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produces a hot sensation that lasts several hours. When the entire back is

covered in coin stripes, the subject will usually feel toasty warm all night long,

which can be particularly soothing for anyone with chills, aches, or pains. In

many parts of Asia, people pay for professional treatments of this sort in much

the same way they go for massages, acupuncture, or cupping. The procedure is

rare enough in the U.S. that the sight of your red stripes may elicit some

concerned reactions from some people. After all, it looks as if a scurvy pirate

has tied you to the ship’s mainsail mast and given you fifty lashes. I usually

recommend that anyone who will be going to see a doctor within the next few

days delay their abrasion play until after their appointment!

The safety concerns related to abrasion play are minimal, with the main worry

being infection. The wider the area of skin that is rubbed raw, the greater the

possibility will be of harmful bacteria passing through the distressed skin and

into the bloodstream. The Top should always wash his hands thoroughly with a

strong antibacterial soap and sanitize the bottom’s back with an alcohol or

peroxide wipe prior to the procedure. Any stripes that result in breaks in the skin

should be treated as open wounds to prevent the transmission of disease or

infection and to promote healing.

Irritants

Irritant play isn’t something you hear about very often and, even when you do,

it’s rarely referred to as such. Even so, it’s a fairly common form of

sadomasochistic play which usually involves creating pain or discomfort to

sensitive parts of the body by applying substances like Tabasco sauce,

toothpaste, hot peppers, wasabi, chili powder, ginger root, peppermint oil, clove

oil, citrus oil, witch hazel, and other irritants.

Sometimes, a specific substance develops a wide following and gets a name all

its own. One example is figging, which is the practice of inserting a freshly

peeled ginger root into the anus or vagina. The ginger is typically carved into a

dildo or butt-plug shape and, when inserted, produces a tingly warm sensation

which gradually grows in intensity until it becomes painful. Figging can also be

combined in various ways with other forms of play to intensify the sensations.

Any activity that causes involuntary constrictions or spasms of the vagina or

anus (such as occurs during orgasm) will squeeze the ginger, producing a rush or

heat, tingling or pain. The sensations associated with figging typically last 15-20

minutes before they begin to fade.

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