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News | People | Features | Competitions | Lifestyle<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> &<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>Living</strong><br />

At the heart of the community <strong>Issue</strong> <strong>57</strong> Mar/Apr '20<br />

Your multi award-winning community magazine


Distribution: 6,000 copies of <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong><br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>Living</strong> are distributed to retail outlets <strong>and</strong><br />

public places across <strong>Whitchurch</strong>, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong><br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North five times a year.<br />

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Inside this issue<br />

Interview<br />

LGBT activist <strong>and</strong><br />

chart-topping<br />

podcaster Scott<br />

McGlynn explains<br />

how he spreads<br />

his message of<br />

love <strong>and</strong> positivity<br />

Self Love Ideas<br />

Creative ways to<br />

accept who you<br />

are <strong>and</strong> to find<br />

inner happiness<br />

Competitions<br />

Win tickets to<br />

the RHS Flower<br />

Cardiff <strong>and</strong> a<br />

chance to see<br />

Madama Butterfly<br />

at St Davids Hall<br />

End to End<br />

One man's<br />

recollections of<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> -<br />

from the Philog<br />

to Bishop's Road<br />

from times gone<br />

by<br />

Early Summer deadline:<br />

30th April 2019<br />

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danielle@livingmags.co.uk<br />

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ensure the accuracy of the contents,<br />

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responsibility for errors or omissions,<br />

or for any matter in any way arising<br />

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independent, apolitical publication.<br />

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reproduced without the express<br />

written permission of the publishers.<br />

Welcome / Croeso<br />

Spring has finally arrived <strong>and</strong><br />

we welcome warmer weather<br />

with our first publication of the<br />

year.<br />

We've given this issue a<br />

theme of self-love - a regard<br />

for one's happiness. In our busy<br />

lives, many of us put ourselves<br />

last, resulting in burnout <strong>and</strong><br />

illness. We've packed lots<br />

around this theme into the<br />

magazine to help inspire you to<br />

take positive steps towards your<br />

own wellbeing.<br />

Childhood is perhaps where<br />

we forge our adult persona <strong>and</strong><br />

it's important that we equip<br />

our future generations with the<br />

emotional resilience to deal with<br />

the lives that they have ahead<br />

of them. We have a feature<br />

designed to help foster a sense<br />

of positivity in our children.<br />

Linked to this topic is our<br />

interview with LGBT activist<br />

Scott McGlynn. Scott had<br />

to endure years of bullying<br />

growing up in Cardiff because<br />

of his sexuality, but he's now<br />

helping to inspire others with his<br />

work.<br />

And if you're looking for<br />

another way to help enhance<br />

your own inner happiness, we've<br />

put together a few ideas to help<br />

you accomplish a social media<br />

detox.<br />

We've got two great history<br />

features this issue. The first<br />

was penned by Ernest Broad<br />

<strong>and</strong> describes an imaginary<br />

walk through his childhood in<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong>. Ernie recalls some<br />

of the sights <strong>and</strong> sounds you<br />

would have experienced had<br />

you walked through the village<br />

back in the 1930s <strong>and</strong> 40s.<br />

Our second history feature<br />

takes a peek at some<br />

wonderfully old newspaper<br />

cuttings. The National Library of<br />

What’s on<br />

Easter Egg Hunt<br />

Wednesday 8th April 11am<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library Park<br />

Join AWEN's egg hunt through the<br />

park - how many eggs will you find?<br />

Cardiff 5k<br />

Saturday 9th May 7pm<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Village<br />

The annual running of the Cardiff 5K<br />

in <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Village<br />

Wales has digitised thous<strong>and</strong>s<br />

of newspapers from the last<br />

century <strong>and</strong> Derek Elliott has<br />

h<strong>and</strong>-picked some stories that<br />

will raise a few eyebrows.<br />

Shed of the Year is a<br />

competition you may have seen<br />

on TV but its roots started right<br />

here in Cardiff. We spoke to the<br />

contest's creator <strong>and</strong> organiser<br />

Andrew Wilcox, who gives us all<br />

the behind-the-scenes stories.<br />

We've got two fantastic<br />

competitions for you in this<br />

issue. You can win tickets to this<br />

year's RHS Flower Show Cardiff<br />

<strong>and</strong> there's also the chance<br />

to see Madama Butterfly at St<br />

David's Hall.<br />

And finally, with veganism<br />

hitting the mainstream, we<br />

showcase some gorgeous<br />

plant-based recipes that will<br />

make your taste buds dance.<br />

Once again, we'd like to thank<br />

our wonderful advertisers who<br />

put their trust in us to promote<br />

them. We'd encourage you to<br />

use their services, especially<br />

during these challenging times.<br />

Look after yourself <strong>and</strong> we'll<br />

see you in early summer!<br />

Danielle <strong>and</strong> Patric<br />

Editors<br />

@<strong>Whitchurch</strong><strong>and</strong>Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<strong>Living</strong><br />

www.facebook.com/<br />

whitchurch<strong>and</strong>ll<strong>and</strong>affliving<br />

Children's Plant Potting<br />

Thursday 28th May<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library<br />

Bring your children to pot bedding<br />

plants. Small charge applies<br />

Vintage for Victory<br />

10/11/12th July<br />

Library Gardens, <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />

Annual vintage festival, celebrating<br />

the best of the 1940s, 50s <strong>and</strong> 60s


Congestion<br />

charge planned<br />

for city revamp<br />

A £2 congestion charge for drivers<br />

in Cardiff is one of the proposals of a<br />

£2bn, 10-year transport plan.<br />

Cardiff Council aims to charge<br />

non-residents with the charge in<br />

a bid to hit green targets <strong>and</strong> cut<br />

congestion. Recent research has<br />

shown that air quality in the city is<br />

among the UK's worst.<br />

The charge could come into force<br />

by 2024. The charging zone itself is<br />

currently under discussion. Other<br />

large cities across the UK are also<br />

considering similar plans.<br />

New park-<strong>and</strong>-ride facilities at<br />

junction 32 <strong>and</strong> junction 33 of<br />

the M4 motorway are also being<br />

mooted as part of the wider plan,<br />

which will see a fully-integrated<br />

transport system in the city by 2028.<br />

The Council is hoping to provide<br />

more frequent <strong>and</strong> affordable public<br />

transport links to communities<br />

across the city.<br />

The Pound finally begins to take<br />

shape on Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's High Street<br />

Work is now well underway as<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff’s charity for older people<br />

is busy converting the derelict<br />

toilet block at the top of the High<br />

Street into The Pound. The venue<br />

will be a centre of activities <strong>and</strong><br />

volunteering for older people, a<br />

heritage information centre, <strong>and</strong> an<br />

accessible toilet.<br />

The building is being given by<br />

Cardiff Council as a Community<br />

Asset Transfer on a 99 year lease,<br />

<strong>and</strong> the Welsh Government has<br />

funded the capital costs with a<br />

grant of £250,000. The building <strong>and</strong><br />

surrounding courtyard has been<br />

known locally as the Pound as it<br />

housed a medieval animal pound<br />

<strong>and</strong>, during a recent community<br />

archaeological dig, a high status<br />

medieval hall house was discovered<br />

beneath its foundations.<br />

During the dig, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff welcomed<br />

14 volunteer diggers, 200 local<br />

schoolchildren <strong>and</strong> 1,000 visitors<br />

over six weeks. However, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

50+ intends to represent the past,<br />

the present <strong>and</strong> the future at<br />

The Pound as the building will<br />

incorporate: solar slates from<br />

local company GB Sol; rainwater<br />

harvesting; air source heat pump;<br />

<strong>and</strong> the latest eco-friendly<br />

products.<br />

Working with Carolyn Merrifield<br />

of Downs Merrifield Architects,<br />

<strong>and</strong> the Severn Wye Energy<br />

Agency, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ can achieve<br />

an ‘A’ energy rating <strong>and</strong> a near zero<br />

carbon footprint, <strong>and</strong> become<br />

an exemplar for retrofits in old<br />

buildings.<br />

The original 1930s building, <strong>and</strong><br />

later extensions will be fitted with<br />

the latest eco-friendly products<br />

suitable for a conservation area, <strong>and</strong><br />

the energy use will be monitored<br />

into the future. Seminars will also be<br />

held for local residents, architects<br />

<strong>and</strong> engineers to discover what<br />

works <strong>and</strong> what doesn’t.<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ will also continue<br />

working with local schools on<br />

sustainability which is now part of<br />

the national curriculum. An amazing<br />

fly-though of The Pound can be<br />

seen on www.downsmerrifield.com/<br />

pound<br />

The Pound is due to open in<br />

spring 2020 <strong>and</strong> will then provide<br />

accommodation for activities for<br />

older people to help alleviate<br />

loneliness <strong>and</strong> social isolation. It<br />

will also be a comfortable place for<br />

family carers to meet <strong>and</strong> socialise.<br />

The heritage information centre<br />

will be a focal point for visitors<br />

wishing to know the places to see<br />

in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> will be staffed by<br />

community volunteers. Working<br />

in association with the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

Society, information will be available<br />

on local history, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Cathedral,<br />

High Street traders <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+<br />

activities. And, of course, there’ll be<br />

an accessible toilet available again<br />

on the High Street.<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ is a registered charity<br />

to promote social inclusion among<br />

the over 50s in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff.<br />

news<br />

Cardiff Bus<br />

extends Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

route<br />

Cardiff Bus launched a new service<br />

to Goitre Fach <strong>and</strong> Rhydlafar at the<br />

end of January.<br />

The new service, which operates<br />

from Monday to Saturday,<br />

will enable people to travel<br />

between the city centre, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff,<br />

Danescourt, Goitre Fach <strong>and</strong><br />

Rhydlafar.<br />

Journeys from the city centre<br />

towards Rhydlafar Drive, will<br />

follow the same route as service<br />

63 via Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> Danescourt<br />

to the Llantrisant Road / Heol<br />

Isaf roundabout, continuing to<br />

Llantrisant Road serving the new<br />

housing estate, Goitre Fach, before<br />

continuing to Rhydlafar. Journeys<br />

towards the city centre will follow<br />

the reverse of this route.<br />

Operations <strong>and</strong> Commercial<br />

Director Gareth Stevens said:<br />

“We are delighted to have<br />

launched this new service, to<br />

extend our network to Goitre Fach<br />

<strong>and</strong> Rhydlafar.<br />

“The service will offer enhanced<br />

travel for people in both areas,<br />

providing access to the Cardiff Bus<br />

network <strong>and</strong> tickets.”<br />

Traders urge<br />

independent<br />

shops to move in<br />

Traders <strong>and</strong> residents in<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong>, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

North are urging small business<br />

<strong>and</strong> start-ups to move into empty<br />

premises in their main shopping<br />

areas.<br />

Many units in the local area are<br />

now sitting empty. Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's High<br />

Street has seen an exodus of shops<br />

following the closure of two main<br />

banks <strong>and</strong> there's been a similar<br />

story in <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

North.<br />

But residents insist they'd like to<br />

see more independent retailers in<br />

the local high streets.<br />

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news<br />

Process starts to<br />

find contractors<br />

to build new<br />

Velindre Cancer<br />

Centre<br />

Spate of Taff Trail robberies lead to<br />

criticism of police priorities<br />

The process has started to<br />

find contractors to build a<br />

new Velindre Cancer Centre<br />

providing specialist nonsurgical<br />

cancer services to<br />

people across South East<br />

Wales.<br />

Velindre University NHS<br />

Trust is looking for a<br />

consortium to design, build,<br />

finance <strong>and</strong> run the new<br />

cancer centre in <strong>Whitchurch</strong>.<br />

The Trust has published a<br />

formal notice to inform the<br />

market.<br />

The notice has been<br />

published after Velindre <strong>and</strong><br />

Asda worked together to<br />

create plans for an entrance<br />

to the centre, providing better<br />

traffic flow <strong>and</strong> easy<br />

access around the area.<br />

People will be able to enter<br />

or leave the new cancer<br />

centre via a new route.<br />

The full procurement<br />

process is expected to take<br />

two years. The contract is<br />

valued at £180 million.<br />

The new centre, based<br />

north of the old <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />

Hospital in Cardiff, is due to<br />

open in 2024. It will have the<br />

capacity for 8,500 new<br />

patients <strong>and</strong> 160,000 patient<br />

appointments a year – up<br />

from the current levels by<br />

two thous<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> 20,000.<br />

Flasher alert<br />

Police have alerted parents<br />

after a man exposed himself<br />

to schoolchildren in February.<br />

The children were walking<br />

through Caedelyn Park when<br />

they were approached by<br />

a man described as white,<br />

around 6ft tall, of large build,<br />

with short black, messy hair.<br />

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Users of the popular Taff Trail have<br />

been warned by police after a<br />

series of late-night robberies.<br />

South Wales Police reported<br />

seven robberies between January<br />

17th <strong>and</strong> February 21st, <strong>and</strong> advised<br />

people to avoid the area at night<br />

while officers investigated.<br />

All seven robberies occurred on<br />

the trail between Sophia Gardens<br />

<strong>and</strong> the Tesco Extra on Western<br />

Avenue.<br />

Some users of the trail said that<br />

they were concerned that they<br />

hadn't received the information that<br />

the police made public. A number<br />

Clean-up after<br />

winter storms<br />

A large-scale clean-up operation<br />

took place in February, following<br />

a succession of winter storms that<br />

brought flooding to North Cardiff.<br />

More than one month’s worth of<br />

rain fell in Cardiff in just two days,<br />

leaving many areas of <strong>Whitchurch</strong>,<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North under<br />

water.<br />

Homes in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff were flooded<br />

while police evacuated homes<br />

in the Forest Farm area after the<br />

River Taff burst its banks. The<br />

nearby rugby club pitch was totally<br />

submerged, while the tennis courts<br />

in Hailey Park were also affected.<br />

Pontcanna Fields <strong>and</strong> Bute Park<br />

were also badly hit.<br />

of walkers said that they were<br />

worried they did not know about<br />

the issue - <strong>and</strong> urged the police to<br />

focus more on addressing the crime<br />

rather than persuading people not<br />

to use the trail during the hours of<br />

darkness.<br />

"Patrols are being stepped<br />

up in the area, but we'd also<br />

urge everyone to take normal<br />

precautions whenever they're<br />

walking in unlit or poorly lit areas.<br />

"In the hours of darkness, we<br />

always encourage people to stick<br />

to well-lit, busy roads," said a police<br />

spokesperson.<br />

BBC building in<br />

police role<br />

The former BBC Wales<br />

headquarters in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff are set to<br />

be used by police firearms units as<br />

a training facility.<br />

The BBC is still in the process of<br />

moving to its new £120m city centre<br />

headquarters at Central Square.<br />

The l<strong>and</strong> will ultimately be used to<br />

house more than 400 homes on the<br />

site, but in the meantime, officers<br />

from three police forces will use the<br />

buildings for firearms training.<br />

Police are planning on using the<br />

venue for around two months.<br />

Nearby residents <strong>and</strong> the Bishop<br />

of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff School have been<br />

informed.


Your letters<br />

WE<br />

letters<br />

WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!<br />

We love to hear what you've been up to<br />

so send us your letters <strong>and</strong> photos!<br />

We'll do our best to print them all.<br />

editor@livingmags.co.uk<br />

Continental<br />

hoodies<br />

I read with interest in your<br />

last issue, about concerns of<br />

groups of hoodies terrorising<br />

the <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

North areas <strong>and</strong> I thought I<br />

would share our experience of<br />

an incident that took place in our<br />

area in December. It involved a<br />

group of youths in hoodies at<br />

approximately 2.30am.<br />

We were woken by loud<br />

banging <strong>and</strong> then saw two<br />

youths v<strong>and</strong>alising our car. They<br />

ran off <strong>and</strong> we were then told<br />

by the police who were tracking<br />

them, that it was a group of<br />

young French boys on holiday,<br />

who had damaged a lot of cars.<br />

Our car was among one of the<br />

damaged ones. We were told<br />

that they were too drunk to return<br />

home on the ferry the following<br />

morning, after being arrested the<br />

same night.<br />

They left a trail of damage <strong>and</strong> a<br />

hefty bill for repairs to our car <strong>and</strong><br />

many others.<br />

Sue Manfield<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North<br />

Spring Poem<br />

Here I sit<br />

In this Cardiff park<br />

My face to the sky<br />

And for the first time in months<br />

I feel the warmth of the sun on<br />

my face<br />

And in this moment, the cold<br />

hard months of Winter<br />

Melt away.<br />

The pain,<br />

The cruel hard hours,<br />

The grief,<br />

The long, lonely nights,<br />

All ebb,<br />

And fade,<br />

In the heat of the splendour<br />

That kisses my face.<br />

Charlotte<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />

I'm confused!<br />

I recently read press reports about<br />

the possible closure of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's<br />

Summer Palace restaurant. I must<br />

say, that it has left me scratching<br />

my head with confusion.<br />

The reports stated that there was<br />

a complaint lodged from someone<br />

who recently moved into the<br />

area. The complaint referenced<br />

'noise <strong>and</strong> smell' coming from the<br />

restaurant, which has been on<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's High Street for the last<br />

30 years.<br />

The owner of the restaurant was<br />

taken to court in February, where<br />

he pleaded not guilty to two<br />

counts of failing to comply with a<br />

council order. A trial date is set for<br />

the end of April.<br />

I've lived in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff for many<br />

years <strong>and</strong> I often pass the<br />

restaurant <strong>and</strong> not once have I<br />

noticed any excessive noise or<br />

bad smell. My confusion lies in<br />

the fact that there has never been<br />

a problem before (<strong>and</strong> it's never<br />

been a problem to us residents)<br />

so why the sudden threat of legal<br />

action now?<br />

As with many things in life, it's<br />

often the smaller guys who get<br />

picked on. Our independent<br />

businesses are struggling at the<br />

best of times <strong>and</strong> this kind of<br />

behaviour suggests that there<br />

are people out there, who have<br />

nothing better to do than make life<br />

harder for the rest of us.<br />

Mark Allsop<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

We st<strong>and</strong> with<br />

Summer Palace<br />

I write to show my support for one<br />

of our local restaurants.<br />

The Summer Palace has been a<br />

part of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Village for over 30<br />

years. This restaurant is a must for<br />

many people in <strong>and</strong> around the<br />

village with exceptional quality<br />

<strong>and</strong> atmosphere when eating out.<br />

I for one have dined here on many<br />

occasions <strong>and</strong> have felt welcome<br />

<strong>and</strong> looked after.<br />

As small business owners<br />

ourselves, we know how hard it<br />

is to open your doors every day<br />

<strong>and</strong> hope for a good day's trade<br />

but to have this unnecessary issue<br />

hovering over you, it feels like you<br />

just want to give it all up.<br />

Natalie McKee<br />

Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />

If you have anything you’d like our readers to know about, drop us a line at<br />

editor@livingmags.co.uk or by letter to 222 Pantbach Road, Rhiwbina, Cardiff<br />

CF14 6AG. You can also find us on Facebook <strong>and</strong> Twitter<br />

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Services in<br />

Beulah<br />

Sundays at 10.30am <strong>and</strong> an<br />

ecumenical service at 6pm on<br />

the first Sunday in the month,<br />

taking place in either Bethany<br />

Baptist, All Saints Church or<br />

Beulah. We have an active<br />

Junior Church which meets each<br />

Sunday morning.<br />

Wednesdays at 10.30am,<br />

mid-week meeting point in the<br />

Whittaker Lounge.<br />

Holy Week & Easter<br />

Sunday 5th April -<br />

Palm Sunday<br />

10.30am Morning Worship: Called<br />

to be servants. Led by Revd.<br />

Martha McInnes<br />

Monday 6th April<br />

7pm-7.30pm Holy Week<br />

Meditations: Called to Follow.<br />

Tuesday 7th April<br />

7pm-7.30pm Holy Week<br />

Meditations: Called to<br />

Faithfulness.<br />

Wednesday 8th April<br />

7pm-7.30pm Holy Week<br />

Meditations: Called to Forgiveness.<br />

9th April - Maundy Thursday<br />

7.30pm-8.30pm Communion<br />

Service for Maundy Thursday in the<br />

Upper Room of Canolfan Beulah.<br />

10th April - Good Friday<br />

9.30am Bethany Baptist Church<br />

– worship followed by walk to All<br />

Saints.<br />

10.30am All Saints Church - worship<br />

followed by coffee <strong>and</strong> hot cross<br />

buns, walk to Beulah URC.<br />

12pm Beulah United Reformed<br />

Church – worship followed by<br />

lunch in Canolfan Beulah.<br />

12th April – Easter Sunday<br />

8.45am Easter Service <strong>and</strong><br />

Breakfast (Canolfan Beulah).<br />

10.30am-11.30am Easter Sunday<br />

Service: Called to be Resurrection<br />

People. Led by Revd. David Dean.<br />

Family service with communion.<br />

All are welcome to attend any<br />

or all of these services. For<br />

more information contact the<br />

Church Secretary:<br />

secretary@beulahurc.org.uk<br />

Website: www.beulahurc.org.uk


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Be happy yourself<br />

It's common knowledge that<br />

children form their personalities<br />

around the role models that<br />

they're brought up with.<br />

It therefore goes without<br />

saying that adult behaviour<br />

can have both a positive <strong>and</strong><br />

a negative impact on a child,<br />

sometimes without us even<br />

being aware of it. There is<br />

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show that parents who suffer from traits such as depression can lead to<br />

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Focusing on making yourself happy will create a solid foundation for a<br />

happy childhood for your children. Creating a positive network in which<br />

they can thrive <strong>and</strong> grow will further their happiness. The sound of laughter<br />

has been proven to lower stress levels, caused by changes in the brain.<br />

Music in the home can also help lift parents' moods, <strong>and</strong> their children's as<br />

a result.<br />

Teach them the importance of<br />

relationships<br />

The importance of relationships is<br />

something that can be taught to children,<br />

<strong>and</strong> by doing so, it can help create<br />

empathy, underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong> better social<br />

<strong>and</strong> people skills.<br />

Encouraging children to think from the<br />

perspective of others, <strong>and</strong> to perform acts<br />

of kindness, has been proven to make<br />

children happier in the long run. They are<br />

skills that will also help them in adult life.<br />

Praise effort, not<br />

perfection<br />

Perfectionism can harm children<br />

as they constantly aim to achieve<br />

the impossible.<br />

Aim to praise effort, not<br />

natural ability. This in itself will<br />

encourage achievement, but<br />

will lesson the worry of them<br />

making mistakes along the way.<br />

Pressurising children to get<br />

things right first time <strong>and</strong> every<br />

time can lead to anxiety <strong>and</strong><br />

even overload. Studies have<br />

shown that parents who place a<br />

high priority on achievement end<br />

up with children who are more<br />

depressed, more anxious, <strong>and</strong><br />

in some cases, more rebellious,<br />

than those parents who focused<br />

more on praising effort.<br />

The science behind it is<br />

quite simple - when we praise<br />

children for their effort rather<br />

than their abilities, we help them<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> that their intelligence<br />

is changeable, <strong>and</strong> not a<br />

constant state.<br />

Encourage optimism<br />

Looking at the world from an optimist's viewpoint is linked to happiness,<br />

<strong>and</strong> studies have shown that ten year olds who are encouraged to think<br />

optimistically have a 50% better chance of avoiding depression during<br />

puberty <strong>and</strong> adolescence.<br />

Foster an attitude of gratitude in your children, <strong>and</strong> allow them to<br />

experience success <strong>and</strong> take moderate risks. Teaching them to put things<br />

in perspective can help create an optimistic mindset, something that they<br />

can reap the rewards from as they head into adult life.<br />

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Happy Kids<br />

Teach emotional intelligence<br />

Children can struggle to underst<strong>and</strong> their<br />

emotions, <strong>and</strong> this can often lead to outbursts<br />

<strong>and</strong> flashes of anger.<br />

Talking to your child, <strong>and</strong> helping them<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> why they are feeling the way they are<br />

can equip them with the ability to control their<br />

behaviour. Empathising with them, <strong>and</strong> validating<br />

them will also make them feel as if they're being<br />

listened to.<br />

Active listening will also encourage your<br />

child to interact with others in the same way,<br />

<strong>and</strong> emotional intelligence is directly linked to<br />

happiness.<br />

Eat together<br />

The traditional act of eating<br />

together is sometimes lost in the<br />

fast-paced modern age.<br />

It helps forge a sense of<br />

community, <strong>and</strong> often allows<br />

family members to feel able to<br />

talk more openly. One long-term<br />

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mealtimes were more influential<br />

than time spent in school,<br />

studying, attending religious<br />

services, or playing sports.<br />

More playtime<br />

As adults, we strive to make time for our own<br />

enjoyment - nights out, time with friends <strong>and</strong><br />

even sports activities.<br />

With our busy lives, we sometimes forget that<br />

playtime for children is their chance to grow<br />

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playtime helps them develop self-regulation, to<br />

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Expressing their creativity is one way of<br />

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they feel a lot happier because of it.<br />

Teach self-discipline<br />

Self-discipline is something that<br />

we struggle with, even as adults,<br />

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Instilling self-discipline in<br />

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It will also develop their<br />

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The more you can teach<br />

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In the same way that using a<br />

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The<br />

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Relentlessly bullied as a youngster, Scott McGlynn now inspires<br />

thous<strong>and</strong>s around the world with his message of positivity<br />

Learning to love oneself can be<br />

hard when the message you get<br />

from your peers <strong>and</strong> society at large<br />

is that you're somehow disliked or<br />

prejudiced against for something<br />

that's not even your choice.<br />

For Cardiff's Scott McGlynn,<br />

becoming an LGBT (Lesbian/Gay/<br />

Bisexual/Transgender) activist,<br />

author <strong>and</strong> presenter was a result of<br />

years of bullying as a youngster:<br />

"Growing up was very hard for<br />

me. Starting in high school was a<br />

particularly difficult time. I didn't<br />

know anyone when I first got there<br />

<strong>and</strong> the bullying started almost<br />

straight away in Year 7.<br />

"Other kids were calling me a girl.<br />

12<br />

They were bombarding me with<br />

words like gay <strong>and</strong> poof - I honestly<br />

didn't know what any of them<br />

meant! I struggled to make sense of<br />

it all <strong>and</strong> even when I went to speak<br />

to my teachers, they didn't know<br />

how to help me or the situation."<br />

As a youngster, Scott's<br />

confusion throughout school<br />

was compounded by his <strong>and</strong><br />

his classmates' lack of a wider<br />

awareness about sexuality <strong>and</strong><br />

gender identity.<br />

"Back then, I was a kid. I was<br />

young; I didn't underst<strong>and</strong> life or<br />

what sexuality was. They didn't<br />

teach you about that in school. I<br />

certainly didn't have any help or<br />

guidance <strong>and</strong> that helped shape<br />

what I do now. I'm stronger <strong>and</strong><br />

here to help others."<br />

In the UK workplace, 35% of LGBT<br />

staff have hidden the fact that<br />

they are LGBT at work for fear of<br />

discrimination. 18% have been the<br />

target of negative comments or<br />

conduct from work colleagues<br />

in the last year, simply because<br />

they're LGBT.<br />

"These days of course, there's<br />

the added complication of<br />

cyberbullying, which I didn't have<br />

when I was growing up. Mine was<br />

more face-to-face. The comments<br />

don't affect me any more as I've<br />

accepted who I am. But I know<br />

that there are others out there who<br />

do feel the effects of bullying <strong>and</strong><br />

cyberbullying. This is why my work<br />

is important to me - I want to help<br />

others who are in the same position<br />

that I was in, whether I help them<br />

online or in youth groups."<br />

Scott has had a variety of jobs<br />

over the years, many of which<br />

gave him a good stepping stone<br />

for independence. Arriving at his<br />

current role has given Scott a real<br />

sense of purpose in his life.<br />

"Being a LGBT role model <strong>and</strong><br />

content creator is by far the best job<br />

I've ever had."<br />

In 2016, Scott decided to create<br />

his own podcast, an internet-based<br />

audio programme, much like a radio<br />

show.<br />

"My first podcast was in 2017. I<br />

wanted to create a platform that<br />

people could look up to. I wanted<br />

to hear from celebrities about their<br />

coming out experiences, <strong>and</strong> how<br />

their sexuality had affected their<br />

work life."<br />

Scott has had nearly 100 guests<br />

on his show over the last few years.<br />

In 2o18, his show topped the Apple


Podcast charts, beating off many<br />

well-known household names in<br />

the process.<br />

"I wanted to create a show that isn't<br />

just a simple Question <strong>and</strong> Answer<br />

session. I wanted something that<br />

was going to be educational but<br />

done so in a fun way. I get to speak<br />

<strong>and</strong> help people around the world."<br />

Scott's podcasts have reached<br />

thous<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> his social media<br />

following is testament to the<br />

engagement he's having with his<br />

audience. He has over 100,000<br />

followers on Instagram alone, <strong>and</strong><br />

an audience throughout the world.<br />

"Over the years, I've done a lot of<br />

research finding my guests that<br />

my listeners would want to hear<br />

from. Luckily, I've networked a lot<br />

<strong>and</strong> I know a lot of agents who<br />

underst<strong>and</strong> what my podcasts are<br />

about. Often, they may approach<br />

me with the view of getting one of<br />

their clients in front my microphone."<br />

Scott's podcast have not only<br />

helped others, but also helped him<br />

accept the pain in his life.<br />

"The best cure in life is talking so<br />

for both myself <strong>and</strong> my guest, we<br />

chat about our experiences. It's<br />

almost like a mini therapy session<br />

The best<br />

cure in<br />

life is<br />

talking<br />

at times. But we are never too<br />

serious. I want my listeners to get<br />

something from each podcast, <strong>and</strong><br />

even have maybe a laugh or a cry<br />

along the way. Listening to others<br />

<strong>and</strong> underst<strong>and</strong>ing them is a huge<br />

part of it <strong>and</strong> it's great to talk <strong>and</strong><br />

share."<br />

Scott's guests are an eclectic mix<br />

of celebrities, actors, musicians <strong>and</strong><br />

people in the public eye.<br />

"I've had Perez Hilton on my<br />

show, I've had James Dreyfus,<br />

John Partridge <strong>and</strong> Laura Carter<br />

<strong>and</strong> many others. We like to share<br />

stories, both good <strong>and</strong> bad; we like<br />

to talk about their experiences,<br />

their careers, celebrity gossip <strong>and</strong><br />

LGBT topics. It's a very relaxed show<br />

<strong>and</strong> I hope that it gives listeners<br />

<strong>and</strong> insight into my guests' lives or<br />

to learn something new about the<br />

industry."<br />

Spreading the love from Cardiff<br />

to the world has become Scott's<br />

passion.<br />

"Cardiff means so much to me. The<br />

community is amazing <strong>and</strong> going<br />

to events is like going to see family;<br />

everyone knows someone <strong>and</strong> it's a<br />

great place to be."<br />

But on a wider scale, Scott knows<br />

that he has a lot of work to do to<br />

change society's perceptions:<br />

"I think over the years, people's<br />

views have changed for the better.<br />

But I do think there's a long way<br />

to go before society simply does<br />

more than just 'tolerate' the LGBT<br />

community."<br />

Scott is optimistic that his work can<br />

effect change:<br />

"My next challenge for me is to<br />

create a live version of The Scott<br />

McGlynn Show. It'd be set in a<br />

specific venue, with an audience<br />

of mixed ages <strong>and</strong> backgrounds,<br />

<strong>and</strong> we'd all be talking <strong>and</strong> sharing<br />

stories. That is a goal I want to<br />

achieve by the end of the year. It'd<br />

be incredible to do."<br />

Scott hopes that his work will help<br />

to both comfort <strong>and</strong> inspire those<br />

who find themselves in the same<br />

position as he did when he was<br />

younger.<br />

"I struggled a lot with my sexuality<br />

when I was younger but now I'm a<br />

proud gay guy. I don't want anyone<br />

going through what I did. It was a<br />

very hard <strong>and</strong> a very difficult time in<br />

my life. I'm here to inspire others, to<br />

be there for them <strong>and</strong> to be a role<br />

model."<br />

Web: scottmcglynn.net<br />

Instagram: @scottmcglynnofficial<br />

Twitter: @ScottyMcGlynn<br />

people<br />

Scott's podcast made it to the top of the Apple Podcast charts<br />

What is a podcast?<br />

A podcast is an episodic series of<br />

digital audio files that a user can<br />

download to a personal device in<br />

order to listen.<br />

It's often a series of spoken<br />

word, audio episodes, all focused<br />

on a particular topic or theme.<br />

You can subscribe to the show<br />

with an app on your phone <strong>and</strong><br />

listen to episodes whenever you<br />

like on your headphones, in the<br />

car or through speakers.<br />

Unlike radio shows though,<br />

podcasts can offer greater<br />

flexibility in the following ways:<br />

• They can be any length, from<br />

a 1 minute news snippet, to a 3<br />

hour in-depth interview.<br />

• They can be any frequency,<br />

from daily to monthly.<br />

• They can be any format,<br />

from simple solo shows up to<br />

mammoth, multi-person audio<br />

dramas.<br />

• They can cover any topic.<br />

Podcasts are often free to<br />

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phone or access to the internet,<br />

it's really easy to find podcasts<br />

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walking or on the way to work.<br />

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The<br />

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love<br />

club<br />

Self love is an important aspect your welfare. In appreciating<br />

oneself, one can find happiness. Accepting ourselves for who we<br />

are can open up inner peace <strong>and</strong> happiness<br />

For many people, the idea of<br />

loving oneself can be seen as<br />

an arrogant <strong>and</strong> selfish act. All<br />

too often, we put others before<br />

ourselves <strong>and</strong> spend too much<br />

time trying to please others.<br />

In our daily lives, most of us put<br />

ourselves under huge pressure<br />

to excel <strong>and</strong> to do everything to<br />

perfection every time. Our inner<br />

minds are constantly putting<br />

ourselves down when we fail to<br />

achieve this perfectionism <strong>and</strong><br />

this self-criticism can lead to<br />

depression, anxiety, <strong>and</strong> worse.<br />

Constant perfectionism can lead<br />

to both emotional <strong>and</strong> physical<br />

ailments.<br />

Self-love, or self-kindness,<br />

involves showing underst<strong>and</strong>ing<br />

towards ourselves when we fail<br />

or feel inadequate. If you're not<br />

sure how you're connected to<br />

yourself, start by listening to the<br />

way that your inner voice talks to<br />

you. Do you insult yourself or talk<br />

in negative language when you<br />

make a mistake?<br />

Learning to tune into yourself,<br />

<strong>and</strong> beginning to love yourself<br />

can help unlock inner calm <strong>and</strong><br />

a better quality of life. Here are<br />

a few ways that you can achieve<br />

that.<br />

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Set boundaries<br />

Setting boundaries helps to<br />

improve your life. Saying no to work,<br />

activities or anything that detracts<br />

from you emotionally or physically,<br />

doesn't mean that you are a bad<br />

person. Sometimes the feeling<br />

that you have to help everyone all<br />

the time comes from deep-rooted<br />

causes. Try <strong>and</strong> find out what these<br />

are <strong>and</strong> let them go.<br />

Know your value. It isn't reflected<br />

in how much you do for other<br />

people. Your problems don't define<br />

who you are as a person either. Ask<br />

yourself whether saying yes to a<br />

dem<strong>and</strong> is worth it.<br />

Be direct if your answer is no. You<br />

don't need to lie, apologise or come<br />

up with a load of excuses. You are<br />

entitled to say no.<br />

Practise self-care<br />

You'll feel a lot better when you<br />

take time to nourish yourself,<br />

whether that's physically or<br />

emotionally. Eating properly,<br />

getting enough sleep, exercising<br />

- these are all things that you<br />

should put first. You can't help<br />

others if you are neglecting<br />

yourself.<br />

Self-care isn't a selfish act.<br />

Find out what works for you <strong>and</strong><br />

make the time them, whether<br />

it's a weekly catch up with family<br />

or even a simple walk in the<br />

outdoors. Be aware of what you<br />

are doing, <strong>and</strong> how it's making<br />

you feel.<br />

Get into the habit of practising<br />

self-care. You'll feel less anxious,<br />

have improved moods - <strong>and</strong><br />

you'll also feel more in control of<br />

your life.


Protect yourself<br />

There will be people in your<br />

life who suck the energy out of<br />

you. Often referred to as 'energy<br />

vampires', they dem<strong>and</strong> your<br />

time <strong>and</strong> attention, often to the<br />

detriment of your own needs.<br />

The one way to protect yourself<br />

from these people is to get them<br />

out of your life. Surround yourself<br />

with people who make you<br />

happy, people who value you <strong>and</strong><br />

respect you. Life is too short to<br />

spend trying to fix other people's<br />

problems at the expense of your<br />

own.<br />

By cutting these people out of<br />

your life, you will find your life has<br />

less negative drama, freeing up<br />

your mind <strong>and</strong> time to actually<br />

start enjoying life.<br />

What you need - not<br />

what you want<br />

In this age of information overload,<br />

we're often told what we should<br />

want from life. A big house, a nice<br />

car, the perfect body.<br />

Continually striving for all of<br />

these can be exhausting, souldestroying,<br />

<strong>and</strong> ultimately futile.<br />

Even if we do get those things,<br />

there are still things that we're<br />

going to want.<br />

Focus instead on the things<br />

that you need. Wanting things<br />

can lead us to make impulsive<br />

decisions, often without us<br />

thinking of its consequences.<br />

There are of course, our basic<br />

needs that have to be met - food,<br />

water, clothing, shelter <strong>and</strong> so<br />

on. Then there are the slightly<br />

less necessary needs. The things<br />

you need to be a responsible<br />

adult. Maybe some transport or a<br />

computer so that you can work.<br />

Everything else is a want. The<br />

soft furnishings, the latest TV.<br />

Figure out what's important to<br />

you <strong>and</strong> why <strong>and</strong> then spend less<br />

time <strong>and</strong> money on the wants <strong>and</strong><br />

more time <strong>and</strong> money on your<br />

needs.<br />

Forgive yourself<br />

Putting yourself under pressure can<br />

help you achieve some wonderful<br />

things in life. But when it becomes<br />

persistent <strong>and</strong> all-consuming, it can<br />

lead to burnout.<br />

Most of us are pretty hard on<br />

ourselves, especially when we<br />

make mistakes. What's important to<br />

remember is we are human - we do<br />

make mistakes. Everyone does. It's<br />

how we learn.<br />

Punishing yourself, either<br />

physically or emotionally only<br />

serves to make you feel worse.<br />

Learn to forgive yourself <strong>and</strong><br />

remember that there are no failures<br />

in life - just opportunities to move<br />

on <strong>and</strong> learn.<br />

Become mindful<br />

The concept of mindfulness has<br />

really taken off in the last few<br />

years - <strong>and</strong> with very good reason.<br />

Becoming mindful of who we<br />

are <strong>and</strong> what we are doing on a<br />

minute-by-minute basis helps us<br />

become a better person. This is<br />

because we are able to reflect in<br />

real-time about our decisions, our<br />

behaviour <strong>and</strong> our interactions with<br />

other people.<br />

Being aware of yourself also helps<br />

you enjoy those moments in life for<br />

what they are.<br />

wellbeing<br />

Live with acceptance<br />

Too often in life, we push ourselves<br />

to <strong>and</strong> beyond our limits in the<br />

pursuit of better things. Under<br />

the pressure, our flaws <strong>and</strong> faults<br />

are often exposed, adding to our<br />

negative views of ourselves.<br />

Coming to accept ourselves -<br />

flaws <strong>and</strong> faults included - makes<br />

us realise that perhaps we're not<br />

the bad person we think we are.<br />

Everyone has faults because that is<br />

the nature of humanity. Accepting<br />

these, <strong>and</strong> learning to live with these<br />

will empower you to move forward<br />

without constraint.<br />

Live with purpose<br />

Some measure their life's success in<br />

material things, their achieved status<br />

or the power they've gained. Yet<br />

even for these people, there is often<br />

something missing in life - purpose.<br />

Making a difference - leaving the<br />

world a better place than when you<br />

found it - can help satisfy the soul.<br />

How we spend our day is how we<br />

spend our lives <strong>and</strong> living your day<br />

with a sense of purpose can give<br />

you inner peace.<br />

If you have a passion, follow it.<br />

Make time for it, especially if you find<br />

yourself washed along by the daily<br />

grind every day of your life. If these<br />

passions include beliefs <strong>and</strong> values,<br />

live by them. Let yourself be guided<br />

by what you deem important, not<br />

others.<br />

Having a purpose gives us the<br />

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<strong>and</strong> to carry on. Ask yourself how<br />

you want to be remembered <strong>and</strong> be<br />

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shed<br />

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the<br />

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From an idea forged over a pint, Cardiff's Andrew Wilcox has<br />

created a nationwide hunt for the UK's best sheds<br />

They have long been the refuge<br />

of the modern male. A sanctuary<br />

where men can hide away from<br />

life's troubles on rainy afternoons<br />

<strong>and</strong> long summer evenings;<br />

a retreat where they can lose<br />

themselves to creative projects,<br />

grease cloths <strong>and</strong> cricket matches<br />

on old battered radios.<br />

And for one Cardiff man, the desire<br />

to have a shed that he could call<br />

his own became a quest to find the<br />

UK's best shed. The contest was<br />

even turned into its own TV show<br />

on Channel 4. It has been a process<br />

that has challenged the nation's<br />

basic perception of the word 'shed'.<br />

20<br />

Shed of the Year 2017:<br />

The Mushroom Shed<br />

Web developer <strong>and</strong> Shed of the<br />

Year organiser Andrew Wilcox<br />

admits that the roots of the<br />

competition stretch back to his<br />

childhood.<br />

"My gr<strong>and</strong>father had an allotment<br />

behind his terraced house in<br />

the village of Blaenclydach in<br />

the Rhondda Valley. He <strong>and</strong> his<br />

allotment mates used to build these<br />

structures that joined together with<br />

poly tunnels, so that they could<br />

grow vegetables <strong>and</strong> flowers in<br />

a shared space. That was my first<br />

introduction to sheds <strong>and</strong> I have<br />

been trying to find a similar shed all<br />

my life."<br />

Those memories<br />

stayed with<br />

Andrew right<br />

through to<br />

adulthood. Back<br />

in 2000, looking to<br />

acquire a shed of<br />

his own, Andrew<br />

spent a while<br />

searching online<br />

for his perfect<br />

building.<br />

"I was looking<br />

online for some<br />

inspiration <strong>and</strong> I thought that I<br />

would find a website with lots of<br />

great-looking sheds on there. I was<br />

hoping to find a shed that looked<br />

like my gr<strong>and</strong>father's. Sadly, that<br />

wasn't the case, so I ended up<br />

setting up a website myself," he<br />

says.<br />

It was while he was chatting to a<br />

friend down the pub that he came<br />

up with the idea of the new website.<br />

"I went straight home <strong>and</strong><br />

registered the domain. It started<br />

slowly at first as people thought it<br />

was a joke - but then it got some<br />

traction, appearing on Ceefax's<br />

'Website of the Week' <strong>and</strong> various<br />

email newsletters. I did tell you that<br />

this was a long time ago!" he jokes.<br />

Eventually though, the idea soon<br />

blossomed.<br />

"It caught the imagination of the<br />

public <strong>and</strong> things went on from<br />

there," adds Andrew.<br />

To increase engagement with his<br />

audience, Andrew decided to set up<br />

an online competition.<br />

"By 2007, there were hundreds of<br />

sheds on the site so I thought it'd be<br />

a good idea to launch a contest to<br />

find out which one the public liked


the best. Thus Shed of the Year was<br />

born."<br />

The competition's first winner was<br />

a shed that looked like a Roman<br />

temple.<br />

"The winner's wife even went <strong>and</strong><br />

bought him four large pillars for<br />

Christmas!" laughs Andrew.<br />

A 'rugby pub' was the<br />

competition's second winner in<br />

2008. Designed <strong>and</strong> built by its<br />

owner, it had eight windows on its<br />

octagonal roof. A pair of double<br />

doors opened up in fine weather<br />

<strong>and</strong> its crowning glory was its 15<br />

foot fully fitted bar. It also housed<br />

three fridges, a ceiling fan <strong>and</strong> a<br />

hammock.<br />

Since then, the competition has<br />

become bigger <strong>and</strong> better, pushing<br />

the boundaries of the term 'shed'.<br />

"Thirteen years on <strong>and</strong> the<br />

competition is still going strong.<br />

We have a few hundred entrants<br />

every year (but previous entrants<br />

always st<strong>and</strong> a chance to make the<br />

shortlist) which, for a niche thing on<br />

the internet, is pretty good going."<br />

Interest in the competition reached<br />

fever pitch in 2014 when Channel 4<br />

commissioned a TV series about it.<br />

"The show ran from 2014 to 2017<br />

<strong>and</strong> brought the concept of the<br />

shed out of the allotment <strong>and</strong> into<br />

the mainstream. The st<strong>and</strong>ard<br />

always seems to get better <strong>and</strong><br />

better <strong>and</strong> the 'sheddies' always<br />

innovate, Eco sheds being the<br />

thing that everyone is going for<br />

nowadays. The pub sheds always<br />

attract the most entrants as people<br />

love a space to entertain down the<br />

bottom of the garden.<br />

having<br />

a tv show<br />

commissioned<br />

from my silly<br />

internet<br />

idea was a<br />

highlight<br />

"One of my favourite sheds was<br />

the winner from 2013 - a boatroofed<br />

shed that sat at the top of a<br />

mountain in Powys. They managed<br />

to get an old inshore fishing boat<br />

from 1900 up the mountain <strong>and</strong><br />

then built a wattle <strong>and</strong> daub<br />

shed underneath it. It's a bit of a<br />

ramshackle structure but it's a lot<br />

of fun. The owner DJs from the<br />

shed <strong>and</strong> he’s also hosted a few<br />

comedians from the Machynlleth<br />

Comedy Festival in it - there is not<br />

a shed out there like it. The place<br />

also has some of the best views in<br />

Wales.<br />

"Having a TV show commissioned<br />

by Channel 4 from my silly internet<br />

idea was a highlight," says Andrew,<br />

"but seeing truly unique <strong>and</strong> special<br />

sheds entered each year, <strong>and</strong><br />

talking to the shed community<br />

about why they build them <strong>and</strong><br />

what they get up to in them, is what<br />

makes me smile."<br />

In Andrew's opinion, a good shed<br />

doesn't happen by accident.<br />

"The secret to a good shed is a<br />

great, unique design <strong>and</strong> a quality<br />

build, even if it's just from pallets.<br />

Most of all, it needs to be a place in<br />

which you want to spend time with<br />

your family <strong>and</strong> friends - or even<br />

just a space to chill out in, or work<br />

from."<br />

The appeal of a shed is one<br />

that now reaches far beyond the<br />

traditional realm of fathers <strong>and</strong><br />

gr<strong>and</strong>fathers.<br />

"Firstly, a shed is an escape for<br />

many, but also I think if you have<br />

built something yourself, then it<br />

gives you more pleasure," says<br />

Andrew. "Of course, the competition<br />

welcomes entrants from off-theshelf<br />

sheds as well - it's what the<br />

sheddie does with their space that<br />

is important," he adds.<br />

The contest has seen thous<strong>and</strong>s of<br />

entries over the years, ranging from<br />

man caves to two-storey structures.<br />

The current Shed of the Year is Bux<br />

End, a hobbit-like abode created by<br />

Chris Hield in Derbyshire.<br />

"We are massive Lord of the Rings<br />

fans so when we decided to build<br />

our own shed, we knew it had to<br />

be a hobbit hole," said Chris. "It had<br />

to fit in with the wildlife <strong>and</strong> nature<br />

that we cultivated in the rest of our<br />

garden so the grass roof was a big<br />

feature."<br />

Chris used his hobby workshop<br />

making armour <strong>and</strong> chainmail, to<br />

help create the structure.<br />

"We dug out the back garden in<br />

January 2018 to build a sunken<br />

hobbit hole. Unfortunately, after<br />

hitting bedrock that we could not<br />

break through, we ended up putting<br />

some of the 22 tonnes of wet clay<br />

back in the hole, which was a bit<br />

demoralising! After sourcing local<br />

reclaimed bricks <strong>and</strong> timber, we<br />

finished the hole some eight weeks<br />

later after working each weekend<br />

<strong>and</strong> evenings when possible."<br />

people<br />

The interior of the 2019<br />

champion, Bux End<br />

Entries for this year's competition<br />

are coming in thick <strong>and</strong> fast.<br />

"The future of the competition<br />

looks bright," says Andrew. "People<br />

still want sheds <strong>and</strong> will always<br />

build them <strong>and</strong> hopefully we will<br />

give the sheddies a platform to<br />

share their sheds with the rest of<br />

the world.<br />

"I am lucky to have support from<br />

Cuprinol who have sponsored it for<br />

many years. It's just myself running<br />

the competition, so I couldn't do it<br />

without their support <strong>and</strong> of course,<br />

the sheddies who create these<br />

amazing structures!"<br />

If you want to enter your shed into<br />

this year's competition, you have<br />

until 19th April 2020 to do so. Enter<br />

at www.readersheds.co.uk<br />

The 2013 winner - the<br />

boat-roofed shed<br />

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SELF LOVEideas<br />

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DITCH THE SOCIAL<br />

MEDIA<br />

Social media is a great<br />

way to connect with<br />

friends <strong>and</strong> loved ones<br />

but all too often, we<br />

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comparing our lives to<br />

everyone else's.<br />

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remember is that<br />

everyone's profiles are<br />

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goals <strong>and</strong> you could end<br />

up spending the rest of<br />

your life comparing yours<br />

to theirs.<br />

MAKE A LIST OF ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE<br />

When life knocks you sideways, it's all too easy<br />

to forget all the good things that you have in your<br />

life. A feeling of gratitude is such a simple thing,<br />

but it is also a very powerful<br />

way of shifting the mind's<br />

emphasis from the<br />

things that aren't going<br />

right to the things<br />

that are.<br />

There is always<br />

something to be<br />

grateful for, whether<br />

it's having food in<br />

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to call, or even<br />

something simple as<br />

someone's smile.


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READ MORE<br />

Reading is an opportunity<br />

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<strong>and</strong> to develop empathy for<br />

others.<br />

It also provides a good<br />

workout for your brain,<br />

helping to reduce memory<br />

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Not only that, it helps<br />

increase your vocabulary<br />

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CLEAN OUT YOUR<br />

WARDROBES<br />

De-cluttering your<br />

wardrobe is a powerful<br />

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life.<br />

The first step is to<br />

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be totally honest with<br />

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Keep the basics but ditch<br />

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BUILD A POSITIVE<br />

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It's often in times of<br />

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Slowly build up a<br />

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ASK FOR HELP IF YOU NEED IT<br />

There is no shame in asking for<br />

help. Even the most successful<br />

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Be strong enough to st<strong>and</strong><br />

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enough to know when you do<br />

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DO SOMETHING<br />

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We all have our strengths<br />

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Doing something that<br />

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Trying out new things<br />

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self help<br />

Maintaining your online presence can mean that we are slaves to<br />

our phones <strong>and</strong> computers. But there is a world <strong>and</strong> a life out there<br />

beyond the screen. Here's how to reclaim it<br />

Social media addiction<br />

A staggering 45% of the world's<br />

population is on social media,<br />

highlighting our dependence on<br />

electronic technology. We are<br />

reaching for our phones more<br />

than ever.<br />

The rapid growth of both the<br />

internet <strong>and</strong> social media has<br />

brought with it a new set of<br />

problems. In fact, 210 million<br />

people are affected by internet<br />

<strong>and</strong> social media addiction. It<br />

can affect both your physical<br />

<strong>and</strong> emotional wellbeing. It<br />

can put strain on relationships,<br />

bring down levels of self-worth<br />

<strong>and</strong> also open up new forms of<br />

bullying.<br />

But there is life beyond<br />

the screen of your phone or<br />

computer. Taking control back<br />

of your social media life can be<br />

achieved, giving you a more<br />

connected <strong>and</strong> balanced view of<br />

the real world.<br />

If you feel that you are<br />

addicted, here's how you can<br />

beat it.<br />

28<br />

Go cold turkey<br />

You can always start your social<br />

media detox by choosing the<br />

nuclear option - by going cold<br />

turkey.<br />

If you're an avid social media user,<br />

you may want to plan your time<br />

away by setting a length of time<br />

<strong>and</strong> informing your friends <strong>and</strong><br />

family of your absence.<br />

One incentive is to work out how<br />

much time you spend on social<br />

media before you start. If for<br />

example, you spend three hours a<br />

day on it, that'll give you 21 hours a<br />

week of free time. Think what you<br />

could do in that time!<br />

Once you're ready for your holiday<br />

away from the screen, remove all<br />

temptation by deleting the apps<br />

that you use for social media. In<br />

most cases, deleting the apps<br />

doesn't mean that you are deleting<br />

your accounts. It just means that<br />

you'll have to log in when you<br />

decide to return. Even if it's for just<br />

one day, you'll be surprised how<br />

much better you feel without social<br />

media in your life.<br />

Turn off notifications<br />

Our phones can dem<strong>and</strong> a lot of<br />

our attention <strong>and</strong> it can often feel<br />

overwhelming when it's beeping<br />

<strong>and</strong> buzzing at us.<br />

If going cold turkey isn't an<br />

option, or seems too drastic for<br />

you, take time out to turn all but<br />

your essential notifications off.<br />

Notifications can also keep us up<br />

at night so adjust your settings<br />

so that you only get the ones you<br />

need, if any.<br />

Just because you're not getting<br />

notifications doesn't mean that<br />

you're necessarily missing out<br />

on anything important. Turning<br />

them off can help improve your<br />

concentration <strong>and</strong> focus during<br />

your day.


Organise <strong>and</strong> delete<br />

your apps<br />

As our phones are now such a<br />

large part of our everyday lives,<br />

similarly, they can also reflect<br />

them.<br />

A cluttered phone could be a<br />

metaphor for your life or even<br />

your state of mind. Organising<br />

your apps will make you feel<br />

more in control <strong>and</strong> will save you<br />

time.<br />

Better still, why not remove<br />

some of the apps you spend<br />

most of your time on? Ask<br />

yourself whether they are really<br />

necessary in your life.<br />

Be mindful<br />

Mindfulness can be very useful in<br />

beating social media addiction as it<br />

makes us more aware of our actions<br />

<strong>and</strong> intents.<br />

Every time you reach for your phone,<br />

become aware of what you are doing<br />

<strong>and</strong> how much time you are spending<br />

on it. Most phones can record your<br />

screen time <strong>and</strong> checking it might give<br />

you the wake up call you need.<br />

Schedule posts<br />

Getting away from social media can be difficult if you use it for work but<br />

one great way of detaching yourself from it is to schedule your content.<br />

You can find plenty of great scheduling software that can help. Set aside<br />

a few hours at the start of each month <strong>and</strong> schedule your posts so that<br />

you are a few weeks ahead of yourself. That way, you can simply turn<br />

your social media platforms off while it takes care of itself.<br />

If you use social media to interact with your customers, this can be<br />

trickier but if you can stay focused, you can give yourself time to step<br />

away from the constant dem<strong>and</strong>s<br />

that social media puts on you.<br />

Allocate certain times of the day<br />

to catch up on your interactions or<br />

bookings <strong>and</strong> stick to them. Turn<br />

off your notifications <strong>and</strong> don't<br />

feel tempted to react to them in<br />

real-time. If something is of utmost<br />

importance, it's likely that you'll be<br />

contacted the traditional way - by<br />

telephone!<br />

Get a new hobby<br />

Detoxing social media will mean that you'll have a lot more time on your<br />

h<strong>and</strong>s for something more rewarding than looking at other people's latest<br />

meals or nights out.<br />

Getting a new hobby can not only<br />

provide you with more meaningful<br />

activity, it can also improve your<br />

confidence or even help you start a<br />

new business. Maybe try something<br />

that you've always fancied but never<br />

had time to devote to it. Your new<br />

hobby will also keep you busy <strong>and</strong><br />

distracted from your social media<br />

cravings.<br />

Fill your diary<br />

One of the great ways to beat<br />

social media interaction is to do<br />

the interaction out in the real<br />

world.<br />

Grab your diary <strong>and</strong> plan to<br />

meet up with friends <strong>and</strong> family.<br />

Keeping up with them in person<br />

can help forge stronger bonds<br />

<strong>and</strong> also create new memories.<br />

And don't be tempted to<br />

spend the entire time with<br />

them taking selfies either.<br />

Savour the moments for what<br />

they are <strong>and</strong> enjoy them in the<br />

moment.<br />

Reward yourself<br />

Limiting yourself to internet <strong>and</strong>/<br />

or social media can be tough but<br />

by promising yourself a reward<br />

will keep you incentivesed.<br />

Giving yourself a little pat<br />

on the back when you reach<br />

your targets can help you stay<br />

focused. It will also help train<br />

your mind to stick to your plan, a<br />

skill that can help in other areas<br />

of your life. Make your reward<br />

appropriate to the restraint that<br />

you've put in <strong>and</strong> it'll give you<br />

something to work towards.<br />

Even if you reward is going back<br />

on social media, that's no bad<br />

thing in itself.<br />

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10th September 1896<br />

CARDIFF NATURALISTS HOLD THE<br />

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The third field day of the Cardiff<br />

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considered to be one of the best<br />

32<br />

The National Library of Wales has digitalised millions of Welsh newspaper<br />

articles <strong>and</strong> pages. Derek Elliott pulls out some interesting local stories<br />

years for the vines there.<br />

South Wales Daily News<br />

9th July 1898<br />

WHITCHURCH BAZAAR<br />

A very successful two days'<br />

bazaar was held on Wednesday<br />

<strong>and</strong> Thursday at Tyn-y-Parc,<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong>, by kind permission of<br />

Herbert Cory, towards extinguishing<br />

the debt on the new Wesleyan<br />

Chapel at <strong>Whitchurch</strong>. The bazaar<br />

was opened on the first day by Mr<br />

Tregarthen Dunn, Fairfield, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff,<br />

<strong>and</strong> on the second day by Mr G. H.<br />

Wills, of Rhubina. The <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />

Brass B<strong>and</strong> was also in attendance<br />

on both days.<br />

The Cardiff Times<br />

15th November 1902<br />

A MIDNIGHT INCIDENT:<br />

WHITCHURCH FARMER AND WIFE<br />

At the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Police Court on<br />

Monday, John Carey Phillips of<br />

Pantmawr Farm, <strong>Whitchurch</strong>,<br />

summoned Edward Fuge, a smartlooking<br />

young man, living at the<br />

farm, for threats. Considerable<br />

interest was take in the<br />

proceedings, the parties being well<br />

known locally. Mr Harold M. Lloyd<br />

defended. When the complainant<br />

was about to give evidence, Mr<br />

Harold Lloyd rose, <strong>and</strong>, addressing<br />

their Worships, asked whether<br />

he would be allowed to ask the<br />

complainant whether it was still in<br />

his interests to proceed.<br />

There were a great many<br />

unpleasant incidents in connection<br />

with the case, <strong>and</strong> he thought<br />

it would be better <strong>and</strong> wiser for<br />

complainant if he withdrew. This<br />

the complainant refused to do, <strong>and</strong><br />

the case proceeded.<br />

The complainant in his evidence<br />

stated that he was the joint<br />

occupier with his wife of the<br />

Pantmawr Farm, <strong>Whitchurch</strong>. The<br />

defendant was engaged by his wife<br />

as a man servant. On 30th October<br />

last, he retired to bed at about<br />

10 o'clock <strong>and</strong> about 12 o'clock,<br />

he heard a loud knocking on his<br />

bedroom door. The defendant <strong>and</strong><br />

his (complainant's) wife kicked the<br />

door, broke the panels, rushed into<br />

the room, <strong>and</strong> threatened to "do" for<br />

him.<br />

He rushed to the window <strong>and</strong> in<br />

his night apparel, jumped to the<br />

ground 14 feet below, <strong>and</strong> went<br />

to a neighbour's house, where he<br />

got the loan of some clothes. He<br />

then went to the police station, <strong>and</strong><br />

a police sergeant returned to the<br />

house with him. The defendant was<br />

then in bed. The defendant's room<br />

was broken into, <strong>and</strong> the defendant<br />

was ejected. Before the defendant<br />

left, he again threatened him in the<br />

presence of the police sergeant. He<br />

had often seen the defendant in his<br />

wife's bedroom. On one occasion,<br />

the men in the hayfield saw the<br />

defendant doing his wife's hair.<br />

In cross-examination by Mr Harold<br />

Lloyd, complainant admitted that<br />

he had some drink at Carey's <strong>and</strong> at<br />

the HollyBush before going home.<br />

He may have been drunk about<br />

20 times this year, but he was not<br />

drunk on this occasion. He denied<br />

that it was only his wife that was at<br />

the door threatening him. He also<br />

denied that he had engaged the<br />

defendant at 8s per week. Both the


defendant <strong>and</strong> his wife were under<br />

the influence of drink.<br />

Mr Harold Lloyd: With reference<br />

to the defendant being in your<br />

wife's bedroom. When do you say<br />

this happened? - I saw him in the<br />

bedroom with her in June last year.<br />

I also saw him on one occasion<br />

doing up her hair.<br />

Mr Harold Lloyd: Do you mean to<br />

tell the Worships that having seen<br />

this in June last, you allowed this<br />

man to stay on during the whole of<br />

this time? - Yes.<br />

Mr Lloyd: Didn't you think it your<br />

duty to thrash him <strong>and</strong> kick him out,<br />

as any reasonable man would have<br />

done? - No. I am only joint occupier.<br />

Mr Lloyd: And that is the only<br />

reason you have?<br />

The complainant also stated that<br />

the defendant <strong>and</strong> his wife were<br />

constantly about together <strong>and</strong><br />

drinking together.<br />

The defendant, called on his<br />

own behalf, stated that he was<br />

employed by the complainant in<br />

May last at 8s per week. He denied<br />

that on the day in question he went<br />

to the complainant's door <strong>and</strong><br />

shout to him to open.<br />

The next thing he knew was that<br />

the complainant came back with<br />

a constable, <strong>and</strong> he was then<br />

turned out of the house. He was<br />

still living there, <strong>and</strong> had seen the<br />

complainant several times <strong>and</strong> had<br />

been on friendly terms with him.<br />

He denied ever having been in<br />

complainant's wife's bedroom, <strong>and</strong><br />

that this was the first he had heard<br />

of it. He also denied being under<br />

the influence of drink. He acted as<br />

a personal servant to Mr Phillips,<br />

who had been in ill health. There<br />

had been no improper relationship<br />

between him <strong>and</strong> his mistress,<br />

Mrs Phillips. Mr Phillips had never<br />

suggested that he should leave.<br />

He had frequently stopped the<br />

complainant whilst in drink from<br />

committing acts of violence on Mrs<br />

Phillips.<br />

Mrs Phillips, the wife of the<br />

complainant, was next called. She<br />

is of prepossessing appearance<br />

<strong>and</strong> smartly dressed. She stated<br />

that on the night of the 30th, she<br />

came in late <strong>and</strong> went to the<br />

complainant's bedroom to dem<strong>and</strong><br />

an explanation of something<br />

she had heard in the village. The<br />

complainant would not open the<br />

door, <strong>and</strong> she kicked the panel in.<br />

The defendant was not there. She<br />

had never misconducted herself<br />

with the defendant, <strong>and</strong> he had<br />

never been in her bedroom. It was<br />

an abominable falsehood for the<br />

complainant to say that he had.<br />

Her husb<strong>and</strong> had on<br />

numerous occasions<br />

committed acts of<br />

violence on her. He had<br />

struck her, thrown a<br />

lamp at her, <strong>and</strong> bruised<br />

her. She was not under<br />

the influence of drink on<br />

the night in question.<br />

The Bench bound the<br />

defendant over to the<br />

sum of £10 to keep the<br />

peace for six months.<br />

The Cardiff Times<br />

25th January 1873<br />

A PUBLIC NUISANCE<br />

At the Petty Sessions,<br />

held on Monday,<br />

before Mr G. Phillips,<br />

Mr F. C. Vaehell, Mr<br />

T. W. Booker, <strong>and</strong><br />

Mr G. C. Williams,<br />

William Llewellyn was<br />

summoned, at the<br />

instance of Inspector<br />

Thorney, for keeping<br />

a pigsty close to the<br />

highway at the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Yard, which<br />

was a public nuisance because of<br />

the stench.<br />

The defendant was ordered to<br />

pay 6s. 6d. costs, <strong>and</strong> the case<br />

was rem<strong>and</strong>ed for a fortnight, in<br />

order to give him time to remove<br />

the nuisance. Defendant was also<br />

summoned for allowing a pig to<br />

stray on the 8th Dec. last. The case<br />

was, however, dismissed.<br />

ANOTHER NUISANCE—Mr R.E.W.<br />

Lewis was summoned by Inspector<br />

Thorney for permitting a nuisance<br />

upon his premises.<br />

The defendant denied the<br />

nuisance he was charged with.<br />

The Bench said what he was<br />

charged with was keeping a privy<br />

in a dilapidated state. Inspector<br />

Thorney said that there was<br />

an offence smell also arising<br />

therefrom. Defendant said he<br />

would not acknowledge the<br />

existence of a nuisance.<br />

Police-sergeant Roberts<br />

corroborated the evidence for the<br />

prosecution. The defendant was<br />

then ordered to pay the costs of the<br />

case, <strong>and</strong> was allowed a fortnight to<br />

abate the nuisance. The defendant<br />

declared that he would not pay the<br />

costs, <strong>and</strong> left the court.<br />

OPENING DURING ILLEGAL<br />

HOURS—Henry Andrews, l<strong>and</strong>lord<br />

of the Insole Arms, was charged<br />

with keeping his house open after<br />

hours. Sarah Andrews, a witness for<br />

the defence, stated that the person<br />

history<br />

who was in the house drinking was<br />

a friend, <strong>and</strong> that they were merely<br />

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Inspector Thorney deposed that<br />

at ten minutes past twelve on the<br />

morning of the 5th, in company of<br />

Sergeant John, he was passing by<br />

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sounds of voices, <strong>and</strong> afterwards<br />

saw the l<strong>and</strong>lord <strong>and</strong> his brother<br />

bring a man named William Deane<br />

out of the house.<br />

The Inspector then went into<br />

the house. The man mentioned<br />

(William Deare) was quite drunk,<br />

<strong>and</strong> supported by the l<strong>and</strong>lord.<br />

Witness was cross examined by Mr<br />

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elicited on behalf of the defence.<br />

Sergeant John corroborated the<br />

Inspector's statement in a great<br />

measure, but said he could not<br />

say positively that the man really<br />

required or was supported by the<br />

l<strong>and</strong>lord or his brother, although<br />

there was no doubt but that he was<br />

drunk.<br />

Mr Blelloch denied the allegation<br />

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drunk, <strong>and</strong> said that he had met<br />

with an accident some time ago,<br />

<strong>and</strong> in consequence had walked<br />

lamely since, <strong>and</strong> this had given<br />

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Police inspector that the man was<br />

drunk <strong>and</strong> staggering. The Bench,<br />

after hearing the various evidence,<br />

cautioned the defendant <strong>and</strong><br />

dismissed the case. William Deane,<br />

the man stated to have been upon<br />

the premises drunk, was then also<br />

dismissed.<br />

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We have a young bitch <strong>and</strong><br />

somewhere along the line, it’s<br />

likely that she’ll have her own<br />

litter. I have no idea what to do<br />

when this happens – we don’t<br />

take her to the vets to give<br />

birth like we humans do with<br />

hospitals do we? Is there any<br />

guidance you can give us if she<br />

has her pups at home?<br />

Reading between the lines, I<br />

gather that your bitch is not a<br />

pedigree dog that you plan to<br />

breed. If she is, you need to find<br />

a professional stud dog for her,<br />

<strong>and</strong> his owner will no doubt be<br />

able to give you plenty of advice,<br />

<strong>and</strong> of course, so will your vet.<br />

If you are not intending a<br />

deliberate mating but are<br />

preparing to ‘let nature take<br />

its course’, I would beg you to<br />

think again! Where will you find<br />

homes for the puppies? You<br />

may have friends <strong>and</strong> relatives<br />

who say they would love one<br />

of her puppies because she’s<br />

so lovely, but you might have<br />

9 or 10 puppies for whom<br />

you need homes. The dogs’<br />

homes are overflowing with<br />

unwanted dogs. Most of them<br />

are mongrels who started life as<br />

cute puppies but their owners<br />

lost interest as they grew up<br />

or got too big. I’m sure you<br />

wouldn’t wish this fate on your<br />

puppies, but you just can’t tell<br />

what will happen.<br />

There is an old wives’ tale that<br />

says having a litter of puppies<br />

is good for the dog, but there<br />

is absolutely no truth in this<br />

belief. In addition, pregnancy<br />

<strong>and</strong> giving birth carries risks for<br />

your dog - she might need a<br />

caesarean or other intervention<br />

from the vet. This is both costly<br />

for you <strong>and</strong> painful for her.<br />

Please take my advice – get<br />

your bitch spayed so that you<br />

don’t add to the problem of<br />

unwanted stray dogs, <strong>and</strong> you<br />

keep her safe.<br />

Quite often, my dog will suffer a<br />

bad stomach. I think it could be<br />

something he eats when he’s<br />

out walking (he eats all manner<br />

of things!) but sometimes,<br />

that isn’t the case. Some of<br />

the smells coming from his<br />

backside are horrendous but<br />

it does settle down after a few<br />

days. Is there anything we can<br />

do to shorten the length of time<br />

he has these bouts for, <strong>and</strong> do<br />

we need to worry about any<br />

long-term conditions?<br />

Dogs are naturally scavengers<br />

<strong>and</strong> will eat anything they come<br />

across, no matter how rotten<br />

or dirty – in fact, the smellier<br />

the better! As a result, they<br />

frequently get stomach upsets,<br />

with symptoms of sickness<br />

<strong>and</strong>/or diarrhoea, which usually<br />

resolve in a few days, with or<br />

without medical intervention.<br />

Some dogs seem much<br />

more prone to this problem,<br />

<strong>and</strong> this may be because they<br />

scavenge more, or it may be<br />

that their digestive system is<br />

less robust than other dogs.<br />

You say that sometimes your<br />

dog gets problems when he<br />

hasn’t eaten anything – but, he<br />

could have found <strong>and</strong> quickly<br />

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got home.<br />

When your dog has an attack,<br />

the first thing you need to do<br />

is to give his digestive system<br />

a rest. Withhold food for 12-24<br />

hours, then give him small meals<br />

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We are becoming increasingly<br />

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The Season of Spring is a time for rebirth <strong>and</strong> reawakening. Kevin Revell<br />

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Spring seems to be the longest of<br />

the seasons, stretching from the<br />

uncertain flowering of the first bulbs<br />

to the first rose of summer.<br />

Winter flowers don’t count<br />

– spring is at h<strong>and</strong> when the<br />

snowdrops fade, not when their<br />

buds emerge tentatively through<br />

residual snow; nor the mini crepe<br />

paper streamer-like flowers of<br />

winter-flowering witch hazel or<br />

Hamamellis. Other shrubs such<br />

as the bright yellow flowers of<br />

Forsythia or the shocking pink of<br />

the flowering currant or Ribes are<br />

more reliable indicators of spring.<br />

The procession of bulb flowers<br />

from early crocus, dwarf iris <strong>and</strong><br />

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compact Narcissus ‘Tete a Tete’ or<br />

‘February Gold’ are soon caught<br />

up by a fanfare of golden trumpets<br />

from ‘proper’ tall daffodils such as<br />

‘Dutch Master’ <strong>and</strong> ‘King Arthur’.<br />

Finally, there's the onset of the<br />

tulip season, from the huge yellow<br />

goblets of Dutch hybrids like<br />

‘Golden Apeldoorn' to the dark <strong>and</strong><br />

mysterious purple ‘Queen of the<br />

Night’.<br />

The large forms of trees broadcast<br />

the arrival of spring; the tactile,<br />

fluffy white catkins of pussy willow,<br />

usually grown in the more compact<br />

form of weeping Kilmarnock<br />

willow, are a seasonal treat when<br />

the golden anthers emerge.<br />

Magnolias are<br />

the real harbinger<br />

of spring; downy<br />

winter buds begin<br />

to split in March,<br />

revealing pale pink<br />

petticoats beneath.<br />

Furry sepals are<br />

discarded like<br />

an unwanted<br />

winter coat as the<br />

exp<strong>and</strong>ing petals<br />

bloom in the<br />

warming spring<br />

air. They open out into surprisingly<br />

large chalices which while not<br />

fragrant in the normal sense, have a<br />

strange, heavy musky scent which<br />

once noted, becomes a recognised<br />

indicator of spring. A magnolia in full<br />

sail is an impressive sight. The usual<br />

colour is somewhere between<br />

blush <strong>and</strong> flesh pink with a central<br />

stain of deep pink on each petal.<br />

An extraordinary transformation<br />

occurs in early February when<br />

previously unremarkable trees<br />

reveal themselves to be the<br />

ornamental plum, Prunus<br />

ceracifera, as pale lavender-pink<br />

blossom billows across suburbia.<br />

There is no going back now - spring<br />

is truly sprung.<br />

Ornamental cherry blossom soon<br />

follows; Prunus ‘Okame’ is among<br />

the first, shortly followed by a<br />

plethora of Japanese hybrids such<br />

as the bright pink Prunus ‘Kanzan’<br />

or the Great White Cherry, Prunus<br />

‘Tai Haku’. For a few weeks, Britain’s<br />

parks <strong>and</strong> gardens resemble<br />

those of some Eastern paradise,<br />

westerly gales <strong>and</strong> April showers<br />

notwithst<strong>and</strong>ing. Next comes<br />

pretty, fragrant crab apple blossom<br />

before the darker pink ornamental


gardens<br />

hawthorn <strong>and</strong> finally laburnum as<br />

spring slides imperceptibly into<br />

summer.<br />

North Cardiff is fortunate in having<br />

many roads with substantial front<br />

gardens which lend amenity to the<br />

whole area when properly cared<br />

for. We owe a debt of gratitude<br />

to previous owners who had the<br />

foresight to plant a selection of<br />

trees <strong>and</strong> shrubs which chart the<br />

passage of spring. In an ideal world,<br />

any one garden would contain<br />

a number of these components<br />

but realistically, each will only<br />

contain one or two trees, which<br />

make it worthwhile borrowing<br />

the l<strong>and</strong>scape of a neighbouring<br />

garden <strong>and</strong> planting different trees<br />

to complement them, extending the<br />

season of interest.<br />

Fruit trees are another reliable<br />

gauge of the arrival of spring in the<br />

garden with star-spangled white<br />

plum trees, shortly followed by<br />

pears <strong>and</strong> finally, pink buds opening<br />

to pure white of apple blossom.<br />

These light up the garden before<br />

scattering their floral confetti<br />

around the garden.<br />

The longer daylength <strong>and</strong><br />

warming soil sees the first stirrings<br />

of herbaceous perennials which<br />

have lain dormant as roots <strong>and</strong><br />

storage organs below ground<br />

throughout winter. From the blanket<br />

of fallen decomposing leaves,<br />

shoots of early plants are now<br />

emerging, such as the delicate<br />

Dicentra spectablis better known<br />

as Bleeding heart. Pulmonarias<br />

or Lungwort are another group of<br />

early flowering plants; short sprays<br />

of pendulous tubular flowers much<br />

loved by bees emerge from clumps<br />

of foliage in shades of blue, mauve,<br />

pink or white.<br />

Once the flowers have faded, a<br />

fresh flush of blotched, spotted<br />

leaves emerge which, in times past,<br />

were regarded as being similar<br />

in appearance to the surface<br />

of ulcerated lungs, hence the<br />

common name of lungwort. The<br />

pink-flowered ‘Raspberry Splash’<br />

<strong>and</strong> the patriotically named ‘Blue<br />

Ensign’ are among the more<br />

popular varieties. The perennial<br />

wallflower, Erysimum ‘Bowles<br />

Mauve’ is another plant that will<br />

bloom all year in a sheltered spot<br />

given half a chance but is perhaps<br />

most noticeable in early spring.<br />

The bright yellow Erysimum<br />

‘Fragrant Sunshine’ benefits from<br />

sweetly smelling flowers <strong>and</strong><br />

many other red or multi-coloured<br />

forms are now becoming popular.<br />

Of course, if you had the foresight<br />

to obtain biennial wallflowers in<br />

autumn, you will now be seeing<br />

the benefit as masses of fragrant<br />

flowers are produced on tall plants<br />

in early spring. It’s not all about<br />

flowers at this time of year <strong>and</strong><br />

much pleasure is to be gained<br />

from seeing the emergent growth<br />

of herbaceous perennials greeting<br />

the new growing season with great<br />

vigour.<br />

Unfurling fern croziers emerge<br />

from unlikely shady places, taking<br />

their place in the weak sunshine<br />

before they are shaded out by the<br />

developing canopy of overhanging<br />

trees.<br />

Time spent in the garden in early<br />

spring is precious as the jobs that<br />

used to be done in autumn such as<br />

cutting back <strong>and</strong> clearing leaves<br />

can be completed now, having<br />

given shelter to wildlife throughout<br />

the winter. Missed pruning<br />

opportunities will soon be regretted<br />

as the weather improves <strong>and</strong> plants<br />

burst into life once more, whether<br />

we are ready for it or not.<br />

Day by day, the garden changes<br />

as leaves unfurl, hesitantly at<br />

first but soon with an urgency<br />

that is hard to contain as shoots<br />

race up <strong>and</strong> flowers erupt into an<br />

abundance of colour. Even if growth<br />

has begun on plants such as roses,<br />

it is still best to cut them hard back<br />

to encourage healthy new growth,<br />

which will flower more strongly later<br />

in the year.<br />

Some days must be ab<strong>and</strong>oned<br />

due to bad weather but get<br />

wrapped up <strong>and</strong> get out on the<br />

increasingly bright dry days which<br />

can be celebrated, although still<br />

sometimes on the cold side.<br />

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Written in 1988, Ernest Broad recalls an imaginary walk through his<br />

childhood <strong>Whitchurch</strong>. This first part of his journey takes us from Violet<br />

Place, through <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Common <strong>and</strong> up to Bishop's Road<br />

Violet Place is where I once lived,<br />

prior to the 1939-1945 War. This<br />

street was badly hit by the bombs<br />

of German aircraft with fatal<br />

casualties. It may be of interest to<br />

know the reason that I left Violet<br />

Place was that the rent of the<br />

house was fourteen shillings a<br />

week. I think that explains it.<br />

At the corner of Wauntreoda Road<br />

was a butcher’s shop. The house<br />

next door was used for the register<br />

of births <strong>and</strong> deaths. Opposite, on<br />

the corner of Birchgrove Road, was<br />

the house where Richard Lougher,<br />

the village blacksmith lived. He <strong>and</strong><br />

his wife walked to St Mary’s Church<br />

every Sunday morning, both always<br />

wearing black with Mr Lougher in a<br />

top hat.<br />

On the opposite corner was a<br />

bakery run by Mr Keeping, noted<br />

for his good baking. Further along<br />

was a newsagent shop run by a Mr<br />

Loveluck Jenkins.<br />

Nearing the common, we come to<br />

Flays Farm where they kept shire<br />

horses to pull the big dust carts<br />

for the refuse of the village. At the<br />

beginning of the Common on the<br />

left was Rosedene, the only house<br />

at that time on that side.<br />

On the right was Ealing Dean<br />

where lived Mr Eli Rees, whose<br />

son built most of the Greenclose<br />

Estate. On the other side stood the<br />

Three Elms public house, the name<br />

of which was taken from three<br />

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Part One<br />

elm trees which stood outside the<br />

Ararat church wall.<br />

Between the Three Elms <strong>and</strong> the<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> brook, the Blacksmith’s<br />

shop of Mr Lougher stood, at the<br />

side of which was an opening to<br />

the brook. Within here was an iron<br />

plate, used to fit the iron b<strong>and</strong>s on<br />

cart wheels as required. At one<br />

time, the Baptist minister used to<br />

use this opening to baptise his flock<br />

in the brook.<br />

Over the College Road bridge <strong>and</strong><br />

alongside the brook, was Isl<strong>and</strong><br />

Cottage Private School, where<br />

people who could afford it, sent<br />

their children. This was run by a<br />

very able schoolmistress called<br />

Miss Evans. Isl<strong>and</strong> Cottage was so<br />

called because the brook ran both<br />

sides of it, fed by a watercourse at<br />

the top of a one time waterfall. This<br />

same watercourse ran down to the<br />

Little Mill, driving the wheel of the<br />

mill.<br />

At the back of Isl<strong>and</strong> Cottage was<br />

a 14-acre field called the Polo Field<br />

where polo was played. There was<br />

a pavilion where refreshments<br />

were provided to the polo players.<br />

Where the Funeral Home house<br />

st<strong>and</strong>s was the house where Mr<br />

Jones, who cared for the stables of<br />

polo ponies, lived. At the back of<br />

the stables, there were cow sheds<br />

which housed cows belonging to<br />

Mr Fred Hale, a local farmer.<br />

To digress, Miss Evans the<br />

schoolmistress had two bachelor<br />

brothers who lived with her. One<br />

was going grey of hair so he dyed<br />

it black. Something was wrong with<br />

Delivery van at Jupps Confectionery, Brook Road, <strong>Whitchurch</strong>


the dye because it turned out olive<br />

green <strong>and</strong> was like it for years.<br />

On the left-h<strong>and</strong> bank of the<br />

<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Brook was the old<br />

sweet factory. It was first started by<br />

the Jupp family who took the name<br />

of Cecil Sweets Ltd. At first, it was<br />

an old army hut erected in the lane<br />

behind Brook Road. They sold the<br />

sweets they made there to all the<br />

children in the village.<br />

Later, another factory was built<br />

by Edwin Williams, <strong>and</strong> the firm<br />

exp<strong>and</strong>ed their sales to the<br />

Rhondda <strong>and</strong> Wye valleys.<br />

Down the lane across the road,<br />

alongside the brook, was the<br />

workshop <strong>and</strong> yard of Edwin<br />

Williams <strong>and</strong> Son, a builder of no<br />

mean repute. His works include<br />

Tabernacle Chapel, two houses on<br />

Brook Road <strong>and</strong> four houses on<br />

Merthyr Road. He also built a row of<br />

houses in Gl<strong>and</strong>wr Place, which is<br />

at right angles to Merthyr Road.<br />

His biggest job was the mansion<br />

called Coryton, once used by<br />

the Post Office. It was built for Sir<br />

Herbert Cory, who lived there for<br />

many years.<br />

Another two of his major jobs<br />

were the Parish Council offices in<br />

Bishop's Road <strong>and</strong> the Old Police<br />

Station in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff City. Part of<br />

Church Road was also built by him.<br />

It was the firm I was apprenticed<br />

to, which was to my advantage to<br />

learn a good trade. Incidentally,<br />

Tabernacle Chapel had one of<br />

the first suspended ceilings ever<br />

installed, the whole of the ceiling<br />

consisting of two inch by one inch<br />

wooden battens.<br />

Next but one to the Merthyr Road<br />

premises of Mr Williams was the<br />

farm house mentioned before.<br />

There was a dairy at the rear with<br />

stables for the milk cart which<br />

was driven by Isabelle, Fred Hale's<br />

daughter who ran the farm. This<br />

Lower end of Merthyr Road at the turn of the century<br />

house was later converted into two<br />

shops. Further up the road on the<br />

left was a lane leading to a large<br />

yard owned by Fred Hale. In the<br />

yard was a large open barn, used<br />

to stack hay <strong>and</strong> corn. There were<br />

also large stables with farm horses<br />

used for ploughing etc. This is now<br />

Bl<strong>and</strong>on Way.<br />

Approaching Bishop's Road on the<br />

opposite side was the Post Office.<br />

The second hospital evacuation unit of the United States Army<br />

presents <strong>Whitchurch</strong> with an avenue of trees in gratitude for the<br />

hospitality given to them during World War II.<br />

This was a farm run by Mr Tom<br />

Samuel, whose cows used to cross<br />

the road into Bishop's Road <strong>and</strong> on<br />

the right-h<strong>and</strong> side were the fields<br />

where they would graze. Another<br />

grazing ground were the fields at<br />

the back of the farm where the<br />

school now st<strong>and</strong>s.<br />

The shop where Seconds used<br />

to be, was a grocer’s shop kept by<br />

Mr Richard Day, which also had a<br />

bake house at the rear. In the lane<br />

at the back of this were several<br />

large sheds where there was a<br />

taxi service with one taxi, a Ford,<br />

with the number B.O.500. This<br />

was plied by Mr Stockford. In one<br />

of the sheds was a hansom cab<br />

which was also for hire. This was<br />

feature history<br />

driven by Mr William Hill, who also<br />

ran a haulage business. I recall an<br />

amusing incident related to this.<br />

Mr Williams the builder hired Mr<br />

Hill to haul some heavy timbers to<br />

Radyr Electrical sub-station. The<br />

timbers were required to make a<br />

gantry to lower a transformer into<br />

the sub-station.<br />

Mr Hill had a large white mule<br />

to pull the cart which was flat<br />

bottomed. On seeing the heavy<br />

load, Mr Hill hired a gypsy’s horse<br />

from where they were camping on<br />

the Common. The gypsy insisted<br />

on going as well.<br />

They started out from Merthyr<br />

Road <strong>and</strong> myself <strong>and</strong> a labourer<br />

went on our cycles by a short cut<br />

over the river bridge. On arriving,<br />

we expected a quarter of an hour<br />

wait, but this wait lasted much<br />

longer. Mr Williams turned up <strong>and</strong><br />

asked where Mr Hill was. We didn’t<br />

know, so he asked me to go on my<br />

cycle <strong>and</strong> see if I could find him.<br />

I found him at the bottom of the<br />

steep hill into Radyr. On enquiring,<br />

what was wrong, Mr Hill said they<br />

couldn’t pull the load up the hill.<br />

So, I suggested he unload half<br />

it <strong>and</strong> then come back for it. He<br />

said he would have another try by<br />

galloping along the flat before the<br />

hill.<br />

Now the gypsy’s horse was<br />

harnessed in front of the white<br />

mule so they started off. Halfway<br />

up the hill, the front horse stopped<br />

<strong>and</strong> the mule l<strong>and</strong>ed on top of him,<br />

whereupon Mr Hill <strong>and</strong> the gypsy<br />

came to blows. When all this fuss<br />

had calmed down, they decided to<br />

unload half the timbers <strong>and</strong> return<br />

for them. Upon eventually arriving<br />

at the sub-station, Mr Hill asked<br />

me to loan him tuppence for a<br />

packet of cigarettes as he only had<br />

sovereigns in a pouch. I don’t think<br />

Mr Williams made a lot of profit out<br />

of that job.<br />

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The Burger<br />

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tomatoes, including the liquid, <strong>and</strong><br />

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2 tbsp hemp seeds (optional)<br />

2 tbsp unhulled sesame seeds<br />

3 cloves garlic<br />

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h<strong>and</strong>ful fresh cori<strong>and</strong>er<br />

1/2 small red onion, chopped<br />

1 tsp ground cumin<br />

1/2 tsp sea salt<br />

1/4 tsp black pepper<br />

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avocado on<br />

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1 avocado<br />

juice of one lemon<br />

h<strong>and</strong>ful of basil leaves<br />

two slices of bread<br />

salt <strong>and</strong> pepper to taste<br />

☐ Wash the basil leaves <strong>and</strong> pat<br />

dry with kitchen towel.<br />

☐ Slice open the avocado <strong>and</strong><br />

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☐ Toast two slices of bread in a<br />

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Add to the toast when ready.<br />

☐ Season with salt <strong>and</strong> pepper to<br />

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on the top.<br />

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