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particularly in the sense that a pet is usually considered the property of hisowner. But it is also similar to the Dominant/submissive contract in the way itspecifies which parts of a pet’s life are to be considered under the jurisdiction ofthe Owner, and sets limits.There is one major factor which makes all Owner/pet contracts unique, and thatis the amount of attention which must be devoted to the role-play aspects of theOwner/pet relationship. After all, slaves like to consider themselves real slaves,and submissives can actually be real submissives, but a ponygirl is not a realpony, and no contract can make her one. Therefore, a great deal of verbiagemust typically be devoted to accommodating those differences.Scene ContractA scene contract typically applies to a single event or BDSM scene, but it canalso be applied to specific individuals with whom you play on a frequent basis,even though there may be no significant relationship between them. Scenecontracts are usually negotiated prior to an event, and should spell out what issupposed to happen during the scene, identify hard and soft limits, list safetyprecautions such as safe-words, and specify whether or not sexual or body-fluidcontact is permitted.

Your Collar, Your CommitmentIn this chapter, we’ve discussed the various types of commitments that can bemade by anyone who might be considering entering into a D/s relationship. Wecannot stress enough the fact that no two relationships are alike, and any attemptto force your existing or potential relationship into a cookie-cutter D/srelationship mold will likely result in a great deal of heartache for everyoneconcerned. The one-size-fits-all slave contracts that litter the internet asdownloadable forms generally aren’t worth a damn.This lifestyle is full of people who will try to define your relationship dynamicaccording to their world-view or try to make your collar conform to their ownnotions concerning such things. Don’t buy into their delusions, and don’t allowthem to project either their naïve optimism or their gloomy cynicism onto yoursymbol, your collar, or your relationship dynamic.Beware of those who would preach of a “One True Way,” as no such thingexists, nor should it.

particularly in the sense that a pet is usually considered the property of his

owner. But it is also similar to the Dominant/submissive contract in the way it

specifies which parts of a pet’s life are to be considered under the jurisdiction of

the Owner, and sets limits.

There is one major factor which makes all Owner/pet contracts unique, and that

is the amount of attention which must be devoted to the role-play aspects of the

Owner/pet relationship. After all, slaves like to consider themselves real slaves,

and submissives can actually be real submissives, but a ponygirl is not a real

pony, and no contract can make her one. Therefore, a great deal of verbiage

must typically be devoted to accommodating those differences.

Scene Contract

A scene contract typically applies to a single event or BDSM scene, but it can

also be applied to specific individuals with whom you play on a frequent basis,

even though there may be no significant relationship between them. Scene

contracts are usually negotiated prior to an event, and should spell out what is

supposed to happen during the scene, identify hard and soft limits, list safety

precautions such as safe-words, and specify whether or not sexual or body-fluid

contact is permitted.

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