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<strong>Southern</strong><br />

IndIana<br />

PURSUING<br />

A DREAM:<br />

New Albany HS’s<br />

Romeo Langford<br />

Mar / Apr <strong>2018</strong><br />

<strong>Living</strong><br />

PLUS:<br />

Dining at Portage House<br />

Scottsburg, IN<br />

Coping with MS


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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 4


Featured Stories<br />

19 | IN PURSUIT OF A DREAM<br />

New Albany’s Romeo Langford<br />

32 | A PLACE TO GATHER<br />

Dining with a view of the river at Portage House<br />

38 | CHOOSING LIFE<br />

A battle with Multiple Sclerosis won’t stop one local<br />

resident from serving and staying positive<br />

12<br />

43 | A REASON TO BE THANKFUL<br />

Lessons learned during the first year of life with a<br />

preemie<br />

<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> <strong>Living</strong><br />

MARCH / APRIL <strong>2018</strong><br />

In Every Issue<br />

7 | FLASHBACK PHOTO<br />

Basketball Fever, New Albany, IN, 1958<br />

9 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />

A Word from that Other Dale Moss<br />

19<br />

10 | A WALK IN THE GARDEN WITH BOB HILL<br />

What Not to Do<br />

12 | OUR TOWN<br />

Scottsburg, <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

26 | COMMUNITY PAGES<br />

Spotlight on Salvation Army, Leadership <strong>Southern</strong><br />

<strong>Indiana</strong>, and more!<br />

28 | #BUYLOCAL<br />

Local Business Spotlight<br />

31 | REAL LIFE NUTRITION<br />

Seifan Tacos El Diablo<br />

32<br />

45 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />

No Walk in the Park<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 5


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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 6<br />

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<strong>Southern</strong><br />

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MAR / APR <strong>2018</strong><br />

VOL. 11, ISSUE 2<br />

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High School senior, Romeo<br />

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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 7


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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 8


A Note to Baby Boomers<br />

And Now, a Word from that Other Dale Moss<br />

Ijust Googled myself. It didn’t hurt.<br />

Actually, it did a little.<br />

Another Dale Moss rules that<br />

roost, and it’s not like he is a king or<br />

a Kardashian’s husband. The No. 1 Dale<br />

Moss on Google is an unemployed pro<br />

football player, a receiver on no one’s fantasy<br />

team.<br />

But there he is, the standard bearer.<br />

The rest of us fall humbly in line.<br />

I too could take up football, I suppose.<br />

Instead, though, I swallow my pride<br />

like other humbled Dale Moss.<br />

To get old is to get less relevant. People<br />

my age are old news. We’ve had our<br />

day. We have gone from having potential<br />

to having plantar fasciitis. We get run over<br />

by change, ease back up and get run over<br />

again. We love naps as much as we used<br />

to hate them.<br />

We give up trying to figure out what<br />

Bitcoin is.<br />

We struggle to matter. We grit the<br />

teeth we have left and settle for new roles,<br />

lesser parts. We helped a friend move a<br />

piano or pay a bill. We pitched in at the<br />

fall festival at our kids’ school.<br />

We eventually realized our parents<br />

are not the biggest dopes in town.<br />

To matter today can be to care for<br />

an ailing mom or dad or to refill a grandchild’s<br />

juice cup. A good day includes not<br />

once tripping over the dog’s chew toy.<br />

Low on energy, we instead offer wisdom<br />

to younger people willing to listen.<br />

As if they will. But that’s a whine for<br />

another day.<br />

It is easy to be retired, less so to be<br />

gainfully retired. Staying off the couch is<br />

good. Staying useful is better.<br />

Whatever we do, we can do more. I<br />

exercise, I volunteer, I read and pray and<br />

unload the dishwasher. Nonetheless, I<br />

still require the occasional push. I claim<br />

to want reunions with my rusty trombone<br />

and with tennis. If only I was better at talking<br />

myself into things than out of them.<br />

I will become legally old later this<br />

year. As Medicare beckons, aches and<br />

pains pile up. I have something wrong literally<br />

from head to toe. Still, I can turn off<br />

the TV and clean out the garage.<br />

A friend invited me to a University<br />

of Louisville basketball game. Now those<br />

are the kind of friends to have. Anyway,<br />

I watched the players and coaches and<br />

cheerleaders and it hit me. Rick Pitino was<br />

not there. Tom Jurich was not there. U of<br />

L got rid of them — Pitino as coach and<br />

Jurich as athletic director.<br />

Life goes on at U of L too. Not even<br />

Google superstars last forever.<br />

Way back, an old boss of mine insisted<br />

that his staff embrace change. He<br />

wasn’t so clueless after all. We now fill<br />

our own gasoline tanks. We check out our<br />

own groceries. Machines take our library<br />

fines and parking-lot fees. We buy everything<br />

online, from aluminum siding to<br />

socks. We more often cremate loved ones.<br />

Cash is a thing of the past and self-driving<br />

cars a thing of the future.<br />

I fell behind technologically when<br />

we plugged in our first VCR. Catching up<br />

seems hopeless. I cannot figure out Netflix.<br />

I am also unfamiliar with most Grammy<br />

winners or many Saturday Night Live<br />

hosts. From the pasture, I try to get used to<br />

life passing me by.<br />

I am not 24. I am 64. I might be able<br />

to move around pounds, but I no longer<br />

will lose many. I will return to skinny<br />

about the time Pitino returns to the sideline<br />

in Louisville.<br />

Like me, Pitino may be over the hill.<br />

Try to get over it, Coach. It is nothing personal.<br />

We are blessed for the chance to<br />

grow old. And getting old never gets old,<br />

so far. It serves up one challenge after another,<br />

most more important than keeping<br />

track of my 2-for-1 Whopper coupon.<br />

I sure enjoyed the buffet place at the<br />

Green Tree Mall. It is long gone. I’d give<br />

anything to still have a mother to fuss over<br />

me. I do not. How cool if my adult daughter<br />

finally finds a career to love.<br />

I run no more marathons.<br />

But I also shouldn’t just run out the<br />

clock. Being less relevant is reality.<br />

Being irrelevant is inexcusable.<br />

I run no more marathons. But I also<br />

shouldn’t just run out the clock. Being less<br />

relevant is reality. Being irrelevant is inexcusable.<br />

Time wins every time. It should<br />

not be allowed to win without a fight. So<br />

what if a jobless football player matters<br />

more?<br />

At one time, I was the No. 1 Dale<br />

Moss on Google. I can live with that. •<br />

After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />

retired as <strong>Indiana</strong> columnist for<br />

The Courier-Journal. He now<br />

writes weekly for the News and<br />

Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />

live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />

that has been in his family<br />

since the Civil War. Dale’s<br />

e-mail is dale.moss@twc.com<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 9


A Walk in the Garden with Bob Hill<br />

What Not to Do<br />

Lessons learned while owning a rare-plant nursery and sculpture garden<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 10


Despite a few million essays,<br />

lectures, classes and self-help<br />

books on the subject, the truth<br />

of human existence almost always<br />

comes down to one fact: “Life is<br />

what happens while you’re making other<br />

plans.”<br />

If someone had told me 60 years ago<br />

I would end up enjoying a fulfilling life as<br />

a writer and media crank, live that good<br />

life in <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> and create an<br />

8-acre nursery, arboretum and sculpture<br />

garden around my home over 40 years, I<br />

would have considered them absolutely<br />

batty.<br />

My future, my destiny — not to tread<br />

too much on the word “batty” — was to<br />

be center field for the New York Yankees.<br />

Anything beyond that was much too far in<br />

the distance to contemplate.<br />

But writer it was. Hidden Hill Nursery<br />

& Sculpture Garden in Utica it has<br />

become. I don’t even like the Yankees<br />

anymore. I’m now mostly with the onceagain-doomed-to-failure<br />

Chicago Cubs.<br />

But just in case any one of you<br />

might wind up owning a plant geek nursery<br />

and sculpture garden someday — and<br />

no one to my knowledge has ever written<br />

a decent self-help tome on that — I offer<br />

the following truths on the realities of our<br />

business:<br />

1<br />

Yes, we are now into early spring<br />

<strong>2018</strong>. What are you doing reading<br />

this nonsense? You should be armpit-deep<br />

in catalogs, brochures, wholesale nursery<br />

offerings, harassing phone calls from<br />

bankers, second-mortgage possibilities<br />

and bitter memories of previous plantselection<br />

failures such as Hardy Hoosier<br />

Avocados.<br />

2<br />

Never — and I mean never — visit<br />

the garden department of a big box<br />

store whose name rhymes with “toes” or<br />

“tires.” You will quickly learn they sell<br />

plants at lower costs than you can buy<br />

them, said plants will be stacked 15 feet<br />

high in all directions and there are two<br />

more huge trucks out there in the parking<br />

lot waiting to be unloaded.<br />

As you look around, you will notice<br />

their plant offerings are mostly very uninspired,<br />

but there will be a couple of plants<br />

you don’t have and want to take home to<br />

try.<br />

That, in certain personal cases, will<br />

require a trip home to don a disguise and<br />

mustache to purchase them. To do otherwise<br />

is to stand there in the big box store<br />

checkout line emotionally naked and vulnerable<br />

as someone will recognize you<br />

and say “Hey, aren’t you the guy that used to<br />

write for the newspaper, and don’t you own a<br />

rare-plant nursery up in Utica, and what the<br />

hell are you doing buying plants here?”<br />

History has taught me there are no<br />

good answers to those questions.<br />

3<br />

If as a rare-plant nursery owner<br />

with a perhaps more defined plant<br />

palette and customer base, never — and I<br />

mean never — go plant shopping at a big<br />

box store on a Saturday morning when its<br />

hundreds of customers are backed up 20-<br />

deep with shopping carts filled with mundane<br />

offerings, many in full bloom.<br />

To see that many teeming people in<br />

a big box store while an eager dozen or so<br />

may be enjoying the fruits of your nursery<br />

labor back home is to resist the temptation<br />

to grab a megaphone, stand up in a shopping<br />

cart of your own and scream at that<br />

long line of fake gardeners:<br />

“Hey, you idiots, why are you buying<br />

plants already in full bloom, their show-lives<br />

already half over? Buy them as hopeful babies,<br />

smaller plugs with all their blooming lives still<br />

ahead of them.<br />

“I know just the place to buy those, with<br />

a much better and more interesting selection to<br />

boot. Follow me home and I shall lead you into<br />

a whole new and exciting way of gardening.”<br />

Then, as big box-store security<br />

guards rush forward armed with pruning<br />

shears and 6-foot rakes, make one final<br />

heroic speech to those garden-impaired<br />

shoppers before being dragged off to the<br />

manager’s offce.<br />

“My friends, I implore you, for the good<br />

of those plants, for the good of your garden,<br />

do not plant fully blooming daisies in early<br />

spring. They have lived all their lives in climate-controlled<br />

greenhouses owned by corporate<br />

czars who know nothing of leaky hoses and<br />

faulty gaskets. They know nothing of the harsh<br />

realities of our midwestern spring weather.<br />

“I beseech you. The very lives of your<br />

plants could be at risk. Let them breath. Give<br />

them a life of their own. Let them be free. It’s<br />

the American way.”<br />

It might be best to wear a disguise in<br />

that mode of operation, too.<br />

4<br />

Do not become angry with those<br />

many young people working in the<br />

garden shop areas of big box stores. Yes,<br />

many would prefer to be home spending<br />

eight to 10 hours a day playing video<br />

games. Yes, many have not seemed to master<br />

the fine art of watering plants packed<br />

too tightly on pallets on a cement floor in<br />

stifling summer heat. Yes, many do not<br />

know an osmanthus from an ostrich.<br />

But they are all somebody’s children,<br />

even grandchildren. They have absolutely<br />

no intention of owning a nursery<br />

and sculpture garden someday, so why<br />

should they invest any interest now?<br />

Some may even root for the New York<br />

Yankees.<br />

Plus, many of the department managers<br />

are plant geeks themselves, dedicated<br />

gardeners caught up in the corporate<br />

world with kids to feed and bills to pay<br />

and conifers to push. They might even<br />

love the Chicago Cubs.<br />

5<br />

As you look around,<br />

you will notice<br />

their plant offerings<br />

are mostly very<br />

uninspired, but there<br />

will be a couple of<br />

plants you don’t<br />

have and want to<br />

take home to try.<br />

That, in certain<br />

personal cases, will<br />

require a trip home<br />

to don a disguise<br />

and mustache to<br />

purchase them.<br />

At season’s end, when you can close<br />

the nursery gates in early October<br />

and enjoy the fall colors all your own, and<br />

not have to sell Christmas trees, or deal<br />

with another customer seeking a plant<br />

that blooms all year, never requires watering<br />

or deadheading and will remain<br />

hardy at 40 below zero, you are a much<br />

better person — and gardener — for the<br />

experience. •<br />

Hidden Hill Nursery & Sculpture Garden<br />

in Utica, <strong>Indiana</strong>, will open its 19th season<br />

Friday, March 30, with a rare-plant sale. The<br />

Annual Kite Flying Festival will be Saturday,<br />

April 7. See hiddenhillnursery.com for details.<br />

About the Author<br />

Bob Hill owns Hidden Hill<br />

Nursery and can be<br />

reached at farmerbob@<br />

hiddenhillnursery.com.<br />

For more information,<br />

including nursery hours<br />

and event information, go<br />

to www.hiddenhillnursery.<br />

com<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 11


Our Town<br />

Our Town:<br />

Scottsburg, <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

Story by Jon Watkins<br />

Photos by Michelle Hockman (except where noted)<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 12<br />

Pictured: A statue of William Hayden English in front of the Scott County Courthouse


A<br />

humble rural beginning is the<br />

birth of many towns in America.<br />

Some continue along their<br />

agricultural paths while others<br />

head into areas of industrialization and<br />

technology. However, for the town of<br />

Scottsburg, <strong>Indiana</strong>, the hope is not simply<br />

to create one linear path of innovation<br />

and industry but an entire infrastructure<br />

built by dreamers and entrepreneurs.<br />

Offcially platted on March 27, 1871,<br />

Scottsburg (originally spelled “Scottsburgh”)<br />

owes its name to Col. Horace<br />

Scott, a former general superintendent of<br />

the Jeffersonville, Madison and <strong>Indiana</strong>polis<br />

Railroad — a railroad line that started<br />

in <strong>Indiana</strong>polis and ran south to the Ohio<br />

River. Wanting their town to become a<br />

Fifth Class city, the residents made their<br />

voices heard on the ballots in November<br />

1959, but it would take five years before<br />

the first offcers would be sworn into office.<br />

But today, a town once striving to<br />

have its growing populace recognized<br />

through democracy now seeks to be acknowledged<br />

as a new type of depot —<br />

one that houses a growing community of<br />

innovation in areas of technology, art and<br />

health while attempting to give back to<br />

both the local and surrounding communities.<br />

One of the key figures helping to<br />

usher in these new areas of innovation is<br />

Dorrel Harrison. After moving to Scottsburg<br />

in 2003, Harrison, a former a health<br />

educator in New York, began to channel<br />

his focus into barn plaques. “A barn<br />

plaque is a three-dimensional piece of art<br />

that has been handcrafted out of redeemed<br />

barn board,” Harrison said. “They are<br />

either a framed piece of work, in a shadowbox<br />

frame, or they sit on top of a piece<br />

of barn wood that’s 4-by-24-inches.” Harrison’s<br />

plaques include details that match<br />

the original storefronts, mills and barns.<br />

These details range from weathered paint<br />

to surrounding landscapes, even down to<br />

making sure the flow of wood grain on<br />

the barn board matches that of the original<br />

barn. Harrison’s style of art is not only<br />

unique locally but nationally as well.<br />

“Once I started doing my barn<br />

plaques, and after we had our exhibit at<br />

Mid-America Science Park, I came up<br />

with the desire to bring attention to Scott<br />

County,” he said. “Nobody else in the<br />

state makes barn plaques.” Harrison was<br />

given the prestigious title of <strong>Indiana</strong> Artisan<br />

in 2008 (and remains the only <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

Artisan in Scott County). “Your work has<br />

to be juried; it has to be very unique,” he<br />

said. The <strong>Indiana</strong> Arts Commission accepts<br />

an assortment of styles and creators<br />

for the artisan title, such as culinary artists<br />

and furniture makers.<br />

Harrison, now among these ambas-<br />

A covered bridge created to look like a train // Lake Iola Park<br />

Lake Iola<br />

Lake Iola Interurban Site<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 13


After participating in a local craft fair, feedback from people<br />

suffering with eczema started pouring in. The people began<br />

experiencing relief from their symptoms with the goat milk<br />

bars, and Goat Milk Stuff’s growth never stopped.<br />

Pictured: (this page, clockwise from top left) Bars of goat milk soap are packaged in cloth bags; soy candles are sold in a variety of scents; you can visit the resident goats on a farm tour;<br />

goat milk cheeses are sold in the sweet shop along with goat milk, drinkable yogurt, goat milk gelato, goat milk fudge, caramel, jams, baked goods, salsa, and local honey. The adjacent<br />

farm store sells laundry soap, lotions, lip balms, natural deoderants, bath fizzies, perfumes, and more.<br />

Pictured: (Right hand page, clockwise from top) a barn plaque created by Dorrel Harrison; Dorrell creating a new barn plaque (// photos of Dorrel Harrison from SIL archives); the Mid-<br />

America Science Park in Scottsburg.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 14


sadors of the arts, is just one of the innovators<br />

in Scottsburg. At 112,000 square<br />

feet, the Mid-America Science Park (MAS-<br />

Park) is constantly adapting to the needs<br />

of a variety of occupants. According to<br />

its website, MASPark “is one of the most<br />

comprehensive science parks in the country”<br />

and is able to accommodate everyone<br />

from “entrepreneurs, military personnel,<br />

researchers, visitors and students”<br />

with everything from “customized labs”<br />

to spaces for conferences, events and offices.<br />

“This could be a conference facility;<br />

we have a presentation hall; we have several<br />

conference rooms; we have executive<br />

board rooms; we have breakout rooms,<br />

and then we have a large banquet hall,”<br />

said Joe Pearson, MASPark’s executive director.<br />

MASPark was even able to house<br />

Henryville High School students after the<br />

2012 tornado.<br />

The center also caters to training<br />

people in various industries. “If you were<br />

someone here who wanted to be trained,<br />

whether you were in high school, in industrial<br />

technology, or industrial maintenance<br />

or CNC machining, we have a<br />

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houses Amatrol training equipment (from<br />

Jeffersonville, <strong>Indiana</strong>), a welding laboratory<br />

and a large area for CNC machining.<br />

Five manufacturers are currently using<br />

the area for training. Pearson also stresses<br />

the importance of making sure people are<br />

well-equipped to not only do their current<br />

job, but other jobs going forward. “We<br />

know today that you’ll do several different<br />

things in your lifetime,” he said.<br />

Many Americans are feeling the effects<br />

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times, yet many are experiencing a shift in<br />

career choices by sheer exploration of circumstances,<br />

just like one Scottsburg family.<br />

When Jim and P.J. Jonas’ family first<br />

began cultivating uses for goat milk, they<br />

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never fathomed the journey would culminate<br />

into a company called Goat Milk<br />

Stuff. “This was all very unintentional. I<br />

really just started doing the soap for ourselves<br />

and the family.” P.J. Jonas said.<br />

But after participating in a local craft fair,<br />

feedback from people suffering with eczema<br />

started pouring in. The people began<br />

experiencing relief from their symptoms<br />

with the goat milk bars, and Goat Milk<br />

Stuff’s growth never stopped. The company<br />

is the “first and only Grade A goat<br />

dairy in the state of <strong>Indiana</strong>,” Jonas said.<br />

Originally on a three-acre farm in<br />

Charlestown, <strong>Indiana</strong>, Jonas and her family<br />

began searching for a location for their<br />

company by creating a list of all the qualities<br />

they were looking for. Among the<br />

items were accessibility for 18-wheelers,<br />

high-speed Internet, proximity to shopping<br />

and good utilities. The family found<br />

what it was looking for in a 36-acre Scottsburg<br />

farm. The company now has several<br />

buildings to stock, create, maintain and<br />

supply goat milk and goat milk products<br />

that ship across the country. Jonas’ offce<br />

is being remodeled into a cheese-aging<br />

space so the company can add to its list<br />

of products. The company’s incredible<br />

success has led it to be featured on such<br />

shows as “The Doctors” and “The Huckabee<br />

Show.” Jonas noted that her children<br />

will be taking over the company one day,<br />

and an important lesson she hopes to impart<br />

is forward thinking and innovation.<br />

<strong>Living</strong> in an area with artists such as<br />

Harrison and institutes such as MASPark,<br />

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community of Scottsburg are sure to<br />

be ones of inspiration and innovation. •<br />

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such as MASPark, the future<br />

of the entire community of<br />

Scottsburg are sure to be ones of<br />

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Pictured: (top) Scottsburg Public Library was originally built with a Carnegie grant from 1917; (bottom) the Scott County All Wars Veterans Memorial stands near the Courthouse.<br />

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In Pursuit of a Dream<br />

Cover Story<br />

Humble and kind, New Albany’s Romeo Langford represents our community<br />

well in his championship quest and beyond<br />

Don’t look now, but New Albany<br />

High School basketball is nearing<br />

the end of a years-long narrative<br />

that began when young<br />

Romeo Langford scored 28 points for<br />

Mount Tabor Elementary during a fourthgrade<br />

county championship game.<br />

The team won, of course, and the<br />

story has only grown more compelling<br />

since:<br />

Langford leads Scribner Middle<br />

School to three titles in four years, then becomes<br />

an impact player on the varsity as a<br />

freshman. Sophomore year, he carries an<br />

experienced squad to the school’s second<br />

state title, then nearly drags a younger<br />

team over the hump in the regional final<br />

against a tough Castle team as a junior.<br />

Now, with great fanfare (and a big<br />

assist from longtime running mate and<br />

fellow senior Sean East), he’s geared up<br />

for one more title run with another young<br />

Story by Cary Stemle<br />

Photos by David Lee Hartlage<br />

Bulldog squad that started the season<br />

ranked No. 1 in Class 4A and currently<br />

sits at No. 3. That quest was set to start<br />

March 2 at the Seymour Sectional.<br />

The manuscript needs an ending. It’s<br />

<strong>Indiana</strong>polis or bust.<br />

Dedicated and Disciplined<br />

Romeo Langford, commonly known<br />

as Ro, was born 18 years ago, two years<br />

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Langford is bucking the trend by playing for his<br />

hometown public high school. Of this year’s crop of<br />

24 McDonald’s All-Americans, he’s one of only five<br />

not coming through the prep school pipeline that<br />

funnels kids to the top college programs.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 20


after Tim and Sabrina Langford and their<br />

two daughters moved to <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

from Atlanta He played multiple<br />

sports until the seventh grade, and grins<br />

when he says he misses playing football.<br />

He stood about 6-foot-1 by the<br />

eighth grade, with both basketball skills<br />

and poise beyond his years. Early on, his<br />

laid-back nature could look like dawdling<br />

on the court, and his mom occasionally<br />

had to remind him to put some pep in<br />

his step. That seems like a long time ago.<br />

Langford today is constant motion, slashing<br />

to the basket, blocking shots, soaring<br />

for dunks, gliding around the three-point<br />

arc, and constantly picking himself up off<br />

the floor after getting knocked down (or<br />

tripped) by opposing defenses that tend<br />

to send two, three or even four players after<br />

him wherever he goes.<br />

Whatever happens on the court, his<br />

deadpan expression rarely changes. You<br />

may glimpse a smile as he goes to the<br />

bench with the game in hand, and you<br />

can tell he’s got more gears when things<br />

are on the line. But don’t expect any “3<br />

goggles” after he hits from deep, no chestbumping<br />

at mid-court after a big play. A<br />

raised eyebrow, maybe, but never a raised<br />

voice.<br />

Off the court he enjoys being a kid<br />

— he’s particularly fond of cereal, bread,<br />

gummies and video games (“Fortnite” is a<br />

current favorite). He’s an honors student,<br />

answers “yes, sir” and “no, ma’am,” and<br />

enjoys math but will probably pursue a<br />

communications degree in college, which<br />

is important to him regardless of where<br />

his basketball career takes him.<br />

Sabrina Langford said Romeo has<br />

always been a calm kid. “If you know me,<br />

I’m pretty much the same way. I try not to<br />

get too rattled — it wastes too much energy,<br />

in my book. He’s like any other kid.<br />

He played with his sisters. He got on their<br />

nerves, they got on his nerves, ‘Mama,<br />

she’s looking at me, she’s touching me.’<br />

He’s just a normal kid.”<br />

He’s also completely serious about<br />

basketball. His dad, often in charge of taking<br />

him to individual strength and yoga<br />

sessions across the river, half expected his<br />

son to beg off a time or two after an especially<br />

tiring day. Didn’t happen.<br />

Just before the current school year<br />

began, Langford added a new twist to his<br />

look by dyeing his hair a light red. “My<br />

mom and my sisters told me my hair used<br />

to be a lighter color when I was a little<br />

kid,” he said, “and I told her she could try<br />

it on my hair. It came out like this, and I<br />

kept it.”<br />

Part of a Team<br />

Langford is bucking the trend by<br />

playing for his hometown public high<br />

school. Of this year’s crop of 24 McDonald’s<br />

All-Americans, he’s one of only five<br />

not coming through the prep school pipeline<br />

that funnels kids to the top college<br />

programs. The Langfords strongly considered<br />

that path as well, but ultimately<br />

were satisfied that he could drive his own<br />

improvement without relocating.<br />

New Albany coach Jim Shannon is<br />

grateful for that.<br />

In a state that’s synonymous with<br />

high school basketball, Shannon, 57, is<br />

a classic Hoosier story. He grew up in<br />

Anderson, home to one of <strong>Indiana</strong>’s famously<br />

large high school gyms, where<br />

he played and was a volunteer assistant<br />

while in college at Ball State. He became a<br />

Pictured (left-hand page, clockwise from top left): Langford soars to block a shot in New Albany’s win over Jasper. Langford often draws two, three or even four defenders. Senior guard Sean<br />

East (No. 5) has started for three years and brings steady leadership to complement his longtime friend Langford. They played together on the Louisville Legends AAU team, and the East<br />

family moved to New Albany so they could play nigh-school ball together.<br />

Pictured this page: Langford patiently meets fans after every game, home or away. Here, he’s photographed with Eli and Emma Barksdale, while their mother Katie (red sleeves) and grandfather<br />

David Barksdale (bottom left), aka Pop, look on.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 21


head coach at 24, turning around a struggling<br />

program at North Decatur, then<br />

spent six years at South Dearborn. Next<br />

was a three-rear stop at Lebanon, another<br />

hotbed where the legendary Rick Mount<br />

played.<br />

Twenty years ago, Shannon “hit the<br />

jackpot” and landed his dream job at New<br />

Albany, a city school where success is<br />

measured in tournament wins.<br />

For four years, the history teacher<br />

has had both the luxury of coaching a<br />

once-in-a-lifetime talent and the challenge<br />

of melding a team around him season by<br />

season. This year, three-year starter East<br />

is back as floor general. The 6-foot-1 lefty<br />

played on the Louisville Legends AAU<br />

team with Langford and moved to New<br />

Albany so they could play together in<br />

high school. A crafty and steady ball-handler,<br />

East averages more than 18 points<br />

and 5 assists per game while shooting<br />

nearly 50 percent from three-point range.<br />

He currently has a scholarship offer from<br />

NAIA Huntington and is drawing interest<br />

from IUPUI, Ball State, UNC-Greensboro<br />

and Vincennes.<br />

The team is filled out with role players<br />

who focus on defense, rebounding,<br />

screening and taking advantage of the<br />

shots that materialize when defenses key<br />

on Langford and East. Derrick Stevenson,<br />

a 6-1 forward, shares ball-handling duties<br />

with the seniors and has scored in double<br />

figures several times. Trey Hourigan, a 6-5<br />

sophomore center, is a good rebounder<br />

and shooter with 3-point range. And Julien<br />

“Juju” Hunter, a quick-jumping 6-3<br />

sophomore forward, crashes the boards<br />

for frequent put-backs and gets his share<br />

of highlight reel dunks.<br />

Darin Starks, a 5-8 sophomore<br />

guard, is first off the bench, usually subbing<br />

for Hunter or Hourigan and making<br />

New Albany even faster and more likely<br />

to press. Chris Johnson, a 5-9 junior guard,<br />

is seeing more playing time, and senior<br />

Savion Southers has contributed off the<br />

bench.<br />

Hunter, who started last year as a<br />

freshman, is playing for family pride. His<br />

grandfather Wilbert Hunter started on the<br />

1971 team that was knocked off by an upstart<br />

Floyd Central team in the sectional,<br />

and his father Chad was a four-year starter<br />

whose teams won two semi-states and<br />

three regionals.<br />

Chad Hunter, now the pastor at<br />

New Dimensions Christian Church and<br />

fighting back from recent strokes, held the<br />

school’s career record for both points and<br />

rebounds before Langford came along.<br />

Juju, a star-in-waiting, said playing with<br />

the guy who broke his father’s records is<br />

an incredible experience.<br />

“Romeo is very humble and he talks<br />

to us about things that can help the team,”<br />

he said. “In practice, he takes words out<br />

of coaches’ mouths. He and Sean are quiet<br />

on the court because they’re focused.”<br />

Off the court, though, their teammates<br />

say Langford and East are hilarious<br />

and keep them loose with silliness. Last<br />

year, for example, Langford told Hunter<br />

that coach Jim Shannon needed to see<br />

him urgently. It was a ruse, and the team<br />

cracked up when the freshman came back<br />

to the locker room. Hunter also caught<br />

the business from Langford again just last<br />

month: “One day I wore pajama pants and<br />

slides with no socks,” he says, referring to<br />

the sports sandals that are a youth fashion<br />

staple these days. “I don’t know why I did<br />

it. ... He was making jokes about my toes.”<br />

Asked what the public might not realize<br />

about the team, Hunter has a ready<br />

answer: “One thing most people don’t<br />

know is we’ve got a nice group of normal<br />

kids. If we’re not on the court, we’re<br />

at home. We don’t expose ourselves to<br />

trouble.<br />

“When kids ask us to do such and<br />

such or go to this place and that place, we<br />

Pictured (this page): The New Albany gym, known as The Doghouse, is routinely filled with about 4,000 fans, many of whom are season-ticket holders.<br />

(Right-hand page, from top) Langford has signed just about everything — photos, jerseys, tennis shoes, cell phone cases, and even the occasional onesie; Coach Jim Shannon, in his 20th year<br />

at New Albany, encourages Langford and Derrick Stevenson (No. 11) during a time-out.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 22


always have to think: ‘Am I representing<br />

New Albany right? Am I representing<br />

coach Shannon and coach (B.J.) McAllister<br />

and the basketball team right? That sways<br />

our answers. That makes sure we’re doing<br />

the right thing and saying the right stuff.”<br />

Championship Quest ... and Beyond<br />

It’s been a great season so far, with<br />

the lone loss a 49-47 overtime decision<br />

at Class 4A No. 4 and county rival Floyd<br />

Central in the fourth game of the season.<br />

As the calendar rolled through February,<br />

New Albany closed in on its 100th win<br />

during the Langford Era against only nine<br />

losses.<br />

The team has been tested at 4A powers<br />

Bloomington South (No. 5) and Carmel<br />

(9th); in neutral site games against Class<br />

4A No. 14 Fort Wayne North and Class 3A<br />

No. 10 Silver Creek; and home grinders<br />

against <strong>Indiana</strong>polis Pike and Princeton,<br />

ranked 9th in Ohio.<br />

The Princeton game was on ESPNU,<br />

and New Albany took a 65-64 overtime<br />

thriller as Langford fought through three<br />

separate injuries to score 36 points. The<br />

Silver Creek game, part of Fox Sports’<br />

“Basketball Day <strong>Indiana</strong>,” was on statewide<br />

TV and played at Bankers Life Arena<br />

in Indy, home of the NBA’s <strong>Indiana</strong> Pacers<br />

and site of the state championship.<br />

That scheduling was no accident.<br />

Regardless of what happens on<br />

the court from here, one of the big takealways<br />

from Langford’s time at New Albany<br />

is how gracefully he’s handled the<br />

spotlight. People are nuts about him and<br />

want to see him.<br />

During New Albany’s state title<br />

run in 2016, fans began lining up for autographs,<br />

and now, he sits at a table after<br />

games, home or away, and patiently signs<br />

shirts, jerseys, photographs, basketballs<br />

and more. And with a shy and genuine<br />

smile, he poses for photos with anyone<br />

who asks. The typical line of fans lasts<br />

an hour, and on the Thursday night that<br />

Langford torched Jennings County for a<br />

career-high 63 points, the queue of North<br />

Vernon fans took two hours to clear.<br />

Tim Langford usually sits nearby,<br />

often fielding compliments from other<br />

parents for raising a classy son who’s a<br />

role model for their kids Reporters have<br />

asked both Langfords whether spending<br />

that much time with fans is tiring, but<br />

they shrug it off as part of the territory.<br />

“LeBron is my favorite player, and if<br />

he was somewhere I was and I wanted to<br />

get his autograph, I don’t want him to say<br />

he’s tired and not get to me,” Romeo said.<br />

“That’s why I’m playing basketball. I like<br />

to see that I’m making people’s day and<br />

making them happy.”<br />

- Romeo Langford<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 23


There’s also constant questions<br />

about where Langford will attend college<br />

— he’ll announce <strong>Indiana</strong>, Vanderbilt<br />

or Kansas sometime after the season<br />

— and whether he can break Damon Bailey’s<br />

career scoring record. Langford was<br />

closing in on 3,000 points as the regular<br />

season wound down and Bailey’s 3,134<br />

total could be in jeopardy if New Albany<br />

makes a deep tournament run.<br />

Then there’s that thing Shannon<br />

doesn’t want to think about: what it will<br />

be like when Langford moves on.<br />

“I know everybody always says enjoy<br />

the journey, enjoy the moment. That’s<br />

what we tell each other. I’m not sure we<br />

do that. All I do is get ready for the next<br />

one,” he said.<br />

“I don’t really want to think about<br />

(the journey coming to an end). I didn’t<br />

want to think about it when my kids graduated<br />

from high school and left for college.<br />

I didn’t want to think about it when<br />

my son said he was going to Arizona for<br />

a job. I don’t really like thinking about<br />

that stuff. But yeah, he’s not going to be<br />

here much longer. We’ve still got a ways<br />

to go, but he’s ready for the next chapter.<br />

It’s time.”<br />

As for Langford, he skipped prep<br />

school for one thing. His hometown<br />

school plays for state championships. “It’s<br />

always that,” he says. “The team is playing<br />

well. We just have to keep our momentum<br />

going.” •<br />

Making Memories<br />

I’ve been following New Albany<br />

closely this season in hopes of writing<br />

a book after the season. My twofold<br />

premise is simple: to chronicle<br />

the final year of Langford’s high school<br />

career and the team’s hopefully epic season,<br />

and to honor how sports brings families<br />

together to create lasting memories.<br />

That certainly was the case for me<br />

and my father Robert “Mainie” Stemle.<br />

He started as a senior on the 1944 New<br />

Albany team that cracked the Top 10 before<br />

losing to a powerhouse Jeffersonville<br />

team in the opening game of the sectional.<br />

For as long as I can recall, basketball<br />

was a frame of reference between us.<br />

When I was not quite 9, my father toted<br />

me to Freedom Hall in Louisville to watch<br />

UCLA and Lew Alcindor defeat Rick<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 24<br />

Mount and Purdue in the NCAA title<br />

game. (Dad’s friend and well-connected<br />

fellow New Albany grad, Joe Dean, got<br />

him the tickets.)<br />

A few years later, dad took me to<br />

see the ABA’s Kentucky Colonels — including<br />

pre-season games against NBA<br />

teams — after which I’d camp outside the<br />

locker rooms for autographs<br />

while he waited patiently. I got Alcindor’s<br />

signature after he’d changed his name to<br />

Kareem Abdul-Jabber — it’s either lost<br />

to history or buried in my parents’ basement<br />

somewhere.<br />

But that indelible memory and<br />

many more are as present today as ever.<br />

And you can see this bonding play<br />

out around the New Albany team. Fathers,<br />

daughters, mothers and sons come<br />

to the games, and many of them stick<br />

around to meet Romeo after the game.<br />

With digital photography, it’s much<br />

easier to build a permanent record of<br />

those encounters, ensuring they won’t<br />

forget. They don’t know how lucky they<br />

are — but they will.<br />

Pictured: Author Cary Stemle’s Dad, Robert<br />

“Mainie” Stemle


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Your Community presented by<br />

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NEW SITE SPARKS CELEBRATION<br />

The public gathered recently for the ribbon-cutting at the Communities in Schools of Clark County’s new location at 4403 Hamburg<br />

Pike/Suite C in Jeffersonville. Thanks to business, community, and volunteer support, the non-profit’s in- and out-of-school programs<br />

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Left: Among the bevy of supporters<br />

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Offcer Amber Tharp, and John<br />

Whitbeck, German American Bank.<br />

Right: Among the Board Members<br />

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Graninger, founding Executive<br />

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Leadership <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

SHERIFFS ON MENU FOR BREAKFAST<br />

Leadership <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>’s first program in its popular Breakfast Series for <strong>2018</strong> featured Floyd County Sheriff Frank<br />

Loop and Clark County Sheriff Jamey Noel. Their overview of several aspects of their roles and the communities plus answers<br />

to audience questions captivated the crowd in the IU Southeast Hoosier Room. Leadership SI’s valuable programs<br />

to engage, develop, and mobilize regional leaders to serve and transform the communities are enrolling this season.<br />

Speakers at Leadership SI’s<br />

Breakfast Series opener were<br />

(in back) Floyd County Sheriff<br />

Frank Loop and Clark County<br />

Sheriff Jamey Noel. With them<br />

are Matt Neely, Nexgen Program<br />

Chair; and, in front,<br />

Advisory Board Member Sue<br />

Christopher, who moderated the<br />

program, and Bryan Wickens,<br />

Leadership SI alumnus.<br />

Among teens in Leadership SI’s NexGen Program who attended were: Julia Anderson of Rock Creek Community Academy; and Charlestown<br />

High School students Isabelle Zimmerman, Adela Zimbro, Chase Fellows, Grace Sellers, and Riley Wampler.<br />

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Salvation Army of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

GALA RAISES SPIRITS, FUNDS<br />

Rousing live auction bidding, an array of silent auction items, a buffet dinner, special awards, and vibrant<br />

spirit of support filled IU Southeast’s Hoosier Room recently when the community gathered for the Salvation<br />

Army of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>’s seventh annual Bed and Bread Gala recently.<br />

WDRB’s Keith Kaiser served as emcee for the evening that raised not only thousands for the Salvation<br />

Army’s critical services but also enough in spontaneous bidding to provide at least one new van for the<br />

non-profit that reaches individuals and families in Clark, Crawford, Floyd, Harrison, Scott, and Washington<br />

counties. For long-standing service and heart for the community, volunteer Shannon Kaiser received the<br />

Service to Mankind Award, and Northside Christian Church earned the Lifetime Achievement Award.<br />

The Salvation Army’s mission is “motivated by the love of God to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ and<br />

meet human needs in His name without discrimination.” Its central offce is at 2300 Green Valley Road in<br />

New Albany. For information, call 812-944-1018.<br />

Shannon Kaiser, one<br />

of the event’s cochairs,<br />

received the<br />

Service to Mankind<br />

Award.<br />

Above, left: Silent auction items appealed to Dick and Beth Peterson of New Albany, James and Debbie Hill of Sellersburg, and Bill and Betty<br />

Russo of Jeffersonville.<br />

Above, right: Committee co-chairs Chuck Grantz and Roxanne Haley posed with new Salvation Army Maj. Jamey Pennington and, representing<br />

Northside Christian Church for its award, Mark Stauffer and Ann Kulwicki and, in front, Jeff Riddle and Zach Haley.<br />

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GIRLS NIGHT OUT INSPIRES<br />

Hearts for the community + a philanthropic spirit = a lively evening when<br />

women gathered recently to learn about and celebrate Impact 100. The nonprofit<br />

empowers women to dramatically improve lives by collectively funding<br />

significant grants that make a lasting impact on the community. It awarded<br />

a $50,000 grant last year from among several applicants and hopes to reach<br />

$100,000 this year. The grant will be awarded to a non-profit in Clark, Floyd,<br />

and/or Harrison County selected by those who donate $1,000 by May 15.<br />

Following the national Impact 100 model, the local grant will address needs<br />

of women and children in areas of arts and culture, education, environment<br />

and recreation, family, and health and wellness. Impact 100 <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

is the initiative of the Women’s Foundation of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>, a fund<br />

of the Community Foundation of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>. For more information,<br />

log onto www.impact100si.org.<br />

These pages are sponsored by Idealogy<br />

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Top: Enjoying the array of hors d’oeuvres were Lynn Prinz, event hostess Kye<br />

Hoehn, Margaret Hammond, and Becky Nunn.<br />

Bottom: Registering for door prizes at the Impact 100 Girls’ Night Out were<br />

Elaine Murphy, center, and board members Morgan Rumple and Rhonda Parero.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 27


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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 28


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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 29


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Real Life Nutrition<br />

Seifan Tacos El Diablo<br />

A meal with easy ingredient swaps for everyone in your family<br />

Do you struggle with feeding<br />

picky eaters, or feeling like a<br />

short-order cook? Taco Tuesday<br />

in the Koetter-Ali household<br />

has a twist — I am a vegetarian and my<br />

husband is not. Lucky for us, we love all<br />

types of food, so finding common ground<br />

is easy.<br />

Accommodating different needs<br />

and taste preferences does not have to<br />

involve multiple dishes and long hours<br />

in the kitchen. It requires a little planning<br />

that can save time and money. The first<br />

part of meal planning is finding a recipe.<br />

The next step is building it your own way<br />

to meet your family’s needs.<br />

Every family is different, whether it<br />

is accommodating meat-eaters and vegetarians,<br />

food allergies or picky eaters.<br />

Most recipes can be modified with easy<br />

swaps to meet anyone’s requests. Simply<br />

follow the recipe as suggested and<br />

include the swaps in place of the original<br />

ingredients. For example, the original<br />

taco recipe calls for “chorizo” seitan, but<br />

for my husband’s portion, I’ll use regular<br />

pork chorizo. If you’re a vegetarian and<br />

also gluten-free, simply swap out the seitan<br />

with tofu or beans and use corn tortillas<br />

in place of flour tortillas (seitan has<br />

gluten). You can even use bibb lettuce for<br />

shells or make a rice bowl!<br />

I’m always looking for ways to make<br />

dishes more heart-healthy. To do this,<br />

simply use whole-grain tortillas, fat-free<br />

plain Greek yogurt instead of sour cream<br />

and chorizo-flavored chicken in place of<br />

pork.<br />

Want to make the original recipe,<br />

but you can’t find “chorizo” seitan? Regardless<br />

of the protein you choose — seitan,<br />

tofu, beans or chicken — simply flavor<br />

your substitute to taste similar to chorizo.<br />

Sauté one small chopped onion and a tablespoon<br />

of chopped garlic in a pan with<br />

two tablespoons of olive oil. Add salt and<br />

Seitan Tacos El Diablo<br />

with Kiwi Salsa and Lime Crema<br />

pepper to taste, and cook for three to five<br />

minutes. Add your protein of choice and<br />

sauté 10-30 minutes, until the protein is<br />

cooked through and slightly crisp. Add a<br />

chopped green bell pepper and one tablespoon<br />

of chili powder and continue to<br />

cook a few more minutes until the dish is<br />

combined and fragrant. The protein substitute<br />

is now ready to be used in the taco<br />

recipe below. •<br />

Photo and Recipe Courtesy of Hello Fresh.<br />

About the Author<br />

Maji Koetter Ali, MS,<br />

RD, LD, is a licensed<br />

registered dietitian at<br />

Baptist Health Floyd<br />

specializing in diabetes<br />

and weight management.<br />

She uses<br />

a real-life approach<br />

to nutrition when<br />

counseling her clients,<br />

and encourages them<br />

to strive for progress<br />

not perfection. She is passionate about helping<br />

everyone find their own way to living their happiest<br />

and healthiest lives.<br />

Ingredients<br />

1 red onion<br />

1 poblano pepper<br />

1 roma tomato<br />

2 kiwis<br />

¼ ounce cilantro<br />

1 lime<br />

8 ounces chorizo seitan<br />

4 tablespoons sour cream<br />

6 flour tortillas<br />

Prep — Wash and dry all produce. Halve, peel and thinly slice onion. Mince a few slices until<br />

you have 3 tablespoons minced onion. Core and seed poblano, then thinly slice. Core and seed<br />

tomato, then dice into ¼-inch cubes. Peel kiwis, then dice into ¼-inch cubes. Finely chop cilantro.<br />

Zest lime until you have a big pinch, then cut into wedges.<br />

Make kiwi salsa — Combine tomato, minced onion, kiwis, a squeeze of lime juice and half of the<br />

cilantro in a small bowl. Season with salt, pepper and more lime juice (to taste). Set aside.<br />

Cook veggies — Heat a large drizzle of oil in a large pan over medium-high heat. Add poblano<br />

and sliced onion. Season with salt and pepper. Cook, tossing, until softened and slightly charred,<br />

3-5 minutes.<br />

Warm seitan — Add seitan and another drizzle of oil to pan and toss to combine. Season with salt and pepper. Cook until seitan<br />

is warmed through and starting to brown, about five minutes. Reduce heat to low to keep warm, stirring occasionally.<br />

Make lime crema — In another small bowl, combine lime zest, a squeeze of lime juice and sour cream. Season with salt, pepper<br />

and more lime juice (to taste).<br />

Finish and serve — Wrap tortillas in a damp paper towel and microwave on high until warm, about 30 seconds. Fill tortillas with<br />

seitan mixture, then top with kiwi salsa and dollop with lime crema. Sprinkle with remaining cilantro. Serve with any remaining<br />

lime wedges on the side for squeezing over. •<br />

Recipe courtesy of Hello Fresh<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 31


#EatLocal<br />

A Place to Gather<br />

Above: the view from the patio at the Portage House.<br />

The Portage House offers a unique dining experience right on the river<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 32<br />

Story by Darian Eswine<br />

Photos by Michelle Hockman


“Stand by Me,” “Time of the Season,”<br />

“Dream a Little Dream of Me,” and<br />

“The Sound of Silence” are just a<br />

few of the songs you’ll hear when<br />

you walk into Portage House in Jeffersonville.<br />

You’ll see walls of art by local artists,<br />

walk past unique light fixtures and — if<br />

you happen to be seated on the second<br />

floor — see a beautiful view of the river.<br />

If the nostalgic music and eclectic atmosphere<br />

isn’t enough to entice you, just<br />

wait until you see the food.<br />

Since opening in October 2016, Portage<br />

House has been striving to be the<br />

relaxed, friendly and welcoming place to<br />

eat, drink and socialize in <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />

“We want to be some place comfortable,”<br />

said chef Zach Henderson. “People<br />

come and get really good food, really<br />

good cocktails and relax with a gorgeous<br />

view.”<br />

Henderson took over as chef in<br />

January after working at El Camino and<br />

Decca in Louisville. Paul Skulas was Portage<br />

House’s previous chef and remains<br />

a co-owner along with Floyd Denton and<br />

the DOERS Restaurant Group.<br />

Skulas said he wanted to open Portage<br />

House because he saw how much Jeffersonville<br />

was growing. The restaurant<br />

building used to be a home, and Skulas<br />

said it took about a year and a half of work<br />

to get the doors open.<br />

Waiter Andrew Thomas Wadsworth<br />

said one of the neat things about working<br />

there is hearing patrons’ stories. He said<br />

one woman came in who had lived in the<br />

building when it was a house from 1964<br />

to 1968.<br />

“She brought photos and the man<br />

that was with her — they had actually<br />

dated back in high school around that<br />

same time,” Wadsworth said.<br />

Unique stories play into the atmosphere<br />

and overall welcoming environment<br />

of Portage House.<br />

Skulas plans to remain co-owner<br />

while opening another restaurant in Louisville,<br />

which will focus more on his background,<br />

including time in Alabama and<br />

Mississippi.<br />

“Something that will embrace my<br />

time in the South,” he said. “Expect cracklins,<br />

boudin, gumbo and smothered pork<br />

chops.”<br />

Skulas said that what makes Portage<br />

House unique to the community is that its<br />

operators have always strived to be themselves<br />

and focus on food that is made with<br />

passion and love — a theme Henderson<br />

plans to continue.<br />

“I always joke about Sabor de Amor<br />

— you taste the love here,” he said.<br />

Since opening<br />

in October 2016,<br />

Portage House has<br />

been striving to be<br />

the relaxed, friendly<br />

and welcoming<br />

place to eat, drink<br />

and socialize in<br />

<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />

A display case at the entrance of the pharmacy highlights its 86-year history.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 33


Everything from the<br />

decorations to the plating<br />

and the music welcomes<br />

you into a unique experience<br />

right on the river.<br />

Henderson said he credits much of<br />

the restaurant’s recent success to the employees<br />

already in place when he arrived.<br />

“I have a team of really talented linecooks<br />

who execute at a really high level,<br />

so I walked into a gorgeous team and a<br />

gorgeous restaurant,” he said.<br />

Wadsworth said many of the staff<br />

members are artists or musicians of some<br />

kind, and their artwork is displayed and<br />

sold at Portage House.<br />

<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> <strong>Living</strong> photographer<br />

Michelle Hockman and this writer<br />

were recently able to check out the Portage<br />

House and sample the menu. Wadsworth<br />

was the waiter for the evening and Henderson<br />

provided a variety of foods. Hush<br />

puppies with Broadbent country ham and<br />

black pepper pimento cheese were served<br />

first. Next came the Korean fried broccoli<br />

with sesame seeds and green onions, followed<br />

by the house pickle plate featuring<br />

pickled green beans, pickled eggs, and<br />

bread and butter pickles, among others.<br />

The two main entrées were the<br />

whole roasted trout with an arugula salad,<br />

and the <strong>Indiana</strong> chicken thighs with<br />

rice grits, Brussels sprouts and pepper<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 34<br />

vinegar. Pudding with shaved chocolate<br />

was offered for dessert.<br />

Each dish was equally delicious, and<br />

the unique thing about this restaurant<br />

is that it encourages you to step outside<br />

your comfort zone. The broccoli and pickled<br />

eggs were quickly devoured.<br />

Henderson’s favorite menu item is<br />

the double cheeseburger, which is made<br />

with ground chuck from Hensley Homegrown<br />

Farms.<br />

“We do it diner-style, so potato bun,<br />

house-made special sauce, two thin chuck<br />

patties, American cheese and shaved raw<br />

onions,” Henderson said. “It is the best<br />

diner-style burger; grease dripping down<br />

your fingers.”<br />

Henderson said they are also noted<br />

for their fresh oysters, raw or chargrilled<br />

with herb or chipotle butter.<br />

“My goal is for you to come when<br />

the weather is hot, sit on the patio, drink<br />

beer, watch the river and eat oysters,” he<br />

said.<br />

Allison Hartley, Seth Stock, Gina Lamaster<br />

and Lukas Olson also recently enjoyed<br />

drinks and food at Portage House.<br />

They had the steak and potatoes,<br />

catfish, chicken thighs and Korean broccoli<br />

as well as several drinks including a<br />

Suffering Brave, a Blackberry Pimms Cup,<br />

an Apple Brandy Old Fashioned and a<br />

round of Lone Stars.<br />

“I grew up in Louisville and didn’t<br />

come to <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> much, but more<br />

and more places like this that open make<br />

me want to,” Hartley said. “It’s a really<br />

good view — I’ll come back just for that.”<br />

Henderson said he would love for<br />

more people to come over from Louisville,<br />

especially with the walking bridge being<br />

so close. He suggests people park in Louisville,<br />

walk over and skip the tolls, get<br />

hungry and come to Portage House.<br />

“Let us feed you, have a Bloody<br />

Mary, you know, walk back over,” he said.<br />

“We want to be some place convivial and<br />

congenial. Sit here, listen to tunes, (have)<br />

good food, good craft-made cocktails…”<br />

Convivial and congenial is definitely<br />

the vibe you get at Portage House. Everything<br />

from the decorations to the plating<br />

and the music welcomes you into a<br />

unique experience right on the river.<br />

Outside of cities such as <strong>Indiana</strong>polis<br />

or Louisville, it can be diffcult to find


new places to eat with unique food. That<br />

makes Portage House a real gem in our<br />

own backyard. •<br />

Portage House is open 4 to 10 p.m. Tuesday to<br />

Friday, 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. and 4 to 10 p.m. on<br />

Saturday, and 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. on Sunday. To<br />

see the full menu, visit eatportagehouse.com or<br />

check the restaurant out on Facebook.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 35


SPRING HAS SPRUNG<br />

MARCH<br />

• March 8 Mardi Gras Theme Cooking Class<br />

• March 12 Washington County YMCA “Tea Fundraiser”<br />

Call YMCA for reservations<br />

• March 19 Sister’s Style Show<br />

at Christie’s. Call Sister’s for reservation<br />

(812) 883-1776<br />

• March 22 Rick McDonald to perform...”Starlight In Salem”<br />

Live Entertainment Musician<br />

APRIL<br />

• April 1 Easter Sunday Buffet Reservations required (no fooling!)<br />

• April 12 “Spring is in the Air”Cooking Class<br />

MAY<br />

• May 10 “Summer Time” Cooking Class<br />

• May 12 Mother’s Day Sunday Buffet (Reservations Required)<br />

JUNE<br />

• DinnerTheatre “Smoke on the Mountain”<br />

• Check out our spot with“Secrets of the Bluegrass Chefs”<br />

(check out their website or youtube)<br />

103 S High St. • Salem, IN 47167 • (812) 883-9757<br />

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<strong>2018</strong> Keynote Speakers:<br />

March 7 - Pat Harrison<br />

Broker | RE/MAX FIRST<br />

Owner | Pat Harrison Enterprises<br />

June 6 - Cile Blau<br />

Senior Judge, State of <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

Join us for a breakfast to remember. You will hear<br />

from our successful keynote speaker and engage oneon-one<br />

with outstanding women professionals for an<br />

in-depth discussion that will leave you energized and<br />

motivated to identify your own action steps<br />

and tackle new challenges.<br />

September 5 - Nikki R. Jackson<br />

Senior Vice President and Regional Executive<br />

Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis, Louisville Branch<br />

December 5 - Summer Auerbach<br />

Owner, Rainbow Blossom Natural Food Markets<br />

8:00 a.m.<br />

Kye’s II<br />

500 Missouri Ave.<br />

Jeffersonville, <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

Cost: $35 for 1si members<br />

$50 guests<br />

To register visit 1si.org or call 812.945.0266.<br />

Registration is required.<br />

business resources<br />

economic development<br />

advocacy<br />

HARRISON COUNTY LIFELONG LEARNING<br />

812.738.7736<br />

<br />

Adult Education Classes<br />

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Sow the seeds of hard work, determination and<br />

endurance and reap the rewards of achievement,<br />

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Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 37


People of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

Choosing Life<br />

A battle with Multiple Sclerosis won’t stop one local resident<br />

from serving and staying positive<br />

Story by Sara Combs<br />

Photos by Michelle Hockman<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 38


If she’d listened to the prognosis after<br />

being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis<br />

(MS) in 2007, Brenda Bye would be<br />

confined to a wheelchair. “They told<br />

me I had at least a 50 percent chance to<br />

be in the wheelchair full time in 10 years,”<br />

she said. “I thought, ‘No, that isn’t going<br />

to happen.’”<br />

Instead, 11 years later — in spite<br />

of advancing symptoms — she manages<br />

with the help of a rollator walker and a<br />

cane. Well, several canes. “When my balance<br />

got so I couldn’t wear my heels, I decided<br />

to get canes to match my outfits,”<br />

said Brenda, 55, a mother of three and<br />

grandmother to five grandsons.<br />

When Brenda and her husband,<br />

Larry, Realtors and property developers<br />

in Marengo, heard “MS,” they were not<br />

surprised. She had battled knee and neck<br />

pain, numbness and other symptoms for<br />

15 years and they had done extensive research.<br />

“We pretty well knew what we<br />

would hear,” she said. “I would feel bad<br />

for two or three days, then feel fine. My<br />

right side hurt and I had trouble with my<br />

right arm. It wanted to drop. I had to hold<br />

it up.”<br />

Brenda said her symptoms would<br />

come for a while, then disappear. “That<br />

is what makes MS so hard to diagnose.<br />

It took a long and winding road to get<br />

there.”<br />

“The first big thing,” Larry said,<br />

“was in 2002 when we thought she was<br />

having a stroke.”<br />

Brenda woke up in the night with<br />

neck and head pain and went to look for<br />

a Tylenol. “When I reached up to get the<br />

medicine bottle my right side went numb<br />

and I fell to the floor.”<br />

Larry called for an ambulance. “By<br />

the time I got to the hospital, I felt some<br />

better, but was in a lot of pain,” Brenda<br />

said. She underwent tests and was treated<br />

with medication and therapy.<br />

On April 27, 2007, Susan Stein, a<br />

nurse practitioner in Dr. Curtis Thill’s<br />

offce, listened as Brenda described her<br />

symptoms and determined that she<br />

should have an MRI. “Dr. Thill first ordered<br />

an MRI on my neck. Before we left<br />

the hospital the radiologist contacted him<br />

to also order a brain MRI,” Brenda said.<br />

“I was on my way home when the<br />

phone rang. It was Dr. Thill’s offce with<br />

the MRI results. I was told there were<br />

trouble spots on my neck and a small spot<br />

on my brain.”<br />

She was referred to a neurologist<br />

who looked at the scan and didn’t see<br />

anything. “He diagnosed me with muscular<br />

skeletal disorder and torticollis,” she<br />

said.<br />

“Then the pain got worse and the<br />

numbness continued, so I asked Dr. Thill<br />

Brenda with grandsons Baylor and Blaine<br />

“I don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me.<br />

I don’t pity myself.<br />

That doesn’t get you anywhere.<br />

Without my faith this wouldn’t be possible.”<br />

- Brenda Bye<br />

to recommend a neurologist for a second<br />

opinion.” He sent her to Dr. Rajaie Obaid,<br />

in Jasper, who ordered another MRI and<br />

detected a large lesion on her neck and a<br />

smaller one on the brain. “He said it could<br />

be lupus, Lyme disease or MS.”<br />

The MS diagnosis was confirmed<br />

with a spinal tap.<br />

“My condition rapidly deteriorated.<br />

I couldn’t walk. My legs felt like noodles;<br />

it felt like I had shoes made of concrete<br />

blocks,” Brenda said.<br />

In July 2007, a wheelchair became<br />

necessary. “I was sent to Dr. David Mattson<br />

at the <strong>Indiana</strong> University Medical<br />

Center in <strong>Indiana</strong>polis, and then started<br />

with Rebif injections.” Brenda’s symptoms<br />

lessened, and she was able to get<br />

out of the wheelchair and walk without a<br />

cane.<br />

“In 2015 I could ‘furniture walk’ —<br />

get around by touching various pieces of<br />

furniture.”<br />

But in the next year, things got<br />

worse. She began fainting and had to use<br />

a cane. “I was treated at an Evansville hospital<br />

and put on a new drug.”<br />

She has run the gamut of MS drugs<br />

with injections, infusions and pills, keeping<br />

the symptoms somewhat at bay.<br />

Today, Brenda relies on her rollator<br />

walker or a cane because of balance issues<br />

caused by a foot drop. A stairlift helps her<br />

navigate her three-story home.<br />

Larry said that in spite of what she is<br />

going through, Brenda doesn’t complain.<br />

“She stays positive. I don’t know how<br />

she does it. And she doesn’t talk about it<br />

much, but she has to fight depression.”<br />

Brenda has always been active,<br />

working in real estate, caring for her family<br />

and home, mowing the lawn and assisting<br />

with the farm work. She was handson<br />

in building homes in subdivisions they<br />

developed, Larry said.<br />

“Now, I struggle to dress myself,”<br />

Brenda said. “Even though I fight fatigue,<br />

I am not sleepy. My mind never rests. I see<br />

things I want to do, need to do. And I can’t<br />

even clean my own house. It is so humbling<br />

to see someone else doing my job.<br />

“I can’t drive a car. I have a lot of<br />

cognitive issues. I rate my pain at six on a<br />

10-point scale. I have to search for words.<br />

I constantly fight fatigue.”<br />

The family has diffculty scheduling<br />

activities. “We can’t plan,” Larry said.<br />

“She has good days, but there are days<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 39


she isn’t well. We just never know.”<br />

However, Brenda doesn’t just sit<br />

around. “Most days I have a small window<br />

of time that I feel fairly good and I<br />

take advantage of that. I can do laundry.<br />

I love to iron. I get tired so I iron awhile,<br />

rest a bit, and go at it again.”<br />

She looks forward to alternate Fridays<br />

when she, with the help of her adult<br />

son, Travis, cares for her two youngest<br />

grandsons, Baylor and Blaine Broughton,<br />

4 and 2, respectively. “I can’t physically<br />

play with them, but I find ways to connect.<br />

We play board games, read, sing,<br />

cuddle, nap and get along just fine.”<br />

Brenda also helps with projects at<br />

her church, Hillview Christian. “I try to<br />

find things I can do,” she said, “like setting<br />

salt and pepper shakers on all the<br />

tables when we are serving funeral dinners.”<br />

She gives Larry a lot of credit for<br />

making her journey work.<br />

“Without Larry’s support, I couldn’t<br />

have done this,” Brenda said. “He told me<br />

at the beginning, ‘We are in this together,’<br />

and he has really been there for me. He<br />

has even learned to cook and clean.”<br />

The couple has been together since<br />

they were teenagers. Their first kiss happened<br />

at a birthday party when she was<br />

14 and he was a year older.<br />

They reconnected a year later at a<br />

hayride celebrating Brenda’s brother’s<br />

birthday. “That is when we had our second<br />

kiss,” she said. They began dating on<br />

Sept. 15, 1978, and on Sept. 15, 1979, they<br />

exchanged wedding vows.<br />

The young couple moved into a twobedroom<br />

mobile home and Larry went to<br />

work in his dad’s sawmill.<br />

In the early ’90s, they got into the<br />

real estate business. “Larry got his Realtor’s<br />

license in 1991 and I got mine a year<br />

later,” she said. “After we opened the office<br />

on State Road 66, I mostly worked in<br />

the offce, occasionally showing homes.”<br />

Besides their son, Travis, the couple<br />

has two daughters, Trena Broughton and<br />

Laura Helterbrand, Brenda’s sister whom<br />

they adopted. “We adopted her when she<br />

was 23. It is unusual to adopt your sibling,<br />

and unusual to adopt someone at that age,<br />

but she stayed with us until she married,<br />

and when she had Austin she wanted us<br />

to be his legal grandparents.” Austin has<br />

two brothers, Devin Thone, 15 and Boley,<br />

9. Brenda’s favorite Bible verse is Philippians<br />

4:13 — I can do everything through<br />

Him who gives me strength. “I have a<br />

pendant with that inscribed on it,” she<br />

said. “It is the verse that I rely on.”<br />

Her faith helps her maintain an upbeat<br />

attitude. “I don’t want anyone to feel<br />

sorry for me. I don’t pity myself. That<br />

doesn’t get you anywhere. Without my<br />

faith this wouldn’t be possible,” she said,<br />

explaining that throughout her MS journey,<br />

she has relied on prayers, both her<br />

own and those of her family and friends.<br />

“I know God didn’t give me MS;<br />

He only allowed me to have it. And it has<br />

given me many opportunities to witness<br />

for Him.”<br />

She has also found help in the Tri-<br />

County Multiple Sclerosis Society support<br />

group in Evansville. “It is comfortable<br />

confiding in other MSers, as we call ourselves,”<br />

she said. The group holds informational<br />

seminars and social events.<br />

Whether the future holds a wheelchair<br />

or she is able to continue with outfitcoordinated<br />

canes, Brenda is determined<br />

not to let MS control her. “I choose to live<br />

life and that is what I do,” she said. •<br />

For more information, go to nationalmssociety.org<br />

and tristatems.org<br />

“When my balance got so<br />

I couldn’t wear my heels,<br />

I decided to get canes to<br />

match my outfits”<br />

- Brenda Bye<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 40


nonprofit SUPPORT: no icing needed<br />

The Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, which contains new tax<br />

reforms negotiated by Congress and signed into law by the<br />

president, is causing several people and organizations<br />

across our nation, including nonprofits, to worry. Some<br />

nonprofit leaders have expressed deep concerns that the<br />

elimination of the charitable tax deduction as a result of the<br />

legislation will drastically reduce support from donors. This<br />

did not occur during previous tax reforms, and we do not<br />

believe it will occur now.<br />

Many studies over the years have shown the tax break is<br />

not the motivator for charitable giving. We Americans give<br />

because we believe in the work of the nonprofits we<br />

support. We like to help others and make our communities a<br />

better place to live. We love our churches, our schools and<br />

youth sports. We abhor the reality of hunger and loathe the<br />

abuse of the vulnerable. The tax break is, or rather was, just<br />

icing on the cake for our charitable giving.<br />

Our nonprofits are still out there teaching, feeding,<br />

protecting, healing and entertaining. They need our<br />

financial support no less today than they did before the new<br />

tax reform legislation was passed. Everyone in our<br />

community can continue to give time, talent and treasure to<br />

help our nonprofits. It won’t hurt a bit to go without the<br />

icing.<br />

We encourage you to partner with us to support your<br />

favorite charitable causes. You can donate lots of ways,<br />

including cash, check, online, securities or agricultural<br />

products. You can also establish an endowment fund or plan<br />

your giving by leaving HCCF in your will or estate plan, so<br />

you can leave a lasting legacy.<br />

For more information, review our website at<br />

www.hccfindiana.org, or give us a call at 812-738-6668.<br />

The tax break was<br />

just icing on the<br />

cake. It won’t hurt a<br />

bit to go without<br />

the icing.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 41


THANK<br />

YOU<br />

for your support in 2017!<br />

Pictured above: Music therapist Tyler Dippold with Drew, a client, at our music<br />

therapy showcase held in December.<br />

We are so excited for all of the ways we were able to serve the community in 2017<br />

because of your generosity and we are even more excited for <strong>2018</strong>. Our Music<br />

Therapy Department, which began three years ago, has been rapidly expanding. We<br />

now have a full staff of music therapists seeing, combined, over 100 clinical hours<br />

each week.<br />

This month, we are expanding our offices. The Music Therapy facility will be<br />

building out three new clinic spaces in order to see more clients more efficiently. We<br />

want to thank AML General Contractors and CEO & Owner Bobby Libs for his<br />

generosity in donating materials, making this project possible.<br />

Personal Counseling Service, Inc. will be hosting a ribbon cutting and Open House<br />

in April - like our Facebook page to keep updated!<br />

Personal Counseling Service, Inc.<br />

1205 Applegate Lane<br />

Clarksville, IN 47129<br />

812-283-8383<br />

pcs-counseling.org<br />

facebook.com/personalcounselingserviceinc<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 42


A Reason to be Thankful<br />

People of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

Lessons learned during the first year of life with a preemie<br />

Just looking into the huge blue eyes of<br />

this happy, inquisitive, funny, perfect<br />

baby boy provides a strong neural<br />

signal from the amygdala, which registers<br />

an emotional reaction, and well, the<br />

eyes go into auto-mist and I become a big<br />

ole’ pile of sentimental mush.<br />

In all fairness, our little guy didn’t<br />

have it easy coming into this world; therefore,<br />

everything about him is a miracle to<br />

his loving family. Davis James “DJ” Dawson<br />

kicked his way out of his mother’s<br />

womb two months early and we watched<br />

and prayed as he grew ounce by ounce in<br />

an incubator with tubes and needles giving<br />

life support.<br />

During this past year as a first-time<br />

Mimi, this is what life with DJ has taught<br />

me about the most wonderful job on earth<br />

— grandparenting.<br />

1. To sit or not to sit …<br />

Typically, grandparents are in their preretirement<br />

or retirement years and are<br />

thinking about filling time voids with<br />

traveling, hobbies, volunteer work and<br />

leisure. Then this amazing being comes<br />

into your life and his parents ask you to<br />

watch the baby a couple of days a week.<br />

Throw time constraints and logic to the<br />

wind and say yes! Nothing can replace<br />

this time in your grandbaby’s life.<br />

2. Create traditions.<br />

Every morning when DJ is with me, we<br />

open the front door, look outside and<br />

cheerfully say, “Hello world, DJ is here!”<br />

Okay, I say it, but now he smiles with anticipation<br />

as we approach the door. Create<br />

traditions that create memories.<br />

3. Prepare to repeatedly fall in love<br />

When DJ looks up at me from his car seat<br />

and grins or when he holds his arms up<br />

to be held, I am overwhelmed by how<br />

deeply I love this child. Every minute with<br />

your grandchild is priceless and you will<br />

fall in love each time you are together.<br />

4. Consider boot camp<br />

Start working out even before the first<br />

baby shower. Think about how strong<br />

your forearm needs to be in order to hold a<br />

23-pound grandbaby and a 20-pound car<br />

seat simultaneously (Hint: As soon as the<br />

baby can sit unassisted, leave the seat in<br />

the car.) Then there is the 90-degree bentover<br />

walking assistance we employ after<br />

the baby gets his land legs. To accomplish<br />

this takes super human core strength.<br />

Stock pain-relieving medications and sign<br />

up for boot camp — you will need both.<br />

5. Don’t use the past<br />

Get over talking about how we did things<br />

when our children were babies. Those<br />

days of putting a baby in a forwardfacing,<br />

front passenger car seat are over,<br />

along with placing your child on a tree<br />

branch for the perfect picture or giving the<br />

little one ice cream for lunch. Telling your<br />

child how they survived these things will<br />

be ignored.<br />

6. Don’t fret over entertainment<br />

Let the parents coordinate future baseball<br />

or dancing lessons. As grandparents we<br />

get to live in today. Let the grandchildren<br />

do what you are doing. When I feel the<br />

urge to dance, I pick DJ up and we dance.<br />

When I feel like a walk, DJ is happy to<br />

be included. I see a future of having fun<br />

mostly doing simple everyday activities.<br />

7. Prepare for fun times ahead<br />

Virtually everything is more fun with<br />

your grandchild. We get to experience this<br />

Story and Photos by Carol “Mimi” Dawson<br />

new life in a different, softer light than we<br />

did with our own children. Our relationship<br />

(typically) is not to raise the grandchild,<br />

but to love them to pieces and create<br />

terrific memories.<br />

8. Don’t buy stuff<br />

Many millennials are minimalists. That<br />

means they don’t want stuff for the baby<br />

all over their house; instead, whatever<br />

you buy for the grandbaby stays with<br />

you. My home looks like a day care, with<br />

toys that allow DJ to jump, scoot, rattle,<br />

slap, or just sit and play — he even has<br />

a mini drum set. As soon as the drums<br />

were unwrapped, my son started with,<br />

“You know…,” and I finished with, “…<br />

they stay at Mimi’s house.” No problem, I<br />

always wanted to play the drums. Maybe<br />

DJ will teach me.<br />

9. Know that bumps happen<br />

You are going to occasionally move slower<br />

than the baby; don’t beat yourself up.<br />

The first time DJ bumped his head while<br />

learning to sit up, I was devastated, and we<br />

cried together. When his mommy came to<br />

pick him up, the redness was gone, but I<br />

instantly ’fessed up. She handed me the<br />

“get out of jail free” card by advising that<br />

it happens to them also.<br />

These are my takeaways from the<br />

wonder year of watching DJ two or three<br />

days a week. The most important advice<br />

I can pass along to new grandparents is<br />

to make that grandchild’s time with you<br />

their time. No television, no housework,<br />

and only work or cellphone time when<br />

they are asleep or doing something so<br />

amazing that you can’t avoid getting out<br />

the phone for a picture or video. Every<br />

minute with DJ has been priceless and I’m<br />

thankful every day to have this healthy<br />

and growing baby boy in my life. •<br />

Editor’s Note: This is a follow up to our first<br />

story when DJ was born premature.<br />

Pictured: (above) Carol’s grandson, DJ.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 43


Flowers aren’t the only things<br />

blooming as Spring approaches...<br />

Washington County<br />

welcomes Spring & Visitors<br />

with a lineup of great events,<br />

new shops, restaurants<br />

and much more!<br />

Visit our website at<br />

WashingtonCountyTourism.com<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 44<br />

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Everyday Adventures<br />

No Walk in the Park<br />

Idon’t recommend hiking in the Grand<br />

Canyon in the snow. The path I took<br />

was called the Kaibab trail, which descends<br />

the South Rim of the canyon<br />

in a series of narrow switchbacks. I don’t<br />

remember any handrails or fences, just a<br />

steep drop into the rocky abyss. Standing<br />

on the rim, it reminded me of every Roadrunner<br />

and Coyote cartoon I’d watched as<br />

a kid. All I was missing was a set of Acme<br />

bat wings.<br />

It was college spring break, and I was<br />

starting to wonder if I should have gone to<br />

the beach like almost every other student<br />

I knew. Instead, my friends and I were on<br />

a mission trip in Arizona and took a side<br />

excursion up to the Grand Canyon for a<br />

few days.<br />

It seemed like a good idea at the<br />

time. After all, it was spring. When we’d<br />

flown into Phoenix, it was 93 degrees. Of<br />

course, three hours later, when we’d made<br />

it to the mountains, we found six inches of<br />

fresh snow on the ground. That doesn’t<br />

happen in <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />

Unfortunately the Grand Canyon<br />

had picked up some of this snow as well.<br />

The Kaibab trail was well-traveled, which<br />

meant the snow had been packed into an<br />

icy glaze. It looked more like a luge track<br />

than a hiking trail. Just to make matters<br />

more interesting, I was wearing a wornout<br />

pair of cheap tennis shoes. I didn’t<br />

want any fancy cleats or hiking gear to<br />

slow this guy down.<br />

Just take it nice and easy, I told myself,<br />

one step at a time. Forget about the<br />

fact that the canyon is 6,000 feet deep.<br />

Forget about the sign I had just read that<br />

said people die here every year. Forget<br />

about the mules who are about to run me<br />

off the path.<br />

The mules were climbing up the<br />

path as we were descending, but instead<br />

of freaking out with each step, they were<br />

sauntering up the canyon like it was a<br />

walk in the park, which I guess technically<br />

it was. Just not the kind of parks I<br />

was used to.<br />

For the mules, however, it was no<br />

big deal. They were loaded with packs<br />

and passengers and strolled right past<br />

us as we flattened ourselves against the<br />

The Kaibab trail was well-traveled, which meant the<br />

snow had been packed into an icy glaze. It looked<br />

more like a luge track than a hiking trail.<br />

canyon wall. They didn’t look too worried<br />

about the snow or the heights or steep<br />

drop. They were sure-footed, confident<br />

and relaxed.<br />

When I think that about those mules,<br />

it reminds of something the poet David<br />

once wrote. He said, “God arms me with<br />

strength, and he makes my way perfect.<br />

He makes me as surefooted as a deer, enabling<br />

me to stand on mountain heights”<br />

(Psalm 18:32-33 NLT).<br />

We all face slippery slopes in life,<br />

those precarious situations when we’re<br />

uncertain about our next step. Sometimes<br />

the things we thought we thought were<br />

solid—our jobs, marriages, health, finances,<br />

friendships—begin to crumble.<br />

The ground under our feet doesn’t<br />

feel as secure as it used to, and we can<br />

see potential disaster waiting around every<br />

bend in the trail. Our knees become<br />

shaky and our footsteps hesitant. Some<br />

days we don’t feel like we can stand at all.<br />

However perilous your circumstances<br />

may seem today, though, just remember<br />

that you’re not walking this path<br />

alone. The God who walks with you is<br />

steady and strong. When you place your<br />

confidence in him, he can help you navigate<br />

even the most treacherous of life’s<br />

trails and give you the strength to stand. •<br />

Above: A 1995 snapshot of Jason Byerly at the Grand Canyon<br />

Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />

dad who loves the quirky surprises God sends<br />

his way every day. You can catch up with Jason<br />

on his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com or on<br />

Twitter at www.twitter.com/jasondbyerly.<br />

Mar/Apr <strong>2018</strong> • 45


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