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Sleeves

A BDSM sleeve is typically a long tube, constructed of soft leather, canvas or

other heavy material, sewn closed at one end, and sporting one or more buckles

or straps along its length. It is designed for the insertion and immobilization of

one or both of a Bottom’s arms, typically behind the back. Single-arm sleeves

are most often used in pairs, with straps, buckles or D-rings used to attach one

sleeve to the other. Dual-arm sleeves may consist of two separate arm-tubes

permanently attached to one another, or a single large sleeve that is wider at the

top and tapers toward the end where the Bottom’s hands meet behind the back.

Extra touches may include shoulder or chest straps to hold the sleeves up, wrist

straps to secure the hands tightly, decorative lacing or buckles, and extra

reinforcement of the sleeve for rigidity.

The odds of finding BDSM sleeves in your typical sex novelty store are pretty

low. They tend to be available only from specialty retailers that cater to the

fetish crowd, and can be somewhat pricy, ranging anywhere from $150 to $400,

depending on the materials and quality of construction.

There are some real advantages to using sleeves. First, sleeves immobilize the

arms in a way that wrist cuffs simply cannot. Wrist cuffs may be good at

keeping a person’s wrists together, but a flexible person will always still have

plenty of room for movement. Second, sleeves take a great deal of stress off the

wrists themselves, transferring and distributing most of the stress to the entire

length of the arms, instead. This greatly reduces the chances of unintended pain

or injury to the wrists. Third, sleeves with multiple straps, D-rings or other

attachment points along their lengths provide a multitude of ways to integrate the

immobilization of the arms into your overall bondage scene, and gives you more

control of a Bottom’s posture and positioning. Finally, sleeves have a unique

aesthetic quality that ranks right up there with Shibari when it comes to artistic

impact. In other words, they look cool as hell.

The potential safety concerns related to the use of sleeves include all that we’ve

previously said about the need for continuous supervision and monitoring blood

circulation and breathing. There are two additional concerns when it comes to

the use of BDSM sleeves. The first is the fact that the hands are often hidden

from view, which makes it harder to see if a person’s fingertips are turning

purple or blue from poor circulation. This can be further complicated by

numbness in the extremities, which means the Bottom may not realize that it is

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