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disappear. Another novel approach might be to mail the envelope to yourself.
While it might be tempting to simply leave something like that locked in your
vehicle, you should be mindful of the fact that anyone who might be holding you
captive will also have the keys to your home and car, and all of the information
contained in your wallet or purse.
Leave a Paper-trail
When police investigators begin reconstructing the events surrounding a possible
disappearance, one of the first things they look for is any evidence of a paper
trail. By that, we mean such things as bank deposits or withdrawals, credit card
receipts, and even records of phone calls or texts. One way to leave a trail of
bread crumbs that will be easy to follow is to use a debit or credit card, if at all
possible, to make some sort of a purchase during your meeting. Even the simple
act of placing a call from your cell phone can help police investigators to
pinpoint your last known location.
Have a Backup Plan
It isn’t enough to simply know that your well-laid plans may not come to
fruition; you need to have a back-up plan that can be implemented when things
go seriously awry. Not all of the John Edward Robinson’s victims ended up
being murdered. At least two women travelled separately to Kansas to meet
Robinson in a hotel room, where they were bound, brutally raped, severely
battered, photographed against their will, robbed of their money and belongings,
and then abandoned for several days with no cash and no way home.
In each instance, Robinson returned to the hotel room several days later and gave
the women a small amount of cash so they could return home, and gave them
instructions to put all their belongings in storage and return to Kansas.
Incredibly, one of the women actually did so, only to have him repeat his earlier
performance, which caused her to contact the police. How either of them
avoided being brutally murdered by this man is a mystery, but it may have been
due to the fact that each had left a trail of breadcrumbs that led right to him, and
he knew it.
Your back-up plan doesn’t necessarily have to be the answer to, “What should I
do if my date turns out to be an axe-murder?” Your back-up plan simply needs
to be there for you in the event that anything unexpected or inconvenient
happens. Your back-up plan should, at the very least, include knowing some