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when they block the wearer’s vision and to gags when they cover the mouth and

potentially limit the wearer’s ability to speak or breathe. Additionally, since

some hood designs require the hood to be secured below the wearer’s chin or

around his neck, there could be some risk of accidental strangulation. As

always, continuously monitoring the wearer’s well-being and psychological state

will serve to minimize the risks.

Vibration & Oscillation

Vibration and oscillation toys can basically be summed up in a single word:

vibrators. The various types of vibrators used in BDSM play do not differ in

any significant way from the ones used in vanilla sex play. Generally speaking,

the only real difference will be in the ways that they are used. When you add

bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism to the mix, even simple vibrators can

start looking pretty scary.

Rather than slog through the thousands of types of portable vibrators of both the

battery-operated and corded varieties readily available in the marketplace, we’ll

focus instead on just two of the more interesting retail products, the Hitachi

Magic Wand and the Abco Sybian, and some ideas for a couple of home-made

oscillation toys.

The Hitachi Magic Wand, for many, has become the holy grail of hand-held

personal vibrators since being introduced in the U.S. in the mid-1970s. It is a

corded device which is marketed primarily as a “massager”, but has become so

closely associated with its popular use for masturbation that Hitachi has begun a

subtle rebranding effort to de-emphasize or remove its corporate name from the

product’s promotional materials. The Magic Wand is extremely popular with

both vanilla and kink users, and it can be seen with increasing frequency in

BDSM photography and porn, most often in bondage or forced orgasm scenes.

It’s powerful motor, rubberized head, adjustable speeds, and sleek design not

only puts it at the top of the list in terms of functionality, but it can be used in

hands-free mode by sitting on it or by integrating it into your bondage, and it is

generally considered to be almost as good at inducing orgasms for men as it is

for women. Comedienne Roseanne Barr is reported to have once quipped,

“Hitachi makes such good vibrators, I think I’ll buy one of their TVs!” The

Hitachi Magic Wand retails for $50 to $70.

The Abco Sybian, often referred to simply as a Sybian or Sybian Saddle, is a

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