27.10.2020 Views

Domination & submission _ the BDSM relationship handbook ( PDFDrive )

Create successful ePaper yourself

Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.

of his or her extremities for loss of feeling, poor circulation, or unnecessary

chafing, pinching or cutting. You should also be aware that the use of wrist and

ankle cuffs can sometimes force a person’s body into a position that causes

difficulty in breathing, or postural asphyxiation - another good reason for

maintaining that continuous supervision. Finally, it is extremely rare for wrist or

ankle cuffs to be designed to bear any significant portion of a person’s body

weight. While it might be a wonderful fantasy to suspend a person by their

wrists or ankles, it is almost always a very, very bad idea to attempt to do so in

reality. Most wrist and ankle cuffs are not designed to support that kind of

weight and frankly, neither are most wrists and ankles.

Collars

Collars, aside from their aesthetic and symbolic value, can also be an extremely

erotic and versatile piece of bondage gear. When we are referring to a collar that

is used primarily for bondage purposes, as opposed to other uses, we typically

will refer to it as a play collar. The most common use for play collars is to

immobilize the neck and often, by extension, the torso and head. Through the

use of D-rings or other connectors, a collar can easily be attached to furnishings

and equipment, or even to a person’s own limbs in such a fashion that it forces

the Bottom to assume a posture or position desired by the Top.

As for design and product quality, many of the same considerations we

discussed in relation to wrist and ankle cuffs apply equally to collars. Safety

considerations, however, deserve significantly more attention when it comes to

collars, since the human neck is particularly vulnerable and the potential

consequences of a mistake can be absolutely catastrophic. Continuous

supervision is absolutely a must. Not only is postural asphyxiation always a

danger, but strangulation can occur in the event of a mishap or poor product

design. Collars should never, ever, be expected to support any body weight at

all under any circumstances. In fact, it is extraordinarily dangerous to attach a

collar to anything in such a way that an unforeseen event could cause the collar

to choke or injure the wearer. The last thing you want is for a failed suspension

or collapsing piece of fetish furniture to result in a broken neck.

Bondage Tape

Bondage tape is one of those relatively new developments utilizing technology

that didn’t even exist twenty years ago. This high-tech polymer tape, which

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!