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y Fr. John Nahal<br />

B<br />

eing a priest is no laughing<br />

matter. In fact, it is what I believe<br />

to be the highest and most<br />

important calling on the face <strong>of</strong> the<br />

earth. Pastoring and preaching are<br />

second to none, and as I elaborate a<br />

little bit on the priesthood, I want a<br />

better understanding <strong>of</strong> and a deeper<br />

appreciation for the men God has<br />

placed in your lives we call priests.<br />

In this article, I want to deal with<br />

one thing: I believe that as members <strong>of</strong><br />

the Lord’s churches, there are certain<br />

responses we owe to priests in light <strong>of</strong><br />

their calling.<br />

A Church’s Response<br />

God calls a man to do the work <strong>of</strong> the<br />

ministry. God has found that man<br />

faithful, <strong>of</strong>tentimes seeing in the man<br />

things that the man can’t even see<br />

himself. He leads some church out there<br />

to call that man to be their priest. He<br />

has equipped and enabled him to fulfill<br />

his calling, and has given him divine<br />

authority to carry out that calling. What<br />

then should be the church’s response to<br />

that man? What are your<br />

responsibilities to your priest?<br />

Recognize His First Loyalty<br />

Look with me at 1 Corinthians 4:1-4.<br />

1<br />

Paul said, “ So then, men ought to<br />

regard us as servants <strong>of</strong> Christ and as<br />

Being a Priest!<br />

those entrusted with the secret things <strong>of</strong><br />

2<br />

God. Now it is required that those who<br />

have been given a trust must prove<br />

3<br />

faithful. I care very little if I am judged<br />

by you or by any human court; indeed,<br />

4<br />

I do not even judge myself. My<br />

conscience is clear, but that does not<br />

make me innocent. It is the Lord who<br />

judges me.”<br />

Whether they mean to or not, many<br />

people are overly critical <strong>of</strong> priests. In<br />

my opinion, it is usually when they<br />

didn’t get their way or when the priest<br />

didn’t do something to suit them. He<br />

may not have visited them enough or<br />

called them at the right times or perhaps<br />

he preached something they disagreed<br />

with.<br />

Priests are ministers <strong>of</strong> Christ.<br />

Priests are stewards <strong>of</strong> the mysteries <strong>of</strong><br />

God. A priest’s first loyalty is to God,<br />

and if our church is to be a healthy<br />

church, we must recognize that loyalty.<br />

Honor him<br />

A lot <strong>of</strong> folks have mistaken ideas<br />

about what it means to honor God’s<br />

man. When Paul mentioned honoring<br />

those who labored in word and deed, he<br />

specified the financial support <strong>of</strong> those<br />

who labored. That is certainly one way<br />

to honor God’s man, but there are other<br />

ways to do so.<br />

Respect the <strong>of</strong>fice <strong>of</strong> priesthood.<br />

There are some policemen that I do not<br />

respect, but I respect the <strong>of</strong>fice they<br />

hold and I know there is much more to<br />

it than what I see. The same is true <strong>of</strong> a<br />

priest. You can respect the <strong>of</strong>fice <strong>of</strong><br />

priesthood. Don’t treat priests with<br />

contempt, and don’t tolerate others who<br />

do.<br />

Allow Him to Fulfill His<br />

Calling<br />

I do want to point out that God has<br />

called men to join Him in His work,<br />

and too <strong>of</strong>ten there are churches or<br />

members <strong>of</strong> churches who really aren’t<br />

interested in being a part <strong>of</strong> that work.<br />

There are some who are content to hear<br />

a sermon and be left alone. There are<br />

some who are content with the status<br />

quo. There are some who are afraid to<br />

move, afraid to spend, afraid to work,<br />

afraid <strong>of</strong> change, and afraid <strong>of</strong> what<br />

God might do. There are those who<br />

don’t want to be bothered; those who<br />

are filled with self-interest. If God calls<br />

a man to lead, and you as a church call<br />

that man to lead, then he must be<br />

allowed to lead.<br />

Encourage Him<br />

Did you know that…<br />

• 90% <strong>of</strong> pastors work more than 46<br />

hours a week<br />

• 80% believed that pastoral ministry<br />

affected their families negatively<br />

• 33% said that being in ministry was<br />

an outright hazard to their family<br />

• 75% reported a significant stressrelated<br />

crisis at least once in their<br />

ministry<br />

• 50% felt unable to meet the needs <strong>of</strong><br />

the job<br />

• 90% felt they were inadequately<br />

trained to cope with ministry<br />

demands<br />

• 70% say they have a lower selfesteem<br />

now than when they started<br />

out<br />

• 40% reported a serious conflict with<br />

a parishioner at least once a month<br />

• 70% do not have someone they<br />

consider a close friend.<br />

There is no doubt that being in the<br />

ministry is hazardous to one’s health<br />

and well-being, so how do you<br />

encourage the God-called man? You<br />

can pray for him. Tell him you’re<br />

praying for him. You can write a note;<br />

care for him; stand with him; work with<br />

him, feed him, buy him cars and send<br />

him on luxurious vacations (just<br />

kidding!) and did I mention pray for<br />

him?<br />

Hold Him Accountable to<br />

Fulfill His Calling<br />

Like anyone else, priests can allow<br />

many other things to distract them from<br />

their calling. Some are legitimate,<br />

others are not. Some get involved in<br />

other jobs, community affairs, they get<br />

distracted by money or marriage or<br />

school. Sometimes they get<br />

discouraged. Other times they are<br />

elated.<br />

(Continues on page 24)<br />

The <strong><strong>Maron</strong>ite</strong> <strong>Voice</strong> Volume V Issue No. VII Page 22 July - August 2009

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