Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

It seriously just kills me that I sometimes have to explain the meaning of this
little parable to some people. I mean, come on. It just isn’t that complicated.
Even so, for the benefit of those few, here it is, in a nutshell:
It isn’t your spaghetti to share. It’s mine.
You may want it all, but you end up with a whole lot of nothing. In the end,
others end up reaping the benefits of your pride and greed, but at least you’re
making someone happy, even if it isn’t you.
I believe that the human heart has an infinite capacity for love. And half of
infinity is still a hell of a lot of spaghetti.
With, or without breadsticks.