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The Spring 2020 issue of Whitchurch and Llandaff Living.
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<strong>Whitchurch</strong> &<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>Living</strong><br />
At the heart of the community <strong>Issue</strong> <strong>57</strong> Mar/Apr '20<br />
Your multi award-winning community magazine
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Inside this issue<br />
Interview<br />
LGBT activist <strong>and</strong><br />
chart-topping<br />
podcaster Scott<br />
McGlynn explains<br />
how he spreads<br />
his message of<br />
love <strong>and</strong> positivity<br />
Self Love Ideas<br />
Creative ways to<br />
accept who you<br />
are <strong>and</strong> to find<br />
inner happiness<br />
Competitions<br />
Win tickets to<br />
the RHS Flower<br />
Cardiff <strong>and</strong> a<br />
chance to see<br />
Madama Butterfly<br />
at St Davids Hall<br />
End to End<br />
One man's<br />
recollections of<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> -<br />
from the Philog<br />
to Bishop's Road<br />
from times gone<br />
by<br />
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Welcome / Croeso<br />
Spring has finally arrived <strong>and</strong><br />
we welcome warmer weather<br />
with our first publication of the<br />
year.<br />
We've given this issue a<br />
theme of self-love - a regard<br />
for one's happiness. In our busy<br />
lives, many of us put ourselves<br />
last, resulting in burnout <strong>and</strong><br />
illness. We've packed lots<br />
around this theme into the<br />
magazine to help inspire you to<br />
take positive steps towards your<br />
own wellbeing.<br />
Childhood is perhaps where<br />
we forge our adult persona <strong>and</strong><br />
it's important that we equip<br />
our future generations with the<br />
emotional resilience to deal with<br />
the lives that they have ahead<br />
of them. We have a feature<br />
designed to help foster a sense<br />
of positivity in our children.<br />
Linked to this topic is our<br />
interview with LGBT activist<br />
Scott McGlynn. Scott had<br />
to endure years of bullying<br />
growing up in Cardiff because<br />
of his sexuality, but he's now<br />
helping to inspire others with his<br />
work.<br />
And if you're looking for<br />
another way to help enhance<br />
your own inner happiness, we've<br />
put together a few ideas to help<br />
you accomplish a social media<br />
detox.<br />
We've got two great history<br />
features this issue. The first<br />
was penned by Ernest Broad<br />
<strong>and</strong> describes an imaginary<br />
walk through his childhood in<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong>. Ernie recalls some<br />
of the sights <strong>and</strong> sounds you<br />
would have experienced had<br />
you walked through the village<br />
back in the 1930s <strong>and</strong> 40s.<br />
Our second history feature<br />
takes a peek at some<br />
wonderfully old newspaper<br />
cuttings. The National Library of<br />
What’s on<br />
Easter Egg Hunt<br />
Wednesday 8th April 11am<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library Park<br />
Join AWEN's egg hunt through the<br />
park - how many eggs will you find?<br />
Cardiff 5k<br />
Saturday 9th May 7pm<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Village<br />
The annual running of the Cardiff 5K<br />
in <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Village<br />
Wales has digitised thous<strong>and</strong>s<br />
of newspapers from the last<br />
century <strong>and</strong> Derek Elliott has<br />
h<strong>and</strong>-picked some stories that<br />
will raise a few eyebrows.<br />
Shed of the Year is a<br />
competition you may have seen<br />
on TV but its roots started right<br />
here in Cardiff. We spoke to the<br />
contest's creator <strong>and</strong> organiser<br />
Andrew Wilcox, who gives us all<br />
the behind-the-scenes stories.<br />
We've got two fantastic<br />
competitions for you in this<br />
issue. You can win tickets to this<br />
year's RHS Flower Show Cardiff<br />
<strong>and</strong> there's also the chance<br />
to see Madama Butterfly at St<br />
David's Hall.<br />
And finally, with veganism<br />
hitting the mainstream, we<br />
showcase some gorgeous<br />
plant-based recipes that will<br />
make your taste buds dance.<br />
Once again, we'd like to thank<br />
our wonderful advertisers who<br />
put their trust in us to promote<br />
them. We'd encourage you to<br />
use their services, especially<br />
during these challenging times.<br />
Look after yourself <strong>and</strong> we'll<br />
see you in early summer!<br />
Danielle <strong>and</strong> Patric<br />
Editors<br />
@<strong>Whitchurch</strong><strong>and</strong>Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<strong>Living</strong><br />
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whitchurch<strong>and</strong>ll<strong>and</strong>affliving<br />
Children's Plant Potting<br />
Thursday 28th May<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Library<br />
Bring your children to pot bedding<br />
plants. Small charge applies<br />
Vintage for Victory<br />
10/11/12th July<br />
Library Gardens, <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
Annual vintage festival, celebrating<br />
the best of the 1940s, 50s <strong>and</strong> 60s
Congestion<br />
charge planned<br />
for city revamp<br />
A £2 congestion charge for drivers<br />
in Cardiff is one of the proposals of a<br />
£2bn, 10-year transport plan.<br />
Cardiff Council aims to charge<br />
non-residents with the charge in<br />
a bid to hit green targets <strong>and</strong> cut<br />
congestion. Recent research has<br />
shown that air quality in the city is<br />
among the UK's worst.<br />
The charge could come into force<br />
by 2024. The charging zone itself is<br />
currently under discussion. Other<br />
large cities across the UK are also<br />
considering similar plans.<br />
New park-<strong>and</strong>-ride facilities at<br />
junction 32 <strong>and</strong> junction 33 of<br />
the M4 motorway are also being<br />
mooted as part of the wider plan,<br />
which will see a fully-integrated<br />
transport system in the city by 2028.<br />
The Council is hoping to provide<br />
more frequent <strong>and</strong> affordable public<br />
transport links to communities<br />
across the city.<br />
The Pound finally begins to take<br />
shape on Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's High Street<br />
Work is now well underway as<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff’s charity for older people<br />
is busy converting the derelict<br />
toilet block at the top of the High<br />
Street into The Pound. The venue<br />
will be a centre of activities <strong>and</strong><br />
volunteering for older people, a<br />
heritage information centre, <strong>and</strong> an<br />
accessible toilet.<br />
The building is being given by<br />
Cardiff Council as a Community<br />
Asset Transfer on a 99 year lease,<br />
<strong>and</strong> the Welsh Government has<br />
funded the capital costs with a<br />
grant of £250,000. The building <strong>and</strong><br />
surrounding courtyard has been<br />
known locally as the Pound as it<br />
housed a medieval animal pound<br />
<strong>and</strong>, during a recent community<br />
archaeological dig, a high status<br />
medieval hall house was discovered<br />
beneath its foundations.<br />
During the dig, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff welcomed<br />
14 volunteer diggers, 200 local<br />
schoolchildren <strong>and</strong> 1,000 visitors<br />
over six weeks. However, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
50+ intends to represent the past,<br />
the present <strong>and</strong> the future at<br />
The Pound as the building will<br />
incorporate: solar slates from<br />
local company GB Sol; rainwater<br />
harvesting; air source heat pump;<br />
<strong>and</strong> the latest eco-friendly<br />
products.<br />
Working with Carolyn Merrifield<br />
of Downs Merrifield Architects,<br />
<strong>and</strong> the Severn Wye Energy<br />
Agency, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ can achieve<br />
an ‘A’ energy rating <strong>and</strong> a near zero<br />
carbon footprint, <strong>and</strong> become<br />
an exemplar for retrofits in old<br />
buildings.<br />
The original 1930s building, <strong>and</strong><br />
later extensions will be fitted with<br />
the latest eco-friendly products<br />
suitable for a conservation area, <strong>and</strong><br />
the energy use will be monitored<br />
into the future. Seminars will also be<br />
held for local residents, architects<br />
<strong>and</strong> engineers to discover what<br />
works <strong>and</strong> what doesn’t.<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ will also continue<br />
working with local schools on<br />
sustainability which is now part of<br />
the national curriculum. An amazing<br />
fly-though of The Pound can be<br />
seen on www.downsmerrifield.com/<br />
pound<br />
The Pound is due to open in<br />
spring 2020 <strong>and</strong> will then provide<br />
accommodation for activities for<br />
older people to help alleviate<br />
loneliness <strong>and</strong> social isolation. It<br />
will also be a comfortable place for<br />
family carers to meet <strong>and</strong> socialise.<br />
The heritage information centre<br />
will be a focal point for visitors<br />
wishing to know the places to see<br />
in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> will be staffed by<br />
community volunteers. Working<br />
in association with the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
Society, information will be available<br />
on local history, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Cathedral,<br />
High Street traders <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+<br />
activities. And, of course, there’ll be<br />
an accessible toilet available again<br />
on the High Street.<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff 50+ is a registered charity<br />
to promote social inclusion among<br />
the over 50s in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff.<br />
news<br />
Cardiff Bus<br />
extends Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
route<br />
Cardiff Bus launched a new service<br />
to Goitre Fach <strong>and</strong> Rhydlafar at the<br />
end of January.<br />
The new service, which operates<br />
from Monday to Saturday,<br />
will enable people to travel<br />
between the city centre, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff,<br />
Danescourt, Goitre Fach <strong>and</strong><br />
Rhydlafar.<br />
Journeys from the city centre<br />
towards Rhydlafar Drive, will<br />
follow the same route as service<br />
63 via Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> Danescourt<br />
to the Llantrisant Road / Heol<br />
Isaf roundabout, continuing to<br />
Llantrisant Road serving the new<br />
housing estate, Goitre Fach, before<br />
continuing to Rhydlafar. Journeys<br />
towards the city centre will follow<br />
the reverse of this route.<br />
Operations <strong>and</strong> Commercial<br />
Director Gareth Stevens said:<br />
“We are delighted to have<br />
launched this new service, to<br />
extend our network to Goitre Fach<br />
<strong>and</strong> Rhydlafar.<br />
“The service will offer enhanced<br />
travel for people in both areas,<br />
providing access to the Cardiff Bus<br />
network <strong>and</strong> tickets.”<br />
Traders urge<br />
independent<br />
shops to move in<br />
Traders <strong>and</strong> residents in<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong>, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
North are urging small business<br />
<strong>and</strong> start-ups to move into empty<br />
premises in their main shopping<br />
areas.<br />
Many units in the local area are<br />
now sitting empty. Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's High<br />
Street has seen an exodus of shops<br />
following the closure of two main<br />
banks <strong>and</strong> there's been a similar<br />
story in <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
North.<br />
But residents insist they'd like to<br />
see more independent retailers in<br />
the local high streets.<br />
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news<br />
Process starts to<br />
find contractors<br />
to build new<br />
Velindre Cancer<br />
Centre<br />
Spate of Taff Trail robberies lead to<br />
criticism of police priorities<br />
The process has started to<br />
find contractors to build a<br />
new Velindre Cancer Centre<br />
providing specialist nonsurgical<br />
cancer services to<br />
people across South East<br />
Wales.<br />
Velindre University NHS<br />
Trust is looking for a<br />
consortium to design, build,<br />
finance <strong>and</strong> run the new<br />
cancer centre in <strong>Whitchurch</strong>.<br />
The Trust has published a<br />
formal notice to inform the<br />
market.<br />
The notice has been<br />
published after Velindre <strong>and</strong><br />
Asda worked together to<br />
create plans for an entrance<br />
to the centre, providing better<br />
traffic flow <strong>and</strong> easy<br />
access around the area.<br />
People will be able to enter<br />
or leave the new cancer<br />
centre via a new route.<br />
The full procurement<br />
process is expected to take<br />
two years. The contract is<br />
valued at £180 million.<br />
The new centre, based<br />
north of the old <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
Hospital in Cardiff, is due to<br />
open in 2024. It will have the<br />
capacity for 8,500 new<br />
patients <strong>and</strong> 160,000 patient<br />
appointments a year – up<br />
from the current levels by<br />
two thous<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> 20,000.<br />
Flasher alert<br />
Police have alerted parents<br />
after a man exposed himself<br />
to schoolchildren in February.<br />
The children were walking<br />
through Caedelyn Park when<br />
they were approached by<br />
a man described as white,<br />
around 6ft tall, of large build,<br />
with short black, messy hair.<br />
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Users of the popular Taff Trail have<br />
been warned by police after a<br />
series of late-night robberies.<br />
South Wales Police reported<br />
seven robberies between January<br />
17th <strong>and</strong> February 21st, <strong>and</strong> advised<br />
people to avoid the area at night<br />
while officers investigated.<br />
All seven robberies occurred on<br />
the trail between Sophia Gardens<br />
<strong>and</strong> the Tesco Extra on Western<br />
Avenue.<br />
Some users of the trail said that<br />
they were concerned that they<br />
hadn't received the information that<br />
the police made public. A number<br />
Clean-up after<br />
winter storms<br />
A large-scale clean-up operation<br />
took place in February, following<br />
a succession of winter storms that<br />
brought flooding to North Cardiff.<br />
More than one month’s worth of<br />
rain fell in Cardiff in just two days,<br />
leaving many areas of <strong>Whitchurch</strong>,<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North under<br />
water.<br />
Homes in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff were flooded<br />
while police evacuated homes<br />
in the Forest Farm area after the<br />
River Taff burst its banks. The<br />
nearby rugby club pitch was totally<br />
submerged, while the tennis courts<br />
in Hailey Park were also affected.<br />
Pontcanna Fields <strong>and</strong> Bute Park<br />
were also badly hit.<br />
of walkers said that they were<br />
worried they did not know about<br />
the issue - <strong>and</strong> urged the police to<br />
focus more on addressing the crime<br />
rather than persuading people not<br />
to use the trail during the hours of<br />
darkness.<br />
"Patrols are being stepped<br />
up in the area, but we'd also<br />
urge everyone to take normal<br />
precautions whenever they're<br />
walking in unlit or poorly lit areas.<br />
"In the hours of darkness, we<br />
always encourage people to stick<br />
to well-lit, busy roads," said a police<br />
spokesperson.<br />
BBC building in<br />
police role<br />
The former BBC Wales<br />
headquarters in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff are set to<br />
be used by police firearms units as<br />
a training facility.<br />
The BBC is still in the process of<br />
moving to its new £120m city centre<br />
headquarters at Central Square.<br />
The l<strong>and</strong> will ultimately be used to<br />
house more than 400 homes on the<br />
site, but in the meantime, officers<br />
from three police forces will use the<br />
buildings for firearms training.<br />
Police are planning on using the<br />
venue for around two months.<br />
Nearby residents <strong>and</strong> the Bishop<br />
of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff School have been<br />
informed.
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Continental<br />
hoodies<br />
I read with interest in your<br />
last issue, about concerns of<br />
groups of hoodies terrorising<br />
the <strong>Whitchurch</strong> <strong>and</strong> Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
North areas <strong>and</strong> I thought I<br />
would share our experience of<br />
an incident that took place in our<br />
area in December. It involved a<br />
group of youths in hoodies at<br />
approximately 2.30am.<br />
We were woken by loud<br />
banging <strong>and</strong> then saw two<br />
youths v<strong>and</strong>alising our car. They<br />
ran off <strong>and</strong> we were then told<br />
by the police who were tracking<br />
them, that it was a group of<br />
young French boys on holiday,<br />
who had damaged a lot of cars.<br />
Our car was among one of the<br />
damaged ones. We were told<br />
that they were too drunk to return<br />
home on the ferry the following<br />
morning, after being arrested the<br />
same night.<br />
They left a trail of damage <strong>and</strong> a<br />
hefty bill for repairs to our car <strong>and</strong><br />
many others.<br />
Sue Manfield<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff North<br />
Spring Poem<br />
Here I sit<br />
In this Cardiff park<br />
My face to the sky<br />
And for the first time in months<br />
I feel the warmth of the sun on<br />
my face<br />
And in this moment, the cold<br />
hard months of Winter<br />
Melt away.<br />
The pain,<br />
The cruel hard hours,<br />
The grief,<br />
The long, lonely nights,<br />
All ebb,<br />
And fade,<br />
In the heat of the splendour<br />
That kisses my face.<br />
Charlotte<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
I'm confused!<br />
I recently read press reports about<br />
the possible closure of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's<br />
Summer Palace restaurant. I must<br />
say, that it has left me scratching<br />
my head with confusion.<br />
The reports stated that there was<br />
a complaint lodged from someone<br />
who recently moved into the<br />
area. The complaint referenced<br />
'noise <strong>and</strong> smell' coming from the<br />
restaurant, which has been on<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff's High Street for the last<br />
30 years.<br />
The owner of the restaurant was<br />
taken to court in February, where<br />
he pleaded not guilty to two<br />
counts of failing to comply with a<br />
council order. A trial date is set for<br />
the end of April.<br />
I've lived in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff for many<br />
years <strong>and</strong> I often pass the<br />
restaurant <strong>and</strong> not once have I<br />
noticed any excessive noise or<br />
bad smell. My confusion lies in<br />
the fact that there has never been<br />
a problem before (<strong>and</strong> it's never<br />
been a problem to us residents)<br />
so why the sudden threat of legal<br />
action now?<br />
As with many things in life, it's<br />
often the smaller guys who get<br />
picked on. Our independent<br />
businesses are struggling at the<br />
best of times <strong>and</strong> this kind of<br />
behaviour suggests that there<br />
are people out there, who have<br />
nothing better to do than make life<br />
harder for the rest of us.<br />
Mark Allsop<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
We st<strong>and</strong> with<br />
Summer Palace<br />
I write to show my support for one<br />
of our local restaurants.<br />
The Summer Palace has been a<br />
part of Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Village for over 30<br />
years. This restaurant is a must for<br />
many people in <strong>and</strong> around the<br />
village with exceptional quality<br />
<strong>and</strong> atmosphere when eating out.<br />
I for one have dined here on many<br />
occasions <strong>and</strong> have felt welcome<br />
<strong>and</strong> looked after.<br />
As small business owners<br />
ourselves, we know how hard it<br />
is to open your doors every day<br />
<strong>and</strong> hope for a good day's trade<br />
but to have this unnecessary issue<br />
hovering over you, it feels like you<br />
just want to give it all up.<br />
Natalie McKee<br />
Ll<strong>and</strong>aff<br />
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Services in<br />
Beulah<br />
Sundays at 10.30am <strong>and</strong> an<br />
ecumenical service at 6pm on<br />
the first Sunday in the month,<br />
taking place in either Bethany<br />
Baptist, All Saints Church or<br />
Beulah. We have an active<br />
Junior Church which meets each<br />
Sunday morning.<br />
Wednesdays at 10.30am,<br />
mid-week meeting point in the<br />
Whittaker Lounge.<br />
Holy Week & Easter<br />
Sunday 5th April -<br />
Palm Sunday<br />
10.30am Morning Worship: Called<br />
to be servants. Led by Revd.<br />
Martha McInnes<br />
Monday 6th April<br />
7pm-7.30pm Holy Week<br />
Meditations: Called to Follow.<br />
Tuesday 7th April<br />
7pm-7.30pm Holy Week<br />
Meditations: Called to<br />
Faithfulness.<br />
Wednesday 8th April<br />
7pm-7.30pm Holy Week<br />
Meditations: Called to Forgiveness.<br />
9th April - Maundy Thursday<br />
7.30pm-8.30pm Communion<br />
Service for Maundy Thursday in the<br />
Upper Room of Canolfan Beulah.<br />
10th April - Good Friday<br />
9.30am Bethany Baptist Church<br />
– worship followed by walk to All<br />
Saints.<br />
10.30am All Saints Church - worship<br />
followed by coffee <strong>and</strong> hot cross<br />
buns, walk to Beulah URC.<br />
12pm Beulah United Reformed<br />
Church – worship followed by<br />
lunch in Canolfan Beulah.<br />
12th April – Easter Sunday<br />
8.45am Easter Service <strong>and</strong><br />
Breakfast (Canolfan Beulah).<br />
10.30am-11.30am Easter Sunday<br />
Service: Called to be Resurrection<br />
People. Led by Revd. David Dean.<br />
Family service with communion.<br />
All are welcome to attend any<br />
or all of these services. For<br />
more information contact the<br />
Church Secretary:<br />
secretary@beulahurc.org.uk<br />
Website: www.beulahurc.org.uk
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Childhood can be a magical time but in today's hectic world, it's<br />
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Be happy yourself<br />
It's common knowledge that<br />
children form their personalities<br />
around the role models that<br />
they're brought up with.<br />
It therefore goes without<br />
saying that adult behaviour<br />
can have both a positive <strong>and</strong><br />
a negative impact on a child,<br />
sometimes without us even<br />
being aware of it. There is<br />
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show that parents who suffer from traits such as depression can lead to<br />
negative outcomes in their children.<br />
Focusing on making yourself happy will create a solid foundation for a<br />
happy childhood for your children. Creating a positive network in which<br />
they can thrive <strong>and</strong> grow will further their happiness. The sound of laughter<br />
has been proven to lower stress levels, caused by changes in the brain.<br />
Music in the home can also help lift parents' moods, <strong>and</strong> their children's as<br />
a result.<br />
Teach them the importance of<br />
relationships<br />
The importance of relationships is<br />
something that can be taught to children,<br />
<strong>and</strong> by doing so, it can help create<br />
empathy, underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong> better social<br />
<strong>and</strong> people skills.<br />
Encouraging children to think from the<br />
perspective of others, <strong>and</strong> to perform acts<br />
of kindness, has been proven to make<br />
children happier in the long run. They are<br />
skills that will also help them in adult life.<br />
Praise effort, not<br />
perfection<br />
Perfectionism can harm children<br />
as they constantly aim to achieve<br />
the impossible.<br />
Aim to praise effort, not<br />
natural ability. This in itself will<br />
encourage achievement, but<br />
will lesson the worry of them<br />
making mistakes along the way.<br />
Pressurising children to get<br />
things right first time <strong>and</strong> every<br />
time can lead to anxiety <strong>and</strong><br />
even overload. Studies have<br />
shown that parents who place a<br />
high priority on achievement end<br />
up with children who are more<br />
depressed, more anxious, <strong>and</strong><br />
in some cases, more rebellious,<br />
than those parents who focused<br />
more on praising effort.<br />
The science behind it is<br />
quite simple - when we praise<br />
children for their effort rather<br />
than their abilities, we help them<br />
underst<strong>and</strong> that their intelligence<br />
is changeable, <strong>and</strong> not a<br />
constant state.<br />
Encourage optimism<br />
Looking at the world from an optimist's viewpoint is linked to happiness,<br />
<strong>and</strong> studies have shown that ten year olds who are encouraged to think<br />
optimistically have a 50% better chance of avoiding depression during<br />
puberty <strong>and</strong> adolescence.<br />
Foster an attitude of gratitude in your children, <strong>and</strong> allow them to<br />
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in perspective can help create an optimistic mindset, something that they<br />
can reap the rewards from as they head into adult life.<br />
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Teach emotional intelligence<br />
Children can struggle to underst<strong>and</strong> their<br />
emotions, <strong>and</strong> this can often lead to outbursts<br />
<strong>and</strong> flashes of anger.<br />
Talking to your child, <strong>and</strong> helping them<br />
underst<strong>and</strong> why they are feeling the way they are<br />
can equip them with the ability to control their<br />
behaviour. Empathising with them, <strong>and</strong> validating<br />
them will also make them feel as if they're being<br />
listened to.<br />
Active listening will also encourage your<br />
child to interact with others in the same way,<br />
<strong>and</strong> emotional intelligence is directly linked to<br />
happiness.<br />
Eat together<br />
The traditional act of eating<br />
together is sometimes lost in the<br />
fast-paced modern age.<br />
It helps forge a sense of<br />
community, <strong>and</strong> often allows<br />
family members to feel able to<br />
talk more openly. One long-term<br />
study in Michigan showed that<br />
mealtimes were more influential<br />
than time spent in school,<br />
studying, attending religious<br />
services, or playing sports.<br />
More playtime<br />
As adults, we strive to make time for our own<br />
enjoyment - nights out, time with friends <strong>and</strong><br />
even sports activities.<br />
With our busy lives, we sometimes forget that<br />
playtime for children is their chance to grow<br />
<strong>and</strong> learn, especially their imagination. This is<br />
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playtime helps them develop self-regulation, to<br />
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Expressing their creativity is one way of<br />
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they feel a lot happier because of it.<br />
Teach self-discipline<br />
Self-discipline is something that<br />
we struggle with, even as adults,<br />
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Instilling self-discipline in<br />
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It will also develop their<br />
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The more you can teach<br />
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resilient they will be in the future.<br />
In the same way that using a<br />
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Relentlessly bullied as a youngster, Scott McGlynn now inspires<br />
thous<strong>and</strong>s around the world with his message of positivity<br />
Learning to love oneself can be<br />
hard when the message you get<br />
from your peers <strong>and</strong> society at large<br />
is that you're somehow disliked or<br />
prejudiced against for something<br />
that's not even your choice.<br />
For Cardiff's Scott McGlynn,<br />
becoming an LGBT (Lesbian/Gay/<br />
Bisexual/Transgender) activist,<br />
author <strong>and</strong> presenter was a result of<br />
years of bullying as a youngster:<br />
"Growing up was very hard for<br />
me. Starting in high school was a<br />
particularly difficult time. I didn't<br />
know anyone when I first got there<br />
<strong>and</strong> the bullying started almost<br />
straight away in Year 7.<br />
"Other kids were calling me a girl.<br />
12<br />
They were bombarding me with<br />
words like gay <strong>and</strong> poof - I honestly<br />
didn't know what any of them<br />
meant! I struggled to make sense of<br />
it all <strong>and</strong> even when I went to speak<br />
to my teachers, they didn't know<br />
how to help me or the situation."<br />
As a youngster, Scott's<br />
confusion throughout school<br />
was compounded by his <strong>and</strong><br />
his classmates' lack of a wider<br />
awareness about sexuality <strong>and</strong><br />
gender identity.<br />
"Back then, I was a kid. I was<br />
young; I didn't underst<strong>and</strong> life or<br />
what sexuality was. They didn't<br />
teach you about that in school. I<br />
certainly didn't have any help or<br />
guidance <strong>and</strong> that helped shape<br />
what I do now. I'm stronger <strong>and</strong><br />
here to help others."<br />
In the UK workplace, 35% of LGBT<br />
staff have hidden the fact that<br />
they are LGBT at work for fear of<br />
discrimination. 18% have been the<br />
target of negative comments or<br />
conduct from work colleagues<br />
in the last year, simply because<br />
they're LGBT.<br />
"These days of course, there's<br />
the added complication of<br />
cyberbullying, which I didn't have<br />
when I was growing up. Mine was<br />
more face-to-face. The comments<br />
don't affect me any more as I've<br />
accepted who I am. But I know<br />
that there are others out there who<br />
do feel the effects of bullying <strong>and</strong><br />
cyberbullying. This is why my work<br />
is important to me - I want to help<br />
others who are in the same position<br />
that I was in, whether I help them<br />
online or in youth groups."<br />
Scott has had a variety of jobs<br />
over the years, many of which<br />
gave him a good stepping stone<br />
for independence. Arriving at his<br />
current role has given Scott a real<br />
sense of purpose in his life.<br />
"Being a LGBT role model <strong>and</strong><br />
content creator is by far the best job<br />
I've ever had."<br />
In 2016, Scott decided to create<br />
his own podcast, an internet-based<br />
audio programme, much like a radio<br />
show.<br />
"My first podcast was in 2017. I<br />
wanted to create a platform that<br />
people could look up to. I wanted<br />
to hear from celebrities about their<br />
coming out experiences, <strong>and</strong> how<br />
their sexuality had affected their<br />
work life."<br />
Scott has had nearly 100 guests<br />
on his show over the last few years.<br />
In 2o18, his show topped the Apple
Podcast charts, beating off many<br />
well-known household names in<br />
the process.<br />
"I wanted to create a show that isn't<br />
just a simple Question <strong>and</strong> Answer<br />
session. I wanted something that<br />
was going to be educational but<br />
done so in a fun way. I get to speak<br />
<strong>and</strong> help people around the world."<br />
Scott's podcasts have reached<br />
thous<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> his social media<br />
following is testament to the<br />
engagement he's having with his<br />
audience. He has over 100,000<br />
followers on Instagram alone, <strong>and</strong><br />
an audience throughout the world.<br />
"Over the years, I've done a lot of<br />
research finding my guests that<br />
my listeners would want to hear<br />
from. Luckily, I've networked a lot<br />
<strong>and</strong> I know a lot of agents who<br />
underst<strong>and</strong> what my podcasts are<br />
about. Often, they may approach<br />
me with the view of getting one of<br />
their clients in front my microphone."<br />
Scott's podcast have not only<br />
helped others, but also helped him<br />
accept the pain in his life.<br />
"The best cure in life is talking so<br />
for both myself <strong>and</strong> my guest, we<br />
chat about our experiences. It's<br />
almost like a mini therapy session<br />
The best<br />
cure in<br />
life is<br />
talking<br />
at times. But we are never too<br />
serious. I want my listeners to get<br />
something from each podcast, <strong>and</strong><br />
even have maybe a laugh or a cry<br />
along the way. Listening to others<br />
<strong>and</strong> underst<strong>and</strong>ing them is a huge<br />
part of it <strong>and</strong> it's great to talk <strong>and</strong><br />
share."<br />
Scott's guests are an eclectic mix<br />
of celebrities, actors, musicians <strong>and</strong><br />
people in the public eye.<br />
"I've had Perez Hilton on my<br />
show, I've had James Dreyfus,<br />
John Partridge <strong>and</strong> Laura Carter<br />
<strong>and</strong> many others. We like to share<br />
stories, both good <strong>and</strong> bad; we like<br />
to talk about their experiences,<br />
their careers, celebrity gossip <strong>and</strong><br />
LGBT topics. It's a very relaxed show<br />
<strong>and</strong> I hope that it gives listeners<br />
<strong>and</strong> insight into my guests' lives or<br />
to learn something new about the<br />
industry."<br />
Spreading the love from Cardiff<br />
to the world has become Scott's<br />
passion.<br />
"Cardiff means so much to me. The<br />
community is amazing <strong>and</strong> going<br />
to events is like going to see family;<br />
everyone knows someone <strong>and</strong> it's a<br />
great place to be."<br />
But on a wider scale, Scott knows<br />
that he has a lot of work to do to<br />
change society's perceptions:<br />
"I think over the years, people's<br />
views have changed for the better.<br />
But I do think there's a long way<br />
to go before society simply does<br />
more than just 'tolerate' the LGBT<br />
community."<br />
Scott is optimistic that his work can<br />
effect change:<br />
"My next challenge for me is to<br />
create a live version of The Scott<br />
McGlynn Show. It'd be set in a<br />
specific venue, with an audience<br />
of mixed ages <strong>and</strong> backgrounds,<br />
<strong>and</strong> we'd all be talking <strong>and</strong> sharing<br />
stories. That is a goal I want to<br />
achieve by the end of the year. It'd<br />
be incredible to do."<br />
Scott hopes that his work will help<br />
to both comfort <strong>and</strong> inspire those<br />
who find themselves in the same<br />
position as he did when he was<br />
younger.<br />
"I struggled a lot with my sexuality<br />
when I was younger but now I'm a<br />
proud gay guy. I don't want anyone<br />
going through what I did. It was a<br />
very hard <strong>and</strong> a very difficult time in<br />
my life. I'm here to inspire others, to<br />
be there for them <strong>and</strong> to be a role<br />
model."<br />
Web: scottmcglynn.net<br />
Instagram: @scottmcglynnofficial<br />
Twitter: @ScottyMcGlynn<br />
people<br />
Scott's podcast made it to the top of the Apple Podcast charts<br />
What is a podcast?<br />
A podcast is an episodic series of<br />
digital audio files that a user can<br />
download to a personal device in<br />
order to listen.<br />
It's often a series of spoken<br />
word, audio episodes, all focused<br />
on a particular topic or theme.<br />
You can subscribe to the show<br />
with an app on your phone <strong>and</strong><br />
listen to episodes whenever you<br />
like on your headphones, in the<br />
car or through speakers.<br />
Unlike radio shows though,<br />
podcasts can offer greater<br />
flexibility in the following ways:<br />
• They can be any length, from<br />
a 1 minute news snippet, to a 3<br />
hour in-depth interview.<br />
• They can be any frequency,<br />
from daily to monthly.<br />
• They can be any format,<br />
from simple solo shows up to<br />
mammoth, multi-person audio<br />
dramas.<br />
• They can cover any topic.<br />
Podcasts are often free to<br />
download <strong>and</strong> if you have a smart<br />
phone or access to the internet,<br />
it's really easy to find podcasts<br />
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Self love is an important aspect your welfare. In appreciating<br />
oneself, one can find happiness. Accepting ourselves for who we<br />
are can open up inner peace <strong>and</strong> happiness<br />
For many people, the idea of<br />
loving oneself can be seen as<br />
an arrogant <strong>and</strong> selfish act. All<br />
too often, we put others before<br />
ourselves <strong>and</strong> spend too much<br />
time trying to please others.<br />
In our daily lives, most of us put<br />
ourselves under huge pressure<br />
to excel <strong>and</strong> to do everything to<br />
perfection every time. Our inner<br />
minds are constantly putting<br />
ourselves down when we fail to<br />
achieve this perfectionism <strong>and</strong><br />
this self-criticism can lead to<br />
depression, anxiety, <strong>and</strong> worse.<br />
Constant perfectionism can lead<br />
to both emotional <strong>and</strong> physical<br />
ailments.<br />
Self-love, or self-kindness,<br />
involves showing underst<strong>and</strong>ing<br />
towards ourselves when we fail<br />
or feel inadequate. If you're not<br />
sure how you're connected to<br />
yourself, start by listening to the<br />
way that your inner voice talks to<br />
you. Do you insult yourself or talk<br />
in negative language when you<br />
make a mistake?<br />
Learning to tune into yourself,<br />
<strong>and</strong> beginning to love yourself<br />
can help unlock inner calm <strong>and</strong><br />
a better quality of life. Here are<br />
a few ways that you can achieve<br />
that.<br />
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Set boundaries<br />
Setting boundaries helps to<br />
improve your life. Saying no to work,<br />
activities or anything that detracts<br />
from you emotionally or physically,<br />
doesn't mean that you are a bad<br />
person. Sometimes the feeling<br />
that you have to help everyone all<br />
the time comes from deep-rooted<br />
causes. Try <strong>and</strong> find out what these<br />
are <strong>and</strong> let them go.<br />
Know your value. It isn't reflected<br />
in how much you do for other<br />
people. Your problems don't define<br />
who you are as a person either. Ask<br />
yourself whether saying yes to a<br />
dem<strong>and</strong> is worth it.<br />
Be direct if your answer is no. You<br />
don't need to lie, apologise or come<br />
up with a load of excuses. You are<br />
entitled to say no.<br />
Practise self-care<br />
You'll feel a lot better when you<br />
take time to nourish yourself,<br />
whether that's physically or<br />
emotionally. Eating properly,<br />
getting enough sleep, exercising<br />
- these are all things that you<br />
should put first. You can't help<br />
others if you are neglecting<br />
yourself.<br />
Self-care isn't a selfish act.<br />
Find out what works for you <strong>and</strong><br />
make the time them, whether<br />
it's a weekly catch up with family<br />
or even a simple walk in the<br />
outdoors. Be aware of what you<br />
are doing, <strong>and</strong> how it's making<br />
you feel.<br />
Get into the habit of practising<br />
self-care. You'll feel less anxious,<br />
have improved moods - <strong>and</strong><br />
you'll also feel more in control of<br />
your life.
Protect yourself<br />
There will be people in your<br />
life who suck the energy out of<br />
you. Often referred to as 'energy<br />
vampires', they dem<strong>and</strong> your<br />
time <strong>and</strong> attention, often to the<br />
detriment of your own needs.<br />
The one way to protect yourself<br />
from these people is to get them<br />
out of your life. Surround yourself<br />
with people who make you<br />
happy, people who value you <strong>and</strong><br />
respect you. Life is too short to<br />
spend trying to fix other people's<br />
problems at the expense of your<br />
own.<br />
By cutting these people out of<br />
your life, you will find your life has<br />
less negative drama, freeing up<br />
your mind <strong>and</strong> time to actually<br />
start enjoying life.<br />
What you need - not<br />
what you want<br />
In this age of information overload,<br />
we're often told what we should<br />
want from life. A big house, a nice<br />
car, the perfect body.<br />
Continually striving for all of<br />
these can be exhausting, souldestroying,<br />
<strong>and</strong> ultimately futile.<br />
Even if we do get those things,<br />
there are still things that we're<br />
going to want.<br />
Focus instead on the things<br />
that you need. Wanting things<br />
can lead us to make impulsive<br />
decisions, often without us<br />
thinking of its consequences.<br />
There are of course, our basic<br />
needs that have to be met - food,<br />
water, clothing, shelter <strong>and</strong> so<br />
on. Then there are the slightly<br />
less necessary needs. The things<br />
you need to be a responsible<br />
adult. Maybe some transport or a<br />
computer so that you can work.<br />
Everything else is a want. The<br />
soft furnishings, the latest TV.<br />
Figure out what's important to<br />
you <strong>and</strong> why <strong>and</strong> then spend less<br />
time <strong>and</strong> money on the wants <strong>and</strong><br />
more time <strong>and</strong> money on your<br />
needs.<br />
Forgive yourself<br />
Putting yourself under pressure can<br />
help you achieve some wonderful<br />
things in life. But when it becomes<br />
persistent <strong>and</strong> all-consuming, it can<br />
lead to burnout.<br />
Most of us are pretty hard on<br />
ourselves, especially when we<br />
make mistakes. What's important to<br />
remember is we are human - we do<br />
make mistakes. Everyone does. It's<br />
how we learn.<br />
Punishing yourself, either<br />
physically or emotionally only<br />
serves to make you feel worse.<br />
Learn to forgive yourself <strong>and</strong><br />
remember that there are no failures<br />
in life - just opportunities to move<br />
on <strong>and</strong> learn.<br />
Become mindful<br />
The concept of mindfulness has<br />
really taken off in the last few<br />
years - <strong>and</strong> with very good reason.<br />
Becoming mindful of who we<br />
are <strong>and</strong> what we are doing on a<br />
minute-by-minute basis helps us<br />
become a better person. This is<br />
because we are able to reflect in<br />
real-time about our decisions, our<br />
behaviour <strong>and</strong> our interactions with<br />
other people.<br />
Being aware of yourself also helps<br />
you enjoy those moments in life for<br />
what they are.<br />
wellbeing<br />
Live with acceptance<br />
Too often in life, we push ourselves<br />
to <strong>and</strong> beyond our limits in the<br />
pursuit of better things. Under<br />
the pressure, our flaws <strong>and</strong> faults<br />
are often exposed, adding to our<br />
negative views of ourselves.<br />
Coming to accept ourselves -<br />
flaws <strong>and</strong> faults included - makes<br />
us realise that perhaps we're not<br />
the bad person we think we are.<br />
Everyone has faults because that is<br />
the nature of humanity. Accepting<br />
these, <strong>and</strong> learning to live with these<br />
will empower you to move forward<br />
without constraint.<br />
Live with purpose<br />
Some measure their life's success in<br />
material things, their achieved status<br />
or the power they've gained. Yet<br />
even for these people, there is often<br />
something missing in life - purpose.<br />
Making a difference - leaving the<br />
world a better place than when you<br />
found it - can help satisfy the soul.<br />
How we spend our day is how we<br />
spend our lives <strong>and</strong> living your day<br />
with a sense of purpose can give<br />
you inner peace.<br />
If you have a passion, follow it.<br />
Make time for it, especially if you find<br />
yourself washed along by the daily<br />
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live by them. Let yourself be guided<br />
by what you deem important, not<br />
others.<br />
Having a purpose gives us the<br />
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<strong>and</strong> to carry on. Ask yourself how<br />
you want to be remembered <strong>and</strong> be<br />
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shed<br />
of<br />
the<br />
year<br />
From an idea forged over a pint, Cardiff's Andrew Wilcox has<br />
created a nationwide hunt for the UK's best sheds<br />
They have long been the refuge<br />
of the modern male. A sanctuary<br />
where men can hide away from<br />
life's troubles on rainy afternoons<br />
<strong>and</strong> long summer evenings;<br />
a retreat where they can lose<br />
themselves to creative projects,<br />
grease cloths <strong>and</strong> cricket matches<br />
on old battered radios.<br />
And for one Cardiff man, the desire<br />
to have a shed that he could call<br />
his own became a quest to find the<br />
UK's best shed. The contest was<br />
even turned into its own TV show<br />
on Channel 4. It has been a process<br />
that has challenged the nation's<br />
basic perception of the word 'shed'.<br />
20<br />
Shed of the Year 2017:<br />
The Mushroom Shed<br />
Web developer <strong>and</strong> Shed of the<br />
Year organiser Andrew Wilcox<br />
admits that the roots of the<br />
competition stretch back to his<br />
childhood.<br />
"My gr<strong>and</strong>father had an allotment<br />
behind his terraced house in<br />
the village of Blaenclydach in<br />
the Rhondda Valley. He <strong>and</strong> his<br />
allotment mates used to build these<br />
structures that joined together with<br />
poly tunnels, so that they could<br />
grow vegetables <strong>and</strong> flowers in<br />
a shared space. That was my first<br />
introduction to sheds <strong>and</strong> I have<br />
been trying to find a similar shed all<br />
my life."<br />
Those memories<br />
stayed with<br />
Andrew right<br />
through to<br />
adulthood. Back<br />
in 2000, looking to<br />
acquire a shed of<br />
his own, Andrew<br />
spent a while<br />
searching online<br />
for his perfect<br />
building.<br />
"I was looking<br />
online for some<br />
inspiration <strong>and</strong> I thought that I<br />
would find a website with lots of<br />
great-looking sheds on there. I was<br />
hoping to find a shed that looked<br />
like my gr<strong>and</strong>father's. Sadly, that<br />
wasn't the case, so I ended up<br />
setting up a website myself," he<br />
says.<br />
It was while he was chatting to a<br />
friend down the pub that he came<br />
up with the idea of the new website.<br />
"I went straight home <strong>and</strong><br />
registered the domain. It started<br />
slowly at first as people thought it<br />
was a joke - but then it got some<br />
traction, appearing on Ceefax's<br />
'Website of the Week' <strong>and</strong> various<br />
email newsletters. I did tell you that<br />
this was a long time ago!" he jokes.<br />
Eventually though, the idea soon<br />
blossomed.<br />
"It caught the imagination of the<br />
public <strong>and</strong> things went on from<br />
there," adds Andrew.<br />
To increase engagement with his<br />
audience, Andrew decided to set up<br />
an online competition.<br />
"By 2007, there were hundreds of<br />
sheds on the site so I thought it'd be<br />
a good idea to launch a contest to<br />
find out which one the public liked
the best. Thus Shed of the Year was<br />
born."<br />
The competition's first winner was<br />
a shed that looked like a Roman<br />
temple.<br />
"The winner's wife even went <strong>and</strong><br />
bought him four large pillars for<br />
Christmas!" laughs Andrew.<br />
A 'rugby pub' was the<br />
competition's second winner in<br />
2008. Designed <strong>and</strong> built by its<br />
owner, it had eight windows on its<br />
octagonal roof. A pair of double<br />
doors opened up in fine weather<br />
<strong>and</strong> its crowning glory was its 15<br />
foot fully fitted bar. It also housed<br />
three fridges, a ceiling fan <strong>and</strong> a<br />
hammock.<br />
Since then, the competition has<br />
become bigger <strong>and</strong> better, pushing<br />
the boundaries of the term 'shed'.<br />
"Thirteen years on <strong>and</strong> the<br />
competition is still going strong.<br />
We have a few hundred entrants<br />
every year (but previous entrants<br />
always st<strong>and</strong> a chance to make the<br />
shortlist) which, for a niche thing on<br />
the internet, is pretty good going."<br />
Interest in the competition reached<br />
fever pitch in 2014 when Channel 4<br />
commissioned a TV series about it.<br />
"The show ran from 2014 to 2017<br />
<strong>and</strong> brought the concept of the<br />
shed out of the allotment <strong>and</strong> into<br />
the mainstream. The st<strong>and</strong>ard<br />
always seems to get better <strong>and</strong><br />
better <strong>and</strong> the 'sheddies' always<br />
innovate, Eco sheds being the<br />
thing that everyone is going for<br />
nowadays. The pub sheds always<br />
attract the most entrants as people<br />
love a space to entertain down the<br />
bottom of the garden.<br />
having<br />
a tv show<br />
commissioned<br />
from my silly<br />
internet<br />
idea was a<br />
highlight<br />
"One of my favourite sheds was<br />
the winner from 2013 - a boatroofed<br />
shed that sat at the top of a<br />
mountain in Powys. They managed<br />
to get an old inshore fishing boat<br />
from 1900 up the mountain <strong>and</strong><br />
then built a wattle <strong>and</strong> daub<br />
shed underneath it. It's a bit of a<br />
ramshackle structure but it's a lot<br />
of fun. The owner DJs from the<br />
shed <strong>and</strong> he’s also hosted a few<br />
comedians from the Machynlleth<br />
Comedy Festival in it - there is not<br />
a shed out there like it. The place<br />
also has some of the best views in<br />
Wales.<br />
"Having a TV show commissioned<br />
by Channel 4 from my silly internet<br />
idea was a highlight," says Andrew,<br />
"but seeing truly unique <strong>and</strong> special<br />
sheds entered each year, <strong>and</strong><br />
talking to the shed community<br />
about why they build them <strong>and</strong><br />
what they get up to in them, is what<br />
makes me smile."<br />
In Andrew's opinion, a good shed<br />
doesn't happen by accident.<br />
"The secret to a good shed is a<br />
great, unique design <strong>and</strong> a quality<br />
build, even if it's just from pallets.<br />
Most of all, it needs to be a place in<br />
which you want to spend time with<br />
your family <strong>and</strong> friends - or even<br />
just a space to chill out in, or work<br />
from."<br />
The appeal of a shed is one<br />
that now reaches far beyond the<br />
traditional realm of fathers <strong>and</strong><br />
gr<strong>and</strong>fathers.<br />
"Firstly, a shed is an escape for<br />
many, but also I think if you have<br />
built something yourself, then it<br />
gives you more pleasure," says<br />
Andrew. "Of course, the competition<br />
welcomes entrants from off-theshelf<br />
sheds as well - it's what the<br />
sheddie does with their space that<br />
is important," he adds.<br />
The contest has seen thous<strong>and</strong>s of<br />
entries over the years, ranging from<br />
man caves to two-storey structures.<br />
The current Shed of the Year is Bux<br />
End, a hobbit-like abode created by<br />
Chris Hield in Derbyshire.<br />
"We are massive Lord of the Rings<br />
fans so when we decided to build<br />
our own shed, we knew it had to<br />
be a hobbit hole," said Chris. "It had<br />
to fit in with the wildlife <strong>and</strong> nature<br />
that we cultivated in the rest of our<br />
garden so the grass roof was a big<br />
feature."<br />
Chris used his hobby workshop<br />
making armour <strong>and</strong> chainmail, to<br />
help create the structure.<br />
"We dug out the back garden in<br />
January 2018 to build a sunken<br />
hobbit hole. Unfortunately, after<br />
hitting bedrock that we could not<br />
break through, we ended up putting<br />
some of the 22 tonnes of wet clay<br />
back in the hole, which was a bit<br />
demoralising! After sourcing local<br />
reclaimed bricks <strong>and</strong> timber, we<br />
finished the hole some eight weeks<br />
later after working each weekend<br />
<strong>and</strong> evenings when possible."<br />
people<br />
The interior of the 2019<br />
champion, Bux End<br />
Entries for this year's competition<br />
are coming in thick <strong>and</strong> fast.<br />
"The future of the competition<br />
looks bright," says Andrew. "People<br />
still want sheds <strong>and</strong> will always<br />
build them <strong>and</strong> hopefully we will<br />
give the sheddies a platform to<br />
share their sheds with the rest of<br />
the world.<br />
"I am lucky to have support from<br />
Cuprinol who have sponsored it for<br />
many years. It's just myself running<br />
the competition, so I couldn't do it<br />
without their support <strong>and</strong> of course,<br />
the sheddies who create these<br />
amazing structures!"<br />
If you want to enter your shed into<br />
this year's competition, you have<br />
until 19th April 2020 to do so. Enter<br />
at www.readersheds.co.uk<br />
The 2013 winner - the<br />
boat-roofed shed<br />
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Time <strong>and</strong> time again, yoga has been<br />
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addition to the obvious benefits of<br />
increased flexibility, yoga can also<br />
help increase muscle strength. It<br />
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And it's not just women that benefit<br />
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SELF LOVEideas<br />
Whether you are looking to make yourself happy, or help others,<br />
here are a few ideas to help you get back on track<br />
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DITCH THE SOCIAL<br />
MEDIA<br />
Social media is a great<br />
way to connect with<br />
friends <strong>and</strong> loved ones<br />
but all too often, we<br />
fall into the trap of<br />
comparing our lives to<br />
everyone else's.<br />
What you need to<br />
remember is that<br />
everyone's profiles are<br />
their 'showreels'. We all<br />
have different lives <strong>and</strong><br />
goals <strong>and</strong> you could end<br />
up spending the rest of<br />
your life comparing yours<br />
to theirs.<br />
MAKE A LIST OF ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN LIFE<br />
When life knocks you sideways, it's all too easy<br />
to forget all the good things that you have in your<br />
life. A feeling of gratitude is such a simple thing,<br />
but it is also a very powerful<br />
way of shifting the mind's<br />
emphasis from the<br />
things that aren't going<br />
right to the things<br />
that are.<br />
There is always<br />
something to be<br />
grateful for, whether<br />
it's having food in<br />
the fridge, someone<br />
to call, or even<br />
something simple as<br />
someone's smile.
wellbeing<br />
READ MORE<br />
Reading is an opportunity<br />
to escape the real world<br />
<strong>and</strong> to develop empathy for<br />
others.<br />
It also provides a good<br />
workout for your brain,<br />
helping to reduce memory<br />
loss <strong>and</strong> cognitive function.<br />
Not only that, it helps<br />
increase your vocabulary<br />
<strong>and</strong> can help prepare you<br />
for a good night's rest.<br />
CLEAN OUT YOUR<br />
WARDROBES<br />
De-cluttering your<br />
wardrobe is a powerful<br />
way to take back an<br />
amount of control in your<br />
life.<br />
The first step is to<br />
completely empty your<br />
wardrobe. Decide on<br />
some rules before you<br />
start sorting <strong>and</strong> then<br />
be totally honest with<br />
yourself as you plough<br />
through your clothes.<br />
Keep the basics but ditch<br />
the things that you've<br />
probably worn once or<br />
twice. Don't be tempted<br />
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that it'll come back into<br />
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BUILD A POSITIVE<br />
FRIEND NETWORK<br />
It's often in times of<br />
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who our real friends<br />
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surprised who does<br />
st<strong>and</strong> by you while the<br />
ones you thought you<br />
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the hills.<br />
Slowly build up a<br />
friend network who<br />
can bring positivity to<br />
your life. And in return,<br />
be the friend that you<br />
would want.<br />
ASK FOR HELP IF YOU NEED IT<br />
There is no shame in asking for<br />
help. Even the most successful<br />
people in the world haven't<br />
made it on their own.<br />
Be strong enough to st<strong>and</strong><br />
alone if you wish but also wise<br />
enough to know when you do<br />
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DO SOMETHING<br />
YOU'RE GOOD AT<br />
We all have our strengths<br />
<strong>and</strong> weaknesses <strong>and</strong><br />
because we are all<br />
individual, these strengths<br />
<strong>and</strong> weaknesses are also<br />
unique to us.<br />
Doing something that<br />
you're good at will help<br />
remind you that you do<br />
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If it's something that<br />
you're particularly good<br />
at, why not set up a small<br />
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you're good at something<br />
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you. Doing what you<br />
love can help you relax<br />
as it can bring about<br />
feelings of familiarity <strong>and</strong><br />
achievement.<br />
Trying out new things<br />
is another way of finding<br />
out what undiscovered<br />
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too. Don't be afraid of what<br />
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self help<br />
Maintaining your online presence can mean that we are slaves to<br />
our phones <strong>and</strong> computers. But there is a world <strong>and</strong> a life out there<br />
beyond the screen. Here's how to reclaim it<br />
Social media addiction<br />
A staggering 45% of the world's<br />
population is on social media,<br />
highlighting our dependence on<br />
electronic technology. We are<br />
reaching for our phones more<br />
than ever.<br />
The rapid growth of both the<br />
internet <strong>and</strong> social media has<br />
brought with it a new set of<br />
problems. In fact, 210 million<br />
people are affected by internet<br />
<strong>and</strong> social media addiction. It<br />
can affect both your physical<br />
<strong>and</strong> emotional wellbeing. It<br />
can put strain on relationships,<br />
bring down levels of self-worth<br />
<strong>and</strong> also open up new forms of<br />
bullying.<br />
But there is life beyond<br />
the screen of your phone or<br />
computer. Taking control back<br />
of your social media life can be<br />
achieved, giving you a more<br />
connected <strong>and</strong> balanced view of<br />
the real world.<br />
If you feel that you are<br />
addicted, here's how you can<br />
beat it.<br />
28<br />
Go cold turkey<br />
You can always start your social<br />
media detox by choosing the<br />
nuclear option - by going cold<br />
turkey.<br />
If you're an avid social media user,<br />
you may want to plan your time<br />
away by setting a length of time<br />
<strong>and</strong> informing your friends <strong>and</strong><br />
family of your absence.<br />
One incentive is to work out how<br />
much time you spend on social<br />
media before you start. If for<br />
example, you spend three hours a<br />
day on it, that'll give you 21 hours a<br />
week of free time. Think what you<br />
could do in that time!<br />
Once you're ready for your holiday<br />
away from the screen, remove all<br />
temptation by deleting the apps<br />
that you use for social media. In<br />
most cases, deleting the apps<br />
doesn't mean that you are deleting<br />
your accounts. It just means that<br />
you'll have to log in when you<br />
decide to return. Even if it's for just<br />
one day, you'll be surprised how<br />
much better you feel without social<br />
media in your life.<br />
Turn off notifications<br />
Our phones can dem<strong>and</strong> a lot of<br />
our attention <strong>and</strong> it can often feel<br />
overwhelming when it's beeping<br />
<strong>and</strong> buzzing at us.<br />
If going cold turkey isn't an<br />
option, or seems too drastic for<br />
you, take time out to turn all but<br />
your essential notifications off.<br />
Notifications can also keep us up<br />
at night so adjust your settings<br />
so that you only get the ones you<br />
need, if any.<br />
Just because you're not getting<br />
notifications doesn't mean that<br />
you're necessarily missing out<br />
on anything important. Turning<br />
them off can help improve your<br />
concentration <strong>and</strong> focus during<br />
your day.
Organise <strong>and</strong> delete<br />
your apps<br />
As our phones are now such a<br />
large part of our everyday lives,<br />
similarly, they can also reflect<br />
them.<br />
A cluttered phone could be a<br />
metaphor for your life or even<br />
your state of mind. Organising<br />
your apps will make you feel<br />
more in control <strong>and</strong> will save you<br />
time.<br />
Better still, why not remove<br />
some of the apps you spend<br />
most of your time on? Ask<br />
yourself whether they are really<br />
necessary in your life.<br />
Be mindful<br />
Mindfulness can be very useful in<br />
beating social media addiction as it<br />
makes us more aware of our actions<br />
<strong>and</strong> intents.<br />
Every time you reach for your phone,<br />
become aware of what you are doing<br />
<strong>and</strong> how much time you are spending<br />
on it. Most phones can record your<br />
screen time <strong>and</strong> checking it might give<br />
you the wake up call you need.<br />
Schedule posts<br />
Getting away from social media can be difficult if you use it for work but<br />
one great way of detaching yourself from it is to schedule your content.<br />
You can find plenty of great scheduling software that can help. Set aside<br />
a few hours at the start of each month <strong>and</strong> schedule your posts so that<br />
you are a few weeks ahead of yourself. That way, you can simply turn<br />
your social media platforms off while it takes care of itself.<br />
If you use social media to interact with your customers, this can be<br />
trickier but if you can stay focused, you can give yourself time to step<br />
away from the constant dem<strong>and</strong>s<br />
that social media puts on you.<br />
Allocate certain times of the day<br />
to catch up on your interactions or<br />
bookings <strong>and</strong> stick to them. Turn<br />
off your notifications <strong>and</strong> don't<br />
feel tempted to react to them in<br />
real-time. If something is of utmost<br />
importance, it's likely that you'll be<br />
contacted the traditional way - by<br />
telephone!<br />
Get a new hobby<br />
Detoxing social media will mean that you'll have a lot more time on your<br />
h<strong>and</strong>s for something more rewarding than looking at other people's latest<br />
meals or nights out.<br />
Getting a new hobby can not only<br />
provide you with more meaningful<br />
activity, it can also improve your<br />
confidence or even help you start a<br />
new business. Maybe try something<br />
that you've always fancied but never<br />
had time to devote to it. Your new<br />
hobby will also keep you busy <strong>and</strong><br />
distracted from your social media<br />
cravings.<br />
Fill your diary<br />
One of the great ways to beat<br />
social media interaction is to do<br />
the interaction out in the real<br />
world.<br />
Grab your diary <strong>and</strong> plan to<br />
meet up with friends <strong>and</strong> family.<br />
Keeping up with them in person<br />
can help forge stronger bonds<br />
<strong>and</strong> also create new memories.<br />
And don't be tempted to<br />
spend the entire time with<br />
them taking selfies either.<br />
Savour the moments for what<br />
they are <strong>and</strong> enjoy them in the<br />
moment.<br />
Reward yourself<br />
Limiting yourself to internet <strong>and</strong>/<br />
or social media can be tough but<br />
by promising yourself a reward<br />
will keep you incentivesed.<br />
Giving yourself a little pat<br />
on the back when you reach<br />
your targets can help you stay<br />
focused. It will also help train<br />
your mind to stick to your plan, a<br />
skill that can help in other areas<br />
of your life. Make your reward<br />
appropriate to the restraint that<br />
you've put in <strong>and</strong> it'll give you<br />
something to work towards.<br />
Even if you reward is going back<br />
on social media, that's no bad<br />
thing in itself.<br />
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Local Independent Financial<br />
Adviser takes to the skies in<br />
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A few weeks on from the most hair-raising experience<br />
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Evening Express<br />
10th September 1896<br />
CARDIFF NATURALISTS HOLD THE<br />
THIRD FIELD DAY OF THE SEASON<br />
The third field day of the Cardiff<br />
Naturalists' Society took place on<br />
Wednesday when, in spite of most<br />
unfavourable weather, a goodly<br />
number of naturalists, among<br />
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considered to be one of the best<br />
32<br />
The National Library of Wales has digitalised millions of Welsh newspaper<br />
articles <strong>and</strong> pages. Derek Elliott pulls out some interesting local stories<br />
years for the vines there.<br />
South Wales Daily News<br />
9th July 1898<br />
WHITCHURCH BAZAAR<br />
A very successful two days'<br />
bazaar was held on Wednesday<br />
<strong>and</strong> Thursday at Tyn-y-Parc,<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong>, by kind permission of<br />
Herbert Cory, towards extinguishing<br />
the debt on the new Wesleyan<br />
Chapel at <strong>Whitchurch</strong>. The bazaar<br />
was opened on the first day by Mr<br />
Tregarthen Dunn, Fairfield, Ll<strong>and</strong>aff,<br />
<strong>and</strong> on the second day by Mr G. H.<br />
Wills, of Rhubina. The <strong>Whitchurch</strong><br />
Brass B<strong>and</strong> was also in attendance<br />
on both days.<br />
The Cardiff Times<br />
15th November 1902<br />
A MIDNIGHT INCIDENT:<br />
WHITCHURCH FARMER AND WIFE<br />
At the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Police Court on<br />
Monday, John Carey Phillips of<br />
Pantmawr Farm, <strong>Whitchurch</strong>,<br />
summoned Edward Fuge, a smartlooking<br />
young man, living at the<br />
farm, for threats. Considerable<br />
interest was take in the<br />
proceedings, the parties being well<br />
known locally. Mr Harold M. Lloyd<br />
defended. When the complainant<br />
was about to give evidence, Mr<br />
Harold Lloyd rose, <strong>and</strong>, addressing<br />
their Worships, asked whether<br />
he would be allowed to ask the<br />
complainant whether it was still in<br />
his interests to proceed.<br />
There were a great many<br />
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it would be better <strong>and</strong> wiser for<br />
complainant if he withdrew. This<br />
the complainant refused to do, <strong>and</strong><br />
the case proceeded.<br />
The complainant in his evidence<br />
stated that he was the joint<br />
occupier with his wife of the<br />
Pantmawr Farm, <strong>Whitchurch</strong>. The<br />
defendant was engaged by his wife<br />
as a man servant. On 30th October<br />
last, he retired to bed at about<br />
10 o'clock <strong>and</strong> about 12 o'clock,<br />
he heard a loud knocking on his<br />
bedroom door. The defendant <strong>and</strong><br />
his (complainant's) wife kicked the<br />
door, broke the panels, rushed into<br />
the room, <strong>and</strong> threatened to "do" for<br />
him.<br />
He rushed to the window <strong>and</strong> in<br />
his night apparel, jumped to the<br />
ground 14 feet below, <strong>and</strong> went<br />
to a neighbour's house, where he<br />
got the loan of some clothes. He<br />
then went to the police station, <strong>and</strong><br />
a police sergeant returned to the<br />
house with him. The defendant was<br />
then in bed. The defendant's room<br />
was broken into, <strong>and</strong> the defendant<br />
was ejected. Before the defendant<br />
left, he again threatened him in the<br />
presence of the police sergeant. He<br />
had often seen the defendant in his<br />
wife's bedroom. On one occasion,<br />
the men in the hayfield saw the<br />
defendant doing his wife's hair.<br />
In cross-examination by Mr Harold<br />
Lloyd, complainant admitted that<br />
he had some drink at Carey's <strong>and</strong> at<br />
the HollyBush before going home.<br />
He may have been drunk about<br />
20 times this year, but he was not<br />
drunk on this occasion. He denied<br />
that it was only his wife that was at<br />
the door threatening him. He also<br />
denied that he had engaged the<br />
defendant at 8s per week. Both the
defendant <strong>and</strong> his wife were under<br />
the influence of drink.<br />
Mr Harold Lloyd: With reference<br />
to the defendant being in your<br />
wife's bedroom. When do you say<br />
this happened? - I saw him in the<br />
bedroom with her in June last year.<br />
I also saw him on one occasion<br />
doing up her hair.<br />
Mr Harold Lloyd: Do you mean to<br />
tell the Worships that having seen<br />
this in June last, you allowed this<br />
man to stay on during the whole of<br />
this time? - Yes.<br />
Mr Lloyd: Didn't you think it your<br />
duty to thrash him <strong>and</strong> kick him out,<br />
as any reasonable man would have<br />
done? - No. I am only joint occupier.<br />
Mr Lloyd: And that is the only<br />
reason you have?<br />
The complainant also stated that<br />
the defendant <strong>and</strong> his wife were<br />
constantly about together <strong>and</strong><br />
drinking together.<br />
The defendant, called on his<br />
own behalf, stated that he was<br />
employed by the complainant in<br />
May last at 8s per week. He denied<br />
that on the day in question he went<br />
to the complainant's door <strong>and</strong><br />
shout to him to open.<br />
The next thing he knew was that<br />
the complainant came back with<br />
a constable, <strong>and</strong> he was then<br />
turned out of the house. He was<br />
still living there, <strong>and</strong> had seen the<br />
complainant several times <strong>and</strong> had<br />
been on friendly terms with him.<br />
He denied ever having been in<br />
complainant's wife's bedroom, <strong>and</strong><br />
that this was the first he had heard<br />
of it. He also denied being under<br />
the influence of drink. He acted as<br />
a personal servant to Mr Phillips,<br />
who had been in ill health. There<br />
had been no improper relationship<br />
between him <strong>and</strong> his mistress,<br />
Mrs Phillips. Mr Phillips had never<br />
suggested that he should leave.<br />
He had frequently stopped the<br />
complainant whilst in drink from<br />
committing acts of violence on Mrs<br />
Phillips.<br />
Mrs Phillips, the wife of the<br />
complainant, was next called. She<br />
is of prepossessing appearance<br />
<strong>and</strong> smartly dressed. She stated<br />
that on the night of the 30th, she<br />
came in late <strong>and</strong> went to the<br />
complainant's bedroom to dem<strong>and</strong><br />
an explanation of something<br />
she had heard in the village. The<br />
complainant would not open the<br />
door, <strong>and</strong> she kicked the panel in.<br />
The defendant was not there. She<br />
had never misconducted herself<br />
with the defendant, <strong>and</strong> he had<br />
never been in her bedroom. It was<br />
an abominable falsehood for the<br />
complainant to say that he had.<br />
Her husb<strong>and</strong> had on<br />
numerous occasions<br />
committed acts of<br />
violence on her. He had<br />
struck her, thrown a<br />
lamp at her, <strong>and</strong> bruised<br />
her. She was not under<br />
the influence of drink on<br />
the night in question.<br />
The Bench bound the<br />
defendant over to the<br />
sum of £10 to keep the<br />
peace for six months.<br />
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25th January 1873<br />
A PUBLIC NUISANCE<br />
At the Petty Sessions,<br />
held on Monday,<br />
before Mr G. Phillips,<br />
Mr F. C. Vaehell, Mr<br />
T. W. Booker, <strong>and</strong><br />
Mr G. C. Williams,<br />
William Llewellyn was<br />
summoned, at the<br />
instance of Inspector<br />
Thorney, for keeping<br />
a pigsty close to the<br />
highway at the Ll<strong>and</strong>aff Yard, which<br />
was a public nuisance because of<br />
the stench.<br />
The defendant was ordered to<br />
pay 6s. 6d. costs, <strong>and</strong> the case<br />
was rem<strong>and</strong>ed for a fortnight, in<br />
order to give him time to remove<br />
the nuisance. Defendant was also<br />
summoned for allowing a pig to<br />
stray on the 8th Dec. last. The case<br />
was, however, dismissed.<br />
ANOTHER NUISANCE—Mr R.E.W.<br />
Lewis was summoned by Inspector<br />
Thorney for permitting a nuisance<br />
upon his premises.<br />
The defendant denied the<br />
nuisance he was charged with.<br />
The Bench said what he was<br />
charged with was keeping a privy<br />
in a dilapidated state. Inspector<br />
Thorney said that there was<br />
an offence smell also arising<br />
therefrom. Defendant said he<br />
would not acknowledge the<br />
existence of a nuisance.<br />
Police-sergeant Roberts<br />
corroborated the evidence for the<br />
prosecution. The defendant was<br />
then ordered to pay the costs of the<br />
case, <strong>and</strong> was allowed a fortnight to<br />
abate the nuisance. The defendant<br />
declared that he would not pay the<br />
costs, <strong>and</strong> left the court.<br />
OPENING DURING ILLEGAL<br />
HOURS—Henry Andrews, l<strong>and</strong>lord<br />
of the Insole Arms, was charged<br />
with keeping his house open after<br />
hours. Sarah Andrews, a witness for<br />
the defence, stated that the person<br />
history<br />
who was in the house drinking was<br />
a friend, <strong>and</strong> that they were merely<br />
having a friendly glass together.<br />
Inspector Thorney deposed that<br />
at ten minutes past twelve on the<br />
morning of the 5th, in company of<br />
Sergeant John, he was passing by<br />
the Insole Arms, when he heard<br />
sounds of voices, <strong>and</strong> afterwards<br />
saw the l<strong>and</strong>lord <strong>and</strong> his brother<br />
bring a man named William Deane<br />
out of the house.<br />
The Inspector then went into<br />
the house. The man mentioned<br />
(William Deare) was quite drunk,<br />
<strong>and</strong> supported by the l<strong>and</strong>lord.<br />
Witness was cross examined by Mr<br />
Blelloch, but nothing material was<br />
elicited on behalf of the defence.<br />
Sergeant John corroborated the<br />
Inspector's statement in a great<br />
measure, but said he could not<br />
say positively that the man really<br />
required or was supported by the<br />
l<strong>and</strong>lord or his brother, although<br />
there was no doubt but that he was<br />
drunk.<br />
Mr Blelloch denied the allegation<br />
that the man Deane was staggering<br />
drunk, <strong>and</strong> said that he had met<br />
with an accident some time ago,<br />
<strong>and</strong> in consequence had walked<br />
lamely since, <strong>and</strong> this had given<br />
rise to the notion entertained by the<br />
Police inspector that the man was<br />
drunk <strong>and</strong> staggering. The Bench,<br />
after hearing the various evidence,<br />
cautioned the defendant <strong>and</strong><br />
dismissed the case. William Deane,<br />
the man stated to have been upon<br />
the premises drunk, was then also<br />
dismissed.<br />
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We have a young bitch <strong>and</strong><br />
somewhere along the line, it’s<br />
likely that she’ll have her own<br />
litter. I have no idea what to do<br />
when this happens – we don’t<br />
take her to the vets to give<br />
birth like we humans do with<br />
hospitals do we? Is there any<br />
guidance you can give us if she<br />
has her pups at home?<br />
Reading between the lines, I<br />
gather that your bitch is not a<br />
pedigree dog that you plan to<br />
breed. If she is, you need to find<br />
a professional stud dog for her,<br />
<strong>and</strong> his owner will no doubt be<br />
able to give you plenty of advice,<br />
<strong>and</strong> of course, so will your vet.<br />
If you are not intending a<br />
deliberate mating but are<br />
preparing to ‘let nature take<br />
its course’, I would beg you to<br />
think again! Where will you find<br />
homes for the puppies? You<br />
may have friends <strong>and</strong> relatives<br />
who say they would love one<br />
of her puppies because she’s<br />
so lovely, but you might have<br />
9 or 10 puppies for whom<br />
you need homes. The dogs’<br />
homes are overflowing with<br />
unwanted dogs. Most of them<br />
are mongrels who started life as<br />
cute puppies but their owners<br />
lost interest as they grew up<br />
or got too big. I’m sure you<br />
wouldn’t wish this fate on your<br />
puppies, but you just can’t tell<br />
what will happen.<br />
There is an old wives’ tale that<br />
says having a litter of puppies<br />
is good for the dog, but there<br />
is absolutely no truth in this<br />
belief. In addition, pregnancy<br />
<strong>and</strong> giving birth carries risks for<br />
your dog - she might need a<br />
caesarean or other intervention<br />
from the vet. This is both costly<br />
for you <strong>and</strong> painful for her.<br />
Please take my advice – get<br />
your bitch spayed so that you<br />
don’t add to the problem of<br />
unwanted stray dogs, <strong>and</strong> you<br />
keep her safe.<br />
Quite often, my dog will suffer a<br />
bad stomach. I think it could be<br />
something he eats when he’s<br />
out walking (he eats all manner<br />
of things!) but sometimes,<br />
that isn’t the case. Some of<br />
the smells coming from his<br />
backside are horrendous but<br />
it does settle down after a few<br />
days. Is there anything we can<br />
do to shorten the length of time<br />
he has these bouts for, <strong>and</strong> do<br />
we need to worry about any<br />
long-term conditions?<br />
Dogs are naturally scavengers<br />
<strong>and</strong> will eat anything they come<br />
across, no matter how rotten<br />
or dirty – in fact, the smellier<br />
the better! As a result, they<br />
frequently get stomach upsets,<br />
with symptoms of sickness<br />
<strong>and</strong>/or diarrhoea, which usually<br />
resolve in a few days, with or<br />
without medical intervention.<br />
Some dogs seem much<br />
more prone to this problem,<br />
<strong>and</strong> this may be because they<br />
scavenge more, or it may be<br />
that their digestive system is<br />
less robust than other dogs.<br />
You say that sometimes your<br />
dog gets problems when he<br />
hasn’t eaten anything – but, he<br />
could have found <strong>and</strong> quickly<br />
eaten something small that you<br />
didn’t notice, or even just licked<br />
something off his paw when he<br />
got home.<br />
When your dog has an attack,<br />
the first thing you need to do<br />
is to give his digestive system<br />
a rest. Withhold food for 12-24<br />
hours, then give him small meals<br />
of a bl<strong>and</strong> food. Ideally, get<br />
special food designed for this<br />
purpose from your vet, or cook<br />
for him a mixture of boiled rice<br />
<strong>and</strong> boiled white fish or chicken.<br />
It may be helpful to give him<br />
probiotics, available over the<br />
counter from your vet, as these<br />
seem to speed recovery.<br />
In the longer term, it may be<br />
worth changing your dog’s food.<br />
We are becoming increasingly<br />
aware of the importance of the<br />
intestinal ‘microbiome’ for many<br />
aspects of health in people<br />
<strong>and</strong> pets, <strong>and</strong> it may be that<br />
the reason your dog suffers<br />
so often from stomach upsets<br />
is to do with an imbalance<br />
in his microbiome. Your vet<br />
will be able to give you more<br />
information.<br />
As far as longer-term<br />
conditions are concerned, it<br />
is possible (though unlikely)<br />
that these episodes reflect a<br />
developing bowel problem<br />
(for example, inflammatory<br />
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getting more frequent or more<br />
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Spring seems to be the longest of<br />
the seasons, stretching from the<br />
uncertain flowering of the first bulbs<br />
to the first rose of summer.<br />
Winter flowers don’t count<br />
– spring is at h<strong>and</strong> when the<br />
snowdrops fade, not when their<br />
buds emerge tentatively through<br />
residual snow; nor the mini crepe<br />
paper streamer-like flowers of<br />
winter-flowering witch hazel or<br />
Hamamellis. Other shrubs such<br />
as the bright yellow flowers of<br />
Forsythia or the shocking pink of<br />
the flowering currant or Ribes are<br />
more reliable indicators of spring.<br />
The procession of bulb flowers<br />
from early crocus, dwarf iris <strong>and</strong><br />
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compact Narcissus ‘Tete a Tete’ or<br />
‘February Gold’ are soon caught<br />
up by a fanfare of golden trumpets<br />
from ‘proper’ tall daffodils such as<br />
‘Dutch Master’ <strong>and</strong> ‘King Arthur’.<br />
Finally, there's the onset of the<br />
tulip season, from the huge yellow<br />
goblets of Dutch hybrids like<br />
‘Golden Apeldoorn' to the dark <strong>and</strong><br />
mysterious purple ‘Queen of the<br />
Night’.<br />
The large forms of trees broadcast<br />
the arrival of spring; the tactile,<br />
fluffy white catkins of pussy willow,<br />
usually grown in the more compact<br />
form of weeping Kilmarnock<br />
willow, are a seasonal treat when<br />
the golden anthers emerge.<br />
Magnolias are<br />
the real harbinger<br />
of spring; downy<br />
winter buds begin<br />
to split in March,<br />
revealing pale pink<br />
petticoats beneath.<br />
Furry sepals are<br />
discarded like<br />
an unwanted<br />
winter coat as the<br />
exp<strong>and</strong>ing petals<br />
bloom in the<br />
warming spring<br />
air. They open out into surprisingly<br />
large chalices which while not<br />
fragrant in the normal sense, have a<br />
strange, heavy musky scent which<br />
once noted, becomes a recognised<br />
indicator of spring. A magnolia in full<br />
sail is an impressive sight. The usual<br />
colour is somewhere between<br />
blush <strong>and</strong> flesh pink with a central<br />
stain of deep pink on each petal.<br />
An extraordinary transformation<br />
occurs in early February when<br />
previously unremarkable trees<br />
reveal themselves to be the<br />
ornamental plum, Prunus<br />
ceracifera, as pale lavender-pink<br />
blossom billows across suburbia.<br />
There is no going back now - spring<br />
is truly sprung.<br />
Ornamental cherry blossom soon<br />
follows; Prunus ‘Okame’ is among<br />
the first, shortly followed by a<br />
plethora of Japanese hybrids such<br />
as the bright pink Prunus ‘Kanzan’<br />
or the Great White Cherry, Prunus<br />
‘Tai Haku’. For a few weeks, Britain’s<br />
parks <strong>and</strong> gardens resemble<br />
those of some Eastern paradise,<br />
westerly gales <strong>and</strong> April showers<br />
notwithst<strong>and</strong>ing. Next comes<br />
pretty, fragrant crab apple blossom<br />
before the darker pink ornamental
gardens<br />
hawthorn <strong>and</strong> finally laburnum as<br />
spring slides imperceptibly into<br />
summer.<br />
North Cardiff is fortunate in having<br />
many roads with substantial front<br />
gardens which lend amenity to the<br />
whole area when properly cared<br />
for. We owe a debt of gratitude<br />
to previous owners who had the<br />
foresight to plant a selection of<br />
trees <strong>and</strong> shrubs which chart the<br />
passage of spring. In an ideal world,<br />
any one garden would contain<br />
a number of these components<br />
but realistically, each will only<br />
contain one or two trees, which<br />
make it worthwhile borrowing<br />
the l<strong>and</strong>scape of a neighbouring<br />
garden <strong>and</strong> planting different trees<br />
to complement them, extending the<br />
season of interest.<br />
Fruit trees are another reliable<br />
gauge of the arrival of spring in the<br />
garden with star-spangled white<br />
plum trees, shortly followed by<br />
pears <strong>and</strong> finally, pink buds opening<br />
to pure white of apple blossom.<br />
These light up the garden before<br />
scattering their floral confetti<br />
around the garden.<br />
The longer daylength <strong>and</strong><br />
warming soil sees the first stirrings<br />
of herbaceous perennials which<br />
have lain dormant as roots <strong>and</strong><br />
storage organs below ground<br />
throughout winter. From the blanket<br />
of fallen decomposing leaves,<br />
shoots of early plants are now<br />
emerging, such as the delicate<br />
Dicentra spectablis better known<br />
as Bleeding heart. Pulmonarias<br />
or Lungwort are another group of<br />
early flowering plants; short sprays<br />
of pendulous tubular flowers much<br />
loved by bees emerge from clumps<br />
of foliage in shades of blue, mauve,<br />
pink or white.<br />
Once the flowers have faded, a<br />
fresh flush of blotched, spotted<br />
leaves emerge which, in times past,<br />
were regarded as being similar<br />
in appearance to the surface<br />
of ulcerated lungs, hence the<br />
common name of lungwort. The<br />
pink-flowered ‘Raspberry Splash’<br />
<strong>and</strong> the patriotically named ‘Blue<br />
Ensign’ are among the more<br />
popular varieties. The perennial<br />
wallflower, Erysimum ‘Bowles<br />
Mauve’ is another plant that will<br />
bloom all year in a sheltered spot<br />
given half a chance but is perhaps<br />
most noticeable in early spring.<br />
The bright yellow Erysimum<br />
‘Fragrant Sunshine’ benefits from<br />
sweetly smelling flowers <strong>and</strong><br />
many other red or multi-coloured<br />
forms are now becoming popular.<br />
Of course, if you had the foresight<br />
to obtain biennial wallflowers in<br />
autumn, you will now be seeing<br />
the benefit as masses of fragrant<br />
flowers are produced on tall plants<br />
in early spring. It’s not all about<br />
flowers at this time of year <strong>and</strong><br />
much pleasure is to be gained<br />
from seeing the emergent growth<br />
of herbaceous perennials greeting<br />
the new growing season with great<br />
vigour.<br />
Unfurling fern croziers emerge<br />
from unlikely shady places, taking<br />
their place in the weak sunshine<br />
before they are shaded out by the<br />
developing canopy of overhanging<br />
trees.<br />
Time spent in the garden in early<br />
spring is precious as the jobs that<br />
used to be done in autumn such as<br />
cutting back <strong>and</strong> clearing leaves<br />
can be completed now, having<br />
given shelter to wildlife throughout<br />
the winter. Missed pruning<br />
opportunities will soon be regretted<br />
as the weather improves <strong>and</strong> plants<br />
burst into life once more, whether<br />
we are ready for it or not.<br />
Day by day, the garden changes<br />
as leaves unfurl, hesitantly at<br />
first but soon with an urgency<br />
that is hard to contain as shoots<br />
race up <strong>and</strong> flowers erupt into an<br />
abundance of colour. Even if growth<br />
has begun on plants such as roses,<br />
it is still best to cut them hard back<br />
to encourage healthy new growth,<br />
which will flower more strongly later<br />
in the year.<br />
Some days must be ab<strong>and</strong>oned<br />
due to bad weather but get<br />
wrapped up <strong>and</strong> get out on the<br />
increasingly bright dry days which<br />
can be celebrated, although still<br />
sometimes on the cold side.<br />
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Written in 1988, Ernest Broad recalls an imaginary walk through his<br />
childhood <strong>Whitchurch</strong>. This first part of his journey takes us from Violet<br />
Place, through <strong>Whitchurch</strong> Common <strong>and</strong> up to Bishop's Road<br />
Violet Place is where I once lived,<br />
prior to the 1939-1945 War. This<br />
street was badly hit by the bombs<br />
of German aircraft with fatal<br />
casualties. It may be of interest to<br />
know the reason that I left Violet<br />
Place was that the rent of the<br />
house was fourteen shillings a<br />
week. I think that explains it.<br />
At the corner of Wauntreoda Road<br />
was a butcher’s shop. The house<br />
next door was used for the register<br />
of births <strong>and</strong> deaths. Opposite, on<br />
the corner of Birchgrove Road, was<br />
the house where Richard Lougher,<br />
the village blacksmith lived. He <strong>and</strong><br />
his wife walked to St Mary’s Church<br />
every Sunday morning, both always<br />
wearing black with Mr Lougher in a<br />
top hat.<br />
On the opposite corner was a<br />
bakery run by Mr Keeping, noted<br />
for his good baking. Further along<br />
was a newsagent shop run by a Mr<br />
Loveluck Jenkins.<br />
Nearing the common, we come to<br />
Flays Farm where they kept shire<br />
horses to pull the big dust carts<br />
for the refuse of the village. At the<br />
beginning of the Common on the<br />
left was Rosedene, the only house<br />
at that time on that side.<br />
On the right was Ealing Dean<br />
where lived Mr Eli Rees, whose<br />
son built most of the Greenclose<br />
Estate. On the other side stood the<br />
Three Elms public house, the name<br />
of which was taken from three<br />
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Part One<br />
elm trees which stood outside the<br />
Ararat church wall.<br />
Between the Three Elms <strong>and</strong> the<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> brook, the Blacksmith’s<br />
shop of Mr Lougher stood, at the<br />
side of which was an opening to<br />
the brook. Within here was an iron<br />
plate, used to fit the iron b<strong>and</strong>s on<br />
cart wheels as required. At one<br />
time, the Baptist minister used to<br />
use this opening to baptise his flock<br />
in the brook.<br />
Over the College Road bridge <strong>and</strong><br />
alongside the brook, was Isl<strong>and</strong><br />
Cottage Private School, where<br />
people who could afford it, sent<br />
their children. This was run by a<br />
very able schoolmistress called<br />
Miss Evans. Isl<strong>and</strong> Cottage was so<br />
called because the brook ran both<br />
sides of it, fed by a watercourse at<br />
the top of a one time waterfall. This<br />
same watercourse ran down to the<br />
Little Mill, driving the wheel of the<br />
mill.<br />
At the back of Isl<strong>and</strong> Cottage was<br />
a 14-acre field called the Polo Field<br />
where polo was played. There was<br />
a pavilion where refreshments<br />
were provided to the polo players.<br />
Where the Funeral Home house<br />
st<strong>and</strong>s was the house where Mr<br />
Jones, who cared for the stables of<br />
polo ponies, lived. At the back of<br />
the stables, there were cow sheds<br />
which housed cows belonging to<br />
Mr Fred Hale, a local farmer.<br />
To digress, Miss Evans the<br />
schoolmistress had two bachelor<br />
brothers who lived with her. One<br />
was going grey of hair so he dyed<br />
it black. Something was wrong with<br />
Delivery van at Jupps Confectionery, Brook Road, <strong>Whitchurch</strong>
the dye because it turned out olive<br />
green <strong>and</strong> was like it for years.<br />
On the left-h<strong>and</strong> bank of the<br />
<strong>Whitchurch</strong> Brook was the old<br />
sweet factory. It was first started by<br />
the Jupp family who took the name<br />
of Cecil Sweets Ltd. At first, it was<br />
an old army hut erected in the lane<br />
behind Brook Road. They sold the<br />
sweets they made there to all the<br />
children in the village.<br />
Later, another factory was built<br />
by Edwin Williams, <strong>and</strong> the firm<br />
exp<strong>and</strong>ed their sales to the<br />
Rhondda <strong>and</strong> Wye valleys.<br />
Down the lane across the road,<br />
alongside the brook, was the<br />
workshop <strong>and</strong> yard of Edwin<br />
Williams <strong>and</strong> Son, a builder of no<br />
mean repute. His works include<br />
Tabernacle Chapel, two houses on<br />
Brook Road <strong>and</strong> four houses on<br />
Merthyr Road. He also built a row of<br />
houses in Gl<strong>and</strong>wr Place, which is<br />
at right angles to Merthyr Road.<br />
His biggest job was the mansion<br />
called Coryton, once used by<br />
the Post Office. It was built for Sir<br />
Herbert Cory, who lived there for<br />
many years.<br />
Another two of his major jobs<br />
were the Parish Council offices in<br />
Bishop's Road <strong>and</strong> the Old Police<br />
Station in Ll<strong>and</strong>aff City. Part of<br />
Church Road was also built by him.<br />
It was the firm I was apprenticed<br />
to, which was to my advantage to<br />
learn a good trade. Incidentally,<br />
Tabernacle Chapel had one of<br />
the first suspended ceilings ever<br />
installed, the whole of the ceiling<br />
consisting of two inch by one inch<br />
wooden battens.<br />
Next but one to the Merthyr Road<br />
premises of Mr Williams was the<br />
farm house mentioned before.<br />
There was a dairy at the rear with<br />
stables for the milk cart which<br />
was driven by Isabelle, Fred Hale's<br />
daughter who ran the farm. This<br />
Lower end of Merthyr Road at the turn of the century<br />
house was later converted into two<br />
shops. Further up the road on the<br />
left was a lane leading to a large<br />
yard owned by Fred Hale. In the<br />
yard was a large open barn, used<br />
to stack hay <strong>and</strong> corn. There were<br />
also large stables with farm horses<br />
used for ploughing etc. This is now<br />
Bl<strong>and</strong>on Way.<br />
Approaching Bishop's Road on the<br />
opposite side was the Post Office.<br />
The second hospital evacuation unit of the United States Army<br />
presents <strong>Whitchurch</strong> with an avenue of trees in gratitude for the<br />
hospitality given to them during World War II.<br />
This was a farm run by Mr Tom<br />
Samuel, whose cows used to cross<br />
the road into Bishop's Road <strong>and</strong> on<br />
the right-h<strong>and</strong> side were the fields<br />
where they would graze. Another<br />
grazing ground were the fields at<br />
the back of the farm where the<br />
school now st<strong>and</strong>s.<br />
The shop where Seconds used<br />
to be, was a grocer’s shop kept by<br />
Mr Richard Day, which also had a<br />
bake house at the rear. In the lane<br />
at the back of this were several<br />
large sheds where there was a<br />
taxi service with one taxi, a Ford,<br />
with the number B.O.500. This<br />
was plied by Mr Stockford. In one<br />
of the sheds was a hansom cab<br />
which was also for hire. This was<br />
feature history<br />
driven by Mr William Hill, who also<br />
ran a haulage business. I recall an<br />
amusing incident related to this.<br />
Mr Williams the builder hired Mr<br />
Hill to haul some heavy timbers to<br />
Radyr Electrical sub-station. The<br />
timbers were required to make a<br />
gantry to lower a transformer into<br />
the sub-station.<br />
Mr Hill had a large white mule<br />
to pull the cart which was flat<br />
bottomed. On seeing the heavy<br />
load, Mr Hill hired a gypsy’s horse<br />
from where they were camping on<br />
the Common. The gypsy insisted<br />
on going as well.<br />
They started out from Merthyr<br />
Road <strong>and</strong> myself <strong>and</strong> a labourer<br />
went on our cycles by a short cut<br />
over the river bridge. On arriving,<br />
we expected a quarter of an hour<br />
wait, but this wait lasted much<br />
longer. Mr Williams turned up <strong>and</strong><br />
asked where Mr Hill was. We didn’t<br />
know, so he asked me to go on my<br />
cycle <strong>and</strong> see if I could find him.<br />
I found him at the bottom of the<br />
steep hill into Radyr. On enquiring,<br />
what was wrong, Mr Hill said they<br />
couldn’t pull the load up the hill.<br />
So, I suggested he unload half<br />
it <strong>and</strong> then come back for it. He<br />
said he would have another try by<br />
galloping along the flat before the<br />
hill.<br />
Now the gypsy’s horse was<br />
harnessed in front of the white<br />
mule so they started off. Halfway<br />
up the hill, the front horse stopped<br />
<strong>and</strong> the mule l<strong>and</strong>ed on top of him,<br />
whereupon Mr Hill <strong>and</strong> the gypsy<br />
came to blows. When all this fuss<br />
had calmed down, they decided to<br />
unload half the timbers <strong>and</strong> return<br />
for them. Upon eventually arriving<br />
at the sub-station, Mr Hill asked<br />
me to loan him tuppence for a<br />
packet of cigarettes as he only had<br />
sovereigns in a pouch. I don’t think<br />
Mr Williams made a lot of profit out<br />
of that job.<br />
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2 red onions, diced<br />
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minutes until soft. Add the spices<br />
<strong>and</strong> cori<strong>and</strong>er <strong>and</strong> cook for another<br />
minute. Remove from the heat.<br />
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add a squeeze of lemon juice. Form<br />
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aside in the fridge until you are ready<br />
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press the burgers onto the polenta.<br />
Heat the sunflower oil in a pan <strong>and</strong><br />
fry the burgers on both sides until<br />
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☐ Serve in the buns with the salad<br />
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☐ Heat the olive oil in a heavybottomed<br />
pot, over a medium-low<br />
heat. When the pot is hot, add the<br />
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keep the onions from burning.<br />
☐ Add the entire can of whole<br />
tomatoes, including the liquid, <strong>and</strong><br />
1 cup of water. Using the back of a<br />
wooden spoon, gently smash the<br />
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basil leaves, <strong>and</strong> cashew cream, if you<br />
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Buddha bowl<br />
1 can chickpeas, drained <strong>and</strong> rinsed<br />
60g sunflower seeds<br />
2 tbsp hemp seeds (optional)<br />
2 tbsp unhulled sesame seeds<br />
3 cloves garlic<br />
h<strong>and</strong>ful fresh parsley<br />
h<strong>and</strong>ful fresh cori<strong>and</strong>er<br />
1/2 small red onion, chopped<br />
1 tsp ground cumin<br />
1/2 tsp sea salt<br />
1/4 tsp black pepper<br />
2 tbsp tahini<br />
2 tsp olive oil (or coconut oil)<br />
2 tbsp buckwheat flour<br />
cashew dressing<br />
115g quinoa, cooked <strong>and</strong> cooled<br />
1 romaine lettuce<br />
1 cucumber, diced<br />
100g cherry tomatoes, halved or cut<br />
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shredded beets, carrots, chopped<br />
radishes, <strong>and</strong> peppers<br />
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kimchi (optional)<br />
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sprinkle with sea salt <strong>and</strong> pepper.<br />
Basil <strong>and</strong><br />
avocado on<br />
toast<br />
1 avocado<br />
juice of one lemon<br />
h<strong>and</strong>ful of basil leaves<br />
two slices of bread<br />
salt <strong>and</strong> pepper to taste<br />
☐ Wash the basil leaves <strong>and</strong> pat<br />
dry with kitchen towel.<br />
☐ Slice open the avocado <strong>and</strong><br />
remove the stone by pushing<br />
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twisting it. Scoop out the flesh of<br />
the avocado <strong>and</strong> place in a small<br />
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☐ Toast two slices of bread in a<br />
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☐ Mash the avocado with a fork,<br />
adding the juice of one lemon.<br />
Add to the toast when ready.<br />
☐ Season with salt <strong>and</strong> pepper to<br />
taste <strong>and</strong> finally add basil leaves<br />
on the top.<br />
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