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Cupping should be avoided by people with infectious skin disorders, heart

disease, circulation problems, blood clots, history of stroke, autoimmune

disorders, or who are unusually susceptible to bruising. There is always a

possibility of breaks in the skin; therefore, your subject should be asked about

any blood-borne disease or infection, and proper precautions should be taken

regarding contact with blood.

Some cupping practitioners strongly recommend that a subject should be wellhydrated

at least several hours prior to a cupping session to ensure that there are

enough fluids in the body to facilitate the proper circulation of blood and the

body’s ability to handle capillary ruptures, bruising and minor clotting that can

occur during and after the procedure.

Knife Play

Knife or blade play is one of those activities which could properly be placed in a

number of different categories of fetish play; however, after giving it a great deal

of thought, I have decided - at least for the purposes of this chapter - to

categorize it as a form of sensation play. After all, it is not just the sensation of a

blade against the skin that makes knife play so interesting, but the associated

sensation of fear. Knife play typically involves various kinds of knives, daggers,

razors, swords, cutters, shears, and scissors.

Knife play scenes can consist of blades being used to create fear, shave pubic or

body hair, cut or scrape the skin, cut away clothing, scrape hardened wax off the

skin, or to poke the subject. Blades may range in sharpness from very dull to

razor sharp, and sometimes two identical blades (one sharp, the other dull) are

used to first create the impression of a dangerously sharp instrument before

switching to the dull blade in subsequent play to reduce the risk of injury. The

critical ingredient in any knife play is always the psychological aspect of the

scene. The proper cultivation and exploitation of anticipation, intimidation,

anxiety, and fear is every bit as important as the blade you use, and the manner

in which you wield it.

Safety concerns regarding knife play are, as one might imagine, a big deal.

Knife play is generally considered a form of edge play; it pushes the boundaries

of what most people consider to be safe. (Contrary to popular belief, edge play

refers to the edginess of the play, rather than the edge of a blade.) The prime

directive of knife play is: Try not to cut anyone unintentionally.

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