SKY Magazine Issue 25 Repro

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12Some girls say ba sure kaFeminism. Le rona we believein providing boys and girlsequal opportunities andcatering to their needswithout discriminatingagainst their gender. Resure ka valuing everyoneand treating each otherwith love, respect, andfairness regardless ofgender.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichiewas featured on ‘Flawless’by Beyonce, talking aboutwhat society teachesgirls vs what it teachesboys stating thebiases and doublestandards.13“We teach girls to shrinkthemselvesTo make themselves smallerWe say to girls“You can have ambitionBut not too muchYou should aim to besuccessfulBut not too successfulOtherwise you will threatenthe man”Because I am femaleI am expected to aspire tomarriageI am expected to make my lifechoicesAlways keeping in mind thatMarriage is the mostimportantNow marriage can be a sourceof Joy and love and mutualsupportBut why do we teach teachgirls to aspire to marriageAnd we don’t teach boys thesame?We raise girls to see eachother as competitorsNot for jobs or foraccomplishmentsWhich I think can be a goodthingBut for the attention of menWe teach girls that theycannot be sexual beings,Amazing Nigerian authorand feminist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie gave a Ted talk called ‘We shouldall be feminists’ and Beyonce loved it so much she featured it in her song‘Flawless’. Below are the words that Beyonce sampled in the song. Re sureka the women thinking deep on these issues!In the way that boys areFeminist: the person whobelieves in the social Political,and economic equality of thesexes”Clearly some things needto change and we as asistahood gotta make sureto stay true to ourselvesand pave a way for futuregirls to feel loved,respected, and valued. iT’STIME TO BREAK THE barrierskeeping us down.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

was featured on ‘Flawless’

by Beyonce, talking about

what society teaches

girls vs what it teaches

boys stating the

biases and double

standards.

13

“We teach girls to shrink

themselves

To make themselves smaller

We say to girls

“You can have ambition

But not too much

You should aim to be

successful

But not too successful

Otherwise you will threaten

the man”

Because I am female

I am expected to aspire to

marriage

I am expected to make my life

choices

Always keeping in mind that

Marriage is the most

important

Now marriage can be a source

of Joy and love and mutual

support

But why do we teach teach

girls to aspire to marriage

And we don’t teach boys the

same?

We raise girls to see each

other as competitors

Not for jobs or for

accomplishments

Which I think can be a good

thing

But for the attention of men

We teach girls that they

cannot be sexual beings,

Amazing Nigerian author

and feminist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie gave a Ted talk called ‘We should

all be feminists’ and Beyonce loved it so much she featured it in her song

‘Flawless’. Below are the words that Beyonce sampled in the song. Re sure

ka the women thinking deep on these issues!

In the way that boys are

Feminist: the person who

believes in the social Political,

and economic equality of the

sexes”

Clearly some things need

to change and we as a

sistahood gotta make sure

to stay true to ourselves

and pave a way for future

girls to feel loved,

respected, and valued. iT’S

TIME TO BREAK THE barriers

keeping us down.

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