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aka Slavemaster, lived with his wife and four children, arranged to be named
“Man of the Year” by a charitable service organization, and had even been
featured on the cover of a national trade magazine all while methodically raping
and murdering at least eleven women. Over the course of almost twenty years,
Robinson skillfully avoided becoming a suspect in the murders, but he wasn’t as
successful in avoiding being convicted of dozens of other crimes, to include
theft, embezzlement, fraud, and forgery.
Robinson’s long and well-documented history of criminal activity was a matter
of public record and he was even sent to prison a few times. In fact, it is widely
believed that Robinson met and seduced his fourth murder victim while
incarcerated and serving time for fraud at the Western Missouri Correctional
Facility. Her name was Beverly Bonner, and she was the prison librarian. Upon
Robinson’s release from prison in 1993, Beverly Bonner divorced her husband
and moved to Kansas to be with Robinson, who promptly murdered her and then
cashed her alimony checks for the next seven years. In June of 2000, her body
was found in a drum at the same storage facility as Sheila and Debbie Faith’s.
Could any of Robinson’s many victims have avoided their fate by doing a little
bit of research on the man they loved and literally trusted with their lives? We’ll
never know for sure. But one thing is certain; it is far easier today to check
someone out online than it was just ten or twenty years ago. Whatever
information you do have about the person you’re meeting, Google it. Even
phony information can reveal a lot of real information. Google his name, email
address, mailing address, and phone number. Google his job, business, friends
and family members. Reverse Google any photographs. With the proper use of
quotation marks in your searches, you could even Google his poetry, or other
writings. Google it all. You may not be able to immediately differentiate
between true information and phony information, but you can usually spot
inconsistencies pretty easily.
Another way to know who you’re meeting is to tactfully ask for personal
references from others who purportedly know the individual in real life.
Everyone knows someone. If someone tries to tell you that he has no friends,
acquaintances, family members, associates, clients or coworkers who would be
willing to vouch for the fact that he is a real person with real community ties and
not an axe murderer, then that should serve as a warning flag. He doesn’t have
to reveal his kinky lifestyle to those people. All he has to tell them is, “I’m