Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

be terrible at it.
For the sake of simplicity, we’ll henceforth dispense with the clunky practice of
referring to this category of Dominant as the Daddy or Mommy Dom, and just
call it what it is for the vast majority of the folks who comprise this particular
D/s subculture – the Daddy Dom. Just remember that anything we say about the
Daddy Dom probably applies equally to Mommy Dommes, as well.
Most Daddy Doms find fulfillment in the relationship dynamic that exists
between the Dominant and his submissive, who is usually referred to as baby,
babygirl, little one, or other pet name that suggests and reinforces the
submissive’s childlike status in the relationship. The components of the
relationship dynamic that a Daddy Dom seeks – no, craves - from his babygirl
usually include the ability to trust absolutely and without reservation, a spirit of
wide-eyed innocence and playfulness, an eagerness for mentoring and guidance,
and the kind of gleeful no-holds-barred adoration and worship that only little
girls and puppies seem capable of demonstrating.
Lifestyle Daddy Doms should be willing to take their Daddy responsibilities
beyond the bedroom. That can mean helping their babygirls to make the kinds of
decisions that would be difficult for an adult, spending an evening watching her
favorite cartoons, reading stories aloud to her, brushing her hair, or just holding
her when she is frightened or feeling down. It can also require loads of patience,
which may be needed when doing things like shopping, explaining things,
disciplining, or dealing with little tantrums. Any Dominant who might be
considering the Daddy Dom lifestyle should seriously consider all of the aspects
of being in this kind of relationship, and not just the pervy ones.
The FemDom Mistress
The FemDom Mistress is something of an anomaly in the categorization of
Dominants, for the simple reason that while practically all of the other
categorizations of Doms are gender-neutral, the FemDom is always a dominant
woman who makes the most of a unique combination of force and sexual role
reversal. The FemDom, who may prefer either male or female submissives, is
also sometimes referred to as a Domme, Domina, Dominatrix, or Mistress.
Traditional FemDom BDSM scene activities include pegging (anal intercourse
utilizing a strap-on dildo), face-sitting, forced feminization of male submissives,
CBT (cock and ball torture), forced felching (orally sucking semen out of a