Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

person’s anus. Yes, there really is a word for that), tie-and-tease play, forced
orgasm, orgasm deferral or denial, various forms of physical or verbal
humiliation, and sexual sadism in general. Though it isn’t necessarily a requisite
part of a FemDom’s repertoire, there is often a significant element of misandry,
or hatred of men, involved, whether real or role-played.
A sub-category of FemDom is the FinDom, which is a contraction of Financial
Dominant. A FinDom expects her submissives to support her financially by
paying tribute to her in the form of cold hard cash or lavish gifts. She typically
maintains an online wish list of items that she hopes someone will purchase for
her. Submissives who show their devotion to a FinDom by paying this tribute
usually do so without any expectation of receiving anything in return except,
perhaps, scorn and continued exploitation. It should come as no surprise to
anyone that some FinDoms are more authentic than others. How do you
recognize the phonies? They’re the ones posting photos taken at their trailer
park.
The Bear Dom
The Bear Dom is typically a burly gay or bisexual male Dominant who prefers
diminutive and youthful gay or bisexual male submissives. Some Bear Doms
are attracted to lady-boys and boyish females, as well. They are called Bear
Doms mostly for their tendency to exhibit hyper-masculinity and somewhat
exaggerated male characteristics such as a muscular or stocky build and
abundant body hair. Bear Doms are commonly encountered in the BDSM
leather and LGBT subcultures.
The Lesser God Dom
The Lesser God Dom (sometimes referred to as Lord, Prophet, Pharoah, or
Pharoanic Lord) is a Dominant who expects and thrives on the worship of his
submissives. This adoration and worship, which can sometimes take the form of
highly ritualistic activities and behaviors, has but one purpose, which is the ego
gratification of the Lesser God. It is relatively common for the real-life
households of Lesser God Doms to forsake all traditional forms of religion in
order to practice their own home-grown religion, with the Dominant at its head
and submissives as religious acolytes. In such cases, the Dominant is usually
regarded by his submissives as a deity, or as a prophet of God.
The Lesser God generally prefers slaves to submissives and, in either case, often