Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

easily.
Explaining away a picture of you being flogged while hanging upside down and
naked in somebody’s living room is probably going to be a tough sell.
Don’t wander into parts of the house not designated for the event. Try to
remember the last time you had a dozen or more
people in your house. The thought of that crowd in your living room or
family room was probably stressful enough, without adding the terrifying notion
of them wandering randomly through the rest of your house.
Respect the privacy of the event hosts and stay in areas that have been set aside
for the event. This will usually consist of a main play area (living room, family
room, or rec room), a guest bathroom, and perhaps the
kitchen/dining area. Stay away from bedrooms, dens or children’s rooms,
and ask before congregating in outdoor areas like patios, porches, yards or
driveways, since voices and noise can carry, and your hosts may have nosy or
irritable neighbors.
Protect the furniture. One of the things you can expect to see a lot of at your
fetish group’s play party is skin.
Some nudity or partial nudity is fairly common, particularly for those who will
be part of a scene or demo. Sometimes, folks who aren’t planning to be a
part of a scene that evening will still change into fetishwear of some sort, just to
get into the spirit of things. You shouldn’t feel as if you’re under any pressure to
wear anything kinky or shed any of your clothing,
particularly as a new person. But in the event that you do, remember the
furniture. This may come as a bit of a surprise to you, but most
household furniture simply isn’t designed to accommodate naked, wet, or sticky
people. Not only can it damage the furnishings, but it can be something
of a bio-hazard to sit in someone else’s couch puddle. Many people bring