25.03.2020 Views

Uberheroes: Who Cares?

You also want an ePaper? Increase the reach of your titles

YUMPU automatically turns print PDFs into web optimized ePapers that Google loves.


VOYPIC is a children’s charity that champions rights and improves the lives of

children and young people in care. We strive to make a real difference in the day

to day lives of young people by listening and learning from what children and

young people tell us about their experience of care and working with them to

push for change in the care system.

We run lots of groups and fun activities. We think the best way to make life better

for children and young people in care is to learn from the experts – young people!

We have trained staff who are on hand to help young people who are having

problems in care. We believe they have a right to speak out and be heard. So if

they’re unhappy or worried about decisions being made about their life, we’ll

support them to have their say.

We also offer personal help or coaching to young people and additional support if

they have to make difficult decisions.

Hope 4 Life NI is committed to working with schools on programmes that will

positively help our children and young people to live a happy and hopeful life.

Remember to look on our back pages for the additional support services as there

are many organisations able to offer you the help you may need.

We’d love to hear your thoughts and opinions on this, our Ninth issue.

You can do this by visiting us at .

www.uberheroes.co.uk

This comic is not intended as a substitute for medical advice of physicians. The reader should

regularly consult their GP in matters relating to his/her health and particularly with respect to

any symptoms that may require clinical diagnosis or medical attention.

Cover & Illustration by Reese Hannigan Copyright© 2017 by Uberheroes®

Pencils by Nacho Tenorio, Inks by Sergio Mora , of Thirdguy Studio Copyright© 2017 by Uberheroes®

Comic Colouring by Sonia Moruno Martinez Copyright© 2017 by Uberheroes®

Comic writing and Editing by Danny McLaughlin & Dee Nixon Copyright© 2017 by Uberheroes®

Copyright © 2017 by Uberheroes® owner Dee Nixon

All rights reserved. This comic or any portion thereof

may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever

without the express written permission of the publisher

except for the use of brief quotations in a comic review.

Printed in Northern Ireland. First Printing, June 2017

Hope 4 Life NI

North City Business Centre

Units 1,2 & 5

2 Duncairn Gardens

Belfast BT15 2GG

www.Uberheroes.co.uk


Uberheroes HQ...

but you

have grown

up to be an

extraordinary

woman...

She was

a lonely young

timid girl...

…who now

has a Family who

loves her and

supports her!

Elsewhere...

So glad

school is over!

such a boring

day...

Hey, mum...

What’s going

on?

Jack,

they’re taking

us away!!

I Can’t wait to

get home!! I Can’t

wait to play my new

game… can’t believe

I’m stuck on

Level 5…

They’re

doing

what?


Not long after…

they’re

doing

what?

What are

you doing

here??

just

leave us

alone!

Hello!

You must

be Gabbie...

You

better get

here now,

GABBie!

Don’t

Worry!

We are here

to look after you

and make sure you

will have a stable

homelife…

Why

are you

smiling?

You are

ruining our lives!

We’re not going

anywhere!!

Unfortunately,

we must go! take your

belonging in the

black bags and get

into the car..

Are you

saying my

stuff is

rubbish?

Gabbie, If

you all don’t

get into the cars

the police will

be involved!


Where are

you taking me? What

about Gabbie, and

my little sister?

And what about

mum?

The Only

thing I can tell

you is that we are

taking you to a

foster family to

stay with...

Foster

Family?

Does that

mean I’ll never

see my family

aga-

At the new foster family home…

Hey,

Buddy...

You’ll be safe

and happy here for

the meantime, then

we can sort out

whats been going

on at home!

I remember that day so well,

with all the emotions and things

happening, the new foster home

I remember that bath…

…and with the usual chaos for the

bathroom at home and all the

tiring events, it was nice to relax

in the nice warm bath for a while.

But I couldn’t help think

of my family and if I’d

ever see them again...


Where

are you

taking Jack

and my

sister?

I won’t be

able to tell you

too much, but your

Brother and sister

are being taken to

Foster homes!

I think you

know why! Your

mum hasn’t been

looking after you

and your brother

and sister as best

she can. And that

will be investigated

properly, but I think

I can assure you you

will see them all

again…

When?

Foster

homes??

What?

Why? Will I ever

see them again?

And mum? What

about her…

That I don’t

know… here

we are!

My

grandparents

home? I thought

I was going to

foster care

too??

Unfortunately

we couldn’t find

anyone who would take

you in to foster care so

the next option was

Kinship care!

wouldn’t

you prefer to

stay with your

Grandparents?

Aw come

on in, Gabbie and get

something to eat. You

must be starving! We

can talk about all

this later…

That was the worst day of my life…

I will never forget it! And I was

confused at why we were all

separated. I Even questioned why

I wasn’t taken into fostercare.

But at this moment I remembered

all the times at home where mum

struggled to make much for dinner

and I would give mine to my brother

and sister and would starve…

but it was good to be at my

grandparents home stuffing my

face as long as I knew my brother

and sister were safe and sound…


At least

they are safe

now and know

the others are

safe too.

I know how

you’re feeling

right now, guys!

Don’t worry,

I’ll be watching

over you

I know you see

yourself in them,

but we have to let the

authorities do their

Job! I’m sure they are

fine right now…

I know,

Veritas, I

know!

Before I

had you guys

behind me, it was

hard, but then

you found me.

I’m not

so worried about

them now, it’s their

future I’m worried

about.


Here we are!

There’s a “LAC”

meeting on that I

think you should

go to.

What’s a LACK

meeting? I don’t

Lack anything

other than my

family…

Looked

after child

meeting… where the

child in care has a

meeting with all their

carers and the

authorites.

Oh L, A, C…

not the best

acronym…

sounds like

someone is

Lacking

something…

Hello?

Gabbie?

I missed

you, Gabbie – I

thought I’d never

see you again!

It was so good to see Jack! It

felt so long since Id seen him.

Me too.

So good to see

you, is everything

okay?

I’m okay

I guess…

I was so alone that it was the

best feeling to see Gabbie. I didn’t

want it to be so long again…


Gabbie,

What’s up with you?

You’ve been moping

around now for

a while!!

Well, I

didn’t want to tell

anyone, but since

you’re my best friend

I suppose I should

talk about it!

Social

Services came

and took us

away…

What?

Really?

Yeah...

we’ve

been split up

and we are all

now in care…

I’m so

glad to be

able to talk

to y-

I’m

sorry…

…I can’t be

friends with

you!

I never expected for my own best

friend to turn her back on me. word

got out fast that I was now in care.

everyone was talking about it!

I’ve never felt

so alone…


What’s going

on down

there?

Jack the wee

loner is being

weird – I think

he’s crying.

Why is

he being a

Freak?

Everything

okay, Jack?

Enough

of that!

Just Leave

me alone.

It all got too much for me. I was so

afraid and stressed. I remember one

day shortly after being taken into

care that I broke down in school. I

sat under a desk and cried for hours

before anyone could calm me down.

I had no friends, I kept to

myself so I didn’t have to let

anyone see how worried I

was or to have to admit to

anyone that I was in care.

It was all about

self-preservation,

protecting myself.


I used to love school, especially

art. But over the next few

months, everything changed, I

couldn’t motivate myself and I

started to hate school...

I even stopped drawing, even

though I used to love it. I

became so anxious about

everything. I just wanted

things to go back to normal.

Are you

okay,

Gabbie?

Leave me

alone!!

Hey,

weirdo!

What you

listening

to?

I said,

leave me

alone!!

Leave me

alone! I just

wanna be by

myself…


What’s this?

Metal music? I always

knew you were a weirdo

but I didn’t think you

listened to freak

music!

Gimme

them back!

And so

what if I

like Metal

music?

Is that

what happens?

You become a

freak…

...when

you’re taken

into care?

Haha

We are doing

well with these

kids…

Yes, it’s

easy, they’re

already so

vulnerable.

Let’s

step it up!

People judge

them just because

they’re in care. It’s so

easy to make them

feel abandoned

Ye ah,

lets...


Things got got worse

over the next few

months. I started to

hang around with the

wrong people…

I was feeling anxious

and vulnerable. If

anyone mentioned my

past I would fly off the

handle. I was getting

into a lot of fights.

I began to lose

interest in school and

the teacher said…

You’ll not

pass if you keep

going down this

route, Gabbie!

but I was determined

to prove my teachers

wrong. So I said...

Just

Watch

me!

I was so confused

and hurt. Escaping into

video games helped

me feel normal.

When I wasn’t playing

games I got very angry.

Listening to Metal music

helped me get rid of

my anger.

I was keeping myself to

myself. I cared for no

one except my family, and

I rarely saw them


A lot of things changed

when I started at

secondary school.

…Gabbie!!

Ga…

Ga…

Jack!!

So good to see

you!! Are you

okay?

I’m okay

I suppose, I’ve

been a bit down and

lonely, but it’s okay

I don’t mind it.

Well, we’re

at the same school

now so don’t worry.

everything is gonna

get better…


A few months later…

Stop it

or Im Gonna kick

the crap out of

you at breaktime!

Try

it!

Break it up.

You two are going

to the Principal’s

office right now!

It’s

so unfair! The

Principal threatened

to suspend me, even

though I didn’t

start it!

And the

other guy is

gonna be on my

case now too!

leave

it to me,

Jack!!


A little while later…

You!!

You’re the one

who beat up my

brother…

The little

freak deserved

it!! what are you

gonna do about

it??

I’m

gonna

do...

...THIS!


Both of

your behaviours

have recently changed!

You’ve both been acting

angrily, and people

have been physically

injured.

…I think

It’s time to bring

in the authorities

and your carers

for a proper

discussion…

An official meeting

was held...

I

understand

that transitioning

into Foster care has been

hard for both of you…

but your unacceptable

behaviour has led

you to us…

We didn’t

change… it’s how

people behaved

towards us...

that’s whats

changed…

…But why

have things

gone so badly

wrong?

Yeah!

As soon as

people knew we

were in care,

they treated us

differently…

You say I changed, but everyone

else changed the way they

treated me, I DIDN’T CHANGE! I

just want to be left alone!

We never asked for this! I’m no different, But

everyone treats us differently, I can feel them

judging us! We can’t rely on anyone, so we have

to help ourselves, no one else is helping us!


You think

theres no one

out there

Fighting for

you?

We’re

needed!!

Dominie,

Let’s Go!

No, not

really!

You might

not see it. You

may not want

to even

consider it…

but I

want you to

trust me when

I say…

THERE are

people around

fighting for

you!!

Oh no!

Uberheroes??


We know why

you’re here… but

its too late.! The

kids are ours

now!!

There are

more people

fighting for you

than you think…

I hate doing

this…taking kids

away from their

parents…

But usually

it’s best for them.

Until we know

they’re safe.

The

truth is… we’re

not the only ones

looking out for

them! you can’t

defeat everyone!

We will

wor ry about

them when we

are finished

with you!!

Bring

it on!!

I know

you think

you’re all

alone...

But there

are more people

concerned for you

and wanting the best

for your future

than you know.


There he

is… he looks so

vulnerable! I

hope we can do

everything to

help

there are

More people

on your side than

you know; fighting for

you, hoping for you

to do well!

Hey,

buddy!

Remember

your own past

fears!

some of

those people put

themselves

through hell for

your wellbeing!

Nooo…

help… I don’t

want to be alone…

I just want my

family…

I see

the Truth…

The

Truth is…

Remember,

Veritas… we’re

your family now!!


I felt alone…

I felt judged…

but the truth is…

I have people

who love me!!

The truth is…

yes the system

isn’t perfect.

Sometimes you

will be fostered

sometimes put

into Kinship care.

You might feel

alone…

and you

might feel like

people judge

you but…

We’re not

alone…

And we’re

pretty lucky

we have each

other…

Sometimes you

feel unloved, judged

and attacked. It’s hard to

trust, to see there are

people working to

keep us safe.

It’s hard

to understand why

some people can’t

understand us and what

we’re going through. But I

just don’t want to live like

this anymore. I’ve had

too much fear and

anxiety.

I’ve had

enough of people

judging me. I don’t

want this to ruin my

life. But maybe I need

to learn how to let

people in!

Good.

You’re beginning

to understand

you’re not

alone.

You don’t

need to be afraid of the

future. Trust the people

who are trying to help you.

The system could be better,

you can help us with that.

Talking always helps.

Relicta!!!

I hate

this!

Ye s,

time to

leave!!

Yeahh…


Some years Later...

It was

tough for a while.

We both struggled with

school, AND LEFT WITH

NO QUALIFICATIONS BUT

pEOPLE SUPPORTED

US!

It’s hard

to see THROUGH

THE pain and fear,

that there ARE

PEOPLE supportING

US…

talking

ALWAYS helps.

i FIND listening to

some metal music

helps too!

haha

i’M GLAD

YOU NOW REALISE

THAT THERE ARE

PEOPLE OUT THERE

SUPPORTING

YOU!

THOSE pEOPLE

WHO LOVED AND

CARED FOR

US

I’ve started

drawing again.

That’s my metal

music haha.

And NOW

WE GET to see our

SISTER more too.

Everything is

getting better...

And i

AM IN MY FINAL

YEAR OF uNI TO

BECOME A SOCIAL

WORKER.

it’s BEEN

good to talk to

someone who’s been

through thIS TOO.

and come out THE

OTHER SIDE

with a healthy

outlook!

But lets go,

Jack… yOU HAVE

AN APPLICATION

TO FINISH

OFF!

Yeah,

Great!

yEAH

AND i’M CURRENTLY

LOOKING FOR FULL

TIME WORK!

Byeee!

ThankS for

the CHAT!

…there

are always people

out there who WILL

love you and

support you!

bye guys,

good luck in

the future… and

remember the

truth IS…

...The End.


Further information

Like the characters in the comic you may feel that these stories have connected with you, or

that the content of the stories has given you a lot to think about!

You might want to know more about what help is available, or maybe you’re concerned

about a friend and want to know what practical help you can offer. Alternatively you might

want to speak to your parents or guardians but you’re nervous about how they might react.

The Uberheroes comic is a great stepping-stone to start these conversations with an adult

you trust about your fears, worries or concerns.

Whatever the situation, listed below are some of the many resources available in

Northern Ireland, Ireland and the UK :-

Support Services

Hope 4 Life NI – www.hope4lifeni.org.uk

Mental Health & Wellbeing programmes for Children, Young People and Adults

“Ask an Uberhero a Question” via our website - www.uberheroes.co.uk

“Ask an Uberhero a question” is our online support service for you to

connect with one of our team if you are worried or concerned about

anything; this is a great way to ask our heroes for their advice and support.

Helpline Numbers

VOYPIC

Central Office,

9-11 Botanic Avenue

Belfast, BT71JG

Tel: 028 9024 4888

Email: info@voypic.org

www.voypic.org

PIPS

For 1-2-1 Counselling Call 028 9080 5850

Helpline number call 0800 088 6042

Email: info@pipscharity.com

Call in for a chat – 281 Antrim Road,

Belfast, BT15 2HE

Childline

For 1-2-1 Counselling Call: 0800 1111

For info and advice go to:

www.childline.org.uk

Samaritans

Samaritans helpline Call: 0845 790 9090

Helpline Email: jo@samaritans.org

NSPCC

24 hour Child Protection Helpline Call:

0808 800 5000

Lifeline

Free Phone Lifeline: Call 0808 808 8000

Helpline Email: www.lifelinehelplineinfo.com

Talking to your friends, members of your family and teachers can help you start to better understand

what you’re going through; you may be surprised to find that others have had similar experiences and

are willing to share their experiences with you. Your friends or family may know of someone who they

trust, who would be willing to listen and offer you safe advice, having external support will help you to

see you’re not alone in thinking or feeling the way you do, it will also help rebuild your confidence,

self-belief and self-worth, which is the first step in healing and recovery.

Come follow us on our social media sites too...

UberheroesNI

www.uberheroes.co.uk


www.uberheroes.co.uk

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!