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subject. Anyone who has ever gotten a skinned knee as a child knows that even

a small abrasion can create some pretty intense sensations. Abrasion play

generally falls into two basic categories. There’s abrasion play that is done

purely for the sake of producing pain or sensitivity in a localized region, and

there’s the kind of abrasion play that is pleasurable or even therapeutic. Of

course, most masochists would argue that pain and sensitivity are the very

definition of pleasurable and therapeutic.

Similarly to heat and cold sensation play, abrasion play requires little or no

specialized equipment or toys. For the most part, the only thing needed is an

adequately rough surface to rub against your subject’s skin. Examples can

include sandpaper, steel wool, pot scrubbers, cleaning brushes, toothbrushes,

Emory boards, nail files, rasps, or even your own fingernails. The concept is

really quite simple: rub, rasp or scratch the subject’s skin until it becomes

sensitive, raw, or painful. This can be an end in itself, or a means to other ends,

such as serving as a precursor to impact play, violet wand play, or other

activities.

A therapeutic form of abrasion play that I happen to enjoy is one that is

practiced widely in Asia to treat aches and pains, chills, and various minor

illnesses. Since the practice lacks an English-language name that I’m aware of, I

simply refer to it as “coin striping.” It typically consists of having a subject lie

on his or her stomach, disrobed from the waist up. The Top takes a quarter, and

applies a small dab of mentholated oil or muscle rub (such as Ben Gay or Icy

Hot) to either the coin or to a spot on the subject’s back. Then, gripping the coin

firmly, he rubs the dab of liniment into the skin using the corrugated edge of the

quarter. The quarter is drawn repeatedly in a long steady motion across the skin

in one direction only, along the same path in such a way that, after about a dozen

passes, a bright red line begins to appear on the skin. Stop abrading that line

when it’s glowing red, but before it begins to rupture the skin. Choose another

spot about an inch from the first line, and repeat the process, creating another

parallel red stripe across the back in the same fashion. Continue until the entire

back is covered in glowing red stripes. The visual effect of the stripes can last

anywhere from one to four days, depending on the subject’s skin type and

resiliency.

Some people enjoy creating intricate and attractive patterns in this fashion. The

edge of the quarter forces the mentholated oils through the skin, and each stripe

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