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thing they all have in common is their basic design; a spreader bar is essentially

just a stick with rings at each end, to which ankle (or sometimes, wrist) cuffs

may be attached.

Lots of do-it-yourself kinksters construct their own homemade spreader bars

simply by cutting a wooden broomstick or garden tool handle to the proper

length, screwing sturdy eye-bolts into each end, and sanding down or covering

any rough edges. Homemade spreader bars may not win any art awards but, for

the most part, they work just like the high-end variety. If, on the other hand, you

prefer not being reminded of your spreader bar’s previous life as a kitchen mop

each time you use it, then you might want to consider shelling out $50 to $150

on one from an online specialty retailer.

Top-of-the-line spreader bars often come with a variety of ingenious features

that you probably won’t see on your typical mop-handle models. Those features

and accessories may include the ability to adjust the length of the spreader bar as

needed, swivel connectors at each end, designs that allow for disassembly into a

very small package, built-in cuffs or shackles, customized locks, or the ability to

attach other bondage accessories or parts of the body along its length. Spreader

bars are typically constructed with steel or aluminum pipe, but can also be made

from any sturdy material, such as wood or PVC pipe.

There are few safety concerns, to speak of, that are specific only to spreader

bars, other than a recommendation that you check your subject’s toes

periodically for adequate blood circulation and numbness.

Chastity Belts

Chastity belts have been around for a very long time, although there is quite a bit

of disagreement about how long and whether their actual use was consistent with

the common myths about them that have persisted through the ages. Since none

of that is really pertinent to our discussion here, we’ll just skip the history lesson

and go straight to the good stuff. It is probably worth noting, however, that

chastity belts have been and continue to be used for non-BDSM purposes in

various parts of the world. In 1998, race riots in West Java compelled a

significant number of ethnic Chinese women to wear chastity belts fitted with

combination locks in public in order to avoid being raped by roving gangs of

thugs. In 2007, the Asian Human Rights Commission published a study

claiming that some women were being forced to wear chastity belts in rural parts

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