource that we should consider in our examination of

Christian doctrines as they pertain to a D/s lifestyle should be the teachings and

life of the Master himself, Jesus of Nazareth. Jesus was considered something

of a radical in his time for teaching doctrines that were considered heretical by

the established religious authorities. A prime example would be the way Jesus

took existing religious doctrines, precepts as simple as “Love thy neighbor as

thyself” (Leviticus 19:18), and turned them on their heads to confound the

religious establishment. Jesus taught, instead:

Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and

hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that

curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which

despitefully use you, and persecute you. (Matthew 5: 43-44)

Jesus understood the power of love in teaching, guiding, and overcoming

obstacles to submission, such as pride or arrogance. British author Mary

Cowden Clarke once wrote, “Fear may induce the show of submission; but love

only can truly subjugate a haughty spirit.” Among those whom Jesus taught

were the twelve disciples, some of whom were initially skeptical and

headstrong. Our modern usage of the term “doubting Thomas” is a biblical

reference to the Apostle Thomas, to whom the divinity of Jesus had to be proven

before he would believe it. Even so, Jesus won them over with love and so, too,

will any D/s relationship depend upon liberal helpings of it.

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