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Counselling Info Booklet - November 2019

Information about the counselling service available at Eltham College

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Each day, discovery.<br />

LET’S TALK<br />

SCHOOL COUNSELLING<br />

SERVICE


Each day, discovery 2<br />

What is counselling?<br />

<strong>Counselling</strong> is a safe place<br />

where you can talk (in<br />

private) about problems<br />

and feelings to someone<br />

who is trained to listen and<br />

work with you to try to<br />

make things better.<br />

How might counselling help you?<br />

<strong>Counselling</strong> can...<br />

• Help you work out why you feel the way you do<br />

• Help you feel better<br />

• Help you look at things in new ways<br />

• Help you do things differently<br />

What can you talk about in counselling?<br />

Anything that’s important<br />

to you or getting you down.<br />

No problem is too big or<br />

too small if it’s a problem<br />

for you.


Each day, discovery 4<br />

What happens in counselling?<br />

The counsellor listens carefully and tries to understand things from your point of<br />

view. This can help you to understand your feelings and problems better, and feel<br />

more in control.<br />

What doesn’t happen in counselling?<br />

The counsellor...<br />

• Doesn’t judge you, blame you for problems, or take sides<br />

• Doesn’t’ tell you what to do, or how to think and feel<br />

• Doesn’t make you talk about anything you don’t want to<br />

Will anyone else find out what I’ve said?<br />

What you talk about stays between you and the counsellor, as long as you (and<br />

other people) are safe and healthy.<br />

Who is the counsellor?<br />

Your School Counsellor is Jess:<br />

• Is friendly and someone you can trust<br />

• Will listen to you and let you take<br />

your time<br />

• Isn’t easily shocked<br />

• Knows it takes courage for you to<br />

speak to a counsellor<br />

• Won’t ever force you to come to<br />

counselling<br />

Arranging to see the counsellor:<br />

Drop-in sessions are on Monday and Wednesday lunchtime, 12.55pm and 1.30pm.<br />

Email to book: jld@eltham-college.org.uk<br />

If you feel that you require longer term support, please speak to:<br />

• Your form tutor<br />

• Head of Year or Head of Section<br />

• Mrs Massey<br />

• Foxbury Team<br />

What do other people talk about?<br />

• Feeling sad or angry and nobody understands<br />

• Losing someone special<br />

• Making friends/keeping friends<br />

• Trouble at home or school<br />

• Bad stuff that’s happened<br />

• Self-harm<br />

• Stressed about exams<br />

Useful resources<br />

The following websites contain useful information which can help support you:<br />

www.youngminds.org.uk<br />

www.nopanic.org.uk<br />

www.papyrus-uk.org<br />

www.blurtitout.org<br />

www.headspace.com


Gloria Filiorum Patres<br />

Eltham College<br />

Grove Park Road<br />

London SE9 4QF<br />

+44 (0)20 8857 1455<br />

mail@eltham-college.org.uk<br />

12/19<br />

www.elthamcollege.london

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