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bottom’s buttocks prominently and accessibly.

A sex bench is any bench designed primarily to give a Top easy accessibility to a

restrained bottom’s genital area and/or mouth. For that reason, it also tends to

be ideal for CBT, gynecological examination play, forced orgasm or orgasm

denial play, or any other type of activity that depends upon unfettered access to

the restrained bottom’s genitalia. Sex benches can come in a variety of forms,

including simple short bondage benches, gynecological exam chairs, birthing

chairs, leg-spreaders, and modified horizontal crosses.

Any bench that doesn’t specifically fall into one of the two categories above can

properly and generically be categorized as a bondage bench and used in an

unlimited number of kinky ways, limited only by your perverse imagination.

Two rather unique exceptions would be the bondage horse, which typically

resembles the sort of pommel horse used in gymnastics, and the queening stool,

which is a specialized stool that allows ready access to a seated person’s bare

genitals to the person lying on his or her back below. It is used primarily for

forced cunnilingus, or face sitting. An interesting variation on the queening

stool design is the smotherbox, which works just like a queening stool, but

consists of a box specifically designed to restrain and position the bottom’s head

in the proper position for forced oral sex.

Suspension Frames & Hoists

Suspension frames and hoists are a handy thing to have around if you want to lift

or suspend your bottom, raise specific limbs or body parts, or place your subject

into an elevated position for predicament bondage. Most homes are simply not

built to support any significant weight from the ceiling and, even when they are,

not everyone wants to permanently install bondage gear there. As a result, some

folks find it more convenient to construct or purchase a sturdy frame to which

they can attach ropes, chains, or straps for bondage and suspensions that will

support the full weight of an adult. Suspension frames can be constructed from

wood, iron, construction-grade aluminum, or steel pipe.

One of the advantages of a suspension frame is its relative portability; when

you’re ready to move into a new home, you should theoretically be able to take

it with you. Another advantage is the fact that some types of suspension frames

can easily be camouflaged as something else. A suspension frame in the garage

looks an awful lot like an engine hoist frame. A suspension frame over your bed

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