Dancing With Her - Volume Seven - Digital Magazine

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Tara Baker
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Arlia Hassell
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THINGS WE LOVE
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DEE & JESS
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SELF EMBRACE
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BECK & HOLLY
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DENISE & RACHAEL
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JULIA & LAURA
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LOVE AMONG THE REDWOODS
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ÈRICA & GESSIKA
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HOW TO PULL OFF A DRY WEDDING
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CLARA & SOPHIE
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UNTAMED ROMANCE
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MEET, EMILY HOWLETT PHOTOGRAPHY
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AN ELOPEMENT MEANS YOU CAN’T HAVE GUESTS
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GEM & HUDA
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KAILA & MORGAN
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KAYLEE & TRACI
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ALLYSON & GRAYSON
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THE LIST
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HOW TO HONEYMOON SAFELY AS AN LGBTQ+ COUPLE
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CULTURAL HONEYMOONS
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HELLO
Welcome to Volume Seven.
It’s been a touch over two years since the very first issue of Dancing With Her
Magazine was released to the wild, and even in that time frame, there has been a
change in the wedding industry.
We are seeing so many more couples feeling empowered in their wedding plans to
throw away traditions and get down to the core of why they’re making this decision
to marry. And, we think this edition really celebrates that.
Inside you’ll find Dee & Jess’ story. They planned their Byron Bay wedding from
their home in London. Jess had her non-traditional wedding dress same-day
delivered two days before they left for Australia. You’ll find Beck and Holly, who
threw a beautiful dinner in a greenhouse, shared their vows, and head out to a pub
to party. Beck feeling comfortable and looking good in a bright printed shirt. You’ll
also meet Èrica and Gessika, whose love for superhero’s shone through with their
unique Batman inspired wedding cake.
We a beautiful piece about embracing who you are and feeling comfortable in your
own skin by Benjamin Urquhart, of Kings and Thieves. It’s a piece that when I first
read it, I found myself going back and reading it all over again. It’s such an important
message, and I know I’ll find myself sitting down again to remind myself of the
messages he shares. We also get to meet the newly married Emily Riley, of Emily
Howlett Photography.
We bust some elopement myths and talk candidly about how you can travel safely
as an LGBTQ+ couple.
We know you’re going to love this edition.
Love,
Arlia & Tara
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FOUR QUEER ARISTS WHOSE
INSTAGRAMS WE ARE CRUSHING ON
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GGGGRIMES
Gabriella is a self-identified non-binary, black,
gay from the Bronx and their art is sexy, colorful
and celebrates the beauty of being queer.
IG / @ggggrimes
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SHANEE BENJAMIN
We particularly love Shanée ‘Herstory’ project.
It’s one that has fun 70’s vibes & celebrates
positive black women.
IG / @shaneebenjamin
Handpoured in Sydney and smells that are
beautifully familar - we’re in love with Maison
Blanche. These candles are made using all
natural ingredients, and come in a huge range
of fragrances - there is something for everyone.
They also have gift packs available with an array
of scents - perfect for wedding party gifts.
If you adore the smell of fresh laundry, Cotton
and Chamomile is a must. Bergamont and
Tabacco is just one of those smells that brings
back memories, there’s just something special
about it. And, for the romantics out there,
Rose and Amber makes a beautiful gift - to your
partner, to a loved one, or to yourself.
These candles can be shipped across the world.
www.maisonblanche.com.au
Giving a gift to the lover marrying is a tradition
that we adore - and if you’re stuck for ideas
on a gift that’s sweet, memorable and totally
unique, we’ve got your back.
Meet Bon Bon Bon. A Detroit chocolate
company recreating the ever romantic
mixtape into, you guessed it chocolate. The
flavors are unique - don’t knock the white
chocolate and Flamin’ Hot Cheeto combo
until you’ve tried it. The flavors are named just
as quirky as their combinations, some of our
favorites; ‘Bitter Bitch’, ‘Black Like My Heart’ &
the extra delicious, ‘Nudes’.
www.bonbonbon.com
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WEDNESDAY HOLMES
Sure we love cute little illustrations like this one,
but what we love most about Wednesday’s
work is their useful infographics.
IG / @hellomynameiswednesday
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SHRIMP TEETH
If you need more sex positive content in your
feed [who doesn’t] Shrimp Teeth is both super
inclusive and educational.
IG / @shrimpteeth
Want to win this signature 9ct yellow
gold cater ring thanks to Albert Tse
Metalsmith? It’s rustic texture is
created through sandcasting which
means every one created is unique and
one-of-a-kind.
Just head to dancingwithher.com/win
to enter. This giveaway is open to
anyone in the world and is valued at
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You tuck your wedding flowers delicately
into your hair. You have little hands sprinkle
them down the aisle. You hold your wedding
bouquet close as you say I do and toss them in
celebration at the end of the night.
But, thanks to the creative people behind Soil
& Soul, your wedding bouquet can live on in
a unique, custom piece of art. Our choice, the
ring holder. It’s only fitting that your wedding
rings rest on your bouquet when they’re not on
your finger.
www.soilandsoul.studio
Finding vegan and cruelty-free makeup
isn’t always easy - particularly if you’re
looking for something that’s also free of
gluten, synthetic fragrances, and mineral
oils.
Let us introduce you to Gemma Vendetta.
Their values; no animal testing, not now,
not ever. And, cruelty-free values aren’t
the only good thing about this Australian
owned brand, their makeup is some of
the best vegan makeup on the market.
www.gemmavendetta.com.au
There is no reason why your wedding
bouquet can’t live on beyond the wedding
day, and this is one of the most unique
ways we’ve ever seen them preserved - in
embroidery.
Muted Rose Embroidery derives from
Author and writer, Teagan Olivia Sturmer,
own battle with anxiety and depression. She
often feels like her anxiety and depression
tries to stifle and mute her creativity, but she
strives to grow through it.
And the results; so unique, so perfect. We
didn’t know we could be so in love with
something often thought of as old fashioned.
www.instagram.com/teaganoliviasturmer
Have you ever thought of stamping your own wedding day confetti from leaves
in your backyard? Take our word for it, it is a task that will be more time-consuming
than you imagine. It is a task left for the professionals. Eco-Confetti is a family
business. They rake up fallen leaves from Nanna’s Gum Trees and the family sit
around the kitchen table, cheeseboards closeby, to stamp out beautiful eco-confetti.
www.econfetti.com.au
Love each other and love yourself just as much.
We adore the critical message about self-love at
any size behind the brand Nope Sisters Clothing.
Every ‘fashion for a cause’ design starts
important conversations around breast cancer
awareness, sexual abuse, youth suicide, period
poverty, and eating disorders, they then share
profit with charities that help those affected by
the issues.
www.nopesisters.com
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DEE & JESS
PHOTOGRAPHY BY PEPPERMINT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.peppermintphotography.com.au
BYRON BAY, AUSTRALIA
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As a couple, Dee & Jess couldn’t be more different. Dee’s a stress head
while Jess is cool, calm, and collected. Jess constantly loses her belongings,
and Dee has everything in order. Dee is grounded, while Jess is a free
spirit. Basically, they’re a Gemini and Virgo at their finest. The least most
compatible signs, but somehow, they just work.
They don’t really remember how they met, they’ve just been in each
other’s orbit since they were 14 and lived in their hometown, Geelong. It’s
not where the two lovers live now, instead choosing London as their home.
There is a small part of the world that Dee and Jess call their special place,
Byron Bay. It’s where they first road-tripped to as new lovers, it’s where
they rang in multiple NYE’s and where they got engaged. There simply was
no other place for them to tie the knot.
So, they flew in from London, and flew their family up from Geelong. Just
25 guests made up this intimate affair.
Dee & Jess went for a less is more approach. They wanted their wedding
day to be a true reflection of themselves, something raw and laid back. So
laid back that they didn’t go into their day with any expectations – nothing
can disappoint if you don’t have a perfect idea in your head of how it
should be run.
The wedding was planned from the other side of the world. Something
that should have been stressful, but was made easy by a team of incredible
wedding suppliers.
Early on, it became evident that the couple was on the same page about
a big part of wedding planning, the budget. Neither bride-to-be felt
that spending a huge amount of money on one day was a good idea –
especially since they had plans to buy a home and go down the route of
IVF later on. That decision led to a private event without the bells and
whistles. There wasn’t a wedding arbor, expensive dresses, flowers, cake,
wedding parties or invitations. Dee and Jess decided that photography,
food, and videography were the things that were most important to them.
They splashed out on those, but cut back on everything else.
Although, there was a moment of muddiness where they nearly dropped
$12k on two dresses! They quickly snapped out of that idea, and laid out a
game plan to find a more practical solution.
Dee ended up walking into a London department store, tried on her little
white number, tested out if she could boogie and headed to the cashier.
Jess brought two white dresses, but three days before leaving for Australia,
decided they weren’t for her. So, she found one online, had a same-day
delivery, got the alterations and picked it up the day before they flew out.
The wedding day started out the same way that planning had gone… nice
and relaxed. The couple ate croissants and sipped champagne by the pool.
After hair and makeup, the photographer arrived and they had a prewedding
photoshoot in the villa.
When the time came, they jumped in their rental car and arrived at their
ceremony, meeting the coordinator and celebrant for the first time. Their
guests arrived via bus, and they welcomed them with drinks before the
ceremony began.
The ceremony was personal and lighthearted. After winning ‘rock, paper,
scissors,’ Jess read her vows first. Tears ensued, and then Dee’s vows. They
signed the wedding certificate, played a game of giant Jenga and sat down
to a shared tasting menu – the guests still talk about how good the food
was. And, after an hour of wining and dining, they swapped out heels for
comfy Cons and took up their position on the dance floor.
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Accommodation Villa Rustica | Accessories Sportsgirl, Lovisa | Catering Fig Tree Restaurant | Celebrant Erin Woodhall | Ceremony & Reception
Venue Byron View Farm | Cinematographer MOS & CO | Dessert Cart Wheel & Spoon | Engagement Rings Ralf Fisch Fine Jewellery | Entertainment
Hailey Calvert | Event Planner & Stylist Elope Byron Bay | Gown Designers Balmain, Halston | H&MU Kat McAndrew | Lighting & Sound Hire
Byron Audio | Photographer Peppermint Photography | Prop & Furniture Hire The Wedding Shed | Shoes Maison Margiela, Michael Kors, Converse
Stationery Deanna German | Transport Steve’s Transport | Wedding Rings Emma Franklin
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SELF EMBRACE
Words and Images by Benjamin Urquhart of Kings and Thieves
www.kingsandthiev.es
Have you seen a baby learning to walk? I have two kids, and my two-yearold
is still working this stuff out. She has such sass when she walks, planting
one chunky foot in front of the other, supported by loose knees and hips,
letting her arms sway in an opposite, gracefully-manic rhythm to the rest
of her body. Yeah, it’s adorable. And she flaunts it.
These kids do a bunch of cute stuff. Singing Frozen together in the middle
of the supermarket. Walking up to strangers and saying hi (might have to
watch that one). Checking themselves out in the mirror and planting huge
wet kisses on their reflections. They do all this stuff without thinking twice.
Their self-love and confidence is full and enveloping. And for their whole
lives, I’ve envied them.
When I think back to my own childhood, all I can remember is feeling
uncomfortable — always plucking at my shirt and double thinking what
I should say. Opting for conservative dress over something that would
offend or I thought would look weird to others. I was living inside my head,
for the most part, seeking validation from others and feeding this negative
feedback loop. It wreaked havoc on my confidence, and continued to do
so well into my teenage and adult years.
I’d always furiously wondered how other people could do stuff without
feeling weird, or feared what other people thought. I’d always wanted to
sing at the top of my lungs and dance uncontrollably, or on an everyday
level, have my photo taken without scanning the things I didn’t like about
my body and face. Usually, I felt weird in photos because I overthought
what ‘just act natural’ was, as if I had to hold back for some reason, and the
flash would go off while I’m stuck inside my head, producing a photograph
of the shell of who I truly was.
What’s up with this censoring of self, and how did it come to control my
life? How did I forget how to be comfortable in my own skin?
I realized recently through journaling and questioning, that for my entire
existence, I had welcomed my own negativity to exercise its power over
my self-expression and esteem.
Have you watched The Cosmos on Netflix? I did, a couple of years ago,
when I was in an admittedly depressive state. I wasn’t expecting the
change that was about to come, but twenty minutes into the first episode,
I was soaking in the deepest spiritual and existential experience (read:
crisis) of my life.
Without leading you too far down the existential rabbit hole, I realized
that in the scale of the solar system, our galaxy, and the billions of other
galaxies throughout the universe, all of the problems that were swallowing
me whole at that point in time, didn’t really matter. What’s more, the
amount of time that we’re here, alive and sentient, is minuscule against
the scale of time itself. We are here, for less than a second, floating on this
piece of dust in the universe...
...how incredibly liberating! Nothing breathed life into me than this
realization - the thought that I could do anything and actually live.
Finally, I could actually be myself and not worry about these made-up
repercussions. Why the hell was I letting myself waste the precious time
I’d been given, living a self-censored life?
I hope I’m not the weird one, and that this is speaking to you. But I think
we’re all the same, in one way or another. Take a walk outside (you’ll need
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it after reading this brain fart) and take note of the people you pass.
We’ve all evolved to be these weird, sentient, introspective, flabby, bipedal
creatures. And we all want and desire the same things, fundamentally.
We’re all built from the same parts. We all deal with feelings of negativity,
some more crippling than others. But a lot of the time, the origin of our
negative thoughts comes from ourselves, our big dumb brains expanding
on our fears of made-up social consequence and body image. There is
nothing more empowering than realizing that we are in ultimate control
of our thoughts and actions, and embracing who we truly are as our own
people is the greatest change we can make in our lives.
I would have never had the confidence to speak to a crowd of 100
professional photographers, including the idols I’d praised for years in
my industry, if it wasn’t for this line of thinking. When I got up to speak,
someone asked if I was nervous - I wasn’t in the slightest, because I knew
that all the humans sitting in front of me are all fundamentally the same as
me. And if I could use this temporary moment in time to make them feel
as empowered with their creativity and selves as much as possible, then
lemme at it. I know that’s what I’d want if I was sitting in the crowd.
We all want to be loved and encouraged. We want to feel good, as much
as possible. It’s exhausting hiding who we truly are.
These realizations have made me kinder to myself, a better photographer,
and more loving and accepting as a human being. Life is too short for
negativity, and none of us want to experience it. I’ll take any chance I can
get to encourage others, because I want that for myself.
When I’m shooting a wedding, or spending time with the people I’m
making portraits of, I want them to feel as liberated and electric as can
be. I’m a huge fan of the experience, and I want to foster real, intimate
situations where passion takes over, and you can’t help but live from the
heart. I want to be overflowing with that same energy, feeling great about
myself, so that the people around me feel the same way about themselves.
A word of advice for your wedding? It’s the same advice I’d give for any
other day. Do it for you. Flaunt the outfit you’ve always wanted to wear.
Play your favorite music. Stuff tradition, and live the day to its fullest. No
one has power over you and your choices.
I know a lot of us dread having photos taken, fearing the way we’ll look
in those photos. I’m still this way, and it’s hard to shake. But when you
choose your photographer (if you choose even to have one), make sure
they’re full of life, and that their work shows it. I’ve personally never been
a fan of the classic poses, they tend to feel a bit shallow. I want to live life,
and feel passion and magnetism. I think that the best photos embrace true
emotion and sweeping movement over technical perfection. I want to feel
and live life, dammit. Don’t you?
Just last week, I was paid the greatest compliment of my life. I was on
a shoot, and mid-way through the portraits with this couple, the groom
turned to me and said, “Your daughters are going to grow up feeling
amazing about themselves with you as their Dad.” I was fighting tears
then, and I am right now writing this piece. And as I peek out the door
of my studio and watch my two-year-old flaunting her sassy walk, and my
four-year-old singing at the top of her lungs, I can’t help but feel like I
should too.
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BECK & HOLLY
PHOTOGRAPHY BY PHOTOS BY JESS ROSE
www.photosbyjessrose.com
LONDON, ENGLAND
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They locked eyes at Brighton Pride, stars aligned… and the rest is history.
Beck and Holly met almost five years ago and both recall that moment as
one of those, where ‘you just know.’ Life as a couple had its challenges at
the start, but after conquering those hurdles, they say life ‘became pretty
sweet.’
During a holiday to Berlin, where they were having the best time ever, Beck
decided to surprise Holly with her proposal. During a boozy afternoon on
their hotel rooftop bar, drinking Rosé in the sun and wrestling on the floor
(as you do when you’re in Berlin!) Beck whipped the ring out of nowhere
and asked Holly to be her wife. The freshly engaged couple then called
their friends, who were also in town, went out to celebrate!
Both Holly and Beck love being in nature as much as possible, so they
wanted a laid back wedding that was rustic and natural. They decided
that a rural venue within London was the right choice for them. With two
venues to choose from, they settled on Petersham Nurseries as it was an
absolutely beautiful spot filled with plants, flowers and wildlife.
To slide in with the laid back vibe, there was no strict dress code or any
rules. They just wanted people to come as their true selves! Being both
chilled people, they wanted everyone that came, including themselves, to
feel relaxed and happy.
Both Beck and Holly’s outfit choices were chosen to reflect their own style.
Holly had her amazing designer friend create a bespoke two-piece dress
just for her. Beck was on the hunt for the perfect, bright and original shirt
to wear, trying on over six different shirts until she found ‘the one’… and
what a perfect choice!
Petersham didn’t have a wedding license so the brides were legally wed
the day before.
On their wedding day, Beck and Holly celebrated with their loved ones in
an event that was simply perfect for them. They remember their guest’s
faces as they arrived at Petersham Nurseries, when they saw just how
beautiful the venue was.
The ceremony and reception took place in the venue’s glass nursery,
brimming with lush greenery and rustic tables lined with bright floral
arrangements of pink, peach and red hues.
Their two best mates James and James, one in drag, unofficially ‘married’
them at Petersham in front of family and friends. They were hilarious all
day, and their speeches were some of the most memorable moments of
the day.
After having many lovely things said about them as both individuals and as
a couple, the brides exchanged vows.
To avoid guests waiting around, they both decided against couples photos.
This meant they got to spend more time relaxing and just having a lovely
time. It also meant that their photos were extremely candid, honest and
heartfelt.
After the ceremony finished, they sat down at a big table to eat and drink.
Beck and Holly both reflect that it was very sweet and magical.
Then Beck and Holly took to the dance floor and had their first dance
to the hit ‘She Drives Me Crazy’ by Fine Young Cannibals- of which Holly
admits, ‘Because, she does.’ There was plenty of booze, so they spent the
rest of the evening partying and enjoying their time with their loved ones.
Looking back at their wedding day, Beck and Holly have no regrets apart
from wishing the day lasted longer - it flew by! They both admit they did it
just for the party… and, what a party it was!
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Cake Elisha Shek | Catering & Ceremony Venue Petersham Nurseries | Engagement Rings Broken Lock | Florist Petersham Nurseries | Flower Girl
Outfits John Lewis & Partners | Gown Designer Felippe Johann | Pants Ziggy Chen | Photographer Photos by Jess Rose | Shirt Stella McCartney
Shoes Comme De Garcon x Dr Martens, Vans | Wedding Rings Church Street Jewellers
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DENISE & RACHAEL
PHOTOGRAPHY BY MOLLY GRUNEWALD PHOTOGRAPHY
www.mollygrunewald.com
DETROIT, USA
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Italian food and Aperol spritz set the scenes for not one, but two proposals!
After a move to Detroit over six years ago for Denise’s nursing job, she met
Rachael on dating site OkCupid. The pair met up and spent the entire night
talking endlessly, and were inseparable thereafter.
A few years later, the couple were planning a trip to Europe together. At
the same time, Denise had been secretly planning a surprise proposal.
After arriving in Europe, Denise and Rachael found themselves in Cinque
Terre, Italy. Whilst hiking between villages, Denise carried the ring safety
pinned in her pocket. They swam, ate focaccia, sipped Aperol spritz,
enjoyed a seafood feast and had the most beautiful day. She waited the
entire day and ended up proposing to Rachael in their Airbnb. Of course,
she said yes!
Funny enough, during a wedding planning date where the women were
yet again drinking Aperol spritz, Rachael reverse proposed to Denise.
Their friend Steve lent his skills, collaborating with them in designing
their wedding invitations- coming up with a folky, vintage vibe. They loved
their invitations so much that they decided to continue the vibe, and let it
inspire the rest of the wedding theme.
As Denise and Rachael already have an eclectic feel in their home, they
used a lot of their favorite pieces to decorate their wedding day! They
also delved into other DIY projects, such as making their own cake and
bouquets… and they were incredible.
In choosing a venue, the women scoured the internet for a location in
Michigan that was outdoors, offered accommodation and large enough
to host the event for all their closest family and friends. They visited
Green Gardens Community Farm for a tour and fell in love immediately.
To make sure they didn’t pick out the same wedding outfits, the brides-tobe
sent one of their bridesmaids to both fittings. Denise found her dress at
Detroit Bridal House -a highly recommended local business that she fell in
love with. While Rachael took a trip to Chicago with her friends and found
her dress and jumpsuit at the BHLDN showroom.
The night before their big day, they slept in separate rooms in the
farmhouse and met for their morning coffee. They then returned to their
bridal parties to get ready for the rest of the day.
Before the ceremony, Denise and Rachael met for their first look, which
was an intimate and emotional moment where they promised to stay with
one another for the rest of the day.
The brides then met guests for their beautiful ceremony at ‘The Vista
Site’ on the farm. Their vows were officiated by celebrant Robert Littleton
(a friend of the brides), making the exchange of vows extra special.
Shortly after, the newlyweds gathered with their bridal party in the
farmhouse and had a toast before they were formally introduced to
everyone waiting in the greenhouse.
They then feasted on tacos from Donkey Taqueria for dinner and had some
amazing toasts by their friends and family.
Then husband/wife DJ duo, ‘Good Music Gentleman,’ set the scene
alive with a Motown and funk style setlist. Denise’s favorite moment
was dancing with her wife, spinning in the middle of all their family and
friends! They partied long into the night, everybody having an amazing
time. It was magical!
A perfect day that brought to light what their own sense of marriage isgetting
to feel safe in their relationship and knowing that they can count
on the other person until the end of time.
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Bartenders Happily Ever After Bartending | Bridesman Attire Stitch And Tie | Bridal Boutique BHLDN, Detroit Bridal House | Bridemaids Gifts SolarBird,
Analy Jewelry, Iebis, Handmade by Kshedd | Bridesman Gifts Elena and Chris | Cake DIY, MOH Beth | Catering Donkey Taqueria Celebrant Robert
Littleton | Ceremony & Reception Venue Green Gardens Community Farm | Cinematographer Refracted Films | Desserts Sweetwater Engagement
Rings Young in the Mountains, McFarland Designs | Entertainment Good Music Gentleman | Florist Green Gardens Community Farm Flower Girl
Accessories Brief off Etsy, Elena and Chris | Gown Designers BHLDN, Stella York | Page Boy Outfits Nautica | Photographer Molly Grunewald
Photography | Shoes Toms, Doc Martens | Suspenders London Jae Apparel | Transport B & W Charters, Inc. | Wedding Rings Young in the Mountains
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JULIA & LAURA
PHOTOGRAPHY BY ASHLEIGH HAASE PHOTOGRAPHY
www.ashleighhaase.com
MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA
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It started with the perfect proposal, on Julia’s fifth attempt!
Julia and Lauren had travelled to Honolulu to attend a friend’s wedding,
and Julia wasn’t going to miss the opportunity to use the Hawaiian
landscape for a memorable proposal. However, a series of unfortunate
events led plan A to B to C, then finally D. Heavy rain ruined Julia’s plans to
pop the question on top of the Koko Head Crater, another friend’s proposal
hijacked her own beach sunset proposal and then unexpected tour groups
stole their privacy for plans C and D.
Nonetheless, Julia’s proposal on bended knee at the entrance of the
Diamond Head Crater was everything she could of asked for. After Julia
saw Lauren’s reaction to the ring, she proposed in a sea of tears and
Lauren said yes straight away.
Both Julia and Lauren wanted a casual wedding and let their mutual
love for craft beer guide their choice of venue. They both envisioned an
atmosphere that was both casual and intimate, with an emphasis on a
memorable party and leaving their guests with reveries of the love felt in
the room.
Julia showed Lauren the Moon Dog Ballroom, a brewery that she was
familiar with and they both agreed it was the perfect space for their day.
The function manager of the venue was in full support of their vision,
including having their beloved dog Archie as ring bearer during the
ceremony, which cemented their choice.
Their outfit choice was a given from the very beginning, with both girls
knowing that they would be wearing dresses. They decided to keep their
dresses a secret until the reveal prior to the ceremony and joked at the
thought of turning up in the same dress.
On the morning of their wedding, the lovers started off separately and
got ready with their bridal parties. Staying in the same hotel created a
challenge… to make sure they didn’t see each other before the first reveal.
Wearing bright sparkly docs, Julia walked to a beautiful spot between the
hotel and a section of the Yarra River, while Lauren drove with her dad and
sister. The girls both wore denim over their gorgeous gowns and Julia wore
a stunning floral headpiece made by one of her bridesmaids.
The reveal was one of their all-time favourite moments of the day, with
Julia bursting into tears of happiness upon seeing Lauren arrive.
The ceremony was perfect, adorned with DIY flowers that Lauren had
made with her father-in-law, surrounded by their loved ones and their ring
bearer, Archie the dog.
After family photos, the night kicked off with a performance by Julia’s
West African dance group, which she surprised Lauren by jumping in
and dancing in her wedding dress. There were some beautiful speeches,
followed by an amazing first dance.
To add a personal touch to the setting, a table was set up with photos
of their loved ones that had passed. Also, the room featured sugar skulls
and the papel picado decorations which were personalised and made in
Mexico as a knot to Julia’s Latin background.
The now married women then spent the rest of the night socializing,
drinking and dancing to hits including Daryl Braithwaite’s ‘Horses’. Their
marriage signified the beginning of the next chapter of their life as a family.
A day and night filled with love that echoed the persona of both its brides.
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Bridal Boutique Brides of Melbourne, Luv Bridal | Cake Yvette Alexandra Cakes | Celebrant Janet Hussey | Ceremony & Reception Venue Moon Dog
Craft Brewery | Cookies Sugar Plum Fairy Cakes | Decorative Elements Belle Balloons | Engagement & Wedding Rings Quintin and Co | Entertainment
Melbourne Djembe | Food Trucks Taco Truck, Happy Camper Pizza | Gown Designers Wilderly Bridal, Madi Lane Bridal | H&MU Rhea Vine Hair and
Makeup Artistry, Iris Wieselmann | Page Boy Outfits Myer | Pet Accessories Etsy, Swanky Paws AU | Photographer Ashleigh Haase Photography
Robes Bride Tribe, Le Rose | Shoes Dr. Martens, Bared Footwear | Wedding Party Gifts Etsy, Frank Green, Sit Stay Society, Ted Baker, Oasis
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LOVE AMONG THE REDWOODS
Wedding Outfits Elissa Marie Design | Photography Teodora Tinc Photography | Hair & Makeup Laura Baldwin | Lovers Paige & Tahlia
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A note from the designer, Elissa Marie Design
www.elissamarie.com.au
On a cold and wet day, in the middle of a forest, we created a little change room in between trees,
hung bridal couture from branches, and created some magic. We were joined by a gorgeous young
couple Paige and Tahlia (together four years now). Our toes froze, we laughed too much, cried in
the presence of love, skipped between ferns and embraced each other with love. We created a little
project to reflect our hearts and raw beliefs, with no boundaries and no filters.
A long time friendship grew between myself and photographer, Teodora Tinc, as we each took on our
dreams and started our own little businesses. After collaborating on many photoshoots, learning, and
growing together, the Redwood Love Story was born, the most epic one yet.
Our hearts had a calling to express our love and support for marriage equality, and to inspire all
couples to strive for an authentic and unique wedding that truly reflects them.
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ÈRICA & GESSIKA
PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANTIBISUAL
www.antibisual.com
LLEIDA, SPAIN
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After a long fight for their love to be heard, Èrica and Gessika found
themselves in Italy for their dream proposal.
After years of struggling for acceptance as a couple from their family,
Èrica and Gessika finally got the approval and recognition they so longed
for. This catapulted their relationship to a deeper level of love and
understanding.
In the European winter of 2017, they flew to Italy and got engaged at the
Trevi Fountain, in Rome. A moment that both women will never forget and
the beginning of many months of planning their dream wedding day.
After hiring Mrs. Popi, the best Spanish wedding organizer in the west of
Catalonia, Èrica and Gessika knew that their dream celebration was about
to unfold. Mrs. Popi used his famous skills of charisma, kindness and
affection mixed with a little rock and roll to bring their dreams alive.
On their wedding day, Èrica and Gessika began their morning with their
official ‘I do’ signing in front of the mayor, accompanied by bridesmaids
Naiara and Sandra. Once the signing was over, they said goodbye with a
strong and intense hug that would reappear a little later, with a new sense
of ‘forever.’
The women then returned to their respective houses to get ready with
their loved ones. Dressed in a stunning white gown and deep burgundy
suit, Èrica and Gessika made their way to the Divina Pastora de Balaguer
Estate, where all of their guests were waiting.
The day was perfectly captured by photographer Estefania de Antibisual
and the videographers from Kinotheque Weddings. The brides admit they
never stop looking at their perfect memories as it transports them straight
back to their wedding day.
As it was Gessika’s dream to see her bride walk down the aisle, Èrica arrived
early with her father and brother. In a moment that Gessika explains as
‘impossible to describe’, she watched her dream unfold as Èrica walked to
greet her, in front of everyone in the world that mattered to them.
The bride’s vows were officiated by their friend, Albert. Months
earlier, they had handed him a bottle of wine to ask the honor of
his officiation. It was his first time, but he was a complete natural.
Then, the alliances were brought to the brides by their cousins, which was
a surprise speech they had prepared. It was pure emotion.
A group of Batucada playing different instruments, cheered up the energy
and helped all the guests enter the dining room. Their bridesmaids then
surprised them by taking to the mic and singing a cover of their favorite
song, explaining how they met and all the experiences they had had
together. This was a fun and special moment, because the love between
the four friends was there for all to see.
The night continued with more surprises as the brides and their guests
sang, ate and danced the evening away. They even left guests amazed with
a custom batman cake that Èrica had made especially for her bride.
To end an incredible day, the garden had been prepared with candles and
flares. Without the new brides knowing, a song began to play and when
the lyrics “and everything rises” hit, the whole sky was illuminated with
hundreds of lights. Their friends had gifted them a castle of beautiful fire
in the sky that left them very shocked and excited.
It was a wedding that created a hangover of emotions, lasting for days.
A day that both Jessika and Èrica wish they could redo every year, for the
rest of forever!
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Bridal Boutique Booknovias | Cake La Cuina de l’Araceli | Celebrant Albert Brescó | Ceremony Venue La Finca Divina Pastora | Cinematographer
Kinotheque Weddings | Entertainment Batucada Bandelpal | Event Planner & Stylist Sra. Popi | Florist L’Espiral | Hair Gabriela Bucur Barber
Photographer Antibisual | Shoes Ángel Alarcón, Zara | Suit Designer Blackpier | Veil Booknovias
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THE REFRESH
INGREDIENTS
30 ml ginger syrup
soda water
GLASS & GARNISH
tall glass
reusable straw
METHOD
mix in glass, add ice if desired
THE LIME RICKEY
INGREDIENTS
30ml lime juice
10ml simple syrup
water
GLASS & GARNISH
tall glass
fresh mint
METHOD
build over ice and stir, garnish with
fresh mint
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HOW TO PULL OFF A DRY WEDDING
There’s an upward trend when it comes to people choosing to opt-out of
drinking alcohol. And, if you’re planning a wedding, there’s a strong chance
that either you, or your guests, will be reaching for non-alcoholic options.
Whether you’re planning a completely dry wedding, or a wedding with
just as many sober friendly options there’s a few things you might want
to keep in mind.
LET GO OF EXPECTATIONS
If you’re going completely alcohol-free on your wedding day it can be really
hard to let your guests know. Let’s be honest, for a lot of guests, a wedding
is an excuse for a big party, often synonymous with drinking. We’d suggest
being upfront and honest from the time you send out those invitations.
That way, you won’t have disappointed guests on the day asking questions.
If you don’t plan on supplying any alcohol, but your venue allows a BYO
option and you don’t mind people drinking, that might be an option to
consider too.
INCLUDE SOME NON-ALCOHOLIC BEERS, WINES AND SPIRITS
As the trend rises, so does the quality of non-alcoholic versions of wines
and beers. Most are actually brewed in the same way their alcoholic
versions are so they don’t taste like a weird watery alternative.
Non-alcoholic spirits are on the rise too, and some are an incredible
alternative. Generally, they are distilled in much the same way as your
favorite spirit, with the same flavors that you’ve come to expect, just
without the alcohol.
GET CREATIVE WITH MOCKTAILS
There are some serious contenders when it comes to non-alcoholic
spirits and the right bartender will be able to create something with
depths and flavors that mimic what your guests are accustomed to.
Instead of just using a non-alcoholic gin and mixing it with soda, you’ll want
to add ingredients that have those bitter, spicy, tangy flavors; everything
from vinegars to ginger, even a dash of tobacco syrup can make all the
difference.
SPICE UP THE SODAS
Move over basic mixers, say hello to kombuchas and ginger beers.
Generally, you’ll be saving cash on not purchasing spirits, so splash out on
fancy fizz alternatives.
It might even be a great idea to reach out to local bars who create their
own sodas too - some might be able to supply you with bulk orders for
your event.
TAKE YOUR GLASSWARE UP A NOTCH
When you drink wine, it’s from a wine glass. When you drink cocktails
it’s usually from another fancy-shaped glass. When you drink alcohol-free
options, they shouldn’t be the tiny glasses usually reserved for younger
guests! Get fancy! Visit thrift stores and collect interesting vintage glasses
if that is your style, hire out fancy martini and cocktail glasses, and grab
yourself some good looking reusable straws to use - we’re almost certain
that the fancier the look of the drink, the better it tastes.
GET YOURSELF AN AMAZING DJ
If you’re worried that a dry wedding is going to mean an early night and
minimal grooves on the dancefloor, you’re going to want to hire yourselves
a DJ that won’t settle for it. A good DJ is one that can get everyone up, at
any time of the day.
And, if you’re still worried, take the music requests from your guests! That
way, they’re guaranteed to love the tunes.
The Ahimsa Collective collaborated with Clean Coast Collective [a luxe
plastic-free brand] to create a vegan [washable paper] pouch to store
your favorite reusable straws. Lovingly handcrafted in Sydney, Australia.
You can get your very own pouch & straw combo to gift your guests via
their website www.theahimsacollective.com
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CLARA & SOPHIE
PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARTINE PAYNE
www.martinepayne.com
SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA
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A Leonardo Di Caprio themed party bought these two lovers together, and
even though their stars seemed destined not to cross... it appears that fate
had other ideas.
Years later, Clara and Sophie found themselves on a birthday trip to Spain
which masqueraded as the perfect opportunity for Clara to propose. On
the day of their engagement (also Sophie’s birthday), all the usual things
went wrong… delayed flights, taxi strikes and two tired and hungry women.
Nothing that the amorous Spanish atmosphere couldn’t fix! After lunch at
a tapas bar, Clara grabbed a strategic bottle of champagne and whisked
Sophie back to their apartment for a romantic afternoon on their balcony.
Under the perfect disguise of birthday gift wrapping, Sophie’s ring awaited.
Clara first gave Sophie a long, heartfelt letter that alluded to a proposal but
didn’t ask ‘the’ question. She asked Sophie to open her present. As Sophie
was taking her time to open it, Clara literally took matters into her own
hands. She picked it up and opened it, asking, “So, what do you think?”
They cried, kissed, and Sophie said, “Yes!”
As both Clara and Sophie grew up in Sydney, they wanted their wedding
to reflect their life there. They decided on local venue Porteño Events- as
it reflected the things they mutually love: being by the ocean, the beauty
of nature, good food and even better wine. It was also the only place that
let you party past midnight – which was very important to them and their
fun-loving friends!
For campaign strategist Clara, finding a dress that was created under a
sustainable ethos was the most important to her. She found her choice at
a local consignment boutique in the heart of Sydney. Meanwhile, Sophie
settled on a dress from Karen Willis Holmes, which wasn’t what she
expected to pick, but the one she felt the best wearing.
The event had a black-tie dress code to give it a sense of occasion, and
as the brides didn’t want a theme, giving their guests a chance to dress
up and look fantastic was something they knew everyone could really
enjoy.
On the morning of the wedding, a stormy forecast set nerves awash,
however, the weather turned it on and cleared up at exactly the right time.
The brides traveled in classic black cabs, stopping for their private first
look. They both described this as a special moment that was really nice to
have together before the ceremony started.
The ceremony at Palm House in the Royal Botanic Gardens was perfectfull
of love and joy.
The brides were married by celebrant Andra Calacolce who created an
incredibly heartfelt and personal ceremony that encapsulated their
relationship beautifully. She incorporated an Acknowledgement of Country
and the two readings they wanted to include perfectly. From there, they
had drinks on the lawn and then took photos in the cactus garden, which
was a lot of fun.
The brides and their guests then made their way to their reception, at
Porteño, where the food was incredible. They spent the evening laughing,
crying and smiling as family and friends made gorgeous speeches.
Sophie’s heartfelt and vulnerable speech was Clara’s favorite moment
of the day, as Sophie reflected on how her younger fears of acceptance
had since morphed into the amazing reality that lay before them.
A perfect day where they got to share their love and commitment with all
their family and friends. A day that represented what marriage meant to
them- being okay and being with the person they love.
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Bridal Boutique The Barefaced Bride | Catering Porteño | Celebrant Andrea Calodolce | Ceremony Venue The Palm House, Royal Botanic Gardens,
Sydney | Engagement Rings Raphael Jewellers, Natalie Marie Jewellery | Entertainment Sidehustle DJs | Florist POHO Flowers | Gown Designers
Tegan Asha, Karen Willis Holmes | H&MU All Made Up, Julie Elton Makeup Artist | Lighting & Sound Hire Buzz Speaker Hire | Photographer Martine
Payne Photography | Printer Q Printing | Prop & Furniture Hire Simply Seated | Reception Venue Porteño | Robes Zouk, Papinelle, EcoDownunder
Shoes Jo Mercer, Bared Footwear | Stationery & Signage INKKprint | Transport Black Cab Central, State Transit | Veil Karen Willis Holmes, Madame
Tulle | Wedding Party Outfits Hansel & Gretel, P. Johnson | Wedding Rings Raphael Jewellers
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Untamed Romance
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PHOTOGRAPHY BY GOLD AND GRIT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.goldandgrit.com.au
Accessories Moonstruck Bride | Bridal Boutique Moonstruck Bride | Cake Torte by Mirjana | Catering & Ceremony Venue Galah | Cinematographer
Sacred | Couture Willow by Watters | Cutlery, Glassware & Plates Galah | Decorative Elements Simmons Linen Hire | Florist Poppy’s Getting Married
H&MU Sophie Knox | Jumpsuit Vee by Watters | Photographer Gold and Grit Photography | Wedding Rings & Jewelry Pieces of Eight
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MEET, EMILY HOWLETT PHOTOGRAPHY
Image by Hayley Hickman Photography
Who is Emily AKA Emily Howlett Photography?
Well, I’m actually Emily Riley now... since I just married my beautiful wife!
But, my business name will stay the same, as it’s where it all began.
I am a professional Netflix browser, dog-obsessed, unashamed, belly
laughing kinda gal with an unhealthy obsession with the tv show Friends.
I live for cozy nights on the couch with my wife, running in our paddocks
with our lambs, and of course... photographing love stories every week.
I am a suburban girl turned farm wife and I love every bit of it. I grew up
loving photography and spent years learning what I know now, but I’m still
always learning. ​
Why photography? Why weddings?
Honestly, I was initially terrified of shooting a wedding. When an old
primary school friend reconnected with me and asked if I’d photograph her
wedding in 2 years’ time. I figured that was enough time to start learning!
I shadowed another photographer for a while and so much. I then put all
that into practice with my own business, and here we are today six years
later.
Weddings are just something different. Everyone is happy and loved up.
There’s something so special about being a part of so many “best day
evers”, and knowing that the art I produce each time, will be treasured
and loved for a lifetime. Thinking about that just feels like a big warm hug.
How long in advance would you recommend couples reach out to lock
in a wedding date with you?
I always recommend 18-24 months for popular dates like Saturdays in
peak season, but I sometimes get bookings as little as 3-6 months out and
can sometimes have availability. I’m a planner type person, so I always
think the earlier the better.
How would you describe your style?
I’m all about documenting authentic and real moments, to their true
value. No awkward blank stares, no moody expressionless faces. I will get
those deep belly laughs and those smiles that hurt your face. I will also get
that moment when everything settles and you sigh with content, knowing
that this person standing with you, is the rest of your life.
I’m definitely not the black polo shirt with a logo type of gal, I’m the keep
it real and just blend in with your guests kind. So much so that I often get
mistaken for a guest, and by the end of the night I’ll be on that dance floor
dropping some bad moves with all my new pals!
I am a realist, so I document weddings for exactly what they are. If
it’s raining, I want to get out there with the umbrellas and embrace it. I
want your photos to reflect that in the most fun way. I want all my couples
to look back at their photos and relive the details the day that they didn’t
even know happened.
You get to travel around the globe capturing love stories, where is one
place you haven’t been yet, but wish you could go tomorrow, and why?
I’ve always wanted to go to Texas! As a new farm girl myself, I would LOVE
to photograph a true southern style country wedding. That would be
incredible. The food, the accents, the style, the weather, the landscapes.
All of it would just be insanely breathtaking!
Any advice for couples looking for a photographer?
I always recommend looking for a photographer whose style and vibe
aligns with your own.
I also say to look at their photos that are similar to your wedding aesthetic.
If you’re having a beach style wedding, then check out their beach shots
and make sure that’s exactly what you’re looking for.
When you’re not shooting weddings, what would we find you doing?
When I am not photographing weddings, I’m probably bulk watching the
TV show Friends, or running amok with my dogs at the park. My wife and I
have two beagles, and we love them more than life. We also have two pet
lambs, and I love to run around with them in the paddocks.
I also love my me-time, which involves either yoga or the gym. It helps me
center myself.
You’ll find Emily in our online directory of inclusive wedding vendors
from around the world, www.dancingwithher.com/directory
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Photo by Jessica Rose Photography
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AN ELOPEMENT MEANS YOU CAN’T HAVE GUESTS
...And Other Elopement Myths
Elopements are still non-traditional and while there’s been a huge surge
in popularity. There is quite a lot of mystery around what an elopement is.
So, we’re here to bust some elopement myths.
An elopement isn’t just a ceremony that makes your marriage legal or
an event to snap some portraits. It’s a whole day, intentionally dedicated
to celebrating your love together. It’s intimate and meaningful, a true
reflection on who you are and a celebration of the commitment you’re
choosing to make together.
YOU CAN’T HAVE GUESTS AT YOUR ELOPMENT
Nope, not true. We’ve seen some beautiful elopements with the lovers’
immediate family present and others with just a handful of their favorite
people. The real difference between an elopement and a wedding is the
intention behind it all. If the focus of the day is just about your love, not
the reception that’s following the nuptials, it can still be an elopement.
While there isn’t a set number of guests that will take your small,
meaningful elopement to more of a wedding, we’d say once you get past
the 15 guests mark you’ll need to start planning to cater to the group.
When you start having to make those plans, that’s when your day starts to
become more of a wedding.
THEY ARE CHEAPER THAN A WEDDING
Sometimes, yes. You won’t need to entertain a large group of guests. You
won’t need an extravagant venue and you’ll save some cash on the open
bar. But, if you’re planning a wild elopement to a remote village in Europe
and buying a designer gown you’ve dreamt about for years, you might not
save the cash.
To be honest, cost isn’t usually the deciding factor when couples are
questioning whether an elopement is for them. Most couples choose
elopements because they want to celebrate their marriage in a way that’s
meaningful to them. Saving money is just a perk of that choice.
ELOPMENTS AREN’T LEGAL
This can be true, especially if you’re planning on eloping to a
foreign country, or you’re not planning on having an officiant or celebrant
as part of the day. Most couples who are taking their elopement
international, will usually file the legal paperwork before they leave, or
once they get back.
If you’re getting married on home soil, and you want to bring along an
officiant (generally, you’ll need a witness or two, it is best to chat to that
officiant about the legal requirements in your country - they will have all
the answers), then your elopement will be just as legally binding as any
other wedding.
ELOPING IS ONLY FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GET MARRIED IN A HURRY
You could spend two years saving and planning your perfect week-long
elopement, or you could pull it all together in four weeks.
Your elopement could be as planned, or as sporadic, as you want it to
be. Much the same as any wedding. In the past, they might have been
considered as the best option for those who didn’t want to put in the
effort of planning a wedding, but now they’re a beautiful way to celebrate
your love and commitment intentionally.
YOU CAN’T INCORPORATE TRADITIONS INTO AN ELOPEMENT
There might not be an aisle to walk down or a wedding party to
stand beside you, but that doesn’t mean that all wedding traditions have
to be completely thrown out the window (unless, of course, that’s what
you want to do with them). You can still voice meaningful vows,
acknowledge traditional owners of the land, exchange rings and have
a first dance. In fact, if there are traditions that are important to you
on your wedding day, there is absolutely a place for them to exist at
your elopement.
The best part about eloping? There are no rules. If it feels right to you and
your relationship, do it.
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Gem & Huda
Words by Gem
Photography by Translucent Photography
Our relationship turns four this year. How time flies when you’re having fun! We work at the same
hospital, and when mutual friends connect us it was like fireworks. We spent the first two years
embracing everything that was our new relationship. We met one another’s families and Huda came
out to her Mum.
Huda proposed two years ago. She had planned everything. She’d had a ring designed in America, she’d
planned to have it shipped over to their home in Australia where she would hide it in her bag and
propose on a holiday we had planned to Singapore.
But it’s not quite what happened.
Huda hadn’t anticipated that the delivery might not arrive on the date specified. It actually arrived on a
day when I happened to be home, and she wasn’t. The delivery person asked a lot of questions, made
me sign a lot of paperwork for a ‘valuable decorative metal’ and although I know I shouldn’t open that
isn’t mine, curiosity got the better of me.
I cried, put the ring back in the box and waited for Huda to come home from work.
I was honest with her, she wasn’t mad and instead hugged me, picked up the box and did the whole
shebang in our kitchen. It was emotional and intimate. Just the two of us, not photos, no videos and a
moment in time that I wouldn’t change for the world.
We video called our parents, then our closest friends and announced the engagement publicly a few
weeks later.
That holiday to Singapore still happened, but it was a trip solely focused on celebration. The honeymoon
bubble vibes were flowing every minute of the holiday.
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KAILA & MORGAN
PHOTOGRAPHY BY RIVER + ROOT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.riverandrootphotography.com
DENVER, USA
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Art and design student Morgan had been trying her luck at meeting the
right woman on lesbian dating app HER. After failed dates and a catfish
experience (another story in itself!), she had lost faith, was over dating and
about to delete the app.
Lucky for her, she held on long enough to grab Kaila’s attention. They met
and enjoyed a long date, with women both admitting it was an instant
connection. In true’ love at first look’ style…that they had both texted
their best friends during the date, telling them that they had met their
soulmates.
After nine months together, during a date where they shared the same
bottle of rose as on their first date, Kaila surprised Morgan with a creative
and unique proposal. After dinner, Kaila pulled out a gift for Morgan: a
beautiful compass! However, Morgan was so besotted with the compass
that she failed to realize there was a beautiful brushed gold ring dangling
from the chain. Kaila then asked Morgan to marry her and Morgan replied
with nothing, still geeking out about the ring and the compass. She finally
came to and said “YESSSSS....”
Kaila and Morgan started planning their wedding, deciding against a
wedding planner. They admit that this made things extremely stressful at
times and unleashed the inner bridezilla in them both. Friends and family
helped to keep them calm though, and surrender to the things that were
out of their control.
Both brides-to-be were set on a minimal boho vibe for their wedding
day. They both love how the boho style incorporates so many textures,
styles, and looks. Without a planner, they say that the whole day was a DIY
project. With the help of friends, the creative duo took control of every
aspect (food and flowers aside) of the day’s design, to bring their vision
to life.
When choosing their outfits, they decided on different styles that
complemented their own. Kaila went to a seamstress (Donna Beth
Creations) and had a beautiful boho dress that she liked completely
redesigned. She added bell sleeves, buttons, and the slit on the dress.
Morgan went suit shopping with her dad, who picked out a pair of
awesome leather shoes and the outfit was built from there. Most of her
accessories were emotionally significant pieces (including her late uncle’s
pocket watch, her father’s favorite bracelet, and her best friend’s necklace
that she has to match with the best man).
On their big day- that both brides admit went so fast, Kaila and Morgan
made a point of including as many LGBTQ+ vendors as possible.
Their ceremony was perfect, with lots of humor, poetry, heartfelt vows
and singing. The couple exchanged vows in front of their good friend and
celebrant Sarah Blizard, which became an essential part of how integral
their community was in implementing their vision for their day.
Being raised in Italy, Morgan wanted to incorporate a cultural tradition.
So, after the ceremony, everyone followed them to the reception. River
and Root Photography made sure to capture the most amazing pictures
of everyone walking behind them in support. The brides recall at that
moment, they were both thinking of their incredible support system and
how awesome it was.
Kaila and Morgan believe that marriage is about commitment
and promising to work through anything life throws your way.
After co-creating their perfect day together and then celebrating
in absolute beauty, they made sure to bring the essence of marriage
alive!
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Accessories Eclectic | Catering Simply Pizza | Celebrant Sarah Blizard- Friend Of Bride | Ceremony & Reception Venue Sourdough Valley Ranch
Engagement & Wedding Rings Sarah O. Jewelry | Entertainment DJ Oak | Florist Lehrer’s Flowers | Gown Designers Brilliant Bridal | H&MU James
Robert Hair, Grand Salon | Jacket David’s Bridal | Photographer River and Root Photography | Robes Etsy | Stationery Minted, DIY | Vest Zara
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love
knows no boundaries,
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Traci and Kaylle
Words by Traci
Photography by Echo Photo
Kaylle and I had talked about getting engaged at the beginning of 2019, but we didn’t really know how
or when it would happen.
We went to look at rings together, because, frankly, I had no idea what she wanted and I had no idea
what I wanted. We both knew we wanted to propose in our own way, it was just a matter of who would
beat who to the first punch!
Kaylle had an adventure to Washington State in mind, but had no idea where or when. however, she did
plan an engagement shoot for the trip, so she knew she had to do it before that.
She didn’t tell me about this ‘adventure shoot’ (that’s what she was calling it!) until after we were in
Washington and all I had really packed was hiking gear. I definitely had my suspicions that she might
propose to me on this adventure shoot, and even though it wasn’t our style at all to get engaged in front
of a camera, with a photographer present, I decided to just go with it.
Three days before the photography session we had a private proposal.
We were hiking in the Hoh Rainforest in Olympic National Park and came across an unmarked trail that
leads to a peaceful view of the Hoh River. We sat down to take a break, listen to the sound of the river
and see if we could spot some wildlife. We had lunch and eventually I propped my head on my backpack
and closed my eyes.
Kaylle had mentioned she was going to go see what was up ahead and would be right back. It was during
that walk over the hill that she made the decision she was going to propose. When she got back I was
half asleep and she said she needed to grab something in the backpack. I felt something move but didn’t
think anything of it. A few minutes later she asked me to open my eyes, and laying right there on my chest
was the ring. Startled, I almost knocked it into the Hoh River because of how I was laying!
Thankfully it was saved and placed safely on my finger. It was the most perfect moment in a beautiful
rainforest, overlooking the most picturesque view. I will never forget that day and how I almost lost my
ring to the river!
Our adventure shoot came three days after our private engagement and it was a blast! I would highly
recommend anyone who is outdoorsy to try out a session. We hiked 6 miles overlooking Mt Rainer and
did a few dress changes in the frigid temps but it was all worth it.
I always wanted to propose back to Kaylle, fortunately, my planning wasn’t anywhere near as stressful as
hers. It just took some coordination with the people that I wanted to be a part of it.
A friend had suggested that since her Washington State proposal was so romantic, that maybe I try to
do something a little bit more playful and fun. So, we came up with the idea of doing a scavenger hunt.
I picked out different places throughout the Albany area that meant something to us and had friends
of ours at each location with memorable photos and a special letter I’d written... Each letter gave her a
clue to the next spot, which ultimately ended at a beautiful state park called Pebbles Island. A park that
Kaylle’s first house overlooked. I was there with champagne, flowers and of course the ring.
Our engagement brings our relationship to a more serious level for both of us and representation to our
families. It shows that we are committed and that we are ready to move forward in the form of a life-long
partnership.
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ALLYSON & GRAYSON
PHOTOGRAPHY BY CHELSEA REECE
www.chelseareece.co
OKLAHOMA, USA
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Place two lovers at a Cancun beach shoot and what do you get? The
perfect surprise proposal.
Allyson and Grayson had planned a tropical vacation to Cancun to celebrate
Allyson’s graduation from law school and the completion of her bar exam.
Under the ruse of a photoshoot (something they both loved) Allyson had
been secretly planning her perfect beach proposal. Grayson had no idea
that the whole morning before their shoot, Allyson had been carrying the
ring safely in her pocket.
The photographer met them there and began taking photos. She had the
women face back to back, and take two steps forward, then turn and face
each other. When Grayson turned around, Allyson was down on one knee,
asking for her hand in marriage. Saying yes was never a question, and the
rest of the photoshoot turned into an amazing engagement shoot.
To fit their vision of a modern-boho wedding, Allyson and Grayson decided
on a venue that they both fell in love with at first sight: The Farmhouse at
Grassroots Farms. Usually, Allyson takes time to think things over but after
viewing the venue, she immediately said: “This is THE place.”
The brides opted for outfits that suited their individual style and say that
finding the perfect choice was the easiest thing about the entire wedding.
Grayson found a simple, lace dress online that she fell in love with, and
Allyson ordered her sleek burgundy wedding suit from ASOS.
As a DIY inclusion, Allyson harnessed her amazing calligraphy skills to
create the signs for their wedding. If she was feeling stressed after work,
she simply spent the time unwinding, making creations for their big day.
Their wedding day started off smoothly, and continued that way for the
rest of the day.They were both amazed at the fact that there was not one
moment that they could complain about. It was all absolutely perfect.
Both women got ready with their loved ones, whilst being snapped in a
breathtakingly ornate room filled with vintage mirrors and a rust-colored,
antique couch that was simply to die for.
For their personal vows, Allyson and Grayson kept it extremely private,
with only the photographer, Chelsea Reece present. The women decided
very early on that they did not want to read their vows in front of everyone.
This created a wonderful and intimate moment where they laughed, cried,
kissed… making their day that more special.
Then, for the ceremony and to uphold family tradition, Grayson had her
mother and grandmother walk in together. Allyson, adorned in a stunning
rust, slate, white, and burgundy headpiece with matching bouquet by
Rootstock Floral, had her parents walk in together first. Then the two
brides followed, walking in together holding hands.
Grayson and Allyson walked down the aisle to Johnny Swim’s ‘Take the
World’. They picked this song out before they were even engaged and just
knew it was the song for them.
The outdoor reception featured pontoon lighting perfect for under
the night sky. Gorgeous rustic table settings set the boho vibe alight,
lined with fresh gum and complete with vintage floral dinnerware.
Allyson’s blackboard signs were scattered throughout, with a standout
featuring the words ‘I love her and that’s the beginning and the end of
everything!’
Together with their guests, the newlyweds feasted and then danced the
night away under the night sky.
A perfect beginning of the rest of their life together. A day that they
realized that love is worth it all; the sacrifices, the hard work, the good
times and the bad.
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Cake Madison’s on Main | Celebrant Samantha Marchand | Ceremony & Reception Venue The Farmhouse at Grassroots Farms | Cufflinks The Tie
Bar | Engagement Rings Brilliant Earth | Entertainment DJ Lite Brite | Event Planner & Stylist DIY | Florist Rootstock Floral | Food Truck Norma’s
Restaurant | Gown Designer Hebeos | H&MU Emily Davis, Brittany Taylor | Photographer Chelsea Reece Photography | Shirt Perry Ellis | Shoes Stacy
Adams | Signage Allyson Jaques-Pogue | Stationery Etsy | Suit Designers ASOS
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www.thistleandwhey.com.au
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THE LIST
SOME OF THE VERY BEST WEDDING VENDORS
AUSTRALIA | USA | AROUND THE WORLD
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TAHNEE JADE PHOTOGRAPHY
Photography
Relaxed and natural documentary-style wedding photographer obsessed with
candidly capturing real-life love stories. Your wedding embodies all the stories
you’ve shared so far and starts the story of your future. Think of me as providing the
beautiful, meaningful pictures for this chapter of YOUR story.
www.tahneejadephotography.com
PAPER HEARTS
Entertainment
Lovers of epic vocal harmonies, Paper Hearts provide live wedding entertainment
across Melbourne, Sydney and beyond. They offer Duo, Trio & Band options, as well
as DJ’s and MC’s - they can even write you a song!
www.wearepaperhearts.com
FOUND COLLECTIVE
Styling & Planning
Specialising in weddings, Kelly and her amazing team love to help style and plan
other life events, occasions and corporate parties also. Whether you need a cool,
calm and collected head to liaise with vendors, or a helping hand in styling your
wedding or event, Kelly and her team are bound to have a package to suit you.
www.foundcollective.com.au
JOURNEY STREET FOOD
Catering
We are Ruby and Channa Senaratne, and we are passionate about food and family.
There’s nothing better than an epic feast shared with those that you love the most.
Our family has a long history of both food and travel. We would love to share this
with you helping to make your special day amazing.
www.journeystreetfood.com
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AUSTRALIA
FÊTE LUXE
Florist & Stylist
Fête Luxe is everything weddings and events. With over 12 years in the events
industry - florist and stylist, Kristie, can help you curate the perfect event from the
initial planning through to the final hugs as you farewell the best party of your life.
We are all about functionality and simple, clean style.
www.feteluxe.com.au
MEWBURN PARK HOMESTEAD
Venue
Tucked away behind the old oak tree driveway, you can have your ceremony and
drinks in the lush green gardens or at our historical 1840’s Stables. Where you then
make your way into our clear-view marquee for your reception under the stars.
Farmcharm with style.
www.mewburnpark.com.au
JACQUELINE MAJER
Celebrant
The words; stylish, vibrant, genuine, and cool…come to mind when describing
Jacqueline. She’s a Sydney-based non-traditional celebrant who’ll guide you through
the process with ideas and inspiration. Importantly, she sets the scene and ensures
you have a fantastic unstuffy ceremony.
www.jacquelinemajer.com.au
EMILY HOWLETT PHOTOGRAPHY
Photography
You’ve found a lover to do life with and you’ve planned a day of magic to celebrate
your love—that’s why you’re here. I’m here because I want to be your photographer,
as well as your new best friend to capture all the details of your day.
www.howlettphotographyweddings.com
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TORI KELNER PHOTOGRAPHY
Photography
Tori Kelner is a wedding photographer based out of New Jersey for nontraditional,
adventurous, nature-obsessed couples. She captures genuine intimacy and the
joyful moments of your day as they unfold!
www.torikelner.com
PIGMENT & PARCHMENT
Stationery
Love stories are the main stories she tells with her business, Pigment & Parchment,
where she creates bespoke hand-painted wedding stationery. Eternally optimistic,
Pigment & Parchment artwork is always happy & bright. It seeks to bring smiles to
faces all over the world.
www.pigmentandparchment.com
WITTY RENTALS
Hire
Witty Rentals is a boutique rental company with an eclectic inventory of furniture,
sure to elevate any event with beautiful spaces for loved ones to enjoy.
MADE TO BE MINE
Photography
We are Kristi & Nathan, we’re married, we love love, and we’re here to tell stories
authentically. We’re all about relationships, no b.s., crying behind the camera,
real-life documentation.
www.wittyrentals.com
www.madetobemine.co
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USA
ISAIAH & TAYLOR
Photography
We are a queer owned, best friend photo duo in Los Angeles, documenting lovers
just doing their thing for the past seven years.
www.isaiahandtaylor.com
ROSEDALE JEWELRY
Jewelry
Kate’s designs are intended to become not only wardrobe staples but also family
heirlooms. A re-imagined minimal and refined aesthetic come to life in 14k and 18k
gold with precious stones. Kate ensures that each creation is not only beautiful but
is also made using ethically sourced stones in Los Angeles, CA.
www.rosedalejewelry.com
GOOD SEED FLORAL
Florist
Good Seed Floral is an all-inclusive wedding floral design company based in Oregon
and Texas. They specialize in organic, natural designs that let the flowers do the
talking and are obsessed with finding the perfect mix between wild and romantic.
www.goodseedfloral.co
HONEYBREAK OFFICIANTS
Officants
Honeybreak Officiants is an award-winning team of modern and inclusive destination
officiants based in NYC. They write and perform personalized ceremonies unique
to each couple, infused with joy, humor, and centered around the couple’s loving
partnership.
www.honeybreakofficiants.com
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CINEMA OF POETRY
Videography- Greece & Worldwide
Do you want a wedding film that makes your heart skip a beat? A film that gives you
goosebumps? Relax, you’ve come to the right place! Love is eternal but memories
can fade. Here is your memory box.
ANTIBISUAL
Photography- Barcelona & Worldwide
Antibisual looks for couples who live their wedding at 200%. It’s not always about
perfectly posed images, rather capturing those moments that express the most of
your wedding day, the emotions and sensations of every moment.
www.cinemaofpoetry.com
www.antibisual.com
NEMO BRIDAL & COUTURE
Couture- New Zealand
Specialists in bespoke designs, our expert stitching Queens, can create or alter your
gown to perfection. You can also purchase beautiful garments & accessories from
our bridal lounge, or hire gowns and vintage furs.
HANNA BOGSJO EVENTS
Stylist & Hire- Sweden
Finding vision in the couples individuality, Hanna Bogsjo Events [who is based out of
Stockholm, Sweden] is a wedding stylist, planner and hire company that is inspired
by modern, dramatic and beautiful.
www.nemo.co.nz
www.instagram.com/hannabogsjoevents
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AROUND THE WORLD
EVELINA FLORENCE FLOWERS
Florist- Italy
Elevina’s floral approach could be described as that of a gypies; a free spirit, living
life in the moment with an inner creativeness that is as wide and as wavering as the
oceans she has crossed. She allows the flowers to speak for themselves: much like a
poppy, they cannot be tamed and is all about working with them, not against them.
www.evelinaflorence.com
KATE ROBERGE PHOTOGRAPHY
Photography- New Zealand & Worldwide
Let’s get real with this love stuff. The genuine, silly, sarcastic, juicy love that makes you
YOU. I capture moments that move me and hope to give you images that move you.
www.kateroberge.co.nz
JENNA LEE PICTURES
Photography- Hawaii & Worlwide
Based out of Hawaii, Jenna Lee is a “wild child” photographer who travels the world,
capturing humans in love. She loves connecting with couples and telling their unique
story, capturing gorgeous imagery that’s authentic to them. Through photography
and videography services, the team of creatives to curate your special day perfectly.
www.jennaleepictures.com
SUGARLIPS CAKES
Cakes- The Netherlands
Sugarlips Cakes is a boutique cake design studio that specializes in customized
cakes, small pastries and sweet tables. All products from our studio are fully homemade
with recipes carefully created by our owner and trained pastry chef, Tam.
www.sugarlipscakes.com
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THE DIRECTORY
A CURATED COLLECTION OF INCLUSIVE WEDDING VENDORS
FROM AROUND THE WORLD
www.dancingwithher.com/directory
Vendors from top left clockwise: Jackson Grant Weddings, Imago Creative Studio, Grey Events, Rupert on Rupert
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A SPECIAL THANKS
Dancing With Her couldn’t exist without an incredible network of humans from around the globe who support
the publication. Whether you follow along on social media, have picked up a copy of this magazine at a local
store or you’ve found us on the world wide web, we are so grateful that you are here.
This list isn’t exhaustive, but it is those who directly contributed to bringing this seventh volume of
Dancing With Her magazine to life - it really couldn’t be without them.
ANTIBISUAL
www.antibisual.com
ASHLEIGH HAASE PHOTOGRAPHY
www.ashleighhaase.com
BENJAMIN URQUHART
www.kingsandthieves.com.au
CHELSEA REECE
www.chelseareece.co
ECHO PHOTO
www.echo-photo.com
ELISSA MARIE DESIGNS
www.elissamarie.com.au
EMILY RILEY
www.howlettphotographyweddings.com
GEM & HUDA
HAYLEY HICKMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
www.hayleyhickmanphotography.com
MARTINE PAYNE
www.martinepayne.com
MOLLY GRUNEWALD PHOTOGRAPHY
www.mollygrunewald.com
PEPPERMINT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.peppermintphotography.com.au
PHOTOS BY JESS ROSE
www.photosbyjessrose.com
RIVER + ROOT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.riverandrootphotography.com
TEODORA TINC PHOTOGRAPHY
www.teodoratinc.com
TRACI & KAYLLE
GOLD AND GRIT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.goldandgrit.com.au
TRANSLUCENT PHOTOGRAPHY
www.translucentphotography.com
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Discover a mindful story of love in
Vietnam’s Central Coast
www.fourseasons.com/hoian
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HONEYMOON
A COLLECTION OF CULTURAL HONEYMOON ESCAPES
AROUND THE WORLD
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HOW TO TRAVEL SAFELY
...as an LGBTQ+ Couple
If you’re planning a honeymoon, or even just a holiday, thinking about your
sexuality and being able to travel safely as a couple is something that’s
usually top of mind for LGBTQ+ couples.
Going to new countries can envoke fear; fear of rejection, fear of reaction,
and fear of safety. But, it certainly doesn’t need to stop you from enjoying
a holiday together - especially if you’re a newlywed.
TRAVEL SOMEWHERE THAT IS ‘LGBTQ+ FRIENDLY’
By this, we mean countries where marriage equality is recognized, or
where there are anti-discrimination laws.
If you’re really feeling uneasy about traveling as a couple, choosing a place
where your love is legally recognized might be a great start. Generally, it’ll
mean that LGBTQ+ people will be more socially accepted. Keep in mind
though that this isn’t always the case. Think of Australia, for example.
While there is marriage equality, it’s not always safe to be open about
our relationship, particularly when we are traveling to rural areas. Socially
opinions vary.
If you’re heart’s set on a country where these laws aren’t present, that
doesn’t mean you can’t travel. But you’ll need to be more vigilant.
TONE DOWN YOUR PDA’S
You’ll notice in a lot of cultures that public displays of affection, even
among heterosexual couples, are not common or socially accepted. That
means it’s a no-go for traveling LGBTQ+ couples too.
Kissing, holding hands, or affectionately touching one another are probably
things best kept to your hotel room.
If you’re not sure, look around you and see what other couples are doing -
this should give you an indication of what is and what isn’t safe.
REMEMBER THAT EVERY COUNTRY HAS ITS OWN STEREOTYPES
If your sexuality is stereotyped by the way you look or dress in your home
country, remember that while traveling, it might not be perceived the
same.
For example, if your short hair means people usually assume your sexuality,
in an Asian country, you might just be perceived as a woman with short
hair - nothing more.
YOU WILL NEED TO BE PREPARED TO ‘JUST BE FRIENDS’
If you’re in a situation where you’re feeling uncomfortable, and someone
asks directly about your relationship, you will want to be prepared to
answer with ‘we are just friends.’
This one can be challenging, and quite frankly, can make you feel like your
relationship is invalidated or less than. Don’t forget to take care of one
another when you’re in the safety of your room and show a little extra
love.
FIND SAFE LGBTQ+ SPACES
It can be tiring going about your holiday, thinking actively about your
safety. Seek out LGBTQ+ bars, and cafes - spaces where you are free to be
you and free to celebrate your love without the worry.
JUST ENJOY YOUR HOLIDAY
More than anything. Just enjoy yourself. Traveling is such an incredible
experience for all couples, regardless of your diversity.
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vietnam
Vietnam is certainly a hot spot right now, and surprisingly, it’s one of the
most LGBTQ+ friendly countries in South East Asia. While the country
doesn’t allow marriage equality, Vietnam doesn’t have laws that actively
discriminate LGBTQ+ people and the country is welcoming to all travelers.
It’s also so rich in culture. Separated into North, Central and South regions,
each one has it’s own unique subculture and even different cuisines.
WHAT DO DO
If you’re hoping to visit a big city and adventure through art galleries,
markets, and bar hop - you’ll need to do it all in Ho Chi Minh City. It’s a city
that’s rich in history, but also in culture. Be sure to check what’s showing at
the Saigon Opera House while your there. They tend to host quirky shows
that show a unique insight into the daily lives of the Vietnamese people.
Hoi An is also a must stop. It’s in central Vietnam, but getting about is
really cheap - a flight from another major city can cost as low as $19. It’s an
enchanting little town - the only one in Vietnam that doesn’t allow cars or
motorbikes and is listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site.
At night it comes alive. With nightly markets, colorful lanterns scattered
overhead, and the river fills with traditional fishing boats offering romantic
short cruises.
And, if you’re heading North, Ninh Binh is a less travelled spot that is a
must see. Among limestone cliffs, you’ll find tranquility and a very unique
way that locals get around the rivers - they use oars, and paddle with their
feet.
WHERE TO STAY
Something a little cheaper - The Alcove Library Hotel, Ho Chi Minh City. A
hotel with floor to ceiling bookshelves and close to everything you’ll need
- yes, please. Head up to their rooftop bar and soak in the atmosphere.
Prices start at USD$37 per night.
Going all out - The Four Seasons Resort, Hoi An. This little slice of paradise
could easily be the most relaxing spot you’ve ever been to. An on site
spa, complete with lovers rooms and a couples bath and daily yoga and
meditation really amplifies the magic. Our suggestion, don’t miss the Nam
Hai Cooking Acadamy, it’s a unique look into the day to day lives of the
Vietnamese people and their love for fresh, delicious food.
Prices start at USD$900 per night.
If you are heading to rural area’s hiring a scooter to get about is super
cheap and easy, but local grab drivers can be hired if you aren’t feeling
confident.
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hawaii
Sure, Hawaii might be front of mind for couples hoping to experience some
adventure on their holiday, but it’s the rich native culture most people fall
in love with most. Spread across countless islands, and experiencing just
two seasons; summer and warm winter, the Hawaiian culture is spiritual
and deeply connected to nature.
WHAT TO EAT
Where do we start?! Hawaii might be another state of America but it’s
cuisine is totally unique. Haupia is a traditional coconut treat and if you
don’t leave addicted, you didn’t eat enough.
Ramen is traditionally a Japanese dish, but the Hawaiian people know how
to do a really good bowl of the pork, soy, or chicken-based noodle soups.
There are quite literally thousands of Ramen restaurants across the islands
each with their unique flair - it’s worth giving a few a try.
If you eat meat, Laulau is a Hawaiian comfort food traditionally cooked in
an underground oven. It’s a chicken or pork dish, wrapped in taro leaves
and tastes especially delicious served with poi.
CULTURAL EXPERIENCES
Again, you’ll be spoilt for choice!
Once a month, under a full moon, Twilight at Kalahuipua’a, a celebration
of the Hawaiian culture that includes storytelling, singing, and dancing. It
is actually a celebration that originates from old times when family and
neighbors would gather on back porches to sing, dance, and “talk story.”
If you’re honeymooning from February to September, on weekday evenings
and weekend days, hundreds of canoe paddlers gather at Ala Wai
Canal and practice the Hawaiian sport of canoe paddling. Pack a romantic
picnic, find a comfortable spot at Ala Wai Park, next to the canal, and
watch this ancient sport come to life.
To some waking up before sunrise doesn’t sound appealing, especially on
your honeymoon, but we promise this experience is worth it. A hi’uwai,
a traditional Hawaiian cleansing experience that’s led by a native healer.
They chant as the sun appears on the horizon, and you are asked to bring
forward in your mind whatever is holding you back or worrying you as you
wade into the healing waters of Waikiki. As the water reaches your face,
release those fears or worries into the sea and then walk backward until
you’re back on the beach. By then, you’ll be spiritually cleansed and ready
to move forward in life.
It’s probably one of the most amazing ways you could start a day. And one
of the most sacred ways to walk into your new marriage.
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spain
Spain is one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly countries in the world - if that’s
not inviting, we don’t know what is.
Discovering the food of Spain is a cultural experience in itself. The locals
feast on tapas, multiple small meals that are shared between your group,
and it’s the best way to taste the many wonderful flavors the country has
to offer.
A Spanish must eat, Paella - and let’s be upfront; you’re going to be spoilt
for choice when it comes to choosing where to eat it. Do your research
before you go - ask your accommodation, ask locals - it’s also one of those
dishes that everyone thinks they can do, but very few have mastered.
CULTURAL EXPERIENCES
Visit the Magic Fountain in Barcelona. Constructed nearly 100 years ago,
it is a spectacular show of light, color, and music. Sure it’s popular with
tourists and you will need to get in early for a front row seat at night, but it
is popular for a reason! It’s totally free, and you’ll notice locals selling beer
and wine on the streets throughout the show.
If you’re even somewhat into sports, go and see Catalans, the Barcelona
Football Club, play. They’re one of the worlds most popular and most
sucessful clubs and with a stadium that seats around 100,000 people - it’s
an experience like no other. The football culture of Barcelona is very much
alive.
If you’re foodies travelling between January and March, Calçotada is a
must. It’s a local ceremonial meal where the calçot vegetable is devoured.
It’s a unique vegetable, something between a leek and a spring onion, that
is cooked over a hot fire and smothered in a messy, but delightful, peanutbased
sauce. It’s traditionally enjoyed with large amounts of wine, and it
would be rude to skip tradition, right?
WHERE TO STAY
Something a little cheaper - Pack a tent and go camping! There are
hundreds of campgrounds [keep in mind that wild camping is prohibited
across the country] that are cheap and fully equipped with everything you
need. You might even get lucky and score a spot overlooking the ocean.
Prices start at USD$12 per night.
Going all out - Hotel Casa Palacio Maria Luisa Stepping out onto your
private balcony overlooking old town is going to be a morning ritual you’ll
miss after your stay here. It’s modern, but vintage style is romantically
unforgettable, a place you might only ever expect to see in the movies
come to life.
Prices start at USD$300 per night.
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brazil
When we think Brazil, we think festivals and Carnival - but the culture is
actually rich and one of the most diverse in South America. Each part of
the country is made up of entirely different cultures thanks to immigration.
While there are no current laws that discriminate against the LGBTQ+
community, and there are, in fact, laws that actively protect the community,
the political climate can be unstable. It’s best to do a little more research
about the particular areas you were hoping to visit before you go.
Many of Brazil’s Indigenous populations call the north home. The Amazon
is a lifeline for millions of people, and the culture of fishing, hunting and
living from the land is still very much alive.
The northeast is popular for tourism, with the stunning beaches and
national parks, it’s easy to see why. African culture is very alive and it is
something you can explore through local music, food and religion.
WHAT TO DO
Visit Foz do Iguaçu. It’s the worlds largest waterfall - it makes Niagra Falls
look tiny. Don’t be afraid to walk on the boardwalk. Looking down from the
top of an 80m waterfall is an incredible experience.
Into scuba diving or snorkling? Visit Fernando de Noronha, a marine
conservation area that is home to some unique sea creatures, it’s still
undelveloped and that’s its beauty.
Spend a few nights in Olinda. It’s such a unique city, one that celebrates its
rich African roots - a cultural wonderland of churches, museums and art.
The southeast of Brazil is probably the area you’re most familiar with.
Home to Carnival in Rio de Janeiro - if this isn’t on your bucket list, you
best add it.
It draws in people from all over the globe, connected by the unifying beats
of the steel bass drums. The food, the colors, the costumes, the music - it’s
one of those ‘you need to see it to believe it’ type of experiences. One that
you will carry with you forever.
And, if you’ve got time to head to the south, you’d be forgiven for thinking
you’d stepped into a completely different country. Influenced heavily
by European immigration, German architecture, cuisine and events
celebrated each year - Oktoberfest being a huge cause of celebration.
Whichever part of this big country you choose to explore, be sure to take
time to walk the streets and soak it all in.
Visit the Amazon. Did you even go to Brazil if you didn’t visit this
extraordinary region? If you’re lucky, you might even spot an elusive pink
dolphin swimming through the biodiverse rivers.
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