Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

group events. He was judgmental about the appearance of the others in
attendance, even though the BDSM culture is strongly supportive of being bodypositive.
He assumed that mostly single people would be attending an event of
this type and was peeved about all of the couples in attendance, because it
reduced his chances of hooking-up with someone. He was extremely superficial
in how he approached and chatted with other attendees, as evidenced by his
remark, “If I’m not authorized to touch... what’s the point?”
Apparently, it never occurred to Robert that if he had actually been interested in
anyone as more than just a sex object perhaps they, in turn, might have been
interested in him as more than just a creepy stranger who ought to be avoided.
Robert ended his narrative with the thought, “I hope all BDSM groups are not
like this one,” but fails to comprehend that in BDSM groups across the country,
there are a whole lot of people hoping that not all of their first time visitors are
like him.