Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

considers them simply as expendable vessels to be used for his own pleasure or
procreation. He is more likely than not to be polyamorous and/or polygamous.
When the Lesser God has a full stable of slaves, whether real-life or role-played,
it is relatively common to see a high degree of specialization among the
acolytes. Some may be considered breeders and used solely for the purpose of
bearing and raising children, while others may be considered pleasure slaves,
income earners, or recruiters of new slaves. For the Lesser God, being called
“God’s gift to mankind” isn’t an insult at all; it’s a way of life.
The Collector Dom
The Collector Dom (sometimes referred to as a Farmer Dom) is a type of
Dominant who is far more likely to be encountered online than in real life. The
Collector is focused on building a stable of submissives, similar to a harem. For
the Collector, quantity always trumps quality. In his way of thinking, the
measure of a Dom’s standing is how many submissives he can accumulate,
without much regard for who, or even what, those submissives may be. It is
relatively common for a Collector Dom to attempt to collar a submissive mere
minutes after meeting her for the first time in an online chat room or on a BDSM
social network, which sometimes results in the so-called Dom being comically
unaware of his own submissives’ ages, genders, or even their names.
The Collector is typically an adolescent male in his teens or early twenties who
has recently stumbled upon D/s in an online chat room or lifestyle-related
website. He is agog and obsessed with the thought that he can actually acquire
slaves online the same way he shops for Pokemon cards. He typically doesn’t
understand the difference between a submissive and a slave and may, in fact, be
completely ignorant of the meaning of the term submissive. For the Collector,
it’s all about slaves and more is always better. To absolutely no one’s surprise
but his own, he soon learns that keeping them is an entirely a different matter - a
matter to which he hasn’t given an iota of thought. Luckily for the Collector,
there is always an endless supply of naive teens willing to role play “slave for a
day.” The important thing, for the Collector, is to be able to boast, “You have a
slave? Hah! That’s nothing! I have twenty-seven of them!”
There are two very good reasons why the Collector Dom phenomenon exists
almost exclusively in the cyber realm, rather than in the real world. First, being
a sophomore in high school and having a ten o’clock curfew can be problematic
in the accumulation of slaves in real life. And second, it’s a lot harder in real